Ab Jo bhi karenge, Mahadev karenge...

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌄🌻🌻🌼🌼

Today's episode was a gap filler and for setting base for the next week. So have just some unanswered Qs today:

1. Why did none of the chakrams recognise Pulkit? The expressions were so difficult to decipher... Bhavani and her stooges didn't recognise him? Ninad being an army officer needed so much time to register who had entered -- especially if he has lived there? Ashwini, Sonali and Shivani seemed to know Pulkit by face. Ashwini seemed happy that he has come... Does she know the truth? If yes, it would be the most disappointing disclosure of the character. She can't be someone who can keep a secret of a baby being snatched from a mother and the rest of the gory things. How much do the others know?

2. Vedi Vahini's admission in front of everyone - "Maine Badi Mami ke liye vrat rakha hai" in response to Sonali's high praise of Vahini being on "upvaas" since the night before for "Samrat ki salamati".

Who is Samrat??? 😒😟

Not a single person in that Shivratri ki pathshaala by Bhavani had a word to say -- some surprised faces and Queen Bhavani on cloud 1.47 because chaheeti bahu considers her bigger than her 'suhaag'. Even Samrat ki always MIA maa had nothing to say about her susheel bahu's susheelta?

It's quite in the open that Badi Vahini has nothing to do even with the photo of her husband in the bedroom. And the Makad Sena seems to have accepted the fact that her motivation to stay in the house is definitely not Samrat.

Does no one want to know why is she staying on? Is the farce so strong that everyone really thinks that she's so madly in love with the family of a man (legal Husband) she doesn't want to have anything to do with?

Does she herself think that the family loves her? Can a woman who treats her own daughter with scanty respect have any love for any other person? What kind of mutually fake parvaah is this where, as an individual, Patralekha wants to bring this loneliness upon her -- she belongs to no body in that house, least of all, Virat. Is this her version of "junoon aisa ki khud ko jalaa liya?" 🤪🤪

She's actually living there without even an iota of self respect or self worth and her parents can visit time to time to have high-tea and leave? 🤯🥴

Also, how morally numb is this character Patralekha -- blindly following instructions of the Mephistopheles Bhavani without even giving a thought to the action she's been asked to perform. She's like this class monitor who's just thrilled to be given the role of a substitute teacher 🙄😅 "Maine Devyani ko kamre mein bandh Kiya hai, dhyaan rakhna".. monitor goes: Ji badi maami.

No one else cringed either.

3. Ashwini comes back to ask Sai to accept Virat as "Dil se Pati" and not "deal se Pati" by doing Shivji Ka Jaap at night for a khushal marriage... But Sai is obviously not yet in that state of mind. She is willing to put her relationship with Virat at stake for getting Devyani and Pulkit together. Her, "mujhe sirf ek hi jodi ki chinta hai.. DeviTai aur Pulkit sir ki" is a way to show her selfless nature that we've known all along and of course the liberty that the female protagonist has to be the martyr all the time but isn't this feeling problematic? I ask again today -- is it fair on your partner, who's attempting to build something with you, to be the last on your priority list while taking up an adventure that can potentially damage the relationship? She has not been shown thinking about Virat's reaction even for a moment knowing that he can be unpredictable and livid about someone challenging his family. Is it Sai's lack of consideration for how this step can affect her relationship with Virat and cause misunderstandings or is it because she is so confident that Virat will side with her and the truth?

On the side- Vedi vahini eavesdropped on saas-bahu conversation reminding her about the imaginary husband's real wali marriage. Will she accept the advice of doing Om Namo shivaay Jaap for reducing her "tension"?

4. Isn't Karishma a more genuine bahu than Patralekha? She might be a matchstick hersrelf and a chugalkhor but she has perfect observation skills. Her need to seek pleasure in someone else's troubles comes from her deep sense or dissatisfaction and emptiness as an individual. But she was the only one who noticed Bhavani was anxious and asked if she could help - it was genuine although it has an interest attached to be able to get brownie points. Her instincts are never wrong. Of course, she was turned away as usual but wouldn't she have been different if she had been accepted with at least half the respect that the "sabse zimmedar" Bahu has?

