Pyaar agar sacha ho, bichhde mil jaate hai... - Page 4

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Can you post the scene where Ashwini asks Pulkit Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho? And Kaku's wtf reaction🤣

There's also the exasperation of Vahini when Mohit bajaos her band... She's almost like Yaar ab kya bolun isko chup karwane ke liye. I can't even say I will leave the house to this guy. He will throw me himself 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

I was actually making those scenes only!! hahaha

Originally posted by: jodh57

I thought Pakhi didi will understand dusron ka pyaar...but NOO😆

kuch jyaada hi umeed nahi laga li aapne Didi se... 😆

Originally posted by: deepthi2014

@ BOLD I don't know why when Pulkit uttered those words...I got reminded of Virat sir's vaada to didi..is it only me or anyone else also felt the same...

Everyone 🤣🤣 sabse jyaada Pakhi Didi ko laga.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

The most i like was Mohit shutting pakhi mouth trying to knock some sense in her...

Virat did not tell Pakhi a word, though she was liking family ki izzat more than Deviani happiness.

I think Virat is done with explaining or engaging with PP. Exactly how he doesn't indulge in Sonali. He knows now that PP doesn't make sense nor has the "maturity" to see the sense. Plus, Mohit has really taken it upon himself to shut PP up in the same breath as she finishes her sentence so the scope for anyone else saying anything is less 🤣 And it's better because she can't get away with the "beizzati" card with Mohit. He will tell her again, please pack your bags and go 🤣

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Can you post the scene where Ashwini asks Pulkit Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho? And Kaku's wtf reaction🤣

There's also the exasperation of Vahini when Mohit bajaos her band... She's almost like Yaar ab kya bolun isko chup karwane ke liye. I can't even say I will leave the house to this guy. He will throw me himself 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

@Bold - This is ultimate i guess 🤣

She is like main mooh hi kyin kholti hoon, Jo aata hain sunke jaata hain. Pehle Ashwini Mami, Shivani, Sai, Virat aur ab yeh hi baaki tha 😉

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I think Virat is done with explaining or engaging with PP. Exactly how he doesn't indulge in Sonali. He knows now that PP doesn't make sense nor has the "maturity" to see the sense. Plus, Mohit has really taken it upon himself to shut PP up in the same breath as she finishes her sentence so the scope for anyone else saying anything is less 🤣 And it's better because she can't get away with the "beizzati" card with Mohit. He will tell her again, please pack your bags and go 🤣

Originally posted by: Roch

@Bold - This is ultimate i guess 🤣

She is like main mooh hi kyin kholti hoon, Jo aata hain sunke jaata hain. Pehle Ashwini Mami, Shivani, Sai, Virat aur ab yeh hi baaki tha 😉

But best is Devyani sabse zyada pol Khol Uski devi Ho karti hai .. and she does it like a boss ..

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Thank you for your post Janki!

One question I have is why are they rushing through this track. It is one of the highlights. Sad ..that they have all the drama required on a ready plate, and they zoom through it. A little bit of work on the writing, dialogues, would have uplifted the scene.

Since I'm feeling a bit underwhelmed after watching, let me get my peeves out😆

- How many times did Pulkit's dialogue get repeated...mere paas naam hai, rudhba hai..then Virat repeated it.

Agree. their dialogues are generally substandard. Only in a few cases they have been on-point. This dialogue was probably repeated to drive the point that he has an "equal status" now. chakrams don't understand things said only once na? 😆

- why were all the characters made to stand like in statue!! When Ninad rushed to slap Sai, even the body language was still. It was like in kids annual performances, teachers draw a circle and tell the kids...this is your spot, don't move😆. I thought when Devi was scared, Virat would rush to her. No, he stood still for the longest time.

To me it seemed like except for some of the shots where more than one person was in the frame and some common shots from the sides of all of them together, everyone shot individually. It looked really unappealing and constantly same reactions from the same faces...

@bold: Since Sai was subdued today, they left that part to her nahi toh female lead ne kuch nahi kiya?! 😲

- dialogues were too pheeka. so much could've been conveyed through powerful dialogues. Virat's expressions like you said were much too subdued!

- Aai and Shivani's Bidaai idea...so much excitement in such a serious scene looked misplaced.

Some of Shivani's dialogues looked really out of place, but then she's a character like that -- so one can let it pass. Remember, even during that high voltage gruh pravesh, she spoke a couple of irrelevant lines which is totally her character...

Ashwini's "aaj hi le jaana chahte ho" was epic and Kaku's WTF, main zinda hoon face. But I thought it was too rushed to send Devyani off... They don't even want to do a background check on what this man has been upto for 10 years before deciding to send off a mentally unstable daughter of the house? 🤓

What I liked:

- Devyani and Kaaku's acting...the effect that Kaaku has on Devi ..it came through well..

