Pyaar agar sacha ho, bichhde mil jaate hai... - Page 2

Wonderful post as usual ❤️❤️

I loved the episode.. Deviyani portrayed beautifully today as well, her helplessness, recognising pulkit, fear, longing, everything on point...

Lovely analysis jankiji as usual rocked, but after seeing today's episode little scared that after 2 days they will defn show Virat against Sai😡, so we have to be ready to see n face everything but already iska aadat pad gayi hum fans ke liye.

Again drama shama hohayega, sai ghar ke bahar saach Saamne aaja a, Virat use manana, then all again from the beginning 😂

Jokes apart, but really want hindi version to be different from the other two as I already told Neil's role as Virat is excellent n different compared to other versions, so I am keeping fingers crossed.

Sai as usual gud no overacting, Ashwini motherly gesture awesome I wish Devyani could hav been her daughter.

Mohit hats off to him👌👍

Performance Bhavani, Sonali, Ninad n Omkar rocked typical housie villans👍

Pakhi pale reaction as if she has got nothing to do with anything though really she has got nothing to do expect pinpointing Sai as usual!!!

Episode was worth watching.

Finally by this week Pulkit-Devi track ko ek zindagi mil gayi aur next topic agle hafte shuru ho jayegi.

Thanks and Regards

Aarthi

gd morning janaki and co...

I literally got mild attack watching virat. i was expecting him to shout at sai,but no..

If the slapping scenario was not there,the ball would have been definetly in chavans court... ninad gussaey mein lost his thinking power.

lagtha hey aaj love guru ka tea skip hogaya ki kaku gang ka plan utter flop... kal sab chai peeyangae aur nishaana sahi lagega.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌻🌼🌄🌷

Power packed punch delivered to Makad Sena by joint effort of those who hear the voice of their consciences.. that's what it essentially was.

So Virat recognises Pulkit as someone who once lived in Chavan niwas -- the story is not yet completely told and may be well get if in the upcoming episodes but the biggest unanswered question:

Where was Virat when Devyani and Pulkit married 10 years ago?

I have been ranting about the same since so many days, infact if u remember i wrote on ur post GHKPM time line sucks, 1st episode Virat was 28, when he brought Sai home (I did see the episode again just to confirm) When Shivani said shaadi hogai, Kaku said tumse yahi tho seekha hai u look for guys half ur age and now Virat also married a girl half of his age. infact reception pay usse cribing wale relatives nay tana mara tha age difference ko lake, uss hisab say Virat is 36 (36 and no posting not possible)

So Pulkit says, "tum academy me padhai Kar rahe thay"... Which academy? I'm guessing he was enrolled in some academy to crack his civil services examination or pursuing an undergraduate course because it definitely can't be the police academy 10 years ago if he got his first IPS posting now. There's no point calculating his age. 😅

The fact came as a shocker for Virat and also kind of diverted his attention from the hand raising -- because his response to Ninad was pretty tepid. There was no warning to not repeat, no chastising. I doubt about that coz right now he is bhai mode, he is already ashamed of what his family is upto. But yeah I hope he gives a strong massage of no one in future should think of hitting his wife,

It was a simple, "Aapko Shobha deta hai kya Bahu par haath Uthana" and Pulkit caught his attention -- would like to give benefit of doubt today because the scene will continue and there is hope that the concluding remarks would have something for Ninad and Omkar as well -- Omkar's anger was so palpable the actor did a fine job at portraying how he was exercising control once Virat had stepped into the scene. Sonali was obviously being true to her character and I loved how Virat decided to abort his response -- it is not the first time that he's ignored Sonali. She's the last person he tried to engage in and slowly Vedi Vahini is stepping into the same category.

Ninad's 'jab koi hadh paar kare toh baaki sab kaabu se bahar ho jaata hai' would also apply to how Devyani will eventually be reunited with her husband.

So the episode was to make up for Virat missing yesterday 😅 today he came, he saw, he deciphered, he did "insaan ko padhna" and was able to tell the lies from the truth -- Bhavani's pretense and Devyani's genuine happiness combined with her fear. The moment tugged hearts of those who could feel the helplessness at the condition this beautiful woman is in. I feel bad for poor chap, he was angry, sharminda, it was like his family has broken his trust, know they wont show this He said to sai ones his fam ppl are dil kay ache, and here we have often discussed that. Obviously, we all think about our family like wise, but with time we realize that there are dark secrets in the family that often make u think twice.

He noted the keywords Devyani used -- right from mujhe Yaad hai Aai jhoot bol rahi hai to they will hurt us again, they will kill us, main beemar hoon, Aai keeps giving me medicines to put me to sleep (Did Ninad appear surprised at this?)... It was all a shocker. The perfect canvas of the Chavan family portrait came undone -- in that moment it was evident that the family which prides in the legacy of an IPS officer Nagesh Chavan and speaks of discipline, respect and honour is actually hiding behind the canvas a dirty, dark secret that reeks of crime, conceit and cold-blooded approach to separate a married couple -- all in the name of tarnished reputation and "barabari". I so agree to it. I felt bad for the poor hcap must be thinking yeh meri family hai na, I hope they show about he having tough to digest all these things.

Bhavani could not hold back her contemptuous reasoning for denying the daughter her happiness and reducing her to the mental state she is in -- Naukar Ka beta Nagesh Chavan ki beti se Shaadi kaise Kar Sakta hai? That admission came after her initial attempt to cover up the truth with her loud lies. But the cat was already out of the bag... One must wonder that the secret within the family has been hidden to prevent any kind of dissent arising from the disillusion that members might feel with the power centre -- those with the conscience would never approve of it or see Queen Bhavani and her stooges in the same light as before. Especially the sons -- they are the ones who had to be shielded from learning this truth.

Virat asked the right question: Kis zamane me jee rahi Hain aap? Fine you had a problem then, but what is the problem now that you can't correct the mistake?

But the reason is the most common cause of estranged families - ego. Very often when children make their choices in life, especially those concerning spouses, parents who disapprove for the wrong reasons cannot come around for years together. They cannot see anything good in a person whose intentios and value systems would be in the right place if not the bank balance and the 'image' that the social status demands. The estrangement does not end, especially if the disapproving parents are unable to accept their 'mistake' in separating lovers -- because it can't be a 'mistake' to protect the family's honour. Unfortunately, success and worthiness of people is judged only on the parameters of their bank balance and not on the other factors that decide success and worthiness.