5. Devyani doesn't have complete memory of her past, it seems. She needed quite a bit of prodding from Sai to recall the marriage day. Even in her state of mental illness, it meant so much for Devyani to hear that she was the only one in Pulkit's "Dil and Zindagi"🥺🥺 (I hope Sai doesn't draw parallels with the other dil and Zindagi dialogue 😅)... Devyani's constant reminder to Sai that Pulkit and she will be harmed should be a reason enough for alarm but...

This is not a random separation of a couple by a disapproving family. This is actually the tearing apart of a marriage, a baby involved and also definitely a crime. Why is this union being rushed in such a thoughtless manner without considering the legal and medical ramifications?

The scene was beautiful -- right from the moment Sai unlocked the door to the time that the class monitor decided to check, the scene definitely induced tension of what was to come...

The feels one woman gets when opening the wardrobe to a sister/close friend was so real 😅 it made me miss my cousin's wardrobe 😂🤣😂

Waise Sai has these chakchakit clothes overflowing from her cupboard to Virat's. Sometimes she pulls out dresses from the other side 😜 so typically wife 😂😂😂

6. How long would it take for UPSC topper to count 1008 Bel leaves? 😅

A: Only as much time as it needs an ex army officer to set aside his tameez and raise his hand on his ek lauti bahu. 😂😢

Actual Q: Will ek lauta beta go with 'Bass Baba' or 'Please Baba'? 😒🤔

7. Will the cast be dressed in the same costume until March 11 -- actual day of Mahashivratri in real world? So as @sukri said, forget any more hugs happening 😅 I really hope they get a change from this safedi ki chamkaar with chamchamit additions 🥱

8. Lastly, was it only me or did anyone else feel that when Sai was watching the family meditating to the Mahamrutyunjay Jaap, she was looking for seats for Virat and her? 😅😅 Where were they going to sit? All the seats seemed occupied. It really only occurred to me towards the end of the scene that she was looking for Devyani because Devyani being missing from puja is not new 😐

There was one more Q but I won't ask: how is IPS officer having a day off on a festival instead of being on double duty to oversee bandobast? Kaash asli life itni aasan hoti 🙄

****

Sai has given the thought for the day:

"Saccha pyaar thokar khaa Kar bhikharta Nahi hai... Toot ta Nahi hai... Aur mazboot hota hai..."

Is that how Virat and her relationship will eventually be, when it's out of the 'deal mode' and based in complete trust and understanding?

There must be love in holding and there is love in letting go. What matters is the intention, the grace and the reason for not putting up a fight where there could have been one... when two people truly love one another and are then forced to walk different paths in life, it does not matter where they go, they take a part of each other along... It is love: only so long as the reason to hold on to that part of each other is to not extinguish the other.

A comment on "Din and Raat" from The Notebook: "Dusk is just an illusion because the sun is either above the horizon or below it. And that means that day and night are linked in a way that few things are there cannot be one without the other yet they cannot exist at the same time. How would it feel I remember wondering to be always together yet forever apart?"

Do you also think day and night don't meet? I think they do -- twice a day, when they cross and rub each other at 'twilight' 💫✨

********

We had such a feisty idea exchange yesterday so manapurvak aabhar 🙏🙏🙏

To find answers to the above, continue with Dr Sai Joshi's prescription of 'how to drive away tension' and us par, add a dose of today's ☕☕☕☕ or 🍵🍵🍵🍵

Saath me 🤗🤗🤗🤗 and lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️ dedicated to Sai and DeviTai's hug

Aapka weekend awesome rahe🌷🌷🌷

Mere sawaalon ka jawab do... Do naa...😅

Aale,

❤️J!

I felt they should have given respect to virat’s profession..

