Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily Discussion Thread no 48. - Page 74

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Would definitely trend on FriendsBook considering how active her friends are there🤣

Maybe she can become even more popular than she was after Virat's dance 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

Maybe she can become even more popular than she was after Virat's dance 🤣

If they just let her be who she is completely ...she easily has a Miss.Congeniality personality

The kinda people who know everyone in the college, plan and execute events, do exchange programs & have a huge following ( & haters😂)❤️

Originally posted by: DeePiku

Arre according to Rocking Didi, that is classy mature behavior 🤣

3rd class behavior

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

virat going to cafe is totally wrong and handholding too... But at the same time if we see from pov, he is just trying to fix the things which went wrong and somewhere his decision is the root cause, 4 lives came to stop in which 2 are not ready to listen atleast now, so he might be trying to samjav one person left, I know he is duffer for staying mum when he is supposed to speak but Kya kare

And while coming to sai, here he is not totally wrong, even I feel bad for sai but at the same time he is just acting like that to protect his heart and it's fair, isn't sai doing the same for last one protecting her heart, now he is hurt ,he is behaving the way he is , is to protect himself but not to punish sai...

Actually I stopped analysing character but tried to answer you as much as possible, but two of our friends analyzed virat pov so beautifully in current situation, tagging them, they might can answer you better

Bold: What do you mean kya kare?? Call him out on his stupidity and hypocrisy. That’s all

Don’t even get me started on his handholding. 🤔

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

How’s what Sai did to try and protect her heart (didn’t work anyways) is the same is what Virat is doing?? She did what she did because he told her in clear words that he can’t be her HUSBAND because he’s committed to someone else.

Same way didn't sai said kind of she don't want to be in this relationship type statements when virat said he want this relationship to be real or during the ring gifting... She did, I am not supporting virat or blaming sai here , she have her own reason and most of them are because of virat only( and I blame virat for being mum) but she did said right... And same like sai virat is also going by only her words ignoring her actions...we can say how can be compared to 19 year old who is taking shit from his family on daily basis... I am not comparing his hurt with hers as she do go alot... I am just thinking about his hurt from 28 year old who loves his wife a lot but he thinks she won't love him, for a guy who stuck between family and wife from past one year ( trust me it is not easy)..I am trying to figure out 28 year old hurt who took some decisions with good intentions ( bad decision I agree) and stuck in situation and guilt... Like sai is confused between his actions and words get attracted unintentionally, even he is not able to stop building expectations if he is normal to sai that's why to protect his heart he is maintaining distance... In no way I am saying what virat did yesterday with sai is correct he did crossed the line of rudeness, but not to hurt said but like the way Sai crossed the line in after anniversary fight... I am saying in a way both are protecting their hearts in the process unintentionally hurting others

What Virat is doing can’t be compared to what Sai has been doing for the past year because Virat has no reason to guard his heart from Sai. She did NOTHING to him other than get upset with his stupidity. The anniversary thing was Virat’s fault completely and he’s wrong to be upset with someone else for his own mistakes.

Yes he is wrong , but now what he is doing is to protect his heart to break again, if he really wants to hurt her, he would done something, here he is doing his own job.. ( I feel sorry for sai but I feel this indifference is necessary for both of them)

No one is a mind reader so she can’t possibly know what’s going on in his mind. He needs to have a talk about these things and clear things out for everyone involved.

This I agree

. Sai misbehaved and her way of handling things was extreme but since he kept the anniversary secret even from her, she had every right to be upset. This man hurt this girl the first day she came to his life by declaring he loves someone. If he loved someone so much he shouldn’t have married her and if he did he should’ve never told her about Pakhi and his love but he did and that can hurt anyone.