Virat should be able to see from this example once it's done and dusted that his family is never going to accept Sai the way he wishes -- for this umeed pa duniya kayam hai, Viat is TVholic, he msut have seen lot of tv in childhood to think that when women makes effort family after like 400-500 episodes acknowledges, U know he thinks his family will also certainly do that. if he's been blind to his mother's standing in the house even after spending three decades there and not cared to really ask someone like Shivani what she has been through, he should now know that the Ghar ke bade are far from 'dil ke acche' and Sai does not need to take up this futile project -- not even for him.

When he mentioned how Sai had asked him about Devyani's marital status and he couldn't reply, he appeared to be telling the family how she was trying to 'involve' him so that she's not blamed for the entire scene as usual. But in their private space, Virat needs to emphasise on the fact that she cannot go for such a head on dive into the choppy waters in his absence and without even sounding him off... This had led to turn of events, Sai thought she failed so she said Virat will tell him later, and after that she got a schoker of life when Pulkit told her everything, In mandir she must have thought yaarpuja karle ghar jake tho drama hona hai, she wanst expecting Virat to be taking entire episode to bring bail leaves which were still missing from his hand. Not in matters concerning the family. Had he been given even the slightest clue about this issue, he would have handled it even better.

For Bhavani, it doesn't matter who Pulkit is today. That he's a famous doctor and has reached an equal standing in the society is of no importance because she has long crossed that part of her objection. He was then "unworthy", and now he's "uninvited". To accept the relationship now would mean acknowledging the 'sin' and perhaps reveal the bigger secret that is still under the wraps according to her -- the child that Devyani bore, who was definitely separated from her in a sinister act.

Will Devyani ask or tell Pulkit about losing their baby? She possibly doesn't even know if it's a son or daughter... This there was a episode when Devyani did mention to Sai she had a son. but now its a daughter (anyways CV's phir bhul gaye we remember everything) My heart went out to Devyani today. mine too

Her suffering has been so immense. Her hesitation at holding Pulkit's hand and being terrified of Bhavani's silent warning from the distance to finally giving in and the feeling the sudden sense of pride and relief she felt after Sai instilled the confidence in her -- it was poignant... That after her initial confusion at why her Pulkit looked different -- she's naturally stuck in time 8 years ago.

Three whistles to all those who spoke at appropriate places today:

#Shivani for shutting up Bhavani and stating the blunt truth: the two people have been reduced to dead persons, what's left in them? If they want to breathe life into their lives, let them be...

I mentioned yesterday and I repeat: just because Devyani was allowed to be breathing, isn't her present condition as good as honour killing?

#Ashwini for stating how proud she was in Sai and how correct she has been in supporting her all along.

The moment of the day:

To me, the moment of the day was when Ashwini walked up to Devyani and asked Pulkit, "Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho?"

The pride she felt as a mother for Devyani and Sai -- the kaala teeka for Devyani and the reaction Devyani had to being reminded how she's dressed up so beautifully ❤️🥰 it was such a lovely moment.

One can totally picture Sai, Aai and Shivani dressing up Devyani for the bidaai that Sai warned Bhavani about 😂

#Mohit for shutting up Badi Vahini in his sassy style -- because Virat has actually stopped reacting to her 😅 This was fun, I think we dont Sai now to answer back Pakhi, Mohit hai na

#And of course, loudest whistle for venom-wali vahini herself for not being able to keep her mouth shut 😂

But seriously, ye Vahini ki beizzati ki height ho gayi hai... Jisse Dekho aakar vahini ki beizzati Kar deta hai... even 15 minutes pehle entry maara hua Pulkit ended up doing Vahini's beizzati-- really:

-Pulkit to Devyani - Meri Zindagi aur Dil mein tumhare alava koi aur Nahi hai (Yaad aaya🥺🥺)

Isn't this a direct dukhti rag par haath rakhna for Vahini? How can Pulkit mouth the same dialogues as her imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband has conveniently forgotten in his dhokebaazi 😟🙄😒

- Pulkit to Virat - Tum lucky ho tumhe Sai jaisi suljhi hui, samajhdaar aur sabki khushiyon Ka khayal rakhne wali Patni Mili hai

This was epic for me, like i had a good laugh, I was like really Sai should have jumped in said, Please PD sir, dubara bolo yaha tho everyone says I am immature bla bla bla, and the pride in Virat's face, oye ganjni u are the one who often tell u immature, u need to remember that.

Need I describe how this amounted to Vahini's beizzati? Unka utra hua chehra hi Dekh Lena... a stopped clock is also right twice a day so the 'latka hua face' works in some places by default 😂😂

And to add insult to injury, Pulkit to Virat-- tum Sai ki khushiyon Ka khayal Rakho..

Vahini was still standing strong after all that. Applause. 🙏🙄

But thankfully, at the point where Ninad raised his hand to hit Sai, Vahini reacted as expected -- in shock. It was a consolation that she has not yet subscribed to violence being used. But not too far, I guess.

But, honestly, am still cross with Pulkit because he has comprised on Sai and she will be specifically targeted while the evil Mandali chalks out the plan to separate Devyani and Pulkit again. That even i found it vague, like she s one who brought me here, tho kal se tum sab isse target karna, Pakhi u have new content now goahead appni bezati karao.

Mohit has really discovered his long tongue 😛 and what to say, even her "Ghar chhodhh Kar jaane dijiye" blackmail doesn't work with Mohit because he will more than willingly hold the exit doors open for her 😂

It was sweet that Mohit and Karishma too had a smile of support on their faces -- Karishma, for a change, silently backing the 'right' and hopefully she will remain silent.

Waise vahini ne return hote huye imaginary husband ko bola tha -- agar ek Baar bhi meri beizzati huyi toh main hamesha ke liye Ghar chhodhh Kar chali jaungi.

When will she start counting?

Patralekha's 'ghar parivaar ki izzat' concern is obviously as shallow as her susheelta. She could see the whole cover up and Devyani's mental state and story of heartbreak is in front of her. As a woman, who has been in a similar place with her so-called heart break, one would expect her to at least have some sympathy if not empathy for Devyani

But no, our Mallika-e-Maturity has her task well defined -- he scope of her thought begins and ends with pulling Sai down and imagining herself in the seat next to her imaginary Husband.