- Sai's expressions were all appropriate, today's focus was not on her. Yet she was an active participant through her expressions.

- Mohit's irritation with Pakhi. He really does not like her at all.

- Pulkit talking about being Devi's pati and how he will take care of Devi. I hope Virat remembers these dialogues more than the ones on pyaar karne wale🤪

- Pakhi let herself down once more. Her character is getting revealed more and more with every incident post Ladakh.

TBH, I am beginning to expect a certain low standard now with this serial in terms of execution. Or was it like this in the original? Even if it was, why would these guys not try to make it better than the original? Maybe trps would rise even more 😆.

I don't think the grandeur of this one can be compared with the original but i agree that their execution is really shoddy on some days -- most days.

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

hahahhahaha I mentioned the same on twitter too. Mohit is segregating the garbage as soon as it is thrown 😂😂😂😂😂. He is not giving gap for someother to respond !!!! Even before our fire brand sai 😂😂😂😂

They might have to "bleep" some words but in commonly spoken language in Marathi homes, Mohit would shut Vahini with a lot more "bleepy" sass 🤣 But didi is actually thick skinned, sach mein beizzati ho rahi hai toh bhi jaane ka naam nahi le rahi kambhakt kahin ki,

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌻🌼🌄🌷

Power packed punch delivered to Makad Sena by joint effort of those who hear the voice of their consciences.. that's what it essentially was.

So Virat recognises Pulkit as someone who once lived in Chavan niwas -- the story is not yet completely told and may be well get if in the upcoming episodes but the biggest unanswered question:

Where was Virat when Devyani and Pulkit married 10 years ago?

So Pulkit says, "tum academy me padhai Kar rahe thay"... Which academy? I'm guessing he was enrolled in some academy to crack his civil services examination or pursuing an undergraduate course because it definitely can't be the police academy 10 years ago if he got his first IPS posting now. There's no point calculating his age. 😅

The fact came as a shocker for Virat and also kind of diverted his attention from the hand raising -- because his response to Ninad was pretty tepid. There was no warning to not repeat, no chastising. It was a simple, "Aapko Shobha deta hai kya Bahu par haath Uthana" and Pulkit caught his attention -- would like to give benefit of doubt today because the scene will continue and there is hope that the concluding remarks would have something for Ninad and Omkar as well -- Omkar's anger was so palpable the actor did a fine job at portraying how he was exercising control once Virat had stepped into the scene. Sonali was obviously being true to her character and I loved how Virat decided to abort his response -- it is not the first time that he's ignored Sonali. She's the last person he tried to engage in and slowly Vedi Vahini is stepping into the same category.

Ninad's 'jab koi hadh paar kare toh baaki sab kaabu se bahar ho jaata hai' would also apply to how Devyani will eventually be reunited with her husband.

So the episode was to make up for Virat missing yesterday 😅 today he came, he saw, he deciphered, he did "insaan ko padhna" and was able to tell the lies from the truth -- Bhavani's pretense and Devyani's genuine happiness combined with her fear. The moment tugged hearts of those who could feel the helplessness at the condition this beautiful woman is in.

He noted the keywords Devyani used -- right from mujhe Yaad hai Aai jhoot bol rahi hai to they will hurt us again, they will kill us, main beemar hoon, Aai keeps giving me medicines to put me to sleep (Did Ninad appear surprised at this?)... It was all a shocker. The perfect canvas of the Chavan family portrait came undone -- in that moment it was evident that the family which prides in the legacy of an IPS officer Nagesh Chavan and speaks of discipline, respect and honour is actually hiding behind the canvas a dirty, dark secret that reeks of crime, conceit and cold-blooded approach to separate a married couple -- all in the name of tarnished reputation and "barabari".

Bhavani could not hold back her contemptuous reasoning for denying the daughter her happiness and reducing her to the mental state she is in -- Naukar Ka beta Nagesh Chavan ki beti se Shaadi kaise Kar Sakta hai? That admission came after her initial attempt to cover up the truth with her loud lies. But the cat was already out of the bag... One must wonder that the secret within the family has been hidden to prevent any kind of dissent arising from the disillusion that members might feel with the power centre -- those with the conscience would never approve of it or see Queen Bhavani and her stooges in the same light as before. Especially the sons -- they are the ones who had to be shielded from learning this truth.

Virat asked the right question: Kis zamane me jee rahi Hain aap? Fine you had a problem then, but what is the problem now that you can't correct the mistake?