In the morning they should have shown

virat getting to go inside temple fast as it is usually the case .. where the police officers are allowed on a fast track path .. he coming back home to change clothes .. and going to police station for work .. and telling his mom n wife to call him back during Puja time .. rather than going to buy bel leaves

Fabulous post by you, Janki! 🤗❤️

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌄🌻🌻🌼🌼

Today's episode was a gap filler and for setting base for the next week. So have just some unanswered Qs today:

1. Why did none of the chakrams recognise Pulkit? The expressions were so difficult to decipher... Bhavani and her stooges didn't recognise him? Ninad being an army officer needed so much time to register who had entered -- especially if he has lived there? Ashwini, Sonali and Shivani seemed to know Pulkit by face. Ashwini seemed happy that he has come... Does she know the truth? If yes, it would be the most disappointing disclosure of the character. She can't be someone who can keep a secret of a baby being snatched from a mother and the rest of the gory things. How much do the others know?

2. Vedi Vahini's admission in front of everyone - "Maine Badi Mami ke liye vrat rakha hai" in response to Sonali's high praise of Vahini being on "upvaas" since the night before for "Samrat ki salamati".

Who is Samrat??? 😒😟

Not a single person in that Shivratri ki pathshaala by Bhavani had a word to say -- some surprised faces and Queen Bhavani on cloud 1.47 because chaheeti bahu considers her bigger than her 'suhaag'. Even Samrat ki always MIA maa had nothing to say about her susheel bahu's susheelta?

It's quite in the open that Badi Vahini has nothing to do even with the photo of her husband in the bedroom. And the Makad Sena seems to have accepted the fact that her motivation to stay in the house is definitely not Samrat.

Does no one want to know why is she staying on? Is the farce so strong that everyone really thinks that she's so madly in love with the family of a man (legal Husband) she doesn't want to have anything to do with?

Does she herself think that the family loves her? Can a woman who treats her own daughter with scanty respect have any love for any other person? What kind of mutually fake parvaah is this where, as an individual, Patralekha wants to bring this loneliness upon her -- she belongs to no body in that house, least of all, Virat. Is this her version of "junoon aisa ki khud ko jalaa liya?" 🤪🤪

She's actually living there without even an iota of self respect or self worth and her parents can visit time to time to have high-tea and leave? 🤯🥴

Also, how morally numb is this character Patralekha -- blindly following instructions of the Mephistopheles Bhavani without even giving a thought to the action she's been asked to perform. She's like this class monitor who's just thrilled to be given the role of a substitute teacher 🙄😅 "Maine Devyani ko kamre mein bandh Kiya hai, dhyaan rakhna".. monitor goes: Ji badi maami.

No one else cringed either.

3. Ashwini comes back to ask Sai to accept Virat as "Dil se Pati" and not "deal se Pati" by doing Shivji Ka Jaap at night for a khushal marriage... But Sai is obviously not yet in that state of mind. She is willing to put her relationship with Virat at stake for getting Devyani and Pulkit together. Her, "mujhe sirf ek hi jodi ki chinta hai.. DeviTai aur Pulkit sir ki" is a way to show her selfless nature that we've known all along and of course the liberty that the female protagonist has to be the martyr all the time but isn't this feeling problematic? I ask again today -- is it fair on your partner, who's attempting to build something with you, to be the last on your priority list while taking up an adventure that can potentially damage the relationship? She has not been shown thinking about Virat's reaction even for a moment knowing that he can be unpredictable and livid about someone challenging his family. Is it Sai's lack of consideration for how this step can affect her relationship with Virat and cause misunderstandings or is it because she is so confident that Virat will side with her and the truth?

On the side- Vedi vahini eavesdropped on saas-bahu conversation reminding her about the imaginary husband's real wali marriage. Will she accept the advice of doing Om Namo shivaay Jaap for reducing her "tension"?