No wonder, the Precap is a preview into her 'apni Patni Ka Saath de rahe ho'. For this I have a tag line tumhara saath payaar aur inka saath parivar kay khilaf. That woman is not as obsessed with Virat as she is with Sai, Her problem started from the day she saw !st night pat Virat kay kurte pay lipstik ka nichan

Bhavani must be really confident about Vahini's influence on Virat even after witnessing how he's snubbing her and ignoring her all the time. May be Bhavani perceives Virat's lack of response to vahini as his being in agreement with what she says?😅 Warna, Virat Tumhari baat sunta hai is only a joke. You should see positive in every situtation balike, na yeh log pakhi charadte na Pakhi who has pissed Sai phele has pissed virat now. He completely gets Pakhi will do everything opposite of what Sai will do. So next time when Sai has to make Pakhi do something she does the opposite and automatically she will get what she wants, and coz of these Sairat is slowly becoming Sairat, they are bigger shipper then us,

******

Rigidity regarding caste and 'honour' and treating women as men's possession are the prime reasons for honour killings.

When Pride and Honour are used in the same breath, it can turn into an oxymoron unless accompanied by the purity of thoughts and integrity in intentions. A false sense of pride -- which is accompanied by vanity-- can actually sacrifice everything that honour may have achieved..

As Krsna has said:

Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna.

As they say, a hundred years cannot repair a moment's loss of honour. Can these Ghar ke bade have any redemption?

Today I can think of only one song:

"mana jane wale laut ke kab aate hain

doob ke suraj taare phir se nikal aate hain

pyar agar sacha ho bichhde mil jaate hai

hanste hanste kat jaye raste

zindagi yun hi chalti rahe

khushi mile ya gam

badlenge na hum

duniya chahe badalti rahe"

Let's ponder over ☕☕☕☕☕ 🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵 and exchange lots of 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 and ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Let today be your day to face your fears too-- may your beauty, courage, honour, hope and purity replenish the confidence you own 🌷🌷🌺🥰🤩🤩

Lots of love

❤️J

Very nice post as always though i had good expectations from them for the makers for a good episode for me it was average, living few things,

By the way I did saw a picture of CN ldies in Madir, so shaadi mandir main hogi where Pakhi will bring Harini and the drama starts. I guess that is when it will revealed to family members that Harini is devkit ki daughter. and probably in future we get to know it was kaku who told Deviyani taht her child is nomore, interesting would be what story they show us, and Sai already knows about Harini, This is where I expect her to tell Virat about Harini atleast in Private and let virat investigate the same.

In last few episodes, did karishma toned down her 👁️ rolling expression or she genuinely was not excited for the family drama 🤔

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌻🌼🌄🌷

Power packed punch delivered to Makad Sena by joint effort of those who hear the voice of their consciences.. that's what it essentially was.

So Virat recognises Pulkit as someone who once lived in Chavan niwas -- the story is not yet completely told and may be well get if in the upcoming episodes but the biggest unanswered question:

Where was Virat when Devyani and Pulkit married 10 years ago?

So Pulkit says, "tum academy me padhai Kar rahe thay"... Which academy? I'm guessing he was enrolled in some academy to crack his civil services examination or pursuing an undergraduate course because it definitely can't be the police academy 10 years ago if he got his first IPS posting now. There's no point calculating his age. 😅

My Question Exacttly!!ACP Saheb kitne saal ke hai???

The fact came as a shocker for Virat and also kind of diverted his attention from the hand raising -- because his response to Ninad was pretty tepid. There was no warning to not repeat, no chastising. It was a simple, "Aapko Shobha deta hai kya Bahu par haath Uthana" and Pulkit caught his attention -- would like to give benefit of doubt today because the scene will continue and there is hope that the concluding remarks would have something for Ninad and Omkar as well -- Omkar's anger was so palpable the actor did a fine job at portraying how he was exercising control once Virat had stepped into the scene. Sonali was obviously being true to her character and I loved how Virat decided to abort his response -- it is not the first time that he's ignored Sonali. She's the last person he tried to engage in and slowly Vedi Vahini is stepping into the same category.

Aapki umeed par apni umeed ki lau jala li, warna toh Virat ka statement sun kar , I was like..Ninad ka Beta bola..😔

Ninad's 'jab koi hadh paar kare toh baaki sab kaabu se bahar ho jaata hai' would also apply to how Devyani will eventually be reunited with her husband.

So the episode was to make up for Virat missing yesterday 😅 today he came, he saw, he deciphered, he did "insaan ko padhna" and was able to tell the lies from the truth -- Bhavani's pretense and Devyani's genuine happiness combined with her fear. The moment tugged hearts of those who could feel the helplessness at the condition this beautiful woman is in.

Shivji is like: 1008 bilvapatri kaha hai??

He noted the keywords Devyani used -- right from mujhe Yaad hai Aai jhoot bol rahi hai to they will hurt us again, they will kill us, main beemar hoon, Aai keeps giving me medicines to put me to sleep (Did Ninad appear surprised at this?)... It was all a shocker. The perfect canvas of the Chavan family portrait came undone -- in that moment it was evident that the family which prides in the legacy of an IPS officer Nagesh Chavan and speaks of discipline, respect and honour is actually hiding behind the canvas a dirty, dark secret that reeks of crime, conceit and cold-blooded approach to separate a married couple -- all in the name of tarnished reputation and "barabari".

Bhavani could not hold back her contemptuous reasoning for denying the daughter her happiness and reducing her to the mental state she is in -- Naukar Ka beta Nagesh Chavan ki beti se Shaadi kaise Kar Sakta hai? That admission came after her initial attempt to cover up the truth with her loud lies. But the cat was already out of the bag... One must wonder that the secret within the family has been hidden to prevent any kind of dissent arising from the disillusion that members might feel with the power centre -- those with the conscience would never approve of it or see Queen Bhavani and her stooges in the same light as before. Especially the sons -- they are the ones who had to be shielded from learning this truth.

Virat asked the right question: Kis zamane me jee rahi Hain aap? Fine you had a problem then, but what is the problem now that you can't correct the mistake?

But the reason is the most common cause of estranged families - ego. Very often when children make their choices in life, especially those concerning spouses, parents who disapprove for the wrong reasons cannot come around for years together. They cannot see anything good in a person whose intentios and value systems would be in the right place if not the bank balance and the 'image' that the social status demands. The estrangement does not end, especially if the disapproving parents are unable to accept their 'mistake' in separating lovers -- because it can't be a 'mistake' to protect the family's honour. Unfortunately, success and worthiness of people is judged only on the parameters of their bank balance and not on the other factors that decide success and worthiness.

Virat should be able to see from this example once it's done and dusted that his family is never going to accept Sai the way he wishes -- if he's been blind to his mother's standing in the house even after spending three decades there and not cared to really ask someone like Shivani what she has been through, he should now know that the Ghar ke bade are far from 'dil ke acche' and Sai does not need to take up this futile project -- not even for him.

