Ab Jo bhi karenge, Mahadev karenge... - Page 5

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I really want to see some of her thought processes... What does she think of Virat's changing feelings. We know she has had flashbacks of their special moments briefly but she has never delved into them... she immediately dismisses the ideas. But there have also been moments when she's not been able to hold back and has given in to consciously live the moment -- the first time he fed her, when he grabbed her hand to pull her back in the bed, the apology and even the parking lot touch. But she's still the first one to