4. Isn't Karishma a more genuine bahu than Patralekha? She might be a matchstick hersrelf and a chugalkhor but she has perfect observation skills. Her need to seek pleasure in someone else's troubles comes from her deep sense or dissatisfaction and emptiness as an individual. But she was the only one who noticed Bhavani was anxious and asked if she could help - it was genuine although it has an interest attached to be able to get brownie points. Her instincts are never wrong. Of course, she was turned away as usual but wouldn't she have been different if she had been accepted with at least half the respect that the "sabse zimmedar" Bahu has?

5. Devyani doesn't have complete memory of her past, it seems. She needed quite a bit of prodding from Sai to recall the marriage day. Even in her state of mental illness, it meant so much for Devyani to hear that she was the only one in Pulkit's "Dil and Zindagi"🥺🥺 (I hope Sai doesn't draw parallels with the other dil and Zindagi dialogue 😅)... Devyani's constant reminder to Sai that Pulkit and she will be harmed should be a reason enough for alarm but...

This is not a random separation of a couple by a disapproving family. This is actually the tearing apart of a marriage, a baby involved and also definitely a crime. Why is this union being rushed in such a thoughtless manner without considering the legal and medical ramifications?

The scene was beautiful -- right from the moment Sai unlocked the door to the time that the class monitor decided to check, the scene definitely induced tension of what was to come...

The feels one woman gets when opening the wardrobe to a sister/close friend was so real 😅 it made me miss my cousin's wardrobe 😂🤣😂

Waise Sai has these chakchakit clothes overflowing from her cupboard to Virat's. Sometimes she pulls out dresses from the other side 😜 so typically wife 😂😂😂

6. How long would it take for UPSC topper to count 1008 Bel leaves? 😅

A: Only as much time as it needs an ex army officer to set aside his tameez and raise his hand on his ek lauti bahu. 😂😢

Actual Q: Will ek lauta beta go with 'Bass Baba' or 'Please Baba'? 😒🤔

7. Will the cast be dressed in the same costume until March 11 -- actual day of Mahashivratri in real world? So as @sukri said, forget any more hugs happening 😅 I really hope they get a change from this safedi ki chamkaar with chamchamit additions 🥱

8. Lastly, was it only me or did anyone else feel that when Sai was watching the family meditating to the Mahamrutyunjay Jaap, she was looking for seats for Virat and her? 😅😅 Where were they going to sit? All the seats seemed occupied. It really only occurred to me towards the end of the scene that she was looking for Devyani because Devyani being missing from puja is not new 😐

There was one more Q but I won't ask: how is IPS officer having a day off on a festival instead of being on double duty to oversee bandobast? Kaash asli life itni aasan hoti 🙄

****

Sai has given the thought for the day:

"Saccha pyaar thokar khaa Kar bhikharta Nahi hai... Toot ta Nahi hai... Aur mazboot hota hai..."

Is that how Virat and her relationship will eventually be, when it's out of the 'deal mode' and based in complete trust and understanding?

There must be love in holding and there is love in letting go. What matters is the intention, the grace and the reason for not putting up a fight where there could have been one... when two people truly love one another and are then forced to walk different paths in life, it does not matter where they go, they take a part of each other along... It is love: only so long as the reason to hold on to that part of each other is to not extinguish the other.

A comment on "Din and Raat" from The Notebook: "Dusk is just an illusion because the sun is either above the horizon or below it. And that means that day and night are linked in a way that few things are there cannot be one without the other yet they cannot exist at the same time. How would it feel I remember wondering to be always together yet forever apart?"

Do you also think day and night don't meet? I think they do -- twice a day, when they cross and rub each other at 'twilight' 💫✨

********

We had such a feisty idea exchange yesterday so manapurvak aabhar 🙏🙏🙏

To find answers to the above, continue with Dr Sai Joshi's prescription of 'how to drive away tension' and us par, add a dose of today's ☕☕☕☕ or 🍵🍵🍵🍵

Saath me 🤗🤗🤗🤗 and lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️ dedicated to Sai and DeviTai's hug

Aapka weekend awesome rahe🌷🌷🌷

Mere sawaalon ka jawab do... Do naa...😅

Aale,

❤️J!