But the reason is the most common cause of estranged families - ego. Very often when children make their choices in life, especially those concerning spouses, parents who disapprove for the wrong reasons cannot come around for years together. They cannot see anything good in a person whose intentios and value systems would be in the right place if not the bank balance and the 'image' that the social status demands. The estrangement does not end, especially if the disapproving parents are unable to accept their 'mistake' in separating lovers -- because it can't be a 'mistake' to protect the family's honour. Unfortunately, success and worthiness of people is judged only on the parameters of their bank balance and not on the other factors that decide success and worthiness.

Virat should be able to see from this example once it's done and dusted that his family is never going to accept Sai the way he wishes -- if he's been blind to his mother's standing in the house even after spending three decades there and not cared to really ask someone like Shivani what she has been through, he should now know that the Ghar ke bade are far from 'dil ke acche' and Sai does not need to take up this futile project -- not even for him.

When he mentioned how Sai had asked him about Devyani's marital status and he couldn't reply, he appeared to be telling the family how she was trying to 'involve' him so that she's not blamed for the entire scene as usual. But in their private space, Virat needs to emphasise on the fact that she cannot go for such a head on dive into the choppy waters in his absence and without even sounding him off... Not in matters concerning the family. Had he been given even the slightest clue about this issue, he would have handled it even better.

Virat is such an adorable husband .. I was expecting he would be angry at Sai for not keeping in loop. But he did not actually let it come out in front of the family. He was at Sai's side through and through.. His love is turning out to be extremely adorable..If they make him oust Sai and deny her food , the character is going to take a reverse gear.. I wont be able to bear/watch that..

For Bhavani, it doesn't matter who Pulkit is today. That he's a famous doctor and has reached an equal standing in the society is of no importance because she has long crossed that part of her objection. He was then "unworthy", and now he's "uninvited". To accept the relationship now would mean acknowledging the 'sin' and perhaps reveal the bigger secret that is still under the wraps according to her -- the child that Devyani bore, who was definitely separated from her in a sinister act.

Will Devyani ask or tell Pulkit about losing their baby? She possibly doesn't even know if it's a son or daughter... My heart went out to Devyani today. Her suffering has been so immense. Her hesitation at holding Pulkit's hand and being terrified of Bhavani's silent warning from the distance to finally giving in and the feeling the sudden sense of pride and relief she felt after Sai instilled the confidence in her -- it was poignant... That after her initial confusion at why her Pulkit looked different -- she's naturally stuck in time 8 years ago.

Three whistles to all those who spoke at appropriate places today:

#Shivani for shutting up Bhavani and stating the blunt truth: the two people have been reduced to dead persons, what's left in them? If they want to breathe life into their lives, let them be...

I mentioned yesterday and I repeat: just because Devyani was allowed to be breathing, isn't her present condition as good as honour killing?

#Ashwini for stating how proud she was in Sai and how correct she has been in supporting her all along.

The moment of the day:

To me, the moment of the day was when Ashwini walked up to Devyani and asked Pulkit, "Tum Devyani ko aaj hi lekar jaana chahte ho?"

The pride she felt as a mother for Devyani and Sai -- the kaala teeka for Devyani and the reaction Devyani had to being reminded how she's dressed up so beautifully ❤️🥰 it was such a lovely moment.

One can totally picture Sai, Aai and Shivani dressing up Devyani for the bidaai that Sai warned Bhavani about 😂

#Mohit for shutting up Badi Vahini in his sassy style -- because Virat has actually stopped reacting to her 😅

#And of course, loudest whistle for venom-wali vahini herself for not being able to keep her mouth shut 😂

But seriously, ye Vahini ki beizzati ki height ho gayi hai... Jisse Dekho aakar vahini ki beizzati Kar deta hai... even 15 minutes pehle entry maara hua Pulkit ended up doing Vahini's beizzati-- really:

-Pulkit to Devyani - Meri Zindagi aur Dil mein tumhare alava koi aur Nahi hai (Yaad aaya🥺🥺)

Isn't this a direct dukhti rag par haath rakhna for Vahini? How can Pulkit mouth the same dialogues as her imaginary husband, which the imaginary husband has conveniently forgotten in his dhokebaazi 😟🙄😒

- Pulkit to Virat - Tum lucky ho tumhe Sai jaisi suljhi hui, samajhdaar aur sabki khushiyon Ka khayal rakhne wali Patni Mili hai

Need I describe how this amounted to Vahini's beizzati? Unka utra hua chehra hi Dekh Lena... a stopped clock is also right twice a day so the 'latka hua face' works in some places by default 😂😂

And to add insult to injury, Pulkit to Virat-- tum Sai ki khushiyon Ka khayal Rakho..

