GHKPM WU and Daily discussion thread no 32. | DT P.51 - Page 97

Originally posted by: appisuri

Bhai in kd also every thing was related to food that's why we are following it 😂😂

But they actually had some extra kheer prepared in that scene🤣So Imon and her little one didn't go hungry🤣

Originally posted by: Svt611

yes... and about apologizing to pakhi, what i wrong in it... he was indifferent and only said sorry becuase she threatened to leave....

she is vile and manipulative... kaku herself behaves this way so she sees nothing wrong in asking him to feed her... she probably does it herself and hence thinks its normal....

Vaise toe I generally see episode quite later or when it gets onairs , but theek hai yaar sorry hi Toe bola hai varna uska tape recorder shuru ho jta mae maike jare hue mae mayke jre hue and the family would have blasted Sai, vaise I didn't understand kaku she knows why this Tamasha had happened they had history still She is after him to feed her

Originally posted by: Svt611

aree guys chill!!!!

This is a very normal fight situation......

I will tell from personal experience

Also In no way am i defending virat's actions but I have seen an exact situation first hand and I am shedding light on it please try and understand

so when a person is upset the last thing you want to do is rile them up (which kaku tried to do)

virat controlled himself, if he wanted he could have lost his cool and made a big deal out it, the situation would have gotten worse trust me, seen it first hand.

he did not agree to kaku but she also did not give him a chance to speak kept spewing venom which was intended to rile him up.....

there is no denying what he did is wrong but he was thrown under the bus by the two women and then sai has not come home

he is upset, worried and irritated.

from personal experience, my parents fought very badly and had a huge screaming match once, my mom got so pissed off that she walked out of the house without her phone or informing anyone....

no one absolutely no one knew where she went and that riled up my dad, even more, he was so livid by the fact that she left without telling anyone...

my sister and i had to handle him first before going out to look for my mom, who we found sitting in the gurdwara

but it freaked us all out, no phone, no information and it is not safe outside, anything could have happened...

what did i learn from this situation which could have been avoided was to inform someone no matter how upset you are.... leave a note, message or whatever but don't disappear....

In no way am i defending virat or his actions they were wrong i agree but him staying quiet was 1. better because he did not scream 2. he is trying to understand what is happening 3. he is also seeing what pakhi is doing...

honestly, if i was in his place i would have behaved the same way... I would have stayed quiet and let the other person say all their rubbish why because i know there is no point in saying anything to them... it will not make a difference and why should i escalate the situation when i know the other will never listen for them it is my way or the highway....

sai was wrong in not calling and informing him, he got upset out of worry.. a very normal human reaction.....

both are not in the state of mind to understand each other..... they need time off and hence best not to say anything to anyone because it will add to the situation....

No virat must have not fed pakhi... aai was there and when he got upset because of sai not returning, aai must have asked them to leave him alone and they would have....

see it is a conflict of emotions here, one clear in their stand and the other conflicted and unaware... a clear gap of miscommunication the advantage of which has been taken by a third person.....

that is why we say never go to bed upset, sort it out there and then, never let it reach that stage......

she did not listen to him, he got riled up because of samrat (cause he knows she is right and he is guilty), pakhi used the opportunity, riled sai up thinking she would not retaliate, sai who is cleary done (paani sar se upper jaa chuka hai) retaliated and gave it back rightly so, he did not ask for this but was thrown under the bus no matter who started it, things esclated and sai did not come home.....

a small thing which had to be between the two is now a family matter because those two did not talk and pakhi used the opportunity to pin them against each other.....

something which would have been sorted between the two...

yes i dont agree that he kept avoiding the topic, but now he cannot he will have to address it, and clear things to sai... no longer can he throw it under the rug, which he would have done.....

it is as simple tat he needs a neutral understanding third perspective.

kaku and gang will speak against sai- rile him more

aai, pulkit, mohit if try to expalin he will feel they are siding with sai cause they only understand her

very common i do it with my parents also when i fight with my sister and they try to explain- i exactly say you don't give a shit about me and only see her side! but when i calm down i see her side myself!

he needs someone who is aware of the scenario but is on his side and he knows that person is on his side to explain things to him....

she needs time off which she is getting but this will all lead to them talking it out and sorting it......