@bold for this I actually respect him, he never wanted to hide anything from sai , he always been truthful to sai, and now coming to marriage, I really feel in that particular situation both virat and Sai have chance to handle the situation differently, but I do respect what they both choosed for them... They are fighters, situation is wrong

It can break someone’s confidence completely. The whole year Sai was trying to protect herself but what was Virat doing?? He was vocal about her being a promise and a responsibility to him.

Both were vocal about deal and zinmedari but coming to real feelings both behave like duffers

He said it time and again and not only to her but to everyone But when it’s time to say that he doesn’t like Pakhi anymore and she means nothing to him he stays mum and wants others to know what he’s feeling by his actions.

This even I hate it

Did he not express his love for Pakhi and how she occupies his heart in words??

There he knows pakhi loves him , so he been vocal... Just think from pov, is it easy to tell a person that you love them when you think they might leave you forever listening to your true feeling, Mujhe nahi lagtha, still he been little vocal but timing is wrong but I do agree and feel, atleast he should have said this " that he don't love pakhi or pakhi won't hold any place in his life anymore" atleast to sai in clear words ,as you said by making her sit, him staying mum in many situations is the reason for his suffering

His anger and his actions of going to meet Pakhi secretly to talk to her can not and should not be excused. All Virat has to do is sit Sai down and tell her in clear words that whatever he told her in the beginning of this marriage doesn’t hold true anymore. Virat has hurt Sai and Samrat and is also hurting himself. He deserves whatever he’s going through because he can end it anytime he wants which for whatever reason he’s not ready to do. Sai and even Pakhi is not responsible for his hurt. He alone is to blame.

Bold: What do you mean kya kare?? Call him out on his stupidity and hypocrisy. That’s all

As far as I remember we didn't interact much, so I believe you might not read many of my analysis... Currently I am staying away from analysis because I feel no point of doing that especially for this ghum ganja,

If you read my old analysis you will get to know, I did called out virat so many times in so many situations, that " Kya kare" is just to add fun element as I am not interested in analysis

Don’t even get me started on his handholding. 🤔

Sorry if offended you , these are my pov , but I really respect yours...

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

so finally, if some of us not analyzing it's not because we feel either of virat or sai are wrong or right, it's only because we are not interested in show...

Sorry if offended you , these are my pov , but I really respect yours...

Same way didn't sai said kind of she don't want to be in this relationship type statements when virat said he want this relationship to be real or during the ring gifting... She did, I am not supporting virat or blaming sai here , she have her own reason and most of them are because of virat only( and I blame virat for being mum) but she did said right... And same like sai virat is also going by only her words ignoring her actions...we can say how can be compared to 19 year old who is taking shit from his family on daily basis... I am not comparing his hurt with hers as she do go alot... I am just thinking about his hurt from 28 year old who loves his wife a lot but he thinks she won't love him, for a guy who stuck between family and wife from past one year ( trust me it is not easy)..I am trying to figure out 28 year old hurt who took some decisions with good intentions ( bad decision I agree) and stuck in situation and guilt... Like sai is confused between his actions and words get attracted unintentionally, even he is not able to stop building expectations if he is normal to sai that's why to protect his heart he is maintaining distance... In no way I am saying what virat did yesterday with sai is correct he did crossed the line of rudeness, but not to hurt said but like the way Sai crossed the line in after anniversary fight... I am saying in a way both are protecting their hearts in the process unintentionally hurting others

All Virat has to do is actually just talk to Sai and tell her while it’s true that he did love Pakhi at one point like he stated in their wedding day but he no longer loves her or cares for her. He is indeed want this marriage to be a real one and he is open to idea of developing feelings for her if he can’t tell her that he already loves her. I’m not saying Virat is not hurt what I’m saying is he shouldn’t be hurt and actually take his anger out on Sai. Since he proposed the idea of not being able to be a husband to her he should also propose that not being the case anymore. Since he can end both their suffering but isn’t doing so he’s 💯 at fault and Sai shouldn’t be subjected to what he’s doing to her right now. Half the time he refuses to acknowledge there ever was any relationship between him and Pakhi and makes it like it’s all in Sai head. First he needs to admit that there was something and then clarify that it’s not the case anymore. I honestly don’t see how he’s even in the slightest in the right here. He’s not in the mood to end this misunderstanding therefore I can’t sympathize with him at all.

