Originally posted by: badgarlriri
Again respectfully
Let's do it again
Extreme behavior is the wrong word its called abuse
Trauma dedicating your action and those action are hurting orher
Is yall making his Trauma as an excuse for his abuse
Going around it won't change thr fact Twisting it won't change it
The person said they can understand where he is coming for and went and made the whole post about excusing it and you did the same
And in the end said not excusing it
No one gives a damn if virat actions are fueled by angry or despiration
Those action are abusive that the only thing that matters
REAPEAT AFTER ME
HAVING MENTAL TRAUMA CANT EXCUSES YOUR ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR
I really don't care wnough as to why he is doing it
Best guess is male entitlement
Have an amazing evening â¨ď¸
No one is twisting anything, and I know it is abuse. By extreme behaviour I meant the his frantic actions.
Like I said, no one is excusing his behaviour, no one is saying his trauma makes it all okay, but they are just trying to figure out why he is doing what he is doing.
If you don't care about the reasons, then of course, we can look at just the punishment he deserves. But if someone wishes to look at his past and connect that with actions today, then that doesn't mean they are excusing him.
forget abuse, even if it was murder, the point still stands the same. Let me give you an example, Voldemort from HP. He was someone who murdered hundreds of innocent, and people still try to relate his actions and connect it with his unhappy past, full of loveless life. They are not saying that just because he had a rough childhood, his mass murder is excusable. But they are trying to see what part of his story triggered him to become such a monster.
In fact, people write several posts and have discussion about what if his childhood was full of love, would that have changed anything?
It would be excusing if they said that he is not wrong, and Sai should understand his actions, and he had a rough past, and so he should just get free pass without any punishment, but they didn't say that. They simply said that even after everything there is a part of them that feels pity for him. They even said that they are happy Sai isn't going with him.
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