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Originally posted by: uneorchide

there is difference between stan ing and outright obsession u need to learn the difference and draw the line b/c u r targeting and throwing sarcastic remarks when they're saying they dont like his acting seeming like an obsession

Okay 😊👍🏼.

Originally posted by: uneorchide

why sarcastic remarks targeting the members sharing their concerns under this topic? if they dont like neil's acting, they dont. why are some acting like a hormonal fangirl? some people dont have a life outside the internet and it shows

🤣

@bold

Can fangirls only be hormonal, lol, there is no equality in samaaj 🤣

I thought I could never be sarcastic ,koyi mujhe seriously leta hi nahi hai yaar🤣And you don't like his acting fine, it's your opinion, but,but ,but, if you can say you don't like acting of Neil by seeing the episode on the internet before it airs, so we said we like him, that's it. Kyun itna garma garmi if someone has the 9 when you have the 6.

And none supported Virat here, all were against him including me and many, but we are not dragging everything in the ITV to the future,everyone are being optimistic,that's it.

Aap karein toh pyaar,

Hum Karein toh gaddar....🤣

Originally posted by: Svt611

he is not married as yet... they are engaged!

and just because he is married or committed does not mean you cannot have a crush on him!

you can have a crush on anyone! I know many married men and women who crush on actors and actresses who are also married in real life!

Nobody is being obsessive... we know he is committed to aishwarya and will probably get married but even after marriage it will not stop fans from fangirling over him...

Umm people still have a crush on SRK, ranveer, ranbir, akshay, barun sobti, nakuul mehta, madhuri dixit, priyanka choprs, deepika, aishwarya rai.... and so many more

I thought crush and love are different, abhi mujhe crush hone se darr lag raha hai yaar🤣

Originally posted by: uneorchide

there is difference between stan ing and outright obsession u need to learn the difference and draw the line b/c u r targeting and throwing sarcastic remarks when they're saying they dont like his acting seeming like an obsession

@bold

Sorry,what? 🤣

Doesn't seem so seeing the topic🤣

This thread took a different turn. I guess having a crush on a handsome actor is against the law. Please don’t arrest me!😖

Originally posted by: Nutella03

This thread took a different turn. I guess having a crush on a handsome actor is against the law. Please don’t arrest me!😖

me two!! i am going to be charged a lot for crushing on many married handsome actors.... i'll go hide so that no one can catch me 😎

Originally posted by: uneorchide

read the comments under the post anyways stop tagging me ive seen u say disgusting nasty 18 + things (not the thread) on some posts whenever a serious topic on virat was going on to divert it, i dont want to talk to u and thats on periodt

You just talked..........🤣

You only saw that, and my friends see who I am by my heart,not by my comments,that's enough for me.....lots of love to you anyway,cuz I don't judge by people's comments, lots of positivity for you dear🤗

Originally posted by: Svt611

me two!! i am going to be charged a lot for crushing on many married handsome actors.... i'll go hide so that no one can catch me 😎

I am going underground then😎

Closed for a review!

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