Virat's pain is ignored ||DT Note P.12|| - Page 3

Yes we are cruel that we don't understand the pain of Virat, The ML jo bolta kuch hai, karta kuch hai aur sochta toh bhalta ch hai... Jo khud khand kare uske liye roye bhi khud hi bas blame karna hai Sai pe. Pain of Virat k usko 2 laados chahiye ek bhi usse dur ho to bande ka pain haye that is real... ML ko biwi se zayada bhabhi k piche bhagna hai... The Pain is real bro...

Virat and Sai both are flawed. The reason we hate Virat to such an extent because he neither accepted his flaws nor atoned for it and is playing victim card.

Virat is not wrong in divorcing Pakhi and trying to get together with Sai again. Problem is Virat never discussed with Pakhi that he is divorcing her or even showed her the papers. He signed it and hid them. Feeling he is free just because he signed them and started stalking Sai. A married man trying to cheat with another woman. Thats what he made Sai infront of the world. His timing is all wrong!

he is in pain but rather than saying what he truly feels he is accusing Sai of being characterless for liking Satya which is not wrong if she really did like him.

The reason we can not connect to his pain ? He took pheras with Pakhi, went to honeymoon with her, called Sai the third person and now saying he always lover her. How bro? You loved her but you sides with your bhabhi/ex? You loved her but you took away your child and gave it to her ex? You loved her but you married the very ex who ruined things for your wife? You loved her but never stood up for her? You loved her but hid the truth of your son and tried to stop her from finding the truth about her son for whom she is in pain all these years?

Who would want a husband like him? Who would want to vouch for a toxic ml like him?

and he is not thinking of his children as well! Why not convince Vinu first? He knows Vinu is totally pro Pakhi. He would hate Sai if Sai were to agree to Virat!

If Sai is not thinking of her children, neither is Virat

Harassing Sai in public, locking her and Savi up and public proposal - everything is wrong because these are punishable offences! Love is not enough. You need to have respect in a relationship too!

I don’t like Sai marrying Satya just so that Virat stops stalking her. She could get a restraining order against Virat if needed why do this? True she is not thinkinh about Savi because Vinu doesn’t acknowledge her as mother and only wants Pakrat as family. Its Savi who will be hurt the most.

Sai trying to be kind to Pakhi and Ashwini is the worst imo. Sai should have just stayed single and once if she had genuine feelings for Satya, could ve gone ahead with it.

Virat might be the ML but he is toxic for Sai.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I completely agree with most of what you said but I don't think the PH will make Sai lose Savi.

Most probably like you said, Savi will accept Satya and will start calling him chotte baba or Satya baba.

I want Vinayak to call Sai as Aai but the PH completely scrapped that part of Vinayak's questioning his parents what happened between them and made Vinayak an anti-hero in Sairat's love story,

Such that as long as Vinayak is there, Sai and Virat will never reunite.

I know Vankar will never let his favourite lose by making Savi leave Sai. But, still hoping this happens and Sai has a tough time trying to get Savi back.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Bingo! You are the first person whom I have seen pointing out Sai's ego. 🤗

Otherwise, everyone chant verses on how mahaan Sai is.🥱

Sai is EGOISTIC and it was shown in many instances.

But I don't think Sai will ever be affected with Virat distancing himself from her because this is ITV and in ITV FLs can never be WRONG!!🤢

I feel that the PH is in the process of making Virat the next Pakhi, an obsessive psychotic lover.

In short, they are repeating the same story with which they started the show 2.5 years ago.

And this time Sai will play Virat's role of being confused between two men, Virat will play Pakhi's role of an obsessive lover and Satya Sai's role of being crushed between lovers.

Of course she's egoistic. And, I'm not blind to not see it either. She's egoistic and that's why she NEVER accepts her mistakes and hence doesn't feel the need to APOLOGISE. Has she ever bowed down in front of anyone and acknowledged her mistakes? NEVER. An egoistic person feels he/she to be always right which Sai always feels the same way.

I guess Virat is turned into an obsessive lover to gain sympathy for Sai and more criticism and hatred for Virat. This is so disgusting.