So no i did not find anything wrong with what happened!

the only thing that irritated me was the stretch.....

THESE are solely my views, agree to disagree if you don't like them, don't @ me for having this perspective or for trying to understand where he is coming from.... i can sort of get his reaction cause my father is similar and i see him react the same way in these kinds of situations....

so please ignore if you don't like my view!!

tagging some i know wanted my POV

tagging a few who have asked to be tagged

Originally posted by: DeePiku

It's a stupid useless track but Vanku has copy pasted all of KD's stupid useless tracks so.......unless someone can time travel back to 2017 to make Leena un-write it, or Vanku wakes up with an epiphany, it's happening

Honestly they actually need to bug up favouring a certain person and messing up with other characters is anyway not leading ur show anywhere

Originally posted by: appisuri

Honestly they actually need to bug up favouring a certain person and messing up with other characters is anyway not leading ur show anywhere

Well they favored her last week and TRPs dropped so Vanku should wake up before things get worse for the show even with the aunties 😆

Originally posted by: DeePiku

Well they favored her last week and TRPs dropped so Vanku should wake up before things get worse for the show even with the aunties 😆

Applaudable acting ki kadr hi nahi hai😭

103 insta stories and still 😭

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Thanks Siya!
Virat not able to speak != virat doesn’t love sai

He has his reasons to keep quiet and patience to deal with the so called woman.

I think he is restless to talk to sai and sort out the issue. But sai is too hurt 😞 they just need time. This is Normal when they are not sure what other thinks.

I didn’t like the episode because of BK’s nonsense

Originally posted by: appisuri

Vaise toe I generally see episode quite later or when it gets onairs , but theek hai yaar sorry hi Toe bola hai varna uska tape recorder shuru ho jta mae maike jare hue mae mayke jre hue and the family would have blasted Sai, vaise I didn't understand kaku she knows why this Tamasha had happened they had history still She is after him to feed her

see kaku hates sai...

she will do anything to make virat hate her also and that means using pakhi....

kaku doesn't care about the history she cares about the present. she sees this as an opportunity to break sairat and she uses it... she thinks virat will submit to her saying and will do exactly as she says cause that is how he has been raised....

but virat has changed over the course of marrying sai, yes he has more work to do but he has started speaking up...

very hard for an adult to change themselves!

i relate it to a convo i had with my dad once, the two of us had a massive argument, massive, and tbh i was right but for him he is the dad and his word is set in stone so i was so livid that i did not listen to him which generally i do, i don't go against what my parents say to me... but that day i lost it and gave it to him, oh the fight we had, did not talk to each other for three days... it was insane.....

then when we spoke he actually understood me and said that he cannot change himself so easily because of his age and i should try and understand that POV.... which i do, everyone is an individual and it is hard to change instantly! till a few years ago I had anger issues and today i am zen-like a monk! it takes time and trail and error but only if you are willing to change does that happen!

with kaku her morals are so warped that she thinks whatever she says is right and her thinking is right! she will go against what sai says, so this is how she contradicts sai and sides with pakhi!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Thanks Siya!
Virat not able to speak != virat doesn’t love sai

He has his reasons to keep quiet and patience to deal with the so called woman.

I think he is restless to talk to sai and sort out the issue. But sai is too hurt 😞 they just need time. This is Normal when they are not sure what other thinks.

I didn’t like the episode because of BK’s nonsense

BK's nonsenses i agree to! gave my POV on that as a reply...

Originally posted by: Wildreaper

Applaudable acting ki kadr hi nahi hai😭

103 insta stories and still 😭

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TRP Aunties did bezzati level max pro of her Oscar submission acting 🤣