Hope hope hope that our Pendu Vaada Boy registered it.. I believe he is doing it but I also think he should show the love in words as well along with his actions..

Vahini was still standing strong after all that. Applause. 🙏🙄

But thankfully, at the point where Ninad raised his hand to hit Sai, Vahini reacted as expected -- in shock. It was a consolation that she has not yet subscribed to violence being used. But not too far, I guess.

But, honestly, am still cross with Pulkit because he has comprised on Sai and she will be specifically targeted while the evil Mandali chalks out the plan to separate Devyani and Pulkit again.

Mohit has really discovered his long tongue 😛 and what to say, even her "Ghar chhodhh Kar jaane dijiye" blackmail doesn't work with Mohit because he will more than willingly hold the exit doors open for her 😂

It was sweet that Mohit and Karishma too had a smile of support on their faces -- Karishma, for a change, silently backing the 'right' and hopefully she will remain silent.

I find Karishma cute a lot of times..She is not harmful harmful.. like Toxic Vehni.. ATleast better than Sonali Kaku and Omkar..I also had loved the way she was trying to join the celebration of Sai's result ...but was stopped by the chamchi saas

Waise vahini ne return hote huye imaginary husband ko bola tha -- agar ek Baar bhi meri beizzati huyi toh main hamesha ke liye Ghar chhodhh Kar chali jaungi.

When will she start counting?

Patralekha's 'ghar parivaar ki izzat' concern is obviously as shallow as her susheelta. She could see the whole cover up and Devyani's mental state and story of heartbreak is in front of her. As a woman, who has been in a similar place with her so-called heart break, one would expect her to at least have some sympathy if not empathy for Devyani

Vehni forgets ghar Parivar izzat as soon as she enters Virat's room.. The delusional didi at one instant says Sai dosti jaise pavitra rishtey ko question kiya and in the next expects Virat to declare his undying love and when denies throws a tantrum.. Uska definition of ghar Parivar izzat is limited to sitting and feeding Virat with her hands ...being fed in turn and do some dil ki baatein.. be a participant of his ahem faisley...And also talk nonsense about Sai...Sometimes I feel she is more obsessed with Sai than Virat..

But no, our Mallika-e-Maturity has her task well defined -- he scope of her thought begins and ends with pulling Sai down and imagining herself in the seat next to her imaginary Husband.

No wonder, the Precap is a preview into her 'apni Patni Ka Saath de rahe ho'.

Bhavani must be really confident about Vahini's influence on Virat even after witnessing how he's snubbing her and ignoring her all the time. May be Bhavani perceives Virat's lack of response to vahini as his being in agreement with what she says?😅 Warna, Virat Tumhari baat sunta hai is only a joke.

Virat who has still not gone vehemently against Patralekha because of the maan maryada and being soft hearted that he is still believe she is bechari..and tries to not retort to her rubbish in a no-nonsense tone as of now..is going to actually begin not liking her...even for his Jeeva's sake.. after this..

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Rigidity regarding caste and 'honour' and treating women as men's possession are the prime reasons for honour killings.

When Pride and Honour are used in the same breath, it can turn into an oxymoron unless accompanied by the purity of thoughts and integrity in intentions. A false sense of pride -- which is accompanied by vanity-- can actually sacrifice everything that honour may have achieved..

As Krsna has said:

Hypocrisy, arrogance, pride, anger, harshness, and ignorance; these are the marks of those who are born with demonic qualities, O Arjuna.

As they say, a hundred years cannot repair a moment's loss of honour. Can these Ghar ke bade have any redemption?

Today I can think of only one song:

"mana jane wale laut ke kab aate hain

doob ke suraj taare phir se nikal aate hain

pyar agar sacha ho bichhde mil jaate hai

hanste hanste kat jaye raste

zindagi yun hi chalti rahe

khushi mile ya gam

badlenge na hum

duniya chahe badalti rahe"

Let's ponder over ☕☕☕☕☕ 🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵 and exchange lots of 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 and ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Let today be your day to face your fears too-- may your beauty, courage, honour, hope and purity replenish the confidence you own 🌷🌷🌺🥰🤩🤩

Lots of love

❤️J

Janki I have not seen the episode yet.. I usually jump to watch the episode on hotstar when its a Sairat centric one.. like those four episodes last week and then re-watch it on TV with my mother in the evening..However since last Friday I have been following on the evening routine.. But couldn't help reading your post understanding it from your point of view and replying.. Lovely writing as usual..You have become the jaan of this forum..lately.. Even though I am new here I am not unaware of this information..

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