Why sai needs to take oath?? - Page 8

The post was about the oath Sai took wrt to her relationship with Virat. We cannot discuss the topic without references to Virat.

The topic was not about writers or PH. We should open a separate one to discuss this. No one is denying Sai’s pain here and everyone realizes and sympathies with her and please bring it to makers attention so the show stops around Sai getting abused day in and out . Do we need to bring this up in every topic of the forum?

Originally posted by: sukri

Agree - Virat was not even in yesterday's episode.

Here we are wanting the writers to stop showing domestic violence and I still see posts trying to compare whose is suffering more?

Pain is pain and this kind of family abusing son and bahu for supporting each other needs to end.

We all should be together in this, against the PH, against the writers for showing DV again and again without any consequence.

Instead again and again we have to convince people in forum that Sai is suffering, that please look at her pain, don't ignore it. We are asking Channel and PH to not enable abusers, to let her take some action against her abusers, show punishment for Chavas.

Please do the same for Virat just like how we are doing for Sai, instead of fighting with us, arguing with us.

We know Virat's pain and understand and half of us have shared his pov time and again.

Agreed that Sai is being naive in saying that she will give up her haq on Virat. She thinks saying this will get them to stop them from interfering in her life. Family anyways don't know what happens in their bedroom. She is already harassed enough in the show.

I agree, we should be against the content they are showing. The real issue is the abuse and the harassment that the girl is going through day in and out. People even protested when Pakhi didn't leave Virat's hospital room and called out that whole thing as harassment. There are many of us who felt bad for Virat even when he had ousted Sai just then when he was bothered by Pakhi to have food with him.

This is the time the forum should stand together. Our voices are needed now much more than requesting for Sairat scenes. They have given us some BTS pictures and Sairat scenes so that we get carried away and look forward to more such scenes and ignore all the distasteful content that they keep airing.

We don't even know if what was shown in the precap will get aired because there have been some scenes from the precap that don't even get aired. Also, the precap is for them to get the audience to be hooked to the show even after such a horrible episode. They have conveniently showed that so that the attention goes towards Sai's actions than the actions of BK gang and Pakhi.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

@bold Thank you for saying this.

it’s still the precap and we don’t know why Sai said what she said. So can we wait for it till the scene plays out?

And give it a rest and show little empathy for another woman who broke down completely today even though it’s a fictional character?

Another question I have when Virat character does something unthinkable or distasteful it’s brushed it off as copy paste from KD or wait for the scene to play out.

Why doesn’t Sai character get that leverage? Because I was told that this dialogue from precap is actually a copy paste from KD.

So to conclude my rant Virat is NOT Rono and Sai is not Imon. Vankar likes to torture us! That’s the hard fact. Rest is all maaya 🙈😂

I see no empathy at all, all I see is how she should not have given away her husband to another woman, while she did not do that.. she did what the husband's family wants her to do and abuse her to push her to do that.. I see know empathy for a woman who is being harassed even after her continuous apologies.. but a blame on how she will not tell her husband about it...Just like i said yesterday.. Virat cannot be turned into Rono one day and Virat the other day.........That is pretty inconsistent..Stick by Rono or Virat.. Because there is no continuity in this whole way of depiction.... Oh yes Virat throwing out Sai..its copy paste...Virat is a nice man otherwise..This is sadly makers copying KD..

Sai talking about Virat and Pakhi relationship with the family...Oh Oh Oh how dare she assassinate his character.. She is not behaving like a wife, she is rude ..inconsiderate wife..When she behaves like a wife..well well well my darling that's just copy paste from KD. you see...

Here discussion is on why Sai gave up her husband. It's NOT sai Vs Virat.

Most importantly an independent girl like her should not fall into Pakhi's trap. Though NO 18/19 can tolerate this much of abuse only daily basis. Poor girl just broke down.

All lead couples in every show face bumpy road.Ghum is no different .the level of toxicity is promoted in GHUM going overboard. Half of the episode goes taunting Sai later half SaiRat romance. No flow at all.

