Originally posted by: Sinmegh
What is coming out disturbing in Ghum .. and very very stressful is how isolated they are showing Sai living in Nagpur ..
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She was an orphan .. her father had died . That’s why she stuck on with Chavans .. but she had people in college, pulkit looking out for her ..
After leap ..
she was living in kankauli it was still a wholesome existence .. ladies were visiting her daily .. there was some social activity .. she was well respected abd feared there
After she has come to Nagpur . There are no friends , no social life .. except Usha maushi and once a month jagtap .. and then Chavhaan gaslight her .. call her manhoos .. Virat could put her in jail .. and except Jagtap . Nobody came to bail her out .. what kind of morbid existence is this .. why can’t they show Sai doing something about it ..
this is scary and depressive .. even in school picnic she was not shown to interact with any parent .. because if the presence of Virat and his current wife .. this is really scary . Stop gaslighting her ..
This i have said long back, that this show is all abt gaslighting and abusing the FL , who ends up coming back to same place eventually out of her Stockholm Syndrome.
Everyone from Chavans to Virat to Pakhi to that parody of an Aai, manipulate, her abuse her , Gaslight her, all this bcz makers made sure, she does not make one genuine relationship who help her see through this syndrome that she is affected with.
The show works that way.. The first time it was this triggering for me was Sai reveals to the family abt Bhabhi & Virat , the reaction of the family that followed..
From then to now, anything that has changed is the acceptance when it comes to illicit relationship between devar bhabhi and abuse towards Sai..Both of these have grown exponentially.
The show is extremely traumatic if u see it from Sai's point of view..The whole justification of her being back to the family, bcz she is in love is beyond my understanding & what boils my blood is the narrative that Virat loves Sai & not Patralekha.
This woman has wasted 12-15 years of her life for a family like this, for a man like Virat & all she got in return is abuse...she does not even have a job of hers, that she got it herself, without any involvement of this pathetic excuse of a human, Virat. Such is the sad state here.
Edited by asmi_ekaa - 2 years ago
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