😔😔😔😔After few thousand years..still waiting for Dil ache gharwale to accept Sai..

When will makers move from the family acceptance thing..Am I the only one who came to see a love story rather than family drama..they can show love story when sai and virat live seperated from this madhouse..

When he mentioned how Sai had asked him about Devyani's marital status and he couldn't reply, he appeared to be telling the family how she was trying to 'involve' him so that she's not blamed for the entire scene as usual. But in their private space, Virat needs to emphasise on the fact that she cannot go for such a head on dive into the choppy waters in his absence and without even sounding him off... Not in matters concerning the family. Had he been given even the slightest clue about this issue, he would have handled it even better.

For Bhavani, it doesn't matter who Pulkit is today. That he's a famous doctor and has reached an equal standing in the society is of no importance because she has long crossed that part of her objection. He was then "unworthy", and now he's "uninvited". To accept the relationship now would mean acknowledging the 'sin' and perhaps reveal the bigger secret that is still under the wraps according to her -- the child that Devyani bore, who was definitely separated from her in a sinister act.

Will Devyani ask or tell Pulkit about losing their baby? She possibly doesn't even know if it's a son or daughter... My heart went out to Devyani today. Her suffering has been so immense. Her hesitation at holding Pulkit's hand and being terrified of Bhavani's silent warning from the distance to finally giving in and the feeling the sudden sense of pride and relief she felt after Sai instilled the confidence in her -- it was poignant... That after her initial confusion at why her Pulkit looked different -- she's naturally stuck in time 8 years ago.

Three whistles to all those who spoke at appropriate places today:

#Shivani for shutting up Bhavani and stating the blunt truth: the two people have been reduced to dead persons, what's left in them? If they want to breathe life into their lives, let them be...

I mentioned yesterday and I repeat: just because Devyani was allowed to be breathing, isn't her present condition as good as honour killing?

🥳🥳🥳🥳👏👏👏

#Ashwini for stating how proud she was in Sai and how correct she has been in supporting her all along.

The moment of the day:

To me, the moment of the day was when Ashwini walked up to Devyani and asked Pulkit, "Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho?"

The pride she felt as a mother for Devyani and Sai -- the kaala teeka for Devyani and the reaction Devyani had to being reminded how she's dressed up so beautifully ❤️🥰 it was such a lovely moment.

One can totally picture Sai, Aai and Shivani dressing up Devyani for the bidaai that Sai warned Bhavani about 😂

🥰😍😍🤗💞💗💥💯

#Mohit for shutting up Badi Vahini in his sassy style -- because Virat has actually stopped reacting to her

#And of course, loudest whistle for venom-wali vahini herself for not being able to keep her mouth shut 💥💥💥💥💥💓💓💓😹😈🥳🥳🥳🥳👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

But seriously, ye Vahini ki beizzati ki height ho gayi hai... Jisse Dekho aakar vahini ki beizzati Kar deta hai... even 15 minutes pehle entry maara hua Pulkit ended up doing Vahini's beizzati-- really:

-Pulkit to Devyani - Meri Zindagi aur Dil mein tumhare alava koi aur Nahi hai (Yaad aaya🥺🥺)

Isn't this a direct dukhti rag par haath rakhna for Vahini? How can Pulkit mouth the same dialogues as her imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband has conveniently forgotten in his dhokebaazi 😟🙄😒

- Pulkit to Virat - Tum lucky ho tumhe Sai jaisi suljhi hui, samajhdaar aur sabki khushiyon Ka khayal rakhne wali Patni Mili hai

Need I describe how this amounted to Vahini's beizzati? Unka utra hua chehra hi Dekh Lena... a stopped clock is also right twice a day so the 'latka hua face' works in some places by default 😂😂

And to add insult to injury, Pulkit to Virat-- tum Sai ki khushiyon Ka khayal Rakho..

Vahini was still standing strong after all that. Applause. 🙏🙄

But thankfully, at the point where Ninad raised his hand to hit Sai, Vahini reacted as expected -- in shock. It was a consolation that she has not yet subscribed to violence being used. But not too far, I guess.

But, honestly, am still cross with Pulkit because he has comprised on Sai and she will be specifically targeted while the evil Mandali chalks out the plan to separate Devyani and Pulkit again.

Mohit has really discovered his long tongue 😛 and what to say, even her "Ghar chhodhh Kar jaane dijiye" blackmail doesn't work with Mohit because he will more than willingly hold the exit doors open for her 😂

It was sweet that Mohit and Karishma too had a smile of support on their faces -- Karishma, for a change, silently backing the 'right' and hopefully she will remain silent.

Waise vahini ne return hote huye imaginary husband ko bola tha -- agar ek Baar bhi meri beizzati huyi toh main hamesha ke liye Ghar chhodhh Kar chali jaungi.

When will she start counting?

Patralekha's 'ghar parivaar ki izzat' concern is obviously as shallow as her susheelta. She could see the whole cover up and Devyani's mental state and story of heartbreak is in front of her. As a woman, who has been in a similar place with her so-called heart break, one would expect her to at least have some sympathy if not empathy for Devyani

My point exactly, she plays hurt; forgotsake her whole character is based on the same pain of "Pyaar se Bichadna" in her own delusional mind..

She should be the one, who should fight tooth and nail for Devyani rather than singinging her Izzat rant..

Virat should ask her as well!!Kaunse zamane mei rehti ho????, and where did her this izzat bhashan went when she imagined Virat doing all the marriage rituals while she was seated next to samrat?

Not only that, she makes an elaborate plan in future to seperate Devyani and Pulkit by writing a fake letter or makers are going to redeem the character??

But no, our Mallika-e-Maturity has her task well defined -- he scope of her thought begins and ends with pulling Sai down and imagining herself in the seat next to her imaginary Husband.

No wonder, the Precap is a preview into her 'apni Patni Ka Saath de rahe ho'.

Bhavani must be really confident about Vahini's influence on Virat even after witnessing how he's snubbing her and ignoring her all the time. May be Bhavani perceives Virat's lack of response to vahini as his being in agreement with what she says?😅 Warna, Virat Tumhari baat sunta hai is only a joke.

******

Rigidity regarding caste and 'honour' and treating women as men's possession are the prime reasons for honour killings.

When Pride and Honour are used in the same breath, it can turn into an oxymoron unless accompanied by the purity of thoughts and integrity in intentions. A false sense of pride -- which is accompanied by vanity-- can actually sacrifice everything that honour may have achieved..

