Why sai needs to take oath?? - Page 10

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

That’s the sad part. We can’t even show empathy to a fictional character makes me wonder what kind of a world we live in. 😢

Yes we live in a very bad & highly insensitive world where just empathy a female fictional character we mercilessly blame d male fictional character even curse why is he alive only as he is d most horrible person on this earth.

Really very sad what can we do 😭

Chill guys they are fictional character and this forum is to discuss abt them..what is so wrong in it to discuss abt characters actions and dialogues?? Is it not allowed in india forums now? If not then i will delete my post..here we aren’t abusing or talking bad behind any real person.. We watch and discuss character and story for time pass or entertainment or our displeasure abt them..if moral policing happening here just to criticize characters and counter them then whats the point of this forum i don’t know..

Why is there an expectation to show empathy to only one character in the show ? How is showing empathy to ML equivalent to not empathizing with Sai? Why is it wrong to point out not just Sai even Virat is a victim of harassment? Why everything should be about Sai?

Why do people in this forum assume supporting Virat is equivalent to opposing Sai? I can also say people here don't have empathy for Virat. It's all about his relationship with Sai never about his feelings and situations.

People need to accept that Sai can make mistakes and people should have the freedom to point that out. If you think otherwise cone up with valid justification instead of blaming real members for lacking empathy. Let's start by showing empathy to real members.

Everyone here never wanted Sai to give up her relationship because of bully Pakhi. Arent we all saying the same thing?

May I just say that sai can sacrifice virat for devi,pulkit, pakhi,chavan family or some one may be.

Where is the importance of virat then.yes I totally agree what is happening with sai is plain abuse or torture which no human deserve ever.

But I can't neglect the fact that this girl keep on returning to the same place again and again when she has every opportunity to move on.

Even I start to think she is doing for virat as she respect him,rely on him emotionally, somewhere down the line love him too.then how can she easily decide to sacrifice him again and again.

As I believe if I love someone then I will fight the entire world for that very person but never thought to sacrifice at the drop of hat.

Lastly I m sure from past two month cast don't need to read script as their dialog and expression are same with only costume change.And still people watch this.even for sairat this show is zero worth it.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

May I just say that sai can sacrifice virat for devi,pulkit, pakhi,chavan family or some one may be.

Where is the importance of virat then.yes I totally agree what is happening with sai is plain abuse or torture which no human deserve ever.

But I can't neglect the fact that this girl keep on returning to the same place again and again when she has every opportunity to move on.

Even I start to think she is doing for virat as she respect him,rely on him emotionally, somewhere down the line love him too.then how can she easily decide to sacrifice him again and again.

As I believe if I love someone then I will fight the entire world for that very person but never thought to sacrifice at the drop of hat.

Lastly I m sure from past two month cast don't need to read script as their dialog and expression are same with only costume change.And still people watch this.even for sairat this show is zero worth it.

She is NOT sacrificing him. The episode hasnt even aired. In precap she is seen making a statement in the flow of emotions that she doesn't mean. She is broken down. People in such a state do not mean every word they say since they are not thinking rationally. She is also not yet "in love"... She is just about coming to terms with her growing emotional attachment to him and trying to sort out her feelings. She returns to Virat for 2 reasons- because he asked her to stay and more importantly because she trusts him, is attached to him and wants to care for him. Their marriage did not happen in normal circumstances and the whole family hates her so she is trying to cope.

Let's wait and see what happens.

If they copy KD which they are doing blatantly thus far, this statement will just hang in the air with everything being status quo and it'll just be much ado about nothing.

Sai is NOT giving up the relationship. She is still very much in CN. She hasn't left Virat and she cares immensely for him. She cares for this horrible family too because they are important to Virat. She cares about their approval and acceptance now because she is married to him. She wants her marriage to NOT be a deal, she wants to not be just a zimmedari or farz for her husband, she wants to be the only woman in his life and is hurt that not only did he supposedly love someone ekse first, that person lives in their bouse 24x7 interfering in her life, spewing venom with the rest of the family. She has talked about leaving and deal marriage because she thats what has been fed to her since the beginning as the premise of this marriage so that thought will not leave her as yet and her insecurities will not disappear in a day. And this will be a recurrent theme until she truly feels secure, feels like Virat and her and mutually in love with one another. And that is going to take a lot of time. Just coz she says some words in her anger/irritation as she retaliates doesn't mean that she intends it that way. If she didn't care for Virat or wasnt attached to him, she would not have stayed even if Virat tried to keep her! she is dealing with a hostile living situation the only way she knows how. And she is tolerating it only for virat and Ashwini- her husband and her mother.

Originally posted by: Nja91

She is NOT sacrificing him. The episode hasnt even aired. In precap she is seen making a statement in the flow of emotions that she doesn't mean. She is broken down. People in such a state do not mean every word they say since they are not thinking rationally. She is also not yet "in love"... She is just about coming to terms with her growing emotional attachment to him and trying to sort out her feelings. She returns to Virat for 2 reasons- because he asked her to stay and more importantly because she trusts him, is attached to him and wants to care for him. Their marriage did not happen in normal circumstances and the whole family hates her so she is trying to cope.

Let's wait and see what happens.

If they copy KD which they are doing blatantly thus far, this statement will just hang in the air with everything being status quo and it'll just be much ado about nothing.

Yes I agree. This is just her outburst to protect herself. This is the only way to escape from the vulture attacks. What she has for Virat is untouched by her words.

If it just words said in anger or during an outburst then we can overlook that. People do say a lot of rubbish they don't mean when they are angry, hurt, and in a tense situation. I won't hold that against her. In case, she abides by her words then it's a big red flag in their relationship.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes I agree. This is just her outburst to protect herself. This is the only way to escape from the vulture attacks. What she has for Virat is untouched by her words.

Sorry wrongly quoted