Isn’t Sai wrong? - Page 2

Yes dear!!! Am just saying that Virat has all the right as father... But he never took care of his child as father like when Sai was pregnant for the first time... He let his santrewali abuse his wife who was baring his child... What care he took?? But the moment sairat lost child he was in his dukh dard peeda... Secondly when he as a father snatch a child from it's mother and gave to another woman that was an insult to a woman, wife and most importantly a mother... Kon karta hai aaisa??? He thought that his child is more safe with another woman but not with it's mother... But when Sai does it it's wrong... And when Virat does the same it is correct... Nope... And now if he really care for this Vinu he could have got him treated with London ka doctor or any other doctors in this world but nope he didn't...

Sai isn't wrong.

It is the present narrative that is wrong.

This is what the new trend is in most of the SP shows at the moment!

The endorsement of Toxic Male Masculinity.

The men are all doing injustice to their wives yet the narrative supports the validation of their pain, suffering and agony.

The men are then shown as insensitive, forgetful and ungrateful with the full support of their family.

Originally posted by: fan_fiction123

I guess I can see your point. I am just thinking in terms of his rights as father of the kids and not husband. As father he should have equal rights on kids and by making Sai not acknowledging that, writers are basically whitewashing every character in the show but her. Literally everyone turned good even Jagtap.

Imagine my surprise when I see Kaku feeling for adopted kid when she was horrible to her Harini or Mohit or Shivani bhuwa turning into Pakhi’s supporters.

As father he stood silent when PL slapped sai n abused her in her pregnancy which lead to stress induced miscarriage. Virat sympathized with PL.

As father he left Sai alone to suffer her loss n was too sad he cant have baby. That led to surrogacy.

As father he kept Sai away from her fetus during surrogacy implying she is causing risk to her own baby.

As father he took her baby n gave him to PL to raise, without an ounce of guilt.

As father he chose to safeguard PL despite knowing she got goons to attack Sai n scared Geeta away faking as nurse. HE CHOSE PL OVER HIS WIFE AND CHILD.

There is a reason why Sai left.

Is she came back the family would have blamed her for Vinu death (they r doing it) n same trauma would have inflicted on her n she would have lost her pregnancy. (It was shown that if she gets pregnant its high risk n thin chances of fetus survival)

There was a lot that happened before leap. It’s unfortunate that they are whitewashing such grave crimes by not mentioning any wrongdoings of Virat n his family n victimizing Virakhi who are responsible for this trauma in Sai’s life.

ADDED: I know makers r trying too hard to sell Virat is victim like in Shruti track but they have to understand, this was no small offense by PL n Virat. The FL lost her babies cause of them! The sentiment will never go away (it should not either, two babies is no small loss for any woman) no matter how much they white wash n try to paddle one sided narrative.

Originally posted by: fan_fiction123

I guess I can see your point. I am just thinking in terms of his rights as father of the kids and not husband. As father he should have equal rights on kids and by making Sai not acknowledging that, writers are basically whitewashing every character in the show but her. Literally everyone turned good even Jagtap.

Imagine my surprise when I see Kaku feeling for adopted kid when she was horrible to her Harini or Mohit or Shivani bhuwa turning into Pakhi’s supporters.

But what he did do? Bailed out pakhi despite sai saying clearly she will leave house with vinu if he brings pakhi back.

Virat knows sai will leave with her son if he chooses pakhi, still he choosed to bail a criminal over his wife and his son.

She left the house by breaking all ties. Virat also clearly said everything is over once u step out.

So why should she inform him about her pregnancy. She compromised so much to give him father rights in vinu case, but he failed her and her son.

About not informing virat about vinu death, she was done with getting blame again and again.

When she thought vinu is dead, she imagined virat cruelly blaming her for vinu death.

Whole chavan family and Virat would have shown hell to her had she stood before him with that news.

She already lost her first child because of pakhi abuse for 15 days with slaps and curses.

Had she informed them, she would have got another miscarriage or virat would have snatched savi too from her for pakhi like he snatched vinu from her.

Virat lost all his father rights the moment he choosed a criminal like pakhi over sai and vinu.

Exactly 💯!!!! Why should Virat know anything about Savi and Vinu when their father is more interested or gives more importance to another woman over their mother??? Show have always highlighted only his dukh dard peeda but convincingly forgetting or neglect Sai's struggling and pain... She is the only one who have suffered and still suffering the most... That man made a innocent girl pregnant make her look like 3rd person in her own marriage and then left her and kids to face this world just for his Lusty ex gf!!!! That's sounds so so horrible and that too with full support of his so called dill k acche gharwale... It irritating to see Savi doing baba jaap all the time... Your baba is not worthy of your love poor child...

Sai leaving was not "over one heated fight". It was a culmination of years and months of a cycle of abuse. PEHLE GALTI PHIR MAAFI, PHIR GALTI, PHIR MAAFI. So NO, she was not obligated to inform him anything. he is not fit to be a father. he is a despicable human.

Ghum ka yahi dastoor...

Sai ke ek galti par Virat ke abuses bharpoor🤣

I haven't watched the part just before the leap, so I don't know how heated or serious the fight was. But it does seem strange that Sai informed no one about her being alive, and that baby Vinu is dead. That makes it very much like Sai is at fault, despite the bullshit Virat and his family must have done.

She didn't even inform the woman she calls her Aai, and that makes Ashwini's reaction to seeing Sai alive justified (even though she is a snake otherwise).

Let me know if I am assuming wrong, as I don't have the full context here.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

No one will reflect because that is long forgotten. Ab jo hua woh hua. Eventually she left na. They will only see how they suffered because she left. Ab that will never be mentioned in the show

Originally posted by: BlackWitch

I haven't watched the part just before the leap, so I don't know how heated or serious the fight was. But it does seem strange that Sai informed no one about her being alive, and that baby Vinu is dead. That makes it very much like Sai is at fault, despite the bullshit Virat and his family must have done.

She didn't even inform the woman she calls her Aai, and that makes Ashwini's reaction to seeing Sai alive justified (even though she is a snake otherwise).

Let me know if I am assuming wrong, as I don't have the full context here.

Won't blame you or anyone for feeling that way. The fight was too ugly and Sai did leave. What I found very stupid, (but it is only to increase episodes) is that Sai wanted these guys to find her. Initially, her grouse was that Virat did not come searching for her.

Let us forget Sai for a moment, if such a case happens in reality, the family might have been a certified and proven A-hole but the woman will be blamed first for abandonment.

Oh yes, she keeps saying that Virat didn’t come to find her. Is that really all she is unhappy about? I thought she is upset because of how he treated her before she left the house. I assumed kuch Bahot bada hua hoga pre leap, but now that you mention it, it does seem that her only grouse is that the family didn’t look for her.

Damn these writers 😡 Why do they always try to white wash criminals?

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Won't blame you or anyone for feeling that way. The fight was too ugly and Sai did leave. What I found very stupid, (but it is only to increase episodes) is that Sai wanted these guys to find her. Initially, her grouse was that Virat did not come searching for her.

Let us forget Sai for a moment, if such a case happens in reality, the family might have been a certified and proven A-hole but the woman will be blamed first for abandonment.