As Krsna has said:

Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna.

As they say, a hundred years cannot repair a moment's loss of honour. Can these Ghar ke bade have any redemption?

Today I can think of only one song:

"mana jane wale laut ke kab aate hain

doob ke suraj taare phir se nikal aate hain

pyar agar sacha ho bichhde mil jaate hai

hanste hanste kat jaye raste

zindagi yun hi chalti rahe

khushi mile ya gam

badlenge na hum

duniya chahe badalti rahe"

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Let today be your day to face your fears too-- may your beauty, courage, honour, hope and purity replenish the confidence you own 🌷🌷🌺🥰🤩🤩

Lots of love

❤️J

As usual wonderful...points💞

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌻🌼🌄🌷

Power packed punch delivered to Makad Sena by joint effort of those who hear the voice of their consciences.. that's what it essentially was.

So Virat recognises Pulkit as someone who once lived in Chavan niwas -- the story is not yet completely told and may be well get if in the upcoming episodes but the biggest unanswered question:

Where was Virat when Devyani and Pulkit married 10 years ago?

So Pulkit says, "tum academy me padhai Kar rahe thay"... Which academy? I'm guessing he was enrolled in some academy to crack his civil services examination or pursuing an undergraduate course because it definitely can't be the police academy 10 years ago if he got his first IPS posting now. There's no point calculating his age. 😅

The fact came as a shocker for Virat and also kind of diverted his attention from the hand raising -- because his response to Ninad was pretty tepid. There was no warning to not repeat, no chastising. It was a simple, "Aapko Shobha deta hai kya Bahu par haath Uthana" and Pulkit caught his attention -- would like to give benefit of doubt today because the scene will continue and there is hope that the concluding remarks would have something for Ninad and Omkar as well -- Omkar's anger was so palpable the actor did a fine job at portraying how he was exercising control once Virat had stepped into the scene. Sonali was obviously being true to her character and I loved how Virat decided to abort his response -- it is not the first time that he's ignored Sonali. She's the last person he tried to engage in and slowly Vedi Vahini is stepping into the same category.

Ninad's 'jab koi hadh paar kare toh baaki sab kaabu se bahar ho jaata hai' would also apply to how Devyani will eventually be reunited with her husband.

So the episode was to make up for Virat missing yesterday 😅 today he came, he saw, he deciphered, he did "insaan ko padhna" and was able to tell the lies from the truth -- Bhavani's pretense and Devyani's genuine happiness combined with her fear. The moment tugged hearts of those who could feel the helplessness at the condition this beautiful woman is in.

He noted the keywords Devyani used -- right from mujhe Yaad hai Aai jhoot bol rahi hai to they will hurt us again, they will kill us, main beemar hoon, Aai keeps giving me medicines to put me to sleep (Did Ninad appear surprised at this?)... It was all a shocker. The perfect canvas of the Chavan family portrait came undone -- in that moment it was evident that the family which prides in the legacy of an IPS officer Nagesh Chavan and speaks of discipline, respect and honour is actually hiding behind the canvas a dirty, dark secret that reeks of crime, conceit and cold-blooded approach to separate a married couple -- all in the name of tarnished reputation and "barabari".

Bhavani could not hold back her contemptuous reasoning for denying the daughter her happiness and reducing her to the mental state she is in -- Naukar Ka beta Nagesh Chavan ki beti se Shaadi kaise Kar Sakta hai? That admission came after her initial attempt to cover up the truth with her loud lies. But the cat was already out of the bag... One must wonder that the secret within the family has been hidden to prevent any kind of dissent arising from the disillusion that members might feel with the power centre -- those with the conscience would never approve of it or see Queen Bhavani and her stooges in the same light as before. Especially the sons -- they are the ones who had to be shielded from learning this truth.

Virat asked the right question: Kis zamane me jee rahi Hain aap? Fine you had a problem then, but what is the problem now that you can't correct the mistake?

But the reason is the most common cause of estranged families - ego. Very often when children make their choices in life, especially those concerning spouses, parents who disapprove for the wrong reasons cannot come around for years together. They cannot see anything good in a person whose intentios and value systems would be in the right place if not the bank balance and the 'image' that the social status demands. The estrangement does not end, especially if the disapproving parents are unable to accept their 'mistake' in separating lovers -- because it can't be a 'mistake' to protect the family's honour. Unfortunately, success and worthiness of people is judged only on the parameters of their bank balance and not on the other factors that decide success and worthiness.

Virat should be able to see from this example once it's done and dusted that his family is never going to accept Sai the way he wishes -- if he's been blind to his mother's standing in the house even after spending three decades there and not cared to really ask someone like Shivani what she has been through, he should now know that the Ghar ke bade are far from 'dil ke acche' and Sai does not need to take up this futile project -- not even for him.

When he mentioned how Sai had asked him about Devyani's marital status and he couldn't reply, he appeared to be telling the family how she was trying to 'involve' him so that she's not blamed for the entire scene as usual. But in their private space, Virat needs to emphasise on the fact that she cannot go for such a head on dive into the choppy waters in his absence and without even sounding him off... Not in matters concerning the family. Had he been given even the slightest clue about this issue, he would have handled it even better.

For Bhavani, it doesn't matter who Pulkit is today. That he's a famous doctor and has reached an equal standing in the society is of no importance because she has long crossed that part of her objection. He was then "unworthy", and now he's "uninvited". To accept the relationship now would mean acknowledging the 'sin' and perhaps reveal the bigger secret that is still under the wraps according to her -- the child that Devyani bore, who was definitely separated from her in a sinister act.

Will Devyani ask or tell Pulkit about losing their baby? She possibly doesn't even know if it's a son or daughter... My heart went out to Devyani today. Her suffering has been so immense. Her hesitation at holding Pulkit's hand and being terrified of Bhavani's silent warning from the distance to finally giving in and the feeling the sudden sense of pride and relief she felt after Sai instilled the confidence in her -- it was poignant... That after her initial confusion at why her Pulkit looked different -- she's naturally stuck in time 8 years ago.

Three whistles to all those who spoke at appropriate places today:

#Shivani for shutting up Bhavani and stating the blunt truth: the two people have been reduced to dead persons, what's left in them? If they want to breathe life into their lives, let them be...

I mentioned yesterday and I repeat: just because Devyani was allowed to be breathing, isn't her present condition as good as honour killing?

#Ashwini for stating how proud she was in Sai and how correct she has been in supporting her all along.

