Didn't Virat do the right thing with the slap? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Virat is the most abused and trolled ML in the whole ITV world.

Many times the fans are justified in abusing and cursing him,

But many times I feel it's just their blind love for Ayesha and the character Sai which is making them hate Virat so much even when he's not completely WRONG.

Like I felt it was indeed Sai's mistake to not inform Virat that she was not dead and is pregnant with Savi but even there everyone only blamed Virat.

Virat was WRONG for sure but Sai wasn't right either.

Same way there were many such instances after the leap where only Virat was abused, trolled and accused even when Sai was wrong. I started watching this show only post leap so I know only about those instances.

I really appreciate the MENTAL STRENGTH of the actor Neil Bhatt who bears all the brunt and negativity for the character he's playing.

Not just Neil Bhatt, we have to appreciate a lot of male actors in ITV who face a lot of negativity from the audience because the majority will always side with the FL and the female characters.

I agree with everything you have mentioned. People can't see Sai's mistakes and when they realise they try to justify her mistakes. It's so pathetic. It's pseudo feminism. When Virat is wrong they don't spare him. And, they abuse him left, right and centre. His acting is top notch but instead of appreciating they ignore his acting and criticise him.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I think I saw from the episode of Virat doing the delivery of Vinayak.

I got interest of watching seeing the reports of Tanmay and Aria entering the show. I was interested in the kids.😳

So started watching from the episode of Vinayak's delivery.

Yes I do know the REASON behind Sai hiding the truth from Virat.

But still I found it WRONG from Sai's part to hide the truth.

If Sai had a problem in revealing the truth to Virat, then she could have atleast revealed it to one of the family members whom she trusted like Ashwini and Shivani.

Not hide like a COWARD somewhere and later blame your husband for having remarried.

@red - I agree here Virat shouldn't have sent Sai to jail for criminal charges nor tried to separate her from Savi.

That was WRONG from his part.

She didn't blame him for marrying. She blamed him for marrying the person who is the cause of their seperation, who did crimes against her. Still she accepted their marriage and wished them.

There was a track too where she whitewshed virat's second marriage by saying he deserves to move on.

Let's not call sai coward when we have the character who needs his current wife permission to even meet his daughter. That title suits him the best.

Sai was not hiding like a coward . If you have not watched the story from before .. don’t assume otherwise

Sai n Virat truly had a very toxic and intense relationship

there was a lot of abuse from the family . Each resulting in Sai walking away and Virat bringing her back significantly the abuse got bigger ..

the surrogacy track was a disaster from the start .. infact even the shruti track before that was unforgivable.

So when Sai left Virat with Vinayak . It was truly an end to a disastrous relationship which resulted in a punishment for both parents with the loss of their surrogate kid

Sai assumed that if he wanted he would have seeked her out .. she was a doctor practising in Maharashtra and he was a high ranking police officer .. she knew she cannot hide from him she’s not a criminal .. Jagtap could find her

She told him if you wanted you could have reached me ..their is something called Aadhar card ,

Virat was plain lazy .. a dead Sai was a better proposition to him as it gave him a chance to play the grieving lover to the max .. it shielded his image of a toxic husband

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

In yesterday and today's episode, we saw that Sai had lost it in the grief of losing her son.

She was unable to control herself and use her senses.

Infact, this state of Sai could have also made her lose Savi as Savi could have lost her life yesterday.

In that case, didn't Virat actually do the right thing to bring back Sai to her senses?

Sai did need that slap to get a reality check. Didn't she?

Virat did the right thing. If he hadnt done it, Sai's condition would have worsened. She might have become another Devyani. Mujhe V se koi umeed nhi regarding P. Hope BK slaps P after knowing k she has manipulated Vinu by her jaadugarni story.

Yes people should go around slapping others to bring them to senses.. great logic. This is exactly how people justify domestic abuse. Hurting people physically is not the solution for anything. And Virat is no one to raise hands on Sai. He is a spineless, opportunistic moron who has put a mother in extreme grief by snatching her son so that his lusty bhabhi can stay happy. This bhabhi obsessed, coward DCP should not be allowed anywhere near Sai, let alone allowed to hurt her in any way, no matter what the reason.

ABSOLUTELY NOT.

You cant cure mental health issues by slapping people out of them. 🙄

By that logic why didn't he slap P out of her gunweilding, suicidal self to accept the reality that Sai is mother of Vinu?!

And even just for "drama", he could have fiercely shaken her, held her face made her look at him as he told her that she's hallucinating and to snap out of it.

This slap stuff is simply to get dramatic. Its entirely unecessary.

Sai was 100 % right in walking away from an abusive relationship and not returning to be with a man like V. She'd have risked another miscarriage if she had gone back and she'd faced constant abuse about Vinu's death too.

V is a criminal. P is a criminal. CN is full of criminals.

Anyway there's no point debating with a person who equates Vs crimes with Sai's "mistakes".

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I think I saw from the episode of Virat doing the delivery of Vinayak.

I got interest of watching seeing the reports of Tanmay and Aria entering the show. I was interested in the kids.😳

So started watching from the episode of Vinayak's delivery.

Yes I do know the REASON behind Sai hiding the truth from Virat.

But still I found it WRONG from Sai's part to hide the truth.

If Sai had a problem in revealing the truth to Virat, then she could have atleast revealed it to one of the family members whom she trusted like Ashwini and Shivani.

Not hide like a COWARD somewhere and later blame your husband for having remarried.

@red - I agree here Virat shouldn't have sent Sai to jail for criminal charges nor tried to separate her from Savi.

That was WRONG from his part.

She nowhere hide herself. Its her husband said that if you crossesthe door there is no relation b/n us. Post accident she imagined virat and he accused her that she is the reason he lost his son, after that she fainted, when she gained conscious she came to know that she is pregnant, so she thought and took decision which is better for her unborn baby.

Its his stupidity being an IPS officer who believes that his wife is dead but just seeing saree piece, he not even checked in hospital where one of the helper clearly mentioned that injured people were sent to hospital/medical camp.

He searched for P whole night like mad man.

Originally posted by: Fats24

I agree with everything you have mentioned. People can't see Sai's mistakes and when they realise they try to justify her mistakes. It's so pathetic. It's pseudo feminism. When Virat is wrong they don't spare him. And, they abuse him left, right and centre. His acting is top notch but instead of appreciating they ignore his acting and criticise him.

That's what I meant many people ignore Sai's mistakes and also justify it but when it's Virat turn its completely the opposite.

I recently saw the clip of Sairat's first meeting where Virat's car had accidentally spilled mud on Sai.

Even there many did not spare abusing, bashing or trolling Virat when it was not even his mistake.

Yeah it's some kind of hypocrisy or pseudo feminism or whatever.

I completely agree with Neil Bhatt's acting part. I watched him last in "Jo Ishq ki Marzi" and "Kismat Connection" of Sahara One back in 2007/08. And he had done an amazing job even when he would be just 20.

In ghkkpm, I feel his acting is the most expressive and mature among the three leads of the show. Sai-Pakhi-Virat

I'm not saying Ayesha's acting is bad but I have always felt that she's a immature kind of person even in real life.

So somewhere or the other, that little nuisance of immature expressions is there in her acting.

A slap cannot be justified. It just shows how weak he is. 😡 ML kehlaane ke layak nahi hai yeh banda...nikaalo isko show se.

Infidelity and physical violence are 2 things which should never be forgiven no matter what. This is the point where the character becomes unredeemable (is that a word?)

Now he can repent all he likes, he should never be forgiven.

Sai's mistakes are compared to Virat's crimes now. Excellent. 👏