Virat's pain is ignored ||DT Note P.12|| - Page 2

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Just saying that a single woman can marry who-the-fùck-ever she wants without giving two hoots about her ex husband. Period.

Exactly some of the views here are so baffling, it is alright to root for a reunion of fictional pair but in that pursuit giving such a outrageous views reeking of patriarchy is uncalled for

Some of the people need to understand the concept of consent and personal liberty and choice, if she is saying no then it’s no, there shouldn’t be any ifs and buts and this definitely shouldn’t be a reason for forcing in the name of twisted love……

Even as a fan, I too want Sai and Virat to reunite coz I have been watching them since beginning but that doesn’t mean I will justify the problematic behaviour of Virat, what is wrong is wrong no matter what!

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Virat should be like: "Bhaad mein jaye Sai aur Pakhi. Mein single he thik hoon."😆

Actually I don't agree with this because I am not like Sai is not allowed to move on in her life and she doesn't have the right to fight for self respect and all these things but atleast if you know who Virat was you can understand that this is not him infact he became like this you can really understand him I believe in marriage and love and not in divorce, being a boy I can understand his state of mind, messed up by so much complex thoughts that he is ending up his innerself in this confusion and just reacting being impulsive and not organising things..... this is why he just agrees to what elders say what his heart somewhere wants and just starts reacting

Actually what I feel is that if once Sai will be like Virat whatever you have in your heart the pain, the anger, the guilt, the frustration, the love, the betrayal, the past, etc whatever you have just spit out everything a definite conclusion as I understand him will be after his outburst he will end up crying and will get to the point of relief which will result in clarification of his thoughts and Sai and Virat both will be living happily with their family.....

I don't like this way of bechara pan that makers show wrt FL and ignore children's end what was their fault they are just comprising everything and happy in that infact in this show because of their parents selfish reasons, children are consoling them specially Savi she is a daughter out of this world she is so cute yaar a lovely child but see her life Sai is giving her a second father when she will be living with Sai and Satya not Virat....

I really get angry on this type of shows when they ruin our cultural mentality towards a family they show women to fight for their rights in a very blind way, respond equally to elders being mannerless, do whatever you want but expect respect from your partner, never respect a father's sentiments and want monopoly on both children, insult him when you don't know where to draw lines and start crying, etc a lot of things but end up with victimization of FL and then Virat's side being ignored I don't know why many of the women are not able to keep their emotions aside for Sai and think once neutrally definitely you should be respected, loved, should be given right for everything as a human like man but understand him also na..... doesn't he possess feelings why he is not allow to reply when you previously abused him like hell, why he is not allowed to show anger when you snatched his daughter's childhood from his life, why he will not be a psycho lover when he had a past that whenever you left it costed something big, why he should always understand and behave like matured doesn't he have a heart.....Virat's parents don't even understand the pain he has gone through his father always sides Sai and always makes him understand her and same goes with his Aai she was always like my daughter in law is my daughter when it was Sai she never made her realise her flaws that make Virat angry and same goes with PL she doesn't care what his son went through after Sai leaved him she never talks with Virat and understand his end which he himself in the name of masculinity in his heart.....

So for me if Virat and Sai love each other and can understand everything and definitely their children's life so why he should remain single it's my thought as being single and seeing the love of your life with some one else is the worst pain....

Originally posted by: Fats24

If Virat is wrong who's behaving like a psychotic lover then Sai is not right either. If certain people say Sai doesn't need a man then we can say the same thing for Virat too. Why does he need Sai ? He's capable enough to look after his kids. Let Sai marry Satya and live peacefully in a DEAL marriage. Infact if Sai marries Satya and expects Savi to acknowledge this relation and accept Satya as her father then this will never happen. For a child who was yearning for a father since she was born got love of a father who was even ready to call himself an adopted father inspite of knowing fully well that he was her biological father which child will desert him and call someone else her father? At the end of the day it will be Sai's loss. I hope Vankar will not play favourite once again and make Savi accept Satya. Want to see Sai yearning for Savi but she leaves her and goes to her BABA Virat.

@blue - This is something which is to be highlighted. Virat did do a lot for Savi as he felt bad that he missed her very childhood days.

But I think Savi will leave Virat and start calling Satya as her chotte baba or Satya baba or whatever because right now Virat is being made a villain.

Please ask Virat to get the divorce papers signed & sealed first.

Then, tell his son his story with Sai. How Vinu was born...whose child is he and the fact that Sai and Virat were married to each other. Pakhi was his brother's wife at that time.

Originally posted by: Fats24

If Virat is wrong who's behaving like a psychotic lover then Sai is not right either. If certain people say Sai doesn't need a man then we can say the same thing for Virat too. Why does he need Sai ? He's capable enough to look after his kids. Let Sai marry Satya and live peacefully in a DEAL marriage. Infact if Sai marries Satya and expects Savi to acknowledge this relation and accept Satya as her father then this will never happen. For a child who was yearning for a father since she was born got love of a father who was even ready to call himself an adopted father inspite of knowing fully well that he was her biological father which child will desert him and call someone else her father? At the end of the day it will be Sai's loss. I hope Vankar will not play favourite once again and make Savi accept Satya. Want to see Sai yearning for Savi but she leaves her and goes to her BABA Virat.