The moment of the day:

To me, the moment of the day was when Ashwini walked up to Devyani and asked Pulkit, "Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho?"

The pride she felt as a mother for Devyani and Sai -- the kaala teeka for Devyani and the reaction Devyani had to being reminded how she's dressed up so beautifully ❤️🥰 it was such a lovely moment.

One can totally picture Sai, Aai and Shivani dressing up Devyani for the bidaai that Sai warned Bhavani about 😂

#Mohit for shutting up Badi Vahini in his sassy style -- because Virat has actually stopped reacting to her 😅

#And of course, loudest whistle for venom-wali vahini herself for not being able to keep her mouth shut 😂

But seriously, ye Vahini ki beizzati ki height ho gayi hai... Jisse Dekho aakar vahini ki beizzati Kar deta hai... even 15 minutes pehle entry maara hua Pulkit ended up doing Vahini's beizzati-- really:

-Pulkit to Devyani - Meri Zindagi aur Dil mein tumhare alava koi aur Nahi hai (Yaad aaya🥺🥺)

Isn't this a direct dukhti rag par haath rakhna for Vahini? How can Pulkit mouth the same dialogues as her imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband has conveniently forgotten in his dhokebaazi 😟🙄😒

- Pulkit to Virat - Tum lucky ho tumhe Sai jaisi suljhi hui, samajhdaar aur sabki khushiyon Ka khayal rakhne wali Patni Mili hai

Need I describe how this amounted to Vahini's beizzati? Unka utra hua chehra hi Dekh Lena... a stopped clock is also right twice a day so the 'latka hua face' works in some places by default 😂😂

And to add insult to injury, Pulkit to Virat-- tum Sai ki khushiyon Ka khayal Rakho..

Vahini was still standing strong after all that. Applause. 🙏🙄

But thankfully, at the point where Ninad raised his hand to hit Sai, Vahini reacted as expected -- in shock. It was a consolation that she has not yet subscribed to violence being used. But not too far, I guess.

But, honestly, am still cross with Pulkit because he has comprised on Sai and she will be specifically targeted while the evil Mandali chalks out the plan to separate Devyani and Pulkit again.

Mohit has really discovered his long tongue 😛 and what to say, even her "Ghar chhodhh Kar jaane dijiye" blackmail doesn't work with Mohit because he will more than willingly hold the exit doors open for her 😂

It was sweet that Mohit and Karishma too had a smile of support on their faces -- Karishma, for a change, silently backing the 'right' and hopefully she will remain silent.

Waise vahini ne return hote huye imaginary husband ko bola tha -- agar ek Baar bhi meri beizzati huyi toh main hamesha ke liye Ghar chhodhh Kar chali jaungi.

When will she start counting?

Patralekha's 'ghar parivaar ki izzat' concern is obviously as shallow as her susheelta. She could see the whole cover up and Devyani's mental state and story of heartbreak is in front of her. As a woman, who has been in a similar place with her so-called heart break, one would expect her to at least have some sympathy if not empathy for Devyani

But no, our Mallika-e-Maturity has her task well defined -- he scope of her thought begins and ends with pulling Sai down and imagining herself in the seat next to her imaginary Husband.

No wonder, the Precap is a preview into her 'apni Patni Ka Saath de rahe ho'.

Bhavani must be really confident about Vahini's influence on Virat even after witnessing how he's snubbing her and ignoring her all the time. May be Bhavani perceives Virat's lack of response to vahini as his being in agreement with what she says?😅 Warna, Virat Tumhari baat sunta hai is only a joke.

******

Rigidity regarding caste and 'honour' and treating women as men's possession are the prime reasons for honour killings.

When Pride and Honour are used in the same breath, it can turn into an oxymoron unless accompanied by the purity of thoughts and integrity in intentions. A false sense of pride -- which is accompanied by vanity-- can actually sacrifice everything that honour may have achieved..

As Krsna has said:

Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna.

As they say, a hundred years cannot repair a moment's loss of honour. Can these Ghar ke bade have any redemption?

Today I can think of only one song:

"mana jane wale laut ke kab aate hain

doob ke suraj taare phir se nikal aate hain

pyar agar sacha ho bichhde mil jaate hai

hanste hanste kat jaye raste

zindagi yun hi chalti rahe

khushi mile ya gam

badlenge na hum

duniya chahe badalti rahe"

Let's ponder over ☕☕☕☕☕ 🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵 and exchange lots of 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 and ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Let today be your day to face your fears too-- may your beauty, courage, honour, hope and purity replenish the confidence you own 🌷🌷🌺🥰🤩🤩

Lots of love

❤️J

Your analysis is perfect. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. I loved the episode only because of the falling off the mask from the so called traditional Chavans. And, that too in front of Virat. Loved the way he stood up for Sayi and holding Nind's hand. And, he remembering Pulkit. Atleast now he has a vague idea of torture meted upon Devyani. What to say about Chugalkhor aunty, Patralekha. She tried her best to influence Virat but sadly lost out. And, how can anyone expect anything from a self centered person? She is only concerned about her happiness. She can't think about anyone but herself and way and means of snatching away Virat from Sayi. As if Sayi is the other woman in her life. Someone, please remind her that it is she who's the other woman and not Sayi for heaven's sake. And, Mohit once again voiced out his feelings. He was too good. Karishma too looked happy for once and wish she too joins team Sayi soon.

See I see many people discussing academy .. it can be a generic term also for graduate school ..most upsc aspirants study in Delhi colleges for bachelors n masters and then crack upsc

he might be doing bachelors in a hostel ..if 28-29 ..11 years ago giving devi pulkit love to blossom is exactly the time for him to be away for bachelors

and Mohit in high school.. samrat in military training..

I enjoyed the episode .. virat was observing and watchful ..

I was horrified with Kaku ka behaviour .. if a lady can make her healthy daughter a basket case

then the other people who dissent will be treated worse

Sayi , karishma ,Shivani , ashwini , Mansi all are helpless because they don’t have a person behind their back questioning what is happening with my kid

This is a criminal family .. if virat doesn’t introspec properly.. what exactly has been happening over here .. I seriously don’t understand how will he handle outside situations..

Devyani mentioned abuse , medicine and threat to kill .. shouldn’t the police officer question the trio

What izzat does this Chavan parivar have .. the way they threaten the daughter of the house

I am not even sure .. I want sayi to stick on to virat .. his family is no less villainous than Jagtap n vithal

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌻🌼🌄🌷

Power packed punch delivered to Makad Sena by joint effort of those who hear the voice of their consciences.. that's what it essentially was.

