Soul vs Sole - Page 3

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Originally posted by: sherry_24

Agree with you. Like I mentioned, the episode today was just a spark, the meat is yet to come. And while I disliked the episode completely for the content, I'm looking forward to how it unfolds. I have my hopes there.

Sai giving in to the family demands and V forsaking Sai's career both are equivalent to killing the character. They are aspects that we associate them with, something they have been consistent about. Playing with either means ruining the character beyond repair. They practically become invalid.

I did share my thoughts when the promo came out that this is V's game now. He will be front runner with supporting Sai in her career. And despite the precap I still have stronger bend towards this guess of mine. He may have to make it about himself for now. Resort to emotional blackmailing. There is no logical argument that can pierce through BK's nuthead. But I'm eager to see how he takes this on. Like you said it has to eventually come down to a inspirational track, with the family coming on board with the right mindset. How V does it will be interesting.

There has always been great scope wrt content in Ghum, however, they have not utilised it well. With this track they can actually explore and deliver a great track with a thought provoking message, on woman, woman empowerment, their redefined roles beyond the walls of their home. Giving them the equal right and opportunity and rising above these petty mindsets of woman being inferior and succumbing to the rules laid by the narcissist in the society.

No they won’t show women empowerment because as per Vanku and his writing team Devar-Bhabhi EMA is more interesting than women empowerment😅 also, if they remove devar-bhabhi crap, then they’ll have to switch Aish to a supporting cast from a Parallel lead, which we all know is not going to happen for some ungodly reason! Ab ya toh uska character strong banao.. ache dialogues do.. wo bhi nahi kar rahe.. the whole show is about Sai and Virat... they should concentrate on Pakhi’s character as well if they want to keep the third angle alive... people often say that Aish doesn’t know how to act or gives weird expressions.. are toh uska character role hi bas do shabdo mein restricted hai “bezatti” “Viraaaat” “jo ladki apne pati ko roz yaad dilati hai ki yeh shadi shadi nahi hai sirf ek deal hai” very inconsistent show with inconsistent writing.. it’s running for namesake and TRP.. the actors as well as writers aren’t passionate about it😆 kabhi Virat 28 ka ho jata hai kabhi 40 ka😅🤣

and today was an epic laughter shit when he said “sai initiated the deal because of her Aaba’s death” when in actuality it was him who made the deal and used the word “deal”. And even he proposed the idea of 5 year contract to which she agreed! Ab ek ladki ko samne se yeh bologe ke ki tum chalo jana after your graduation toh wo toh han bolegi hi na...Apni bejjjaaatii thodi kareagii.. not every girl is like paapi didi🤣!!! Kuch bhi maaiya ve ho raha show mein! Sincerely disappointed 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🤣🤣🤣🤣

Aree story jaye bhaad mein... auntiyan toh dekh hi rahi hai na bakwas show!

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Thanks ❤️

So if we go by the promo he does put the vermilion. Which means they did go about completing the rituals. So somewhere we know it has to be V finally speaking up. Like Moor mentioned, he has to be pushed, or else he likes to find a middle more amicable way. Sleeping in the corner on DND. So either he gets the jolt when Sai walks away or he somehow get the courage to speak after BK's unreasonable clauses. If its former, then its no good. Because then it is fear of Sai leaving him than his own interest and commitment towards his career. And I doubt that to be the case. It has to be latter where he is stalling, but when he speaks his words are misinterpreted. There is a catch which he will reveal and stop Sai. But I'm expecting it to be something overwhelming. Something which will make Sai tear up and floored to know his unwavering support for her. Something he says or proposes that is way beyond anyone's imagination. Eg - He decided not to have kids if that is the responsibility holding her back..not the right example (because this has to be a common call between the two) but something drastic like that. Or when he says he will equally participate in household work to support her. Or he is happy to lead a life with her as a wife and not as DIL if thats what it means for her to pursue her career. He has to become that rock for her to move ahead because its only going to get tougher.

Btw - I have this sadist P's beizzati addict in me which wants this to be a dream of P where Sai walks off and V chooses his family. And BAM comes the "Chan se jo toote koi Sapna"🤣

Haha. BK is so silly yaar. In real world, no one would make him upset again that too after he has forgiven them the night before. Virat in real world would just take his wife to bangalore. Anyways his transfer is ready. It is pretty stupid of the CN wasis to think Virat would stay in the house forever. his job is bounded to move. wife and husband might chose to be together and Sai will move too!

But yes, you can enforce rules even when the people are not present in the house. That is the sad part. The mindset is the sad part which needs to be addressed. And Virat is not a kind of guy who just leaves. So I am thinking he will send a message across.

Removing Ghatbandan is not good. Sai after taking so much effort in winning him would not do that. Neither Virat will lose Sai for this stupid condition. As I said the basic premise of their bond will go wrong if he doesnt stop this BS.

