Manhandling & sorry

But your thoughts on manhandling,throwing someone out on night .

Previously too he had stopped her from eating food ,manhandled her.

Just coz now he is sorry he is apologizing.

Just coz he is a man he gets away treating his wife like this?

Would you forgive ?

How is it justified?

Indian televisions always glorifies Manhandling .

( Not respect to only this serial but in real life too)

Aapko lagta hai sai Joshi ke attitude ko koi real life mein tolerate karega ? Do u really think people in real Life r this free that they will tolerate some one nonsense behaviour

Kissi ko dhokha do , jhoot bolo , dhoka deke ke kisse ki behen ki shaadi karwa do , people will take it silently & no do anything? Do u think people will garland a dhokebaaz ?

Let me break d bubble , people will make sure to make d person life hell & d person will land in jail.

Why woman get away easily with her nasty behaviour & never called out for it? Even d woman is blind towards her own faults .

As it is a serial so ITV FL r never shown wrong nor their nonsense behaviour is ever questioned, FL mistakes r ignored or hided behind mahanta crap , they never apologize nor change their behaviour , ML mistakes r being ranted for months .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aapko lagta hai sai Joshi ke attitude ko koi real life mein tolerate karega ? Do u really think people in real Life r this free that they will tolerate some one nonsense behaviour

Kissi ko dhokha do , jhoot bolo , dhoka deke ke kisse ki behen ki shaadi karwa do , people will take it silently & no do anything?

Let me break d bubble , people will make sure to make d person life hell & d person will land in jail.

Why woman get away easily with her nasty behaviour & never called out for it? Even d woman is blind towards her own faults .

As it is a serial so ITV FL r never shown wrong nor their nonsense behaviour is ever questioned, FL mistakes r ignored or hided behind mahanta crap , they never apologize nor change their behaviour , ML mistakes r being ranted for months .

Exactly you said my points.

Y are the FL shown so mahaan ? In the name of being Mahaan they take shit. Wish instead of mahanta they could focus on how a women becomes successful and is emotionally & financially independent.

SAI was wrong in all sense. She broke Virat's trust.

But nothing justifies manhandling or throwing a women out of your home .

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

Exactly you said my points.

Y are the FL shown so mahaan ? In the name of being Mahaan they take shit. Wish instead of mahanta they could focus on how a women becomes successful and is emotionally & financially independent.

SAI was wrong in all sense. She broke Virat's trust.

But nothing justifies manhandling or throwing a women out of your home .

Bold : I agree on this

In hand holding also sai adamancy pushed virat to extreme level varna virat never had problem with sai going out , he asked her when will she returned which she brushed aside with her nhi bataungi attitude. Virat was asking her where she is going without informing properly.

Nahi bataungi attitude dont work with parents also forget working with husband.

Virat was completely wrong in food stopping he had no right to do so.

My questions still remains d same , why should a woman's nonsense behaviour should be forgotten this easily

Agar point out karna hai to dono ka karo.

Chauvinism and feminism, both are extreme thought processes.

One cant be a reply to another

World always require balanced approach.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : I agree on this

In hand holding also sai adamancy pushed virat to extreme level varna virat never had problem with sai going out , he asked her when will she returned which she brushed aside with her nhi bataungi attitude. Virat was asking her where she is going without informing properly.

Nahi bataungi attitude dont work with parents also forget working with husband.

Virat was completely wrong in food stopping he had no right to do so.

My questions still remains d same , why should a woman's nonsense behaviour should be forgotten this easily

Agar point out karna hai to dono ka karo.

Sai was being adamant cant justify manhandling and snatching food. !!

Coz unfortunately we live in a society where women is suppose to be mahaan & man can get away from manhandling .

Infact the more mahaan & manhandling the more Trps. !

I have not seen one serial where women focuses on her career. !

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Chauvinism and feminism, both are extreme thought processes.

One cant be a reply to another

World always require balanced approach.

Exactly .

These tv serials will never let the balance come also.