So Virat recognises Pulkit as someone who once lived in Chavan niwas -- the story is not yet completely told and may be well get if in the upcoming episodes but the biggest unanswered question:

Where was Virat when Devyani and Pulkit married 10 years ago?

So Pulkit says, "tum academy me padhai Kar rahe thay"... Which academy? I'm guessing he was enrolled in some academy to crack his civil services examination or pursuing an undergraduate course because it definitely can't be the police academy 10 years ago if he got his first IPS posting now. There's no point calculating his age. 😅

>>> Virat ka age calculate karenge toh we will forget ours actually lets not go there. Ghum ka calendar hi Ghum hain. I dont know which ERA they are in.

The fact came as a shocker for Virat and also kind of diverted his attention from the hand raising -- because his response to Ninad was pretty tepid. There was no warning to not repeat, no chastising. It was a simple, "Aapko Shobha deta hai kya Bahu par haath Uthana" and Pulkit caught his attention -- would like to give benefit of doubt today because the scene will continue and there is hope that the concluding remarks would have something for Ninad and Omkar as well -- Omkar's anger was so palpable the actor did a fine job at portraying how he was exercising control once Virat had stepped into the scene. Sonali was obviously being true to her character and I loved how Virat decided to abort his response -- it is not the first time that he's ignored Sonali. She's the last person he tried to engage in and slowly Vedi Vahini is stepping into the same category.

Ninad's 'jab koi hadh paar kare toh baaki sab kaabu se bahar ho jaata hai' would also apply to how Devyani will eventually be reunited with her husband.

So the episode was to make up for Virat missing yesterday 😅 today he came, he saw, he deciphered, he did "insaan ko padhna" and was able to tell the lies from the truth -- Bhavani's pretense and Devyani's genuine happiness combined with her fear. The moment tugged hearts of those who could feel the helplessness at the condition this beautiful woman is in.

He noted the keywords Devyani used -- right from mujhe Yaad hai Aai jhoot bol rahi hai to they will hurt us again, they will kill us, main beemar hoon, Aai keeps giving me medicines to put me to sleep (Did Ninad appear surprised at this?)... It was all a shocker. The perfect canvas of the Chavan family portrait came undone -- in that moment it was evident that the family which prides in the legacy of an IPS officer Nagesh Chavan and speaks of discipline, respect and honour is actually hiding behind the canvas a dirty, dark secret that reeks of crime, conceit and cold-blooded approach to separate a married couple -- all in the name of tarnished reputation and "barabari".

Bhavani could not hold back her contemptuous reasoning for denying the daughter her happiness and reducing her to the mental state she is in -- Naukar Ka beta Nagesh Chavan ki beti se Shaadi kaise Kar Sakta hai? That admission came after her initial attempt to cover up the truth with her loud lies. But the cat was already out of the bag... One must wonder that the secret within the family has been hidden to prevent any kind of dissent arising from the disillusion that members might feel with the power centre -- those with the conscience would never approve of it or see Queen Bhavani and her stooges in the same light as before. Especially the sons -- they are the ones who had to be shielded from learning this truth.

Virat asked the right question: Kis zamane me jee rahi Hain aap? Fine you had a problem then, but what is the problem now that you can't correct the mistake?

>>> Absolutely he was bang on with. Waise even i have 2 questions?

1) Along with Zamane he could have shed light on which year they are in for us to know 🤔

2) He said that how could Devi tai be happy living away from the love of her life. Then on a genuine basis didn't he ever think the same way about Pakhi. Why didn't he understand her pain? Is it because he never believed it to be true love??? 😕

But the reason is the most common cause of estranged families - ego. Very often when children make their choices in life, especially those concerning spouses, parents who disapprove for the wrong reasons cannot come around for years together. They cannot see anything good in a person whose intentios and value systems would be in the right place if not the bank balance and the 'image' that the social status demands. The estrangement does not end, especially if the disapproving parents are unable to accept their 'mistake' in separating lovers -- because it can't be a 'mistake' to protect the family's honour. Unfortunately, success and worthiness of people is judged only on the parameters of their bank balance and not on the other factors that decide success and worthiness.

>>> The reason has always been Ego and hence Kaku has problem with all the marriages. Mohit's, Virat's and Devi tai's as none was her choice. The only choice of hers are Sonali and vedi vahini and thats the reason she is so good with them.

Virat should be able to see from this example once it's done and dusted that his family is never going to accept Sai the way he wishes -- if he's been blind to his mother's standing in the house even after spending three decades there and not cared to really ask someone like Shivani what she has been through, he should now know that the Ghar ke bade are far from 'dil ke acche' and Sai does not need to take up this futile project -- not even for him.

>>> This cant happen, she wont be able to adjust as she is the righteous one. Yeah she would land up bringing everyone under her wings may be

When he mentioned how Sai had asked him about Devyani's marital status and he couldn't reply, he appeared to be telling the family how she was trying to 'involve' him so that she's not blamed for the entire scene as usual. But in their private space, Virat needs to emphasise on the fact that she cannot go for such a head on dive into the choppy waters in his absence and without even sounding him off... Not in matters concerning the family. Had he been given even the slightest clue about this issue, he would have handled it even better.

>>> This needs to be done, but he was as blank as she was and hence the doubts. Had she told him earlier would it be this impactful. Would he be that forthcoming and accepting the fact that his family did such thing. The only good thing was Sai let the professor in and hence the facts came out (she became a scape goat thats a different story). But she telling or asking questions would not have helped. (Plus ye ITV hain drama kahan se aata).

For Bhavani, it doesn't matter who Pulkit is today. That he's a famous doctor and has reached an equal standing in the society is of no importance because she has long crossed that part of her objection. He was then "unworthy", and now he's "uninvited". To accept the relationship now would mean acknowledging the 'sin' and perhaps reveal the bigger secret that is still under the wraps according to her -- the child that Devyani bore, who was definitely separated from her in a sinister act.

Will Devyani ask or tell Pulkit about losing their baby? She possibly doesn't even know if it's a son or daughter... My heart went out to Devyani today. Her suffering has been so immense. Her hesitation at holding Pulkit's hand and being terrified of Bhavani's silent warning from the distance to finally giving in and the feeling the sudden sense of pride and relief she felt after Sai instilled the confidence in her -- it was poignant... That after her initial confusion at why her Pulkit looked different -- she's naturally stuck in time 8 years ago.