Janki ji rocked again...

But I was hoping for some answers😅 but got somemore questions..

Things that seem different in this show than original has added few more question in the list:

Daughter is already present a simple DNA test can prove the truth leaving no scope for jhooth mooth ka letter??

In original, nobody knew devi and pulkit were married??Here pulkit starts with mai Devyani ka pati??

Moreover in original pulkit never knew about Devyani being pregnant during seperation!! But here he has bought his daughter by himself??

Also Virat gets to know about Madhuri after the fake letter assumes her to be the wife, but here he knows Madhuri as Pulkits sister already

Does Harini knows about her Aai and that yhere is a difference between Ma for Madhuri and Aai??

Is it me or it looks like they are changing track??

Not to mention the Retd.Army officer is going to assault his DIL and son stops him but what would the son do next; whose first priority is family??

Will the student of Kamal Joshi or the son of Ninaad who is going to win this war??

Shouldn't the flag bearer of Pyaar understand the pain of Devi and Pulkit better as in her own delusional world she is victimised in the same way!!

The questions seems non ending , now it depends if the makers in their nasha of success will believe us in giving a background story or it will become a mix and mash of original track and new elements not at all synchronised and full of bloopers🙄😅🤪

Awesome Analysis janki just loved it ,

Filal iam having lots of questions running in my mind just not getting it how kaku sena gonna prove themself right now , sabko ab pulkit Deshpande ke bharemein pata hai , him being tais husband , them having a daughter together , won't it affect kaku sena badly , sai seriously should have taken virat into her confidence trust should be on both sides , if she expects him to trust her she should also trust him let him know what is brewing , waiseh bhi devi tai is his sister so isn't it important that he also should know about it before she taking rash decisions she should have taken his advice he would have definitely offered help yah atleast listened to her and do a BG , Sai aagh seh khel rahi hai filal ,

Precap I just don't have comments , looks like Virat will get riled up on his baba for doing this action , looks like it's not a good day for CN , shivratri is a sacred day , so bhurayi jeetega nahi uss din , shiv parvati saath mein hoga , like they compared virat sai to shivji aur mata parvati ki jodi , toh filal shivji apni parvati ki saath hi hoga until letter pops up

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Ashwini comes back to ask Sai to accept Virat as "Dil se Pati" and not "deal se Pati" by doing Shivji Ka Jaap at night for a khushal marriage... But Sai is obviously not yet in that state of mind. She is willing to put her relationship with Virat at stake for getting Devyani and Pulkit together. Her, "mujhe sirf ek hi jodi ki chinta hai.. DeviTai aur Pulkit sir ki" is a way to show her selfless nature that we've known all along and of course the liberty that the female protagonist has to be the martyr all the time but isn't this feeling problematic? I ask again today -- is it fair on your partner, who's attempting to build something with you, to be the last on your priority list while taking up an adventure that can potentially damage the relationship? She has not been shown thinking about Virat's reaction even for a moment knowing that he can be unpredictable and livid about someone challenging his family. Is it Sai's lack of consideration for how this step can affect her relationship with Virat and cause misunderstandings or is it because she is so confident that Virat will side with her and the truth?

I'm going to go a bit off-topic here - into the way female characters are written.

@bold Isn't the fact that Sai is putting so much effort to unite Pulkit-Devi shows her more than compassionate nature? She is intelligent. Does she have to be self-sacrificing too? This is a classic ITV FL trope - if she isn't self-sacrificing she isn't an FL. More so in the case of Sai - she is moophat therefore it has to be balanced by self-sacrifice. World over, there is a tendency to iron out darker shades in female characters because of evidence that such female characters are poorly received by the audience (although similar male characters are easily accepted or even admired). ITV takes this trend a long way further to make the FL a self-sacrificing angel. Why does Sai ask Virat if he got food for everyone in the family in the middle of their (very private) moment of reconciliation(after a heart-breaking fight)? Why does Sai pray for the well-being of each and every member of CN during the alta episode? Is it realistically believable? Doesn't it rob the viewers the pleasure of relating to the characters or show layered female characters? Or are we to assume that being brought up by a single parent - Sai follows the teachings of her father to the 'T' because it has become a part of her identity (albeit a simplistic one)?

