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Posted: 3 years ago

The way P has been entangled in SaiRats life by making her a surrogate, She can never really leave them in the truest sense. She is now forever attached to Vinu.

Only her death can release them freely of her.


Or the other option is to make her mentally disturbed. That would negate all her importance for everyone. For BK, P would become another Devyani. She might get sympathy and care but no love.


A cancelled P... with or without marriage and her sense back in place will forever meddle in their lives.

With Sais entry now, her situation is totally "haath main aaya lekin munh main nai gaya"

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Posted: 3 years ago

If they are indeed going this route, and picking up another sensitive topic, they better do justice to it. Bipolar is common, and scary part is, it goes unaddressed and undiagnosed because of its nature, ignorance and the general taboo around mental illness. People don't even realise that a person is dealing with it. I have a friend's husband suffering from it and under medication for years now. Despite being from a very well educated family, her father refused to acknowledge such an illness for a long time and said he was just messing around with everyone and finding excuse under the guise of such an illness.

Like you mentioned, Vinu may know something about P. I doubt he knows about her illness like the rest of the family. But he may have seen the aggressive side of her. But I also feel he knows that she is not his biological mother and assumes that V is his father (as the adoption truth has not been revealed to him)

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Posted: 3 years ago

Vinu not calling her Aai is of significance too. If he is Virat's adopted child, he would not let him call Aai or even Maa. I think as Ashwini said, Pakhi brought him home and Virat recovered from shock. So then only he might have allowed her to be called maa.

There are too many unknowns here.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sherry24

If they are indeed going this route, and picking up another sensitive topic, they better do justice to it. Bipolar is common, and scary part is, it goes unaddressed and undiagnosed because of its nature, ignorance and the general taboo around mental illness. People don't even realise that a person is dealing with it. I have a friend's husband suffering from it and under medication for years now. Despite being from a very well educated family, her father refused to acknowledge such an illness for a long time and said he was just messing around with everyone and finding excuse under the guise of such an illness.

Like you mentioned, Vinu may know something about P. I doubt he knows about her illness like the rest of the family. But he may have seen the aggressive side of her. But I also feel he knows that she is not his biological mother and assumes that V is his father (as the adoption truth has not been revealed to him)


Vinu is too young to know about mental illness and about second marriage yaar. But he is perceptive enough to see the changes in her. We will have to see more of sober Pakhi (P1) to know where their relationship stands. P2 is definitely nirjal vrat waali :D

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Posted: 3 years ago

True. Virat's character has been messed up completely. If there is nothing concrete, it would be more painful to see Sai return to him. Now that she is in for more suffering and heartbreak.


For BK and P scene, I guess family is not aware of P's condition. In no way will Bk allow their marriage then. So she is expecting P to produce an heir. While it is P1 responding that they should concentrate on Vinu, as she knows and understands her equation with V. But my hunch comes from why P2 is never active infront of Chavans. I understand that Sai is the trigger point and V is the catalyst. But P2 is manipulative. So she would use Chavans to get V. However, the only supportive scene to this specific doubt is, how V doubted P for encouraging the family for honeymoon. If P and V have an understanding on the terms of marriage and P is respecting it, why would he think that P will plan it. Until he feels it was P2 in action.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Sherry24

True. Virat's character has been messed up completely. If there is nothing concrete, it would be more painful to see Sai return to him. Now that she is in for more suffering and heartbreak.


For BK and P scene, I guess family is not aware of P's condition. In no way will Bk allow their marriage then. So she is expecting P to produce an heir. While it is P1 responding that they should concentrate on Vinu, as she knows and understands her equation with V. But my hunch comes from why P2 is never active infront of Chavans. I understand that Sai is the trigger point and V is the catalyst. But P2 is manipulative. So she would use Chavans to get V. However, the only supportive scene to this specific doubt is, how V doubted P for encouraging the family for honeymoon. If P and V have an understanding on the terms of marriage and P is respecting it, why would he think that P will plan it. Until he feels it was P2 in action.

@blue P2 is the one that does nirjal vrat and all. And who wants to be Virat's wife. Thats why BK is taken aback when P1 says they will concentrate on Vinayak. Yes P2 is still manipulative. She is old Pakhi.


@red. Virat was thinking Pakhi is in P2 mode from the night before. But the honeymoon tickets triggered him. See what he says initially. You didnt ask for Patralekha too I guess, because she would not have approved (P1). He could have stopped there. But he lost his marbles for a second and spoke the next line. Because if she did, she should not have. I think that made Pakhi trigger badly. In the room, he realized his mistake instantly when pakhi blasted him. He thought may be she is P1 only and he unecessarily picked on her. thats why he openly says that it is ajeeb and wht the family members thinking is all wrong. But Pakhi is in full P2 mode. He got shock of his life when she picked on Ajeeb word. After that it was nonchalance from his side, till she recovered (there was a confused look on his face) and told him sorry (back to P1)

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Posted: 3 years ago

Ideal situation is definitely Sai not going back to Virat . But we know Vankar will find a way to make Sairat the end game. In that case, Sadhika’s theory is the only thing that makes sense and give redemption to Paki and Virat in the end .

Lets just hope for the best

I personally can’t take any more cringe and toxicity. Its now supersaturated 🤢

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Posted: 3 years ago

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Ideal situation is definitely Sai not going back to Virat . But we know Vankar will find a way to make Sairat the end game. In that case, Sadhika’s theory is the only thing that makes sense and give redemption to Paki and Virat in the end .

Lets just hope for the best

I personally can’t take any more cringe and toxicity. Its now supersaturated 🤢


yes if SaiRat is the endgame, this is the only way. I cant think of any. And it is in KD too.

If they make Sai go back to Virat even after him marrying Pakhi and thought of moving on, then Sai's character is also killed.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Like you said somewhere, with the surrogacy, P has been tied to V and Sai forever. There is nothing that can break that, except P's elimination. Now how that happens is our "wait and watch" game.


We don't know Vinu's status yet, and how that will impact the custody. Going by Sadhika's theory, P will only get more vile with this. I too had heard that RK was more classy, which makes P has been more like a spoilt brat (probably mentally ill). And with that P has to become more sinister in her attempts to get V and Vinu.


There is no way BK and the Chavans would realise their mistakes, until they see the consequences in a very destructive way.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Nice post, you have put lot of thought into it unlike Vankar.


In the end it might be more of Writer 1 and Writer 2 for alternate episodes causing such confusion.


Vankar/SP keep it vague to insert any situation into the storyline based on TRP, so am glad you put it out there so that they can steal your idea and use it if they have not thought abt it.


I am glad to see audience rejecting PH's all other shitty shows (ending) except Harpool Mohini and Ghum.

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