Three whistles to all those who spoke at appropriate places today:

#Shivani for shutting up Bhavani and stating the blunt truth: the two people have been reduced to dead persons, what's left in them? If they want to breathe life into their lives, let them be...

I mentioned yesterday and I repeat: just because Devyani was allowed to be breathing, isn't her present condition as good as honour killing?

#Ashwini for stating how proud she was in Sai and how correct she has been in supporting her all along.

The moment of the day:

To me, the moment of the day was when Ashwini walked up to Devyani and asked Pulkit, "Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho?"

The pride she felt as a mother for Devyani and Sai -- the kaala teeka for Devyani and the reaction Devyani had to being reminded how she's dressed up so beautifully ❤️🥰 it was such a lovely moment.

One can totally picture Sai, Aai and Shivani dressing up Devyani for the bidaai that Sai warned Bhavani about 😂

#Mohit for shutting up Badi Vahini in his sassy style -- because Virat has actually stopped reacting to her 😅

#And of course, loudest whistle for venom-wali vahini herself for not being able to keep her mouth shut 😂

But seriously, ye Vahini ki beizzati ki height ho gayi hai... Jisse Dekho aakar vahini ki beizzati Kar deta hai... even 15 minutes pehle entry maara hua Pulkit ended up doing Vahini's beizzati-- really:

-Pulkit to Devyani - Meri Zindagi aur Dil mein tumhare alava koi aur Nahi hai (Yaad aaya🥺🥺)

Isn't this a direct dukhti rag par haath rakhna for Vahini? How can Pulkit mouth the same dialogues as her imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband has conveniently forgotten in his dhokebaazi 😟🙄😒

- Pulkit to Virat - Tum lucky ho tumhe Sai jaisi suljhi hui, samajhdaar aur sabki khushiyon Ka khayal rakhne wali Patni Mili hai

Need I describe how this amounted to Vahini's beizzati? Unka utra hua chehra hi Dekh Lena... a stopped clock is also right twice a day so the 'latka hua face' works in some places by default 😂😂

And to add insult to injury, Pulkit to Virat-- tum Sai ki khushiyon Ka khayal Rakho..

Vahini was still standing strong after all that. Applause. 🙏🙄

>>> Vahini ka baat nahi hi karein toh achcha hain, i don't know what level is her thinking. Does she even think? I would have loved if she would have asked Virat "You are talking about love" instead of pointing fingers at Sai

But thankfully, at the point where Ninad raised his hand to hit Sai, Vahini reacted as expected -- in shock. It was a consolation that she has not yet subscribed to violence being used. But not too far, I guess.

But, honestly, am still cross with Pulkit because he has comprised on Sai and she will be specifically targeted while the evil Mandali chalks out the plan to separate Devyani and Pulkit again.

Mohit has really discovered his long tongue 😛 and what to say, even her "Ghar chhodhh Kar jaane dijiye" blackmail doesn't work with Mohit because he will more than willingly hold the exit doors open for her 😂

It was sweet that Mohit and Karishma too had a smile of support on their faces -- Karishma, for a change, silently backing the 'right' and hopefully she will remain silent.

Waise vahini ne return hote huye imaginary husband ko bola tha -- agar ek Baar bhi meri beizzati huyi toh main hamesha ke liye Ghar chhodhh Kar chali jaungi.

When will she start counting?

Patralekha's 'ghar parivaar ki izzat' concern is obviously as shallow as her susheelta. She could see the whole cover up and Devyani's mental state and story of heartbreak is in front of her. As a woman, who has been in a similar place with her so-called heart break, one would expect her to at least have some sympathy if not empathy for Devyani

But no, our Mallika-e-Maturity has her task well defined -- he scope of her thought begins and ends with pulling Sai down and imagining herself in the seat next to her imaginary Husband.

No wonder, the Precap is a preview into her 'apni Patni Ka Saath de rahe ho'.

Bhavani must be really confident about Vahini's influence on Virat even after witnessing how he's snubbing her and ignoring her all the time. May be Bhavani perceives Virat's lack of response to vahini as his being in agreement with what she says?😅 Warna, Virat Tumhari baat sunta hai is only a joke.

>>> Well she should understand that she is being played and whenever this comes out in open all blame would be on her.

******

Rigidity regarding caste and 'honour' and treating women as men's possession are the prime reasons for honour killings.

When Pride and Honour are used in the same breath, it can turn into an oxymoron unless accompanied by the purity of thoughts and integrity in intentions. A false sense of pride -- which is accompanied by vanity-- can actually sacrifice everything that honour may have achieved..

As Krsna has said:

Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna.

As they say, a hundred years cannot repair a moment's loss of honour. Can these Ghar ke bade have any redemption?

Today I can think of only one song:

"mana jane wale laut ke kab aate hain

doob ke suraj taare phir se nikal aate hain

pyar agar sacha ho bichhde mil jaate hai

hanste hanste kat jaye raste

zindagi yun hi chalti rahe

khushi mile ya gam

badlenge na hum

duniya chahe badalti rahe"

Let's ponder over ☕☕☕☕☕ 🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵 and exchange lots of 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 and ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Let today be your day to face your fears too-- may your beauty, courage, honour, hope and purity replenish the confidence you own 🌷🌷🌺🥰🤩🤩

Lots of love

❤️J

Your analysis has saved the day, very well presented. The episode was good content wise, the presentation (Editing of the scenes) could have been better. The actors looked tired or bored may be cause of standing in the same position for past 3 episodes.

Also I understand that todays focus was Devi tai and was aptly done by Mitali Nag.

Waise i would wait for the story to unfold. Does Vahini still think Virat will listen to her??? If she does then i don't know what to say.

Well ab dekhna ye hain kon kon kis kis hadh tak jaata hain. Kon kis ki nazaron mein uthatha hain aur kon girta hain. I like the progression, slow hain par hain.

(Arey lekin thoda editing sambhalo, achche scene ki band baje dete hain - Sorry that was technical).

I havent seen the episode yet so would comment on it later.. However I am really curious how are they going to show the separation, considering how far the couple has moved from their last fight which happened just last night. If they go with what happened in KD , Virat will ask her to got, deny her food and she would be staying out all night. Virat's character will take a reverse gear if this happens... Specially after how beautifully they have developed it. He is not shown to be a man who is so heartless... Though Rono in some scenes looked much more of a MCP than Virat is...So for that character it was fine..however with VIrat I would not be able to digest..

Also who ever has seen KD, was the apology by Virat followed by a waada where he would never deny food to anyone or manhandle anyone. Can someone help here..