We are still having Sai v/s Virat debates even when the PH is promoting domestic abuse on a 19 year old on daily basis. People still want to argue about who has suffered more, who has done more mistakes. Very good. 🤪

Originally posted by: janecastle

We are still having Sai v/s Virat debates even when the PH is promoting domestic abuse on a 19 year old on daily basis. People still want to argue about who has suffered more, who has done more mistakes. Very good. 🤪

You know its not about Sai vs Virat , people are calling out the PH for what they want to show in terms of Sai and Virat..specially Virat....and not Sai Virat.. I have no clue when the writing is being called out how does it become about Sai and Virat

Originally posted by: janecastle

We are still having Sai v/s Virat debates even when the PH is promoting domestic abuse on a 19 year old on daily basis. People still want to argue about who has suffered more, who has done more mistakes. Very good. 🤪

Seriously.

We all want to stop the suicide track as its going to destroy both characters. One will push other will act. Both are criminal offence. That deadly track may be final nail in the coffin.

Originally posted by: laksh

It actually shouldn't be. I can speak for myself. The girl's actions and the words spoken as questioned by the TM was as a result of whatever you have been explaining in this thread. But when she is being questioned when she herself is a victim, I had to end up in stating facts as why she is in this state now. We cannot just judge her actions from this one episode. Her actions or her words are as a result of everything that she has been going through so far in this house. She didn't breakdown for one saree drama. Sai and Virat's story is not a story of two people who are in love or married under normal circumstances. One has not even realised that what she is feeling is love. Forget that, she doesn't even understand her actual status in his life. Also, the scene hasn't been even aired. All I said was let's not conclude anythin before we know why she said that. But when Virat's love was brought into picture and Sai was criticised that she shouldn't have spoken when she has seen Virat's love, I had to share about what Sai's thoughts must be about Virat's feelings for her. I only stated the facts that she won't be able to realise his feelings for her because they keep wavering and are very conflicting.

I agree. Sai has been holding back from expressing herself for far too long so she is now literally crumbling. How do people not see her pain and empathize?! and unlike pp none of this is her doing. She is actually doing her best to be the bigger person, she is showing that she cares for every member of this family despite how badly they treat her. I also dont understand why when some of us explain Sai's pov, it always ends up becoming Sai vs Virat. Its like any defense or explanation of Sai is perceived as being against Virat or blaming Virat. I dont understand it.

What Sai sees in Virats changing feelings is NOT love yet. Its only care/concern. But its gonna be a gradual shift. But that's enough for her at this point. as long as Sai feels like there is a potential future to the relationship with him she will stsy. And all she wants/expects at this point is that her "husband" even if a deal one is not emotionally invested in someone else. She cant digest him haq jatoing on her if he still acknowledges and wants to nibhao the vaada to pp. Thats why it was so important to get clarity and details about virat pp. even now she only knows Virat is not nibhaoing any vaada to pp but she still doesn't know why he made one in the first place. What happened. Why did they not marry each other if they actually loved ach other. So Sai still has unanswered questions and will have insecurities. But at least his action of finally acknowledging his past with pp instead of denial and thereafter stopping her haq seh makes her reassured for the time being. Right now more than love she only seeks this reassurance and she has it but eventually she will seek love too. They will that cross that bridge too.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know its not about Sai vs Virat , people are calling out the PH for what they want to show in terms of Sai and Virat..specially Virat....and not Sai Virat.. I have no clue when the writing is being called out how does it become about Sai and Virat

That's what I am asking. Why turn everything into Sai v/s Virat like in this thread. The fandom should stand together and protest against the abuse and also butchering of the leads' characters. Instead, I see a certain section still debating over the faults in the FL, still questioning her without actually knowing what forced her to react that way in the precap.

Originally posted by: janecastle

That's what I am asking. Why turn everything into Sai v/s Virat like in this thread. The fandom should stand together and protest against the abuse and also butchering of the leads' characters. Instead, I see a certain section still debating over the faults in the FL, still questioning her without actually knowing what forced her to react that way in the precap.

Exactly.. why say nothing happens..this ITV..This is how shows are..why demotivate people who want to stand against Indian Television normalising abuse in this age and generation by comparing it with other shows that have been there or are running..