Virat's love for Sai is conditional or unconditional? - Page 3

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

💯 I agree even I think similar. I have done u favor by marrying u and taking responsibility . Now I love u u must love me back. Since I love u , u must listen to me, have no opinion of your own , adjust to my fam toxic behaviour and tolerate my obsessive bff ex if not I will throw u out or withdraw affection. Borderline gaslighting mostly. Sometimes more

Totally agreed to the views here.. plus highlighted the point about love and I think it should go like "Although I told you that I love someone else, I have changed my mind and you should just be able to understand and digest that all by yourself because I wont tell you anything, and then you ought to love me back!"

Originally posted by: Moonks

Love is unconditional when you don't want anything in return not even the love of that person whom you love. And the mere fact that he will love and live with sai only when she will love him in return. Sometimes I think makers have shown pakhi's love for virat is unconditional no matter what virat does and declared his love for sai but she still loves him 🤣

But pakhi is selfish and love is not selfish, and that selfless love is what we call unconditional

Now this is fuuuuuny but true.... Parkhi and her unconditional love of Virat...she married his brother just to be in his family....she even admited to him that she can see his love for Sai in his eyes but Sai will never love him back the way he wants so he should just be with Parkhi 🤣🤣🤣....Even now as she slowly moves into Samrat wife roll .. it is all for Virat...if that is not unconditional I do not know what is 🤣🤣🤣

As for conditional love ....our Mr Virat is the definition....the fact that he expects her to just read his mind and understand that he loves her, has moved on from Patralekha even as he meets her in cafes and holds her hands as she cries...and he seems so suprised that she has not confessed to love him dispite giving her no reason to even think that that is an option...and now smart man that he is has decided to transfer ....if I was Sai I would think he has transferes as he can not bear to see his true love (Parkhi) with another man.

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Your post deserves a seperate thread buddy 👏

I'm appalled to see here on this place who claim to be SaiRat fan (I don't cos I'm open about my bias for Sai & hate for Virat respectively) just sees only from Virat's side lmao. Virat is anything but a victim? He's the root of everything, miseries in everyone's lives including himself. He infuriates me so much on top of it the blind defence & mollycoddling for that insufferable man-child boils my blood further on this place when I come across such anticipatory bail for him to self-victimize him further. That dude's an abuser of the highest order, extremely extremely extremely toxic & is patriarchal, MCP and sexist who will put restrictions, rules, limitations to maintain decorum, the code of conduct of a marriage & it's institutions, to be mindful of having male friends, refrain from letting her have normal college life friends circle, enjoy it, she has to be a typical "good girl & Bahu, patni" for him & his family to serve him. A docile, meek, doormat, slave like his mom, can't talk to & meet any guy, will be obsessed, keep track & trace of her friends mobile numbers, where do they live but would hold hands with his obsessive ex passionately at cafe in high fever, has all the understanding & patience, tolerance in the world for that woman who's an abuser of his own wife, knows her intentions, why & what Sai feels about her and their past together, what she's recently done, their past being brought out in public, how everyone sees them in bad light together goes onto tell her you never have been the reason for our misunderstanding, soooo much softness, playing bff dosti card with that person, yet goes onto meet her secretly at cafe, then protecting her image from others, whatever she demanded there then when Sai spots them together, Sai's not supposed to react? And tells her off by saying he won't explain, give her clarification & justify whatever Sai saw & makes out of it. That loser forgot what he did during Ajinkya fiasco also says idc whatever you think of this. Hate hate hate him sm. Will give clarification & explanation to his bff for the 100th time on same thing which he's already given countless times in past but not for his wife... Scumbag...

Our society no matter how much they claim to be progressive, broad-minded can't tolerate a strong woman standing upto men who are in stronger position in power & society...

The entrenched toxic masculinity, it's glorification & skewed power dynamics in a husband-wife relationship has always been there in ITV. It's been normalised, yet I see sympathy for such MLs of ITV. Disgraceful.

Very well written... problem with virat is when sai clearly told about her insecurity or problem with his ex pakhi he never says। Anything clear that she doesn't matter to me. Okay he thinks sai doesn't love him so can't propose her but atleast can clear that commitment thing they talked before marriage does not matter to him now one single sentence and this can be resolved easily sai might go overboard sometimes but atleast she has clearly told her problem while virat acts like he doesn't know why sai behaves this way and goes in self victimized mode

Tbh they have totally butchered virat and sai.

I had so much expectations from this track of Virat's indifference track but now it's annoying because of the way he is behaving.For me he is now beyond redemptive.

But in the name of confession makers are making sai a dumb, irritating character pining for her husband's attention even though he is insulting her here and there.Its god damn dumb.TBH I miss that sai who was sensible and smart enough in earlier days to figure out the situations and act smartly.

Now in the name of innocence and making her realize her love they have completely ruined her.

The only character that is consistent is Paapi Didi -Vile and Cheap

This show to begin with is a joke …. The lead pair should never have come together … everything that can go wrong goes wrong in this relationship right from the foundation upon which this wedding / relationship is laid upon to the IPS i see nothing chavan behaving like a narcissist just bcos his fav toy denied him what he wanted / imagined but never had the guts to voice . Anyway this ione is a wash out do not know why people even watch it and still want these two to be together

if toxicity had a form this show the people in it , the entire family dynamics , the way they air their personal laundry in public with no respect to anything but have the gall to preach about everything and anything is mind boggling.

Used to watch bcos I liked how the FL was written but after ghar ke bade dil ke ache akal ke kache nonsense i quit on the show .

watching such nonsense encouraging domestic abuse , illicit relationships , mental n verbal abuse is so not done but i guess everything works for entertainment

some one getting abused in the name of love is ok bcos the supposed pair has chemistry and they should stay together god knows for what then comes ML Vs FL …. Seriously why even both have become obnoxious and loud long ago the ML is someone who any girl would not wish for in a spouse … IPS leads womens protection and promotes domestic abuse

Apologies for butting in …. But could not help saying this …. This show gets nastier by the day with no respite from nonsense..

wishing you all who are watching sanity … good luck …

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

By not saying moral policing, you're exactly doing the same. If the shoe fits you, then wear it. Cos I didn't particularly talk about this poll or whoever is voting for the second option. It was a general statement when I see an abuser like Virat getting support & sympathized and the victim (Sai) is being shamed.

I am sorry if you felt offended and I am sorry if I unknowingly crossed any line. But the thing is that no one needs to explain their thoughts and their pov to anyone, it would be nice if they choose to but it isn't a compulsion. Eveyone here speaks their own mind and have reasons to believe what they do. And in such scenario, where everyone has their own mindset, discussions happen, but I just felt that calling a certain group of people who might not share the same thinking as you appalling without knowing the reasons behind their opinions is wrong in my opinion and so I just pointed that out. I never meant any offence but I will apologize if you got offended.

As for the shoe and whether it fits me or not. First of all, I don't think that I have to wear it just because someone wants to know my opinion. What I think and believe is upto me and whether or not I want people to know about it is also upto me. But just for the record, it doesn't. I have shown it repeatedly that I care neither about Virat nor about Sai in a manner that will make me defend or bash either on them. I defend the one whom I feel is getting unnecessary hate and I bash the one whom I feel is getting the green pass for no reason. Nothing more nothing less.