In ITV, spousal relationship takes the least priority for a FL - in-laws, social service takes precedence. How is hurting your spouse a good thing? True that Sai is not yet in a secure place with Virat. Still does it mean its okay to risk her standing? I do hope that she is taking this action in faith that Virat will understand - I'm bored of sacrificial lambs.😒

I have been a silent reader of your analysis Janki ji ,but you are seriously blessed in writing and the understanding department .You even make cringe worthy episode look beautiful. I just love how you present everything and everyone.

Lots of love to you.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌄🌻🌻🌼🌼

Today's episode was a gap filler and for setting base for the next week. So have just some unanswered Qs today:

1. Why did none of the chakrams recognise Pulkit? The expressions were so difficult to decipher... Bhavani and her stooges didn't recognise him? Ninad being an army officer needed so much time to register who had entered -- especially if he has lived there? Ashwini, Sonali and Shivani seemed to know Pulkit by face. Ashwini seemed happy that he has come... Does she know the truth? If yes, it would be the most disappointing disclosure of the character. She can't be someone who can keep a secret of a baby being snatched from a mother and the rest of the gory things. How much do the others know?

2. Vedi Vahini's admission in front of everyone - "Maine Badi Mami ke liye vrat rakha hai" in response to Sonali's high praise of Vahini being on "upvaas" since the night before for "Samrat ki salamati".

Who is Samrat??? 😒😟

Not a single person in that Shivratri ki pathshaala by Bhavani had a word to say -- some surprised faces and Queen Bhavani on cloud 1.47 because chaheeti bahu considers her bigger than her 'suhaag'. Even Samrat ki always MIA maa had nothing to say about her susheel bahu's susheelta?

It's quite in the open that Badi Vahini has nothing to do even with the photo of her husband in the bedroom. And the Makad Sena seems to have accepted the fact that her motivation to stay in the house is definitely not Samrat.

Does no one want to know why is she staying on? Is the farce so strong that everyone really thinks that she's so madly in love with the family of a man (legal Husband) she doesn't want to have anything to do with?

Does she herself think that the family loves her? Can a woman who treats her own daughter with scanty respect have any love for any other person? What kind of mutually fake parvaah is this where, as an individual, Patralekha wants to bring this loneliness upon her -- she belongs to no body in that house, least of all, Virat. Is this her version of "junoon aisa ki khud ko jalaa liya?" 🤪🤪

She's actually living there without even an iota of self respect or self worth and her parents can visit time to time to have high-tea and leave? 🤯🥴

Also, how morally numb is this character Patralekha -- blindly following instructions of the Mephistopheles Bhavani without even giving a thought to the action she's been asked to perform. She's like this class monitor who's just thrilled to be given the role of a substitute teacher 🙄😅 "Maine Devyani ko kamre mein bandh Kiya hai, dhyaan rakhna".. monitor goes: Ji badi maami.

No one else cringed either.

3. Ashwini comes back to ask Sai to accept Virat as "Dil se Pati" and not "deal se Pati" by doing Shivji Ka Jaap at night for a khushal marriage... But Sai is obviously not yet in that state of mind. She is willing to put her relationship with Virat at stake for getting Devyani and Pulkit together. Her, "mujhe sirf ek hi jodi ki chinta hai.. DeviTai aur Pulkit sir ki" is a way to show her selfless nature that we've known all along and of course the liberty that the female protagonist has to be the martyr all the time but isn't this feeling problematic? I ask again today -- is it fair on your partner, who's attempting to build something with you, to be the last on your priority list while taking up an adventure that can potentially damage the relationship? She has not been shown thinking about Virat's reaction even for a moment knowing that he can be unpredictable and livid about someone challenging his family. Is it Sai's lack of consideration for how this step can affect her relationship with Virat and cause misunderstandings or is it because she is so confident that Virat will side with her and the truth?

