I respect you Forumwasis 😊 - Page 2

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

That is so true. I'm so glad that GHKKPM forum is the forum where I first decided to become a member. Though I joined for the show. I stayed for the people. Even during the time, I stopped watching the show, I didn't stop coming to the forum. There's such maturity (sorry for using this word🤣) real wali maturity here in the people. So encouraging, loving and accepting of different perspectives. Feels so good to be a part of the forum❤️❤️

Same here

I didn't watch the show when virat was absent but i visited the forum almost daily

In between our rant sometimes to support sai or virat people here dont cross limit and respect everyone's opinion.

Originally posted by: shiva02

SO aj hua kuchh yun ki

I visited a forum of a fellow show of the same channel as ours and damn the way the fans there are ready to defend their favs by some very interesting ways (hope you note the sarcasm here😉)

SO

I am PROUD to be a part of ghum forum that is may I say one of the most sane forum on Indiaforums. They can call spade a spade. They know when to criticise and when to appreciate and think neutrally.

I really respect you guys each and everyone of you😳

I can understand environment everywhere on social media is so toxic. Negativity everywhere. This forum is a nice place as compared to others.

Completely agree with you

I joined IF in 2009 (old account forgot name also)

We bashed actor & characters not members that's what i love about Ghum forum

I agree on this 😊 all have their own favorite or neutral but never crossed the limits in justifying their favorites ❤️ one healthy forum where we can call out whenever either FL/ML did a mistake and have a discussion on that ❤️

Originally posted by: Moonks

Ikr they don't call a cheater ,cheater because his first wife knows about his second wife so this is not cheating because cheating is done behind someone's back but what about second wife who does not even know her husband had a wife already before he married and they are hell bent on proving the second wife is a villian just to protect the guy I mean what would you call your partner if he is married with you but will again get married without divorcing you and will simply tell you he is getting married to someone else and you will not say he cheated on you just because you know that he cheated on you so he is not a cheater. But not to disrespect anyone but if someone points out that he is a cheater then they will bash you so hard

Why am I feeling that I know this show and I curse when it tops the trp?🤣If I am thinking right, then the guy has guts,do do shaadi karli hai,himmat aur maintainance toh dekho.

Originally posted by: basherz

it is illegal if challenged. Polygamy isn't illegal if remain unchallenged. I know of a family member who was deceived into marrying a guy, who claimed he was still unmarried & only realized after marriage, he already had a somewhat mentally challenged wife (somewhat because she seemed to be suffering from PTSD or something untreated, she could make her decisions & do her chores).

But she chose to stay in marriage, as her earlier marriage was a disaster & got a divorce - her husband used to drink a lot, beat her blue & black, had other women for his company - this is over 40-50yrs ago, in those days a divorcee getting remarried was a big thing & she compromised herself of not going through this entire process & burdening the family again. The guy she married was a good guy otherwise.

My old flats builder was a muslim & he had 3 wives, I'm not well versed with muslim law but as far as I have heard (from few muslim friends) - man can marry upto 5 women at a time without the necessity of a divorce. I may be wrong w.r.t muslim laws, as I confessed earlier I'm not well versed with them but I have seen plenty of muslim men with more than one wife.

I'm a Muslim. Yes, in Islam a man can have 4 wives. But, there reasons for the same. If the first wife is unable to bear a child the man can remarry but he has to take the permission from the first wife. Only then can go ahead with the second marriage. You can't just marry again and again for your own selfish reasons. I have heard that Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) had many wives and it seems He married because all of these ladies had noone to look after them and to protect them from the evil eyes of men He took this step. But, now men are taking undue advantage of this rule. Sometimes I feel why do we have such a rule. It has become a fashion of sorts.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I'm a Muslim. Yes, in Islam a man can have 4 wives. But, there reasons for the same. If the first wife is unable to bear a child the man can remarry but he has to take the permission from the first wife. Only then can go ahead with the second marriage. You can't just marry again and again for your own selfish reasons. I have heard that Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) had many wives and it seems He married because all of these ladies had noone to look after them and to protect them from the evil eyes of men He took this step. But, now men are taking undue advantage of this rule. Sometimes I feel why do we have such a rule. It has become a fashion of sorts.

I am not from islam, but I do know what you are trying to say, I have read Mohammed Paigambar ji's history.😊

And even in hinduism ,Polygamy does exist,I dont know if their are certain set of rules,but most of the times they were due to political reasons,as in kings or as someone pointed out, if a woman is childless. But,they did not entertain this, nowadays they twist all these according to them🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

I am not from islam, but I do know what you are trying to say, I have read Mohammed Paigambar ji's history.😊

And even in hinduism ,Polygamy does exist,I dont know if their are certain set of rules,but most of the times they were due to political reasons,as in kings or as someone pointed out, if a woman is childless. But,they did not entertain this, nowadays they twist all these according to them🤦‍♀️

Yes, and it's pathetic.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Why am I feeling that I know this show and I curse when it tops the trp?🤣If I am thinking right, then the guy has guts,do do shaadi karli hai,himmat aur maintainance toh dekho.

May be we all know the show but not saying the name for obvious reasons but I was talking about healthy criticism which is allowed on this forum and not there if someone is criticising the show they will say that you are not allowed here because you don't have the brains to understand the guy and his amazing thinking🤣.

My two fav forums ghkkpm and immj2 here criticism and appreciation are allowed

Originally posted by: Moonks

May be we all know the show but not saying the name for obvious reasons but I was talking about healthy criticism which is allowed on this forum and not there if someone is criticising the show they will say that you are not allowed here because you don't have the brains to understand the guy and his amazing thinking🤣.

My two fav forums ghkkpm and immj2 here criticism and appreciation are allowed

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Then they should simply study science ,that only 99 percent of genetic combination is same and other 1 percent is different which is enough to create each and every human being different from each other. Thoughts are part if the brain and you cannot control it ,it controls you. And one should never force their thoughts on the other. That is why I love this forum,no one restricts you for anything😊🤗