SBs SEGMENT TODAY ~ UPDATED Pg 4 - Page 6

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

And in all this KBA be like..

I can prefer debate on sai vrs virat but can't handle discussing JBA in any context. So it is good she akways like this spectators.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Completely agree with everything you have written about Sai. And now with samrat’s entry, she is going to feel all of his pain too. She is going to hurt in all of his misunderstandings too. Every time she sees his hatred for Pakhi, she will be reminded of the past. My heart truly breaks for her. But, her words have crossed the line. Just like Virat, she is impulsive and has no control over her tongue. While her feelings are understandable, accusing him of two timing is unacceptable. Even she herself knows he’s always been loyal to her…this is very very unfair to Virat. Without communication, a relationship suffers tremendously, and that is exactly what is happening here. Virat communicates with his actions and Sai with her words. There is a major disconnect here. Only when Virat retreats will Sai be forced to look into his actions.

I dont see anyway they would be together ..Kaise...there is so much of toxicity yaar!

When sai accusing him with such big words. Can't virat atleast now open his mouth & tell her the reason behind his gestures towards her. What is stopping him from verbally addressing the issue. It's not even about his feelings towards sai now. it's time for him to defend himself. Is his fear of sai rejection is greater than his bad image in her eyes. If sai still doubts his intentions even after him clearing his stand then I'll sympsthise with him with all my heart. But here he has a chance to defend himself. Whether other person listens or not it should be ur first instinct to defend urself instead of letting that person have bad impression on you. It is when u want that person to understand you. If that person doesn't matter to u then u don't need to defend urself & let them think what they want..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I understand her situation and know where she is coming from.. Totally with her in this.. But her words of accusation..

Yes she did cross a line.

Lekin gusse mein log bol dete hai yaar..only when the anger subsides..they realise they said unforgivable things.

With samrats arrival..all the insecurities in sais mind have risen again.

In today's episode..when samrat was talking about pakhi and indirectly indicating how virat and her relationship made him leave the home .Sai had an understanding look and was staring pointedly at virat..but of course.virat missed all that.

The least virat can do is to atleast open his mouth and say the vaada doesn't exist.and pakhi is only his friend and sister in law ..nothing more.

Lekin nahi..virat can't say even this much and makes hurt faces at Sai.How is she supposed to understand? And in situations like this..verbal assurances are needed.

The kind of stress Sai is dealing with ever since she got married..it has only amplified now.

Also re :her accusation..all the times pakhi barges into their room without even knocking, the time when pakhi insulted Sai saying she is just a nurse for virat..virat never bothered to correct it.And when she openly brought virat and pakhis relationship in front of family..NEITHER DENIED IT.and then the same virat makes plans to celebrate his and sais anniversary..

tell me what should Sai make out from all this?

If sai had a more conservative family,they would have also accused virat of the same thing..if they got to know all the above things.

I'm not saying whatever she said was right..but its quite natural for that kind of accusation to come up..virat has done nothing to refute it.

When sai accusing him with such big words. Can't virat atleast now open his mouth & tell her the reason behind his gestures towards her. What is stopping him from verbally addressing the issue. It's not even about his feelings towards sai now. it's time for him to defend himself. Is his fear of sai rejection is greater than his bad image in her eyes. If sai still doubts his intentions even after him clearing his stand then I'll sympsthise with him with all my heart. But here he has a chance to defend himself. Whether other person listens or not it should be ur first instinct to defend urself instead of letting that person have bad impression on you. It is when u want that person to understand you. If that person doesn't matter to u then u don't need to defend urself & let them think what they want..

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Couldn't agree more..like I said before bol doh..then you see..why are you scared of rejection? Like Ayesha said she needs to hear it's clearly ekdum spashth rather than through gestures..High time Viru..why gol gol ghumaoing like Jalebi🤦🤦

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

When sai accusing him with such big words. Can't virat atleast now open his mouth & tell her the reason behind his gestures towards her. What is stopping him from verbally addressing the issue. It's not even about his feelings towards sai now. it's time for him to defend himself. Is his fear of sai rejection is greater than his bad image in her eyes. If sai still doubts his intentions even after him clearing his stand then I'll sympsthise with him with all my heart. But here he has a chance to defend himself. Whether other person listens or not it should be ur first instinct to defend urself instead of letting that person have bad impression on you. It is when u want that person to understand you. If that person doesn't matter to u then u don't need to defend urself & let them think what they want..

The problem is that Sai presents herself with such a harsh exterior that Virat is unable to clear anything up. This is a constant trend in their relationship. All her feelings and sentiments are justified, but her outer shell scares Virat. Sometimes she acts like she doesn’t care and other times she says such harsh things that honestly put him into a state of such deep shock and hurt that he is left speechless. As to your question about whether he is so scared of rejection that he would rather have a bad image in her eyes- to me the answer is yes. He does not want to lose her under any circumstances. So if that means loving her on his own for the rest of his life, he will take that and live in this messy relationship forever. But this time her harsh words are going to make him distance himself, because he is truly going to believe that she wants nothing to do with him and that she thinks so low of him- when the truth is that she is just in so much confusion and pain, all of which has been reignited by Samrat returning. Once he distances himself, Sai is going to be forced to look into this…I just wish she had someone to talk to…

Ayesha doesn't agree technically with Sai's attitude. But she explained it so well probably to help herself empathize with the character..

Actually my first thought was which bedroom is that? It doesn't look like their bedroom or the hotel they were staying at. Plus two suitcases on the bed and looks like the fight happens while they're packing. So this fight happens before they come home at some other hotel? This video made it look like Samrat comes home and exposes the truth, then this happens in Sairat bedroom.

But I guess Sai accuses him at the hotel itself after hearing why Samrat is so hesitant to come home. It is completely wrong of her to accuse Virat of being a two timer ( I didn't understand the word properly ) cuz she knew the full story of Virat having someone else in his heart before her marriage. She got into the marriage knowing that. Samrat is the one who got into the marriage unaware.

It's wonderful to see Ayesha's bonding with him. Hope we can get more segments of these two having fun. Plus Ayesha's understanding of her character is just praiseworthy, she didn't lie or make up facts she straight up described the character she's being playing this entire time.

Are we going to survive this track?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I dont see anyway they would be together ..Kaise...there is so much of toxicity yaar!

This is what happens when you don’t communicate with your partner…issues keep building up until you burst and say deeply hurtful things. This has been a continuous cycle in their relationship, and in fact every single one of their fights and misunderstandings can be traced back to the fears, insecurities, and uncertainties resulting from the past and the vaada in one way or another. They both need time to reflect and think at this point…that’s the only way they will be able to see things from each other’s POV. Virat emotionally distancing himself is going to force both of them to do this. I don’t think their relationship as a whole is toxic. It’s that the disconnect in their communication has made them toxic for each other in this moment. It can be healed.