Both were vocal about deal and zinmedari but coming to real feelings both behave like duffers

How do you want Sai not to be vocal about it when she’s been insecure about it all this time?? Her being vocal is justified and his too. What I was trying to say is Virat is the one to put everything into Sai head about him not wanting her a real wife. 😆

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Same way didn't sai said kind of she don't want to be in this relationship type statements when virat said he want this relationship to be real or during the ring gifting... She did, I am not supporting virat or blaming sai here , she have her own reason and most of them are because of virat only( and I blame virat for being mum) but she did said right... And same like sai virat is also going by only her words ignoring her actions...we can say how can be compared to 19 year old who is taking shit from his family on daily basis... I am not comparing his hurt with hers as she do go alot... I am just thinking about his hurt from 28 year old who loves his wife a lot but he thinks she won't love him, for a guy who stuck between family and wife from past one year ( trust me it is not easy)..I am trying to figure out 28 year old hurt who took some decisions with good intentions ( bad decision I agree) and stuck in situation and guilt... Like sai is confused between his actions and words get attracted unintentionally, even he is not able to stop building expectations if he is normal to sai that's why to protect his heart he is maintaining distance... In no way I am saying what virat did yesterday with sai is correct he did crossed the line of rudeness, but not to hurt said but like the way Sai crossed the line in after anniversary fight... I am saying in a way both are protecting their hearts in the process unintentionally hurting others

All Virat has to do is actually just talk to Sai and tell her while it’s true that he did love Pakhi at one point like he stated in their wedding day but he no longer loves her or cares for her. He is indeed want this marriage to be a real one and he is open to idea of developing feelings for her if he can’t tell her that he already loves her. I’m not saying Virat is not hurt what I’m saying is he shouldn’t be hurt and actually take his anger out on Sai. Since he proposed the idea of not being able to be a husband to her he should also propose that not being the case anymore. Since he can end both their suffering but isn’t doing so he’s 💯 at fault and Sai shouldn’t be subjected to what he’s doing to her right now. Half the time he refuses to acknowledge there ever was any relationship between him and Pakhi and makes it like it’s all in Sai head. First he needs to admit that there was something and then clarify that it’s not the case anymore. I honestly don’t see how he’s even in the slightest in the right here. He’s not in the mood to end this misunderstanding therefore I can’t sympathize with him at all.

Both were vocal about deal and zinmedari but coming to real feelings both behave like duffers

How do you want Sai not to be vocal about it when she’s been insecure about it all this time?? Her being vocal is justified and his too. What I was trying to say is Virat is the one to put everything into Sai head about him not wanting her a real wife. 😆

Originally posted by: tptwi

Can one of Sai’s friends please take a photo of this date and send it to kaku???? So that she can see what her sanskari bahu is up to….better yet, it needs to be a video to truly capture what is happening here 🤣

Didi will have a comeback that Sai and Ajinkya could get close and dance infront of an auditorium full of family and strangers...Here she's at a coffee shop and not a secluded beach at the bottom of the ocean 😆

Originally posted by: Sofna

Didi will have a comeback that Sai and Ajinkya could get close and dance infront of an auditorium full of family and strangers...Here she's at a coffee shop and not a secluded beach at the bottom of the ocean 😆

Didi will say this and kaku will then bash both Sai and AJ

Originally posted by: Sofna

Didi will have a comeback that Sai and Ajinkya could get close and dance infront of an auditorium full of family and strangers...Here she's at a coffee shop and not a secluded beach at the bottom of the ocean 😆

Reminds me of Sarabhai..for pakhi...short mein sai murdabad bol do 🤣