Virat's love for Sai is conditional or unconditional?

Imagine calling Virat's so-called "love" for Sai unconditional it's anything but that 😆. Anyway I still looking forward to know opinion on this. Also, it's true what Sai said none loves her in CN selflessly & unconditionally. Also those who love her cos of her relation with Virat cos she's related somehow through him, it's with agenda. They want the happiness of "the son of the house" it's only all about HIM the chascmochirag, the raja dulara, raja beta the blue eyed boy of CN. Ofc it'll be about his pain, feelings, emotions who gives two hoots about the girl especially an orphan, she just has to be a susheel bahu & a baby making machine, that's all what her existence should be about & should be limited to and all women. Akhir apna khoon toh apna hee hota hai aur hamesha pehle hee ayega. Paraya hamesha paraya hee rahega no matter what happens. They love Sai & want her to fix her marriage only cos they want her to be with their Raja beta, to bring her closer to him...

No one loves sai unconditional except her baba.Virat always expect her to behave and being nice to him and his family without questioning.so unconditional is impossible.

Sabka love conditional hi hota hai chahe wo condition kuch bhi ho...unconditional love doesn't exist...lekin Virat Sai se pyar nahi karta hai...inke relationship me love mujhe to nahi dikhta

Conditional, of course. She has to follow all wedding vows - forsake all others, love only him and his, accept that she is immature, accept that rules are different for her and him, the list goes on.

Delusional to the core, he lives in self-pity that Sai misunderstands him, yet won't say a word to clear the misunderstanding. I mean, he is so confused, I myself get confused analyzing him 😖😖😖😖

Bhai pyaar kaha hai Virat ke paas. Kuch pyaar vyaar nahi. There’s no love from Virat’s side. He is physically attracted and when she rejected he has become hulk

Virat Sai se pyaar bhi karta hai ? Hum ko lagta hai ki Virat Pakhi se pyaar karta hai

This was actually hard. I voted conditional, but then after voting I did wonder what conditional love even meant and under what circumstances it is demonstrated.

On the basis of what I have seen on ITV and even real life relationships, unconditional love is when irrespective of strains in a relationship, the number of lows the relationship experiences, and no matter the hurt you feel a person gives you or how much anger you feel towards them, you cannot stop caring for that person or feeling concern for and wanting to be with that person in their time of need.

By this definition, virat's love for sai is unconditional because no matter what happens between them (whether it be sai hurting virat or virat hurting sai) he still can't help what he feels for her and wanting to care for and protect her.

Hmm well I've already voted conditional before all this thought hit me. Oh dear me🤪

I think virat is actually the only one after her aaba who does love her unconditionally. Ashwini's love for sai is only because she wants the best for her ghoru. 😆

Baaki sab ka chod hi do in that house, although I will say mohit does love sai a lot and unlike ashwini I find his love for sai more selfless than ghoru-ki-ghulaam (Sorry I know that's a bad joke but I couldn't help it)😆

That being said, I can't disagree with the fact that virat's love is also on the basis of many expectations he has from sai. I mean more than anything it was ego due to rejection that he is now telling her to stop interfering in his life and trying to move away from her now. If someone doesn't love you back, acting like that out of rejection does seem like virat's love is conditional based on her loving him back, but he will maintain responsibility for her either way just for the sake of promise given to her father.

Originally posted by: sammy17

This was actually hard. I voted conditional, but then after voting I did wonder what conditional love even meant and under what circumstances it is demonstrated.

On the basis of what I have seen on ITV and even real life relationships, unconditional love is when irrespective of strains in a relationship, the number of lows the relationship experiences, and no matter the hurt you feel a person gives you or how much anger you feel towards them, you cannot stop caring for that person or feeling concern for and wanting to be with that person in their time of need.

By this definition, virat's love for sai is unconditional because no matter what happens between them (whether it be sai hurting virat or virat hurting sai) he still can't help what he feels for her and wanting to care for and protect her.

Hmm well I've already voted conditional before all this thought hit me. Oh dear me🤪

I think virat is actually the only one after her aaba who does love her unconditionally. Ashwini's love for sai is only because she wants the best for her ghoru. 😆

Baaki sab ka chod hi do in that house, although I will say mohit does love sai a lot and unlike ashwini I find his love for sai more selfless than ghoru-ki-ghulaam (Sorry I know that's a bad joke but I couldn't help it)😆

That being said, I can't disagree with the fact that virat's love is also on the basis of many expectations he has from sai. I mean more than anything it was ego due to rejection that he is now telling her to stop interfering in his life and trying to move away from her now.

You don't throw your spouse outta the house at the middle of the night, without giving two hoots about their safety, keeping her starved, humiliating her infront of public & calling her mentally ill, then wanting to have dinner right after throwing your wife out, denying her food, water, belongings, shelter forgetting about basic humanity isn't unconditional love from any aspect even by ITV standards when Sai got to know he's gone to mission, she went to the hospital & fought with everyone to take care of him, keeping everything aside what he's done to her recently back then, forgetting his barbaric act or day after or the same night Sai went to Pulkit's house after Virat made her look like a liar, shrew, insecure wife, delusional infront of entire family by making it look like Sai is making up stories in her heard about bhabhi-devar still she cared... & So on....

But to each their own...