Actually problem is this that this is ITV, so expecting something like this is like day dreaming for us they will never gonna show his end if they didn't even after Savi's parental kidnapping then this is far awa but yeah we can have a hope as from a long time they are just victimizing Sai and Virat's established past will not be replaced for a new character like Satya....Neil is highest paid so why they will be doing this...

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Please ask Virat to get the divorce papers signed & sealed first.

Then, tell his son his story with Sai. How Vinu was born...whose child is he and the fact that Sai and Virat were married to each other. Pakhi was his brother's wife at that time.

I word to word agree with you. The PH has intentionally scraped the part of Vinayak's questioning his parents about his identity to give space for Virat-Sai-Satya triangle.

They are trying to win back the trps with the love triangle.

Because it was Virat-Pakhi-Sai's love triangle which made this show one of the top shows earlier. So they are trying the same luck with Virat-Sai-Satya.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Please ask Virat to get the divorce papers signed & sealed first.

Then, tell his son his story with Sai. How Vinu was born...whose child is he and the fact that Sai and Virat were married to each other. Pakhi was his brother's wife at that time.

Divorce to ho gaya hai na...

Originally posted by: Fats24

Yes, exactly. I too want to see an ignorant Virat. And, we all know this is going to be a deal marriage so somewhere Sai too has feelings for Virat. The minute he will start distancing himself from her she will get affected. Her ego will get hurt. We have seen her during Shruthi track. When she comes to know the truth the way she was behaving with Virat. Trying to get close and asking forgiveness. She too has a big ego. I do hope after her marriage to Satya she will get the taste of her own medicine.

She was not going anywhere before his proposal. He made her wants to leave.Sai was gonna live with Usha mausi but Virat locked her in room that wants her to leave city. Now he made public announcement before fixing every other thing and that made her to go in another deal marriage. Why can’t he just sit and think how to fix everything. He is doing everything in his love but he is pushing her away with his every step. First he need to talk to his family specially his aai who is also making things difficult for him. He have to talk to Vinu and told him what all happened in the past so that he doesn’t hate Sai. And Pakhi I don’t know what to do of her

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually I don't agree with this because I am not like Sai is not allowed to move on in her life and she doesn't have the right to fight for self respect and all these things but atleast if you know who Virat was you can understand that this is not him infact he became like this you can really understand him I believe in marriage and love and not in divorce, being a boy I can understand his state of mind, messed up by so much complex thoughts that he is ending up his innerself in this confusion and just reacting being impulsive and not organising things..... this is why he just agrees to what elders say what his heart somewhere wants and just starts reacting

Actually what I feel is that if once Sai will be like Virat whatever you have in your heart the pain, the anger, the guilt, the frustration, the love, the betrayal, the past, etc whatever you have just spit out everything a definite conclusion as I understand him will be after his outburst he will end up crying and will get to the point of relief which will result in clarification of his thoughts and Sai and Virat both will be living happily with their family.....

I don't like this way of bechara pan that makers show wrt FL and ignore children's end what was their fault they are just comprising everything and happy in that infact in this show because of their parents selfish reasons, children are consoling them specially Savi she is a daughter out of this world she is so cute yaar a lovely child but see her life Sai is giving her a second father when she will be living with Sai and Satya not Virat....

I really get angry on this type of shows when they ruin our cultural mentality towards a family they show women to fight for their rights in a very blind way, respond equally to elders being mannerless, do whatever you want but expect respect from your partner, never respect a father's sentiments and want monopoly on both children, insult him when you don't know where to draw lines and start crying, etc a lot of things but end up with victimization of FL and then Virat's side being ignored I don't know why many of the women are not able to keep their emotions aside for Sai and think once neutrally definitely you should be respected, loved, should be given right for everything as a human like man but understand him also na..... doesn't he possess feelings why he is not allow to reply when you previously abused him like hell, why he is not allowed to show anger when you snatched his daughter's childhood from his life, why he will not be a psycho lover when he had a past that whenever you left it costed something big, why he should always understand and behave like matured doesn't he have a heart.....Virat's parents don't even understand the pain he has gone through his father always sides Sai and always makes him understand her and same goes with his Aai she was always like my daughter in law is my daughter when it was Sai she never made her realise her flaws that make Virat angry and same goes with PL she doesn't care what his son went through after Sai leaved him she never talks with Virat and understand his end which he himself in the name of masculinity in his heart.....

So for me if Virat and Sai love each other and can understand everything and definitely their children's life so why he should remain single it's my thought as being single and seeing the love of your life with some one else is the worst pain....

ITV always had the tactic of glorifying a mother's pain and love while completely ignoring the father's side.

And I don't understand why?

Not just Virat, I have disliked the way Samar (Anupama) used to treat Vanraj sometimes even though I have always hated Vanraj.

Vanraj was definitely an egoistic a**hole but he was a really good father to his kids and even after that, the way he was illtreated by Samar and sometimes Kinjal was unjust.

Both mother and father love their children equally but in ITV only mother's love is shown to be great while fathers are often villainized. In almost every ITV show, the children hate their father for some reason or the other.

ITV is actually passing a wrong notion to the society.