On the side- Vedi vahini eavesdropped on saas-bahu conversation reminding her about the imaginary husband's real wali marriage. Will she accept the advice of doing Om Namo shivaay Jaap for reducing her "tension"?

4. Isn't Karishma a more genuine bahu than Patralekha? She might be a matchstick hersrelf and a chugalkhor but she has perfect observation skills. Her need to seek pleasure in someone else's troubles comes from her deep sense or dissatisfaction and emptiness as an individual. But she was the only one who noticed Bhavani was anxious and asked if she could help - it was genuine although it has an interest attached to be able to get brownie points. Her instincts are never wrong. Of course, she was turned away as usual but wouldn't she have been different if she had been accepted with at least half the respect that the "sabse zimmedar" Bahu has?

5. Devyani doesn't have complete memory of her past, it seems. She needed quite a bit of prodding from Sai to recall the marriage day. Even in her state of mental illness, it meant so much for Devyani to hear that she was the only one in Pulkit's "Dil and Zindagi"🥺🥺 (I hope Sai doesn't draw parallels with the other dil and Zindagi dialogue 😅)... Devyani's constant reminder to Sai that Pulkit and she will be harmed should be a reason enough for alarm but...

This is not a random separation of a couple by a disapproving family. This is actually the tearing apart of a marriage, a baby involved and also definitely a crime. Why is this union being rushed in such a thoughtless manner without considering the legal and medical ramifications?

The scene was beautiful -- right from the moment Sai unlocked the door to the time that the class monitor decided to check, the scene definitely induced tension of what was to come...

The feels one woman gets when opening the wardrobe to a sister/close friend was so real 😅 it made me miss my cousin's wardrobe 😂🤣😂

Waise Sai has these chakchakit clothes overflowing from her cupboard to Virat's. Sometimes she pulls out dresses from the other side 😜 so typically wife 😂😂😂

6. How long would it take for UPSC topper to count 1008 Bel leaves? 😅

A: Only as much time as it needs an ex army officer to set aside his tameez and raise his hand on his ek lauti bahu. 😂😢

Actual Q: Will ek lauta beta go with 'Bass Baba' or 'Please Baba'? 😒🤔

7. Will the cast be dressed in the same costume until March 11 -- actual day of Mahashivratri in real world? So as @sukri said, forget any more hugs happening 😅 I really hope they get a change from this safedi ki chamkaar with chamchamit additions 🥱

8. Lastly, was it only me or did anyone else feel that when Sai was watching the family meditating to the Mahamrutyunjay Jaap, she was looking for seats for Virat and her? 😅😅 Where were they going to sit? All the seats seemed occupied. It really only occurred to me towards the end of the scene that she was looking for Devyani because Devyani being missing from puja is not new 😐

There was one more Q but I won't ask: how is IPS officer having a day off on a festival instead of being on double duty to oversee bandobast? Kaash asli life itni aasan hoti 🙄

****

Sai has given the thought for the day:

"Saccha pyaar thokar khaa Kar bhikharta Nahi hai... Toot ta Nahi hai... Aur mazboot hota hai..."

Is that how Virat and her relationship will eventually be, when it's out of the 'deal mode' and based in complete trust and understanding?

There must be love in holding and there is love in letting go. What matters is the intention, the grace and the reason for not putting up a fight where there could have been one... when two people truly love one another and are then forced to walk different paths in life, it does not matter where they go, they take a part of each other along... It is love: only so long as the reason to hold on to that part of each other is to not extinguish the other.

A comment on "Din and Raat" from The Notebook: "Dusk is just an illusion because the sun is either above the horizon or below it. And that means that day and night are linked in a way that few things are there cannot be one without the other yet they cannot exist at the same time. How would it feel I remember wondering to be always together yet forever apart?"