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

You don't throw your spouse outta the house at the middle of the night, without giving two hoots about their safety, keeping her starved, humiliating her infront of public & calling her mentally ill, then wanting to have dinner right after throwing your wife out, denying her food, water, belongings, shelter forgetting about basic humanity isn't unconditional love from any aspect even by ITV standards when Sai got to know he's gone to mission, she went to the hospital & fought with everyone to take care of him, keeping everything aside what he's done to her recently back then, forgetting his barbaric act or day after or the same night Sai went to Pulkit's house after Virat made her look like a liar, shrew, insecure wife, delusional infront of entire family by making it look like Sai is making up stories in her heard about bhabhi-devar still she cared... & So on....

But to each their own...

Absolutely! There's nothing here for me to disagree with. People complain about how sai talks to virat and drags pakhi into their matters, but it is literally nothing compared to how virat has treated her. Not a single thing sai has said or done to hurt virat comes anywhere close to the humiliation, hurt and accusations he and his family have hurtled at her. That's why majority of the forum bashes virat more, because barring sai's daily blunt and rude attitude, the way she talks is nothing in comparison to what virat does to sai in his angry outbursts.

I still haven't forgotten that time when pakhi insulted sai calling her a nurse for virat and asking how much salary she wants for having looked after virat and how sai in utter shock looked at virat in hopes that he would shut pakhi up and say something for such an insult this woman was hurling at his wife, only for virat to not even look at sai or pakhi, not even say anything to shut pakhi up or defend sai, all because he was angry at sai for the argument they had in the night due to which he left their bedroom. Sai looked so distraught and hurt when virat did not say anything to pakhi when pakhi said this insult to her. This is also an example of the many times virat has not slammed pakhi for insulting sai but anytime sai said anything back to pakhi in her own defense whenever pakhi would insult or taunt her, only then virat would open his mouth but to shout at sai for talking rudely to pakhi. It was unbearable.

He expected sai to take everyone's abuse and he would only shake his head in disapproval whilst looking at pakhi or his family members when they insulted sai, yet if sai would say anything back to them when they insult her, majority of the times he would scold her or yell at her for disrespecting pakhi or his family. He expected sai to be on her best behaviour always but has zero expectations from his family because he knows he can control sai. 🤢

Originally posted by: sammy17

Absolutely! There's nothing here for me to disagree with. People complain about how sai talks to virat and drags pakhi into their matters, but it is literally nothing compared to how virat has treated her. Not a single thing sai has said or done to hurt virat comes anywhere close to the humiliation, hurt and accusations he and his family have hurtled at her. That's why majority of the forum bashes virat more, because barring sai's daily blunt and rude attitude, the way she talks is nothing in comparison to what virat does to sai in her angry outbursts.

I still haven't forgotten that time when pakhi insulted sai calling her a nurse for virat and asking how much salary she wants for having looked after virat and how sai in utter shock looked at virat in hopes that he would shut pakhi up and say something for such an insult this woman was hurling at his wife, only for virat to not even look at sai or pakhi, not even say anything to shut pakhi up or defend sai, all because he was angry at sai for the argument they had in the night due to which he left their bedroom. Sai looked so distraught and hurt when virat did not say anything to pakhi when pakhi said this insult to her. This is also an example of the many times virat has not slammed pakhi for insulting sai but anytime sai said anything back to pakhi in her own defense whenever pakhi would insult or taunt her, only then virat would open his mouth but to shout at sai for talking rudely to pakhi. It was unbearable.

He expected sai to take everyone's abuse and he would only shake his head in disapproval whilst looking at pakhi or his family members when they insulted sai, yet if sai would say anything back to them when they insult her, majority of the times he would scold her or yell at her for disrespecting pakhi or his family. He expected sai to be on her best behaviour always but has zero expectations from his family because he knows he can control sai. 🤢

Your post deserves a seperate thread buddy 👏

*edited by dt*. Virat is anything but a victim? He's the root of everything, miseries in everyone's lives including himself. He infuriates me so much on top of it the blind defence & mollycoddling for that insufferable man-child boils my blood further on this place when I come across such anticipatory bail for him to self-victimize him further. That dude's an abuser of the highest order, extremely extremely extremely toxic & is patriarchal, MCP and sexist who will put restrictions, rules, limitations to maintain decorum, the code of conduct of a marriage & it's institutions, to be mindful of having male friends, refrain from letting her have normal college life friends circle, enjoy it, she has to be a typical "good girl & Bahu, patni" for him & his family to serve him. A docile, meek, doormat, slave like his mom, can't talk to & meet any guy, will be obsessed, keep track & trace of her friends mobile numbers, where do they live but would hold hands with his obsessive ex passionately at cafe in high fever, has all the understanding & patience, tolerance in the world for that woman who's an abuser of his own wife, knows her intentions, why & what Sai feels about her and their past together, what she's recently done, their past being brought out in public, how everyone sees them in bad light together goes onto tell her you never have been the reason for our misunderstanding, soooo much softness, playing bff dosti card with that person, yet goes onto meet her secretly at cafe, then protecting her image from others, whatever she demanded there then when Sai spots them together, Sai's not supposed to react? And tells her off by saying he won't explain, give her clarification & justify whatever Sai saw & makes out of it. That loser forgot what he did during Ajinkya fiasco also says idc whatever you think of this. Hate hate hate him sm. Will give clarification & explanation to his bff for the 100th time on same thing which he's already given countless times in past but not for his wife... Scumbag...

Our society no matter how much they claim to be progressive, broad-minded can't tolerate a strong woman standing upto men who are in stronger position in power & society...

The entrenched toxic masculinity, it's glorification & skewed power dynamics in a husband-wife relationship has always been there in ITV. It's been normalised, yet I see sympathy for such MLs of ITV. Disgraceful.