Hey

Manhandling and emotional/ physical abuse is unacceptable in real life. This is a show and we will take it if Virat is offered a redemption but there’s no justification for abuse and manipulation irl, I wish girls growing noticing the red flags and walk away. I would never accept and has never accepted such behaviour irl.

Since your question is specific a husband has absolutely no right to deprive a wife of shelter or food. Its a relation of equals and not of subordinates. He’s no one to offer a punishment, god that concept is so messed yuck. Its relation of equals and trust and love should be the basis, not one of a master and subordinate.

I hope we stop romanticising toxicity. Its a show and they will show it but IRL the behaviour were you throw out your wife at midnight onto the streets, deny her basic rights is clear abuse and should not be accepted. There’s no going back. And wrt to PD fiasco- no a wife doesn’t need husband’s permission to go out, that’s such a patriarchal concept. And his later actions to avenge that insult by denying food is exactly how a typical MCP behaves.

Some of the answers specially in this forum makes me worried seeing how normalised the toxic behaviour is. I just want to emphasise how patriarchal, chauvinistic and toxic it is. And its sad that women are often told to forget the abuse and go back to abuser. No they don’t have to. Abuse be it emotional or physical is not okay, it’s unacceptable.

As an independent working women I have never accepted abusive behaviour from anyone/ will never. What you said is right ITV glorifies toxic behaviour. I will take it here because its show but IRL its NOT ACCEPTABLE

P.S- My ans is specific to the post creator. If you have a diff opinion pls don’t tag me and argue. You are entitled to your opinion as much as I am to mine

Originally posted by: Rosekutty12

Hey

Manhandling and emotional/ physical abuse is unacceptable in real life. This is a show and we will take it if Virat is offered a redemption but there’s no justification for abuse and manipulation irl, I wish girls growing noticing the red flags and walk away. I would never accept and has never accepted such behaviour irl.

Since your question is specific a husband has absolutely no right to deprive a wife of shelter or food. Its a relation of equals and not of subordinates. He’s no one to offer a punishment, god that concept is so messed yuck. Its relation of equals and trust and love should be the basis, not one of a master and subordinate.

I hope we stop romanticising toxicity. Its a show and they will show it but IRL the behaviour were you throw out your wife at midnight onto the streets, deny her basic rights is clear abuse and should not be accepted. There’s no going back. And wrt to PD fiasco- no a wife doesn’t need husband’s permission to go out, that’s such a patriarchal concept. And his later actions to avenge that insult by denying food is exactly how a typical MCP behaves.

Some of the answers specially in this forum makes me worried seeing how normalised the toxic behaviour is. I just want to emphasise how patriarchal, chauvinistic and toxic it is. And its sad that women are often told to forget the abuse and go back to abuser. No they don’t have to. Abuse be it emotional or physical is not okay, it’s unacceptable.

As an independent working women I have never accepted abusive behaviour from anyone/ will never. What you said is right ITV glorifies toxic behaviour. I will take it here because its show but IRL its NOT ACCEPTABLE

P.S- My ans is specific to the post creator. If you have a diff opinion pls don’t tag me and argue. You are entitled to your opinion as much as I am to mine

Absolutely.

Your words makes so much sense.

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

Sai was being adamant cant justify manhandling and snatching food. !!

Coz unfortunately we live in a society where women is suppose to be mahaan & man can get away from manhandling .

Infact the more mahaan & manhandling the more Trps. !

I have not seen one serial where women focuses on her career. !

If sai had not shown adamancy & told d reason then there was no point of hand holding , forget virat even d lady was not ready to tell Ashwani also d reason.

I said woman behaviour r ignored like nothing happened but they r not so innocent.

Women don't need permission but if u living in a family & then u r answerable to d people of d family kyunki jungle raaz nhi chalta family ki jab chaho muh utha ke chal do bina bataye, ye koi azaadi nhi hai. No one is ur servant sitting in family who will keep searching u in whole city when d person don't know where r u & what PD stand for ?

We can agree to disagree.

Mauli from silsila serial was shown as working woman , I really love that lady.