Originally posted by: piapriya

Virat and Sai both are flawed. The reason we hate Virat to such an extent because he neither accepted his flaws nor atoned for it and is playing victim card.

Virat is not wrong in divorcing Pakhi and trying to get together with Sai again. Problem is Virat never discussed with Pakhi that he is divorcing her or even showed her the papers. He signed it and hid them. Feeling he is free just because he signed them and started stalking Sai. A married man trying to cheat with another woman. Thats what he made Sai infront of the world. His timing is all wrong!

he is in pain but rather than saying what he truly feels he is accusing Sai of being characterless for liking Satya which is not wrong if she really did like him.

The reason we can not connect to his pain ? He took pheras with Pakhi, went to honeymoon with her, called Sai the third person and now saying he always lover her. How bro? You loved her but you sides with your bhabhi/ex? You loved her but you took away your child and gave it to her ex? You loved her but you married the very ex who ruined things for your wife? You loved her but never stood up for her? You loved her but hid the truth of your son and tried to stop her from finding the truth about her son for whom she is in pain all these years?

Who would want a husband like him? Who would want to vouch for a toxic ml like him?

and he is not thinking of his children as well! Why not convince Vinu first? He knows Vinu is totally pro Pakhi. He would hate Sai if Sai were to agree to Virat!

If Sai is not thinking of her children, neither is Virat

Harassing Sai in public, locking her and Savi up and public proposal - everything is wrong because these are punishable offences! Love is not enough. You need to have respect in a relationship too!

I don’t like Sai marrying Satya just so that Virat stops stalking her. She could get a restraining order against Virat if needed why do this? True she is not thinkinh about Savi because Vinu doesn’t acknowledge her as mother and only wants Pakrat as family. Its Savi who will be hurt the most.

Sai trying to be kind to Pakhi and Ashwini is the worst imo. Sai should have just stayed single and once if she had genuine feelings for Satya, could ve gone ahead with it.

Virat might be the ML but he is toxic for Sai.

@red - I agree with everything you said except for those marked in red.

I don't want to start arguing or point out my stance because everytime I had tried doing that I have always landed in trouble.

However, I respect your point of view.

@blue - Just wanted to add that even Sai has never acknowledged her mistakes or ever apologized for them.

And in every ITV show the ML is made toxic to glorify the FL because only by character assassinating/butchering the character of the ML, the FL can be shown more mahaan.

I think its the opposite. I think Virat get sympathies from (some) fans just because he is a ML. If ane other male charatcer in the show would have done the thing that his man has done than the supposedly righteous ML would have turned into hero and saved the woman from that male character.

As for the characters in the show are concerned everyone, including Sai and Satya, is showing puppy eyes to the supposedly great lover and father Virat. Just because Sai isn't hopping in his bed as per his 24hr demand doesnt mean his pain is ignored.

I once read that there are two types of respect: respect for a person as a human being, and respect for a person as an authority. And some peopel expect you to respect thems as your authority for them to treat you as human.

Characters of this show and some fans want Sai to listen and go with every tantrums and demands of Virat, otherwise she isn't allowed to be happy on her own, with or without her children, with or without a partner....she will only be respected when she is dealing (not fighting, not escaping but dealing) with consequence of Virat's judgement and actions.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually I don't agree with this because I am not like Sai is not allowed to move on in her life and she doesn't have the right to fight for self respect and all these things but atleast if you know who Virat was you can understand that this is not him infact he became like this you can really understand him I believe in marriage and love and not in divorce, being a boy I can understand his state of mind, messed up by so much complex thoughts that he is ending up his innerself in this confusion and just reacting being impulsive and not organising things..... this is why he just agrees to what elders say what his heart somewhere wants and just starts reacting

Actually what I feel is that if once Sai will be like Virat whatever you have in your heart the pain, the anger, the guilt, the frustration, the love, the betrayal, the past, etc whatever you have just spit out everything a definite conclusion as I understand him will be after his outburst he will end up crying and will get to the point of relief which will result in clarification of his thoughts and Sai and Virat both will be living happily with their family.....