As far as Pakhi, she imagined Virat tying mangalsutra just before Samrat tied in her wedding. So she can think whatever!

Virat might not go till the kids. But I am waiting for him to give some good bashan as an IPS and stern warning to not interfere in Sai's career. He will take care of the kids, if the need be. The children are half his and going to take his surname. I also want him to say that he doesnt want to change her surname and he plans to give his kids Joshi-Chavan as the surname. OK i am having too many expectations on him 🥱

Itna sab Kuch virat bolega ., I have given up on him …. Good you slept through the episode .. otherwise sleep kharab hi jati it was so toxic

I want the story to progress with a greyer Sai .. she is too white and that’s why people can play with her feelings

I want her to teach BC at her own game . If virat says I want you to be bahu .. then Sai should accept it with her own condition

She says I am giving up on my career to raise your kids .. what will you give me in return ..

Then virat says what 8va vachan .. then put your hand on kaku’s head and give me the promise you will always support me in my decisions . I will always be your first priority.. not pakki ZAban .. you have to put kaku’s life at stake .. since she is so invested in our relationship.. take a promise on her name

Then tell Kaku .. go sasu Ma .. go and sit in your chair from tomorrow I will take care of all the duties expected for me

Next morning .. she gets up and sits in kaku’s chair . And orders karishma to make food

She tells Kaku since you were the eldest bahu in the family I have the same status as you .. and my husband is also the only earning male in his generation.. so I have power ..

If bc calls pakhi as eldest bahu Sai should question how when did Nagesh kaka adopt samrat .. .. show me the paper ..

then she should openly call out karishma and pakhi for just sitting idle and not even having kids .. should ask them publicly in dinner table if everything is hunky dory in your marriage life then why no babies aren’t biological clock ticking for both of you .. then say who’s goth v to financially support your kids . My husband.. why .. when god has given you both brains why are you both nit working

you and your husbands sit in the house the whole day .. listening to kaku’s crap .. no wonder you don’t have any energy or positivity to have kids ..

when Sai starts showing them the dirty mirror daily ..it will be good fun .. and then she can join work ..

In the precap, Sai is smiling at him when he says Bahu banna hai..

So that means he said something positive...

And he says maine soch ke bola hai...

So I guess he will say ki haan vo bahu banegi but she will remain Sai Joshi for me or that she need not change her name. Her saying she wanted to do this (change name) is good enough for me.

And then Sai removing gathbandhan can be didi ka sapna 🤣

Kaisa laga mera wala version? 😆😆

Originally posted by: Moor278

In the precap, Sai is smiling at him when he says Bahu banna hai..

So that means he said something positive...

And he says maine soch ke bola hai...

So I guess he will say ki haan vo bahu banegi but she will remain Sai Joshi for me or that she need not change her name. Her saying she wanted to do this (change name) is good enough for me.

And then Sai removing gathbandhan can be didi ka sapna 🤣

Kaisa laga mera wala version? 😆😆

Yeah that’s all I wanted too

There was two moments I didn't like in today's episode

The way virat revealed deal and sai's look for support from virat and he didn't raised his voice....sai was breaking up deep inside and he stood without opening his mouth

Sai should definitely not agree for SR .. if they get married now ..he lets her get abused daily

tell him mera mood nahi hai

Originally posted by: msin

I want the story to progress with a greyer Sai .. she is too white and that’s why people can play with her feelings

I want her to teach BC at her own game . If virat says I want you to be bahu .. then Sai should accept it with her own condition

She says I am giving up on my career to raise your kids .. what will you give me in return ..

Then virat says what 8va vachan .. then put your hand on kaku’s head and give me the promise you will always support me in my decisions . I will always be your first priority.. not pakki ZAban .. you have to put kaku’s life at stake .. since she is so invested in our relationship.. take a promise on her name

Then tell Kaku .. go sasu Ma .. go and sit in your chair from tomorrow I will take care of all the duties expected for me

Next morning .. she gets up and sits in kaku’s chair . And orders karishma to make food

She tells Kaku since you were the eldest bahu in the family I have the same status as you .. and my husband is also the only earning male in his generation.. so I have power ..

If bc calls pakhi as eldest bahu Sai should question how when did Nagesh kaka adopt samrat .. .. show me the paper ..

then she should openly call out karishma and pakhi for just sitting idle and not even having kids .. should ask them publicly in dinner table if everything is hunky dory in your marriage life then why no babies aren’t biological clock ticking for both of you .. then say who’s goth v to financially support your kids . My husband.. why .. when god has given you both brains why are you both nit working

you and your husbands sit in the house the whole day .. listening to kaku’s crap .. no wonder you don’t have any energy or positivity to have kids ..

when Sai starts showing them the dirty mirror daily ..it will be good fun .. and then she can join work ..