Do you also think day and night don't meet? I think they do -- twice a day, when they cross and rub each other at 'twilight' 💫✨

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We had such a feisty idea exchange yesterday so manapurvak aabhar 🙏🙏🙏

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Mere sawaalon ka jawab do... Do naa...😅

Aale,

❤️J!

@bold I think she takes Virat’s statement at face value. Just the other day he said he has full faith in her and then in the mandir he said he will do anything to ensure that Devi t’ai is fine. Plus he took a stand against his family, so she feels she can reason with him once he meets Pulkit. She feels he will trust her when the truth is in front of his eyes and not just the information. This will obviously at some point back fire on her.

she doesn’t consider the closeness of her relationship with Virat. She hasn’t really given it much thought. From everything Virat said the other day it is clear to some extent that he harbours great care towards her but to her it can still come under the umbrella of zimmedari. Plus his PP equation is still not clear for her. But to me personally him saying he Will leave the family for her is a big sign. If someone was to say that for me I would definitely think that person cares a GREAT deal more than responsibility for me.

Sai is used to dealing things on her own that she is unable to lean on even Virat.

Hi janaki ji, nice questions... Nothing to add more which you didn't mention earlier... Yes , I am really feeling bad for virat, he might not saying her clearly that he is ready for real marriage but he did it by his actions, standing against family is not easy thing even if they are bad but he did even then sai is not trusting him to tell the Devi issue upfront, I don't get why. If I am in virat's place although I am proud of her my insecure about my place in my my partner life will increase a little, don't you think so. Anyway let's see what's going to happen...

While coming to pakhi didi, I hate her, actually she really loves sai yaar, once she opened her eyes she only searched for sai ,she even didn't bothered for virat if he returned or not😂😂😂

Although I hate her I think she genuinely fasting for bhavani as she asked her to do ( similar way sai mentioned she applied Alta for aai but she actually did for virat) because in her delusional world, bhavani actually loves her... So for her sake she might did the fast.... Don't hate me for this😜😜 but I want to give her this benefit of doubt.

Although I love to see virat's baas baba next week, I don't have high hopes so I think we will be getting plz baba only...

But seriously yaar , after today's episode I want to do award ceremony for chavan family... And my first award... "Bathameezo ki shahansha award" goes to exarmy officer ninad chawan🤢

Originally posted by: jane_austen

I'm going to go a bit off-topic here - into the way female characters are written.

@bold Isn't the fact that Sai is putting so much effort to unite Pulkit-Devi shows her more than compassionate nature? She is intelligent. Does she have to be self-sacrificing too? This is a classic ITV FL trope - if she isn't self-sacrificing she isn't an FL. More so in the case of Sai - she is moophat therefore it has to be balanced by self-sacrifice. World over, there is a tendency to iron out darker shades in female characters because of evidence that such female characters are poorly received by the audience (although similar male characters are easily accepted or even admired). ITV takes this trend a long way further to make the FL a self-sacrificing angel. Why does Sai ask Virat if he got food for everyone in the family in the middle of their (very private) moment of reconciliation(after a heart-breaking fight)? Why does Sai pray for the well-being of each and every member of CN during the alta episode? Is it realistically believable? Doesn't it rob the viewers the pleasure of relating to the characters or show layered female characters? Or are we to assume that being brought up by a single parent - Sai follows the teachings of her father to the 'T' because it has become a part of her identity (albeit a simplistic one)?

In ITV, spousal relationship takes the least priority for a FL - in-laws, social service takes precedence. How is hurting your spouse a good thing? True that Sai is not yet in a secure place with Virat. Still does it mean its okay to risk her standing? I do hope that she is taking this action in faith that Virat will understand - I'm bored of sacrificial lambs.😒

I completely agree with your points. You have voiced it out so well.

Sai has one mantra that she blindly follows without thinking ahead about herself or anyone else

“ she just can’t see anything wrong happening around her”

the CVS are working around her said mantra or teaching.

so she just dives from one problem to another without giving it any second thought. That too she loves Devi t’ai so I think she will go to any extent to make sure she is happy.