Sai doesn't want to be Sai Chavan page 6 - Page 21

Sai's decision to marry Satya is impulsive but its the sad reality that it was the only way to get V to back off atleast a little even thugh he still is out there to be a nuisance. V would never have backed off if she had remained single after rejecting him and she would have been coerced into going back. He was laying the foundation for that with the way he cornered her publicly. the only thing keeping him from getting his way and displaying his real colors and his hypocritical self is the fact that she is someone else's wife now. contrast Sai and Vs reactions to seeing the person they "love" with another. Sai wished him and P well , was always dignified but V calls her dhokebaaz, assaults Satya and supports BK insulting Satyas mother and namecalling someone as najayaz etc also. this shows how true his so-called love is. and already he wants P back in his life. how does Sai rejection change what he told P- that he doesnt love her and their marriage was a sham. why should she come back? Vinu ka khayal rakhne ke liye enough people are there. he wants P back because thats how V views women- as replaceable and as a commodity.

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Sai was "separated" from Virat for some 7 years. The reason of separation was Virat chosing his ex who destroyed Sai's life after trying to give her, Sai's son. What happened with her before she left Virat , what triggered her to leave him was enough for her to be not in love with him.What followed after she came back, in his life, the way he behaved, should take away any guilt from her, if at all she felt wrong in not being love with this man.. RIght now the whole narrative that she has been love with him for 8-10 years does not work for me, given she had enough reasons to be not in love with him.

However if what happened with her, 7 years back, did not succeed in taking that love away from her heart, if those 7 years of struggle and loneliness, did not make her come out of love with Virat, now that Virat has claimed he loves her & is miserable without her, there is no way she is falling out of love with him..SHe might deny, Satya, herself but thats how it is.. In all this she will not just emotionally cheat Satya, but break him bit by bit now that he is attached. Virat shall always be her man, always, despite how abusive he is with her..She is fine with the abuse, she has never really raised questions on that after falling in love with him.

when she said "i can't live without you, Virat"

Me saying: then how did you manage to live without him all those years lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

About Sai emotionally cheating on Satya: they both married each other coz they loved other people (one was dead and the other one was married)

Now the situation is changed coz Satya has fallen in love with the fantasy of waking up to Sai and taking care of his step-daughter, Savi. Dropping her-off to school to helping her with homework. Feeding her dinner. His fantasy: a happy family life. I'll add more to this in my next story.

About emotional cheating:

Anyhow, it's kinda grey area lol when Satya asked her if she loves Virat-- she said "i don't know", but that was after he witnessed how she left her job (surgery) and ran after Virat and uttered "i can't live without you", so i don't know what to make of it. Satya is smart enough to deduce the same and back-off. 🤗

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

This , she is at her and her current husband's. workplace, crying for her ex holding his hands, crying when he says he hates her, being emotional when he says he loves her , letting the world see. When it comes to Virat her reputation , her self-respect never mattered to her anyway but then she is also putting the man she calls her husband his respect at stake.

There is no justification, neither her traumas or her sufferings or her love for Virat, for what she did today. Satya is a nice man, but one can't take advantage of it just because he understands her.

she is not letting the world see any of this. only letting Satya see because she doesnt have to filter anything in front of him. and what Satya is seeing now, he saw even before marriage but he still decided to marry her even when Sai was ok to back off due to Amba being unhappy with the idea. It is Satya who convinced Amba and Sai. no one forced him to marry Sai and get involved in this.

she will take time but I want her to get over V and any residual feelings. thats the hope with which I watch the show and with Satya that process can happen sooner.

Unlike V, Sai does not lie about her feelings or deny it or make false promises to Satya. she has been upfront about everything. but she does not want to be in Vs life as his wife. she cant cut him out , she cares too much- more than she should which she herself acknowledges, but she knows she doesnt want to be his wife or partner. She has not ever led Satya on or promised him anything she cant deliver on , but neither has she put any clauses on their deal marriage like V had done. she wants to fulfil her role as his wife and she wants to move on but she acknowledges it will take time. Satya can back off and just be a friend or walk away entirely if he wants to even now. no one is keeping him tied.

he entered this relationship with sai knowing full well that she wasnt over V entirely but trusting that she will not do wrong by him and so if he still trusts her, he should give her time. if not, he is free to leave.

she didnt say No. she said I dont know. I care a lot for him. he is important. he is my childs father too. but I know I dont want to be his wife , I dont want to be Sai Virat Chavan.

she is very honest.

she is not lying or making false promises.

Originally posted by: Nja91

she didnt say No. she said I dont know. I care a lot for him. he is important. he is my childs father too. but I know I dont want to be his wife , I dont want to be Sai Virat Chavan.

she is very honest.

she is not lying or making false promises.

@bold

What a stupid move!!

Whatever little I know, bomb squad tried to diffuse it as soon as they get it.

And wasn’t this the reason that Sai had put her hand, because if left it would blast?

@blue

I really feel bad for him.

Such a gem of a guy.

His character graph up until now is quite good.

Originally posted by: Micheal_Farzi

https://twitter.com/pragya07807099/status/1658477931663073290?s=46 har ek mahine yeh zaroori hai

Otherwise how will they remind people that he's zimmedar vardiwala who is excellent at his job. Kyunki poora vakt toh apne ghar pe pada rahta hai or will be harassing the women around him. If they don't give these "missions", people will forget that this guy is supposed to be a "DCP ".

Originally posted by: Micheal_Farzi

https://twitter.com/pragya07807099/status/1658477931663073290?s=46 har ek mahine yeh zaroori hai

This 🤣

Problem is what sai does and what she says are so disparate that it’s hard to give any credence to her words.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Yes, love is not everything. Does Sai recognise that? Why did she feel the need to hold Virat's hand after they were out of the highly, emotionally charged situation. Even after changing her clothes and Virat having been examined?

Your stressors, trauma, nothing in the world allow you to play with the mental peace of someone else i.e. Satya. And I don't mean romantically because she doesn't owe him anything in that regard.

But to nurse your ex and hold his hand and make puppy dog eyes at him at your current husband's workplace is plain disrespectful and uncaring. Trauma doesn't allow you to play with other people.

If she has resolved to move on from Virat irrespective of love, then her behaviour should reflect that. Her saying main tumhare bina jee nahi saki Virat every alternate day is pretty pathetic.

Sai doesn't deserve a disgusting PoS as Virat but, at the moment, she doesn't deserve Satya as a lavender husband either. Because even a fake lavender marriage has boundaries that protects both the partners socially.

Does she deserve him as a friend? Yes.

As a partner she can convienently use as a buffer in how and when she indulges with her ex? No.

This is soo on point

Satya goodness shouldn't be taken advantage of

Deal marriage or not

Doing that in public is ewww

In front of Satay is disgusting om Sai part

Fake husband or not