Didn't Virat do the right thing with the slap? - Page 2

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Good to see after a long time . Are you watching the show regularly

Hi! Nitu, how are you?

No, I don't watch regularly and I'm trying to detach myself but am not able to stop myself from watching. More than the show I'm not able to detach myself from Neil/ Virat.

Originally posted by: Fats24

Hi! Nitu, how are you?

No, I don't watch regularly and I'm trying to detach myself but am not able to stop myself from watching. More than the show I'm not able to detach myself from Neil/ Virat.

Virat is the most abused and trolled ML in the whole ITV world.

Many times the fans are justified in abusing and cursing him,

But many times I feel it's just their blind love for Ayesha and the character Sai which is making them hate Virat so much even when he's not completely WRONG.

Like I felt it was indeed Sai's mistake to not inform Virat that she was not dead and is pregnant with Savi but even there everyone only blamed Virat.

Virat was WRONG for sure but Sai wasn't right either.

Same way there were many such instances after the leap where only Virat was abused, trolled and accused even when Sai was wrong. I started watching this show only post leap so I know only about those instances.

I really appreciate the MENTAL STRENGTH of the actor Neil Bhatt who bears all the brunt and negativity for the character he's playing.

Not just Neil Bhatt, we have to appreciate a lot of male actors in ITV who face a lot of negativity from the audience because the majority will always side with the FL and the female characters.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

In yesterday and today's episode, we saw that Sai had lost it in the grief of losing her son.

She was unable to control herself and use her senses.

Infact, this state of Sai could have also made her lose Savi as Savi could have lost her life yesterday.

In that case, didn't Virat actually do the right thing to bring back Sai to her senses?

Sai did need that slap to get a reality check. Didn't she?

If you lose your sanity....and ability to think and interpret things....i hope your husband treats you in this similar way...then you must not do any complain....even if he slaps you more than once to bring you to the reality...pls dont term it as DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.....

At which does he slap Sai tho

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Virat is the most abused and trolled ML in the whole ITV world.

Many times the fans are justified in abusing and cursing him,

But many times I feel it's just their blind love for Ayesha and the character Sai which is making them hate Virat so much even when he's not completely WRONG.

Like I felt it was indeed Sai's mistake to not inform Virat that she was not dead and is pregnant with Savi but even there everyone only blamed Virat.

Virat was WRONG for sure but Sai wasn't right either.

Same way there were many such instances after the leap where only Virat was abused, trolled and accused even when Sai was wrong. I started watching this show only post leap so I know only about those instances.

I really appreciate the MENTAL STRENGTH of the actor Neil Bhatt who bears all the brunt and negativity for the character he's playing.

Not just Neil Bhatt, we have to appreciate a lot of male actors in ITV who face a lot of negativity from the audience because the majority will always side with the FL and the female characters.

Kindly watch pre leap episodes, u will understand why she didn't inform him about savi. Main reason is he will snatch savi too from her for pakhi which she mentioned in one episode. Another reason she didn't find him deserving to know the truth because he already choosed a criminal over her and her kid.

Anyways even for that, virat character sent her to jail on false charges and tried to seperate her from her daughter unlike sai who maintained good image of virat infront of savi.

Mistake is different from crime & abuse.

So the reaction for mistake and abuse will be different.

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

If you lose your sanity....and ability to think and interpret things....i hope your husband treats you in this similar way...then you must not do any complain....even if he slaps you more than once to bring you to the reality...pls dont term it as DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.....

Honestly, if I was in Sai's place today then I wouldn't have blamed Virat or complained for slapping me.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

@bold If u r watching only post leap then how come you didn't know the fact that sai doesn't know that virat and his family thought her as dead. She didn't fake her death. So why should she call the man who said he is cutting ties with her and named her orphan, burden.

Kindly watch pre leap episodes, u will understand why she didn't inform him about savi. Main reason is he will snatch savi too from her for pakhi which she mentioned in one episode. Another reason she didn't find him deserving to know the truth because he already choosed a criminal over her and her kid.

Anyways even for that, virat character sent her to jail on false charges and tried to seperate her from her daughter unlike sai who maintained good image of virat infront of savi.

Mistake is different from crime & abuse.

So the reaction for mistake and abuse will be different.

I think I saw from the episode of Virat doing the delivery of Vinayak.

I got interest of watching seeing the reports of Tanmay and Aria entering the show. I was interested in the kids.😳

So started watching from the episode of Vinayak's delivery.

Yes I do know the REASON behind Sai hiding the truth from Virat.

But still I found it WRONG from Sai's part to hide the truth.

If Sai had a problem in revealing the truth to Virat, then she could have atleast revealed it to one of the family members whom she trusted like Ashwini and Shivani.

Not hide like a COWARD somewhere and later blame your husband for having remarried.

@red - I agree here Virat shouldn't have sent Sai to jail for criminal charges nor tried to separate her from Savi.

That was WRONG from his part.

I'm not in for a debate with either of you.🙏

I just put my POV to the person with whom I felt I shared views.

Since I started watching post leap I felt both Sairat were WRONG in their own ways.

Virat should not have bought back Pakhi to Chavan Nivas and tried to stop Sai from leaving.

Same way I still believe Sai was wrong in hiding the truth from Virat no matter how big their fight was because he did deserve to know the truth.

That's my personal opinion.

I really don't want to debate further with any of you.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

@bold If u r watching only post leap then how come you didn't know the fact that sai doesn't know that virat and his family thought her as dead. She didn't fake her death. So why should she call the man who said he is cutting ties with her and named her orphan, burden.

Kindly watch pre leap episodes, u will understand why she didn't inform him about savi. Main reason is he will snatch savi too from her for pakhi which she mentioned in one episode. Another reason she didn't find him deserving to know the truth because he already choosed a criminal over her and her kid.

Anyways even for that, virat character sent her to jail on false charges and tried to seperate her from her daughter unlike sai who maintained good image of virat infront of savi.

Mistake is different from crime & abuse.

So the reaction for mistake and abuse will be different.

Apt👏

Sai isn't always right but for most of her wrong acts, her fears are well founded and justified because of Virat's actions pre-leap.

As for Virat, his wrong actions simply don't have justifications.. atleast none is understandable.

Him slapping Sai is fine if he does it for everyone concerned. The issue is he choses to placate Pakhi in her mental instability where as he choses to slap Sai in her same condition. When you see the parallel of the same situation of two ladies and the hero claiming to love the one is actually behaving more humanely lovingly with the other , how not to feel angry with him?

I'll slap the person I love but not the one who has done every crime against my family...may I know what are the grounds for such thinking?

Issue is not that he slapped Sai...issue is he ONLY slaps Sai.

Love doesn't justify manhandling, torture and violence when your lover can't do a single duty towards his marital vows with you. Right and duty come hand in hand. Virat has always done his duty for Pakhi and only exerted his rights on Sai.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I'm not in for a debate with either of you.🙏

I just put my POV to the person with whom I felt I shared views.

Since I started watching post leap I felt both Sairat were WRONG in their own ways.

Virat's should not have bought back Pakhi to Chavan Nivas and tried to stop Sai from leaving.

Same way I still believe Sai was wrong in hiding the truth from Virat no matter how big their fight was because he did deserve to know the truth.

That's my personal opinion.

I really don't want to debate further with any of you.

Reaction for mistakes will obviously be different from reaction for crimes.

Ending the discussion ✌️