I don't like this way of bechara pan that makers show wrt FL and ignore children's end what was their fault they are just comprising everything and happy in that infact in this show because of their parents selfish reasons, children are consoling them specially Savi she is a daughter out of this world she is so cute yaar a lovely child but see her life Sai is giving her a second father when she will be living with Sai and Satya not Virat....

I really get angry on this type of shows when they ruin our cultural mentality towards a family they show women to fight for their rights in a very blind way, respond equally to elders being mannerless, do whatever you want but expect respect from your partner, never respect a father's sentiments and want monopoly on both children, insult him when you don't know where to draw lines and start crying, etc a lot of things but end up with victimization of FL and then Virat's side being ignored I don't know why many of the women are not able to keep their emotions aside for Sai and think once neutrally definitely you should be respected, loved, should be given right for everything as a human like man but understand him also na..... doesn't he possess feelings why he is not allow to reply when you previously abused him like hell, why he is not allowed to show anger when you snatched his daughter's childhood from his life, why he will not be a psycho lover when he had a past that whenever you left it costed something big, why he should always understand and behave like matured doesn't he have a heart.....Virat's parents don't even understand the pain he has gone through his father always sides Sai and always makes him understand her and same goes with his Aai she was always like my daughter in law is my daughter when it was Sai she never made her realise her flaws that make Virat angry and same goes with PL she doesn't care what his son went through after Sai leaved him she never talks with Virat and understand his end which he himself in the name of masculinity in his heart.....

So for me if Virat and Sai love each other and can understand everything and definitely their children's life so why he should remain single it's my thought as being single and seeing the love of your life with some one else is the worst pain....

I agree with you. I have been saying this in many of my posts about Virat's feelings and pain. Why is Virat's pain always ignored? If you remember when Virat took Sai to Mahableshwar to celebrate their anniversary by saying that it was an official trip and as soon as she came to know the truth she screamed at him. She destroyed the decorations he had done for her. She insulted him so much that it left a scar and then later she even accused him of feeling insecure because Samrat returned. And, then when Virat distanced himself she asked him what has she done? Seriously? This girl didn't even realise what she had done and said to him in that trip. And, still people felt bad for her and not Virat. To be honest Sai is the culprit and Virat is the victim. She loves to guilt trip him in the name of sacrifice and being great.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

@blue - This is something which is to be highlighted. Virat did do a lot for Savi as he felt bad that he missed very childhood days.

But I think Savi will leave Virat and start calling Satya as her chotte baba or Satya baba or whatever because right now Virat is being made a villain.

They're purposely making him a villain so that Savi goes to Sai because she can't lose since she's the female lead and Vankar's favourite.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually problem is this that this is ITV, so expecting something like this is like day dreaming for us they will never gonna show his end if they didn't even after Savi's parental kidnapping then this is far awa but yeah we can have a hope as from a long time they are just victimizing Sai and Virat's established past will not be replaced for a new character like Satya....Neil is highest paid so why they will be doing this...

@purple - Ummm...I don't think so, even if Neil is the highest paid they can replace him as the male lead because it already happened in other star shows, Anupama and Imlie.

I think they are already in the process of doing it, by making Virat a COMPLETE VILLAIN.

Soon, Virat will be made the negative lead and Satya the positive main male lead.

Originally posted by: Fats24

I agree with you. I have been saying this in many of my posts about Virat's feelings and pain. Why is Virat's pain always ignored? If you remember when Virat took Sai to Mahableshwar to celebrate their anniversary by saying that it was an official trip and as soon as she came to know the truth she screamed at him. She destroyed the decorations he had done for her. She insulted him so much that it left a scar and then later she even accused him of feeling insecure because Samrat returned. And, then when Virat distanced himself she asked him what has she done? Seriously? This girl didn't even realise what she had done and said to him in that trip. And, still people felt bad for her and not Virat. To be honest Sai is the culprit and Virat is the victim. She loves to guilt trip him in the name of sacrifice and being great.

I don't know but then also people defended Sai????

And yeah I don't want to remember that episodes I really feel bad for Virat there when everyone was abusing him in hospital for Sai's state and he was just like how is Sai and was giving every effort directly indirectly for her when he dreamt of Sai that she again started speaking with him and the face with a big smile he made there and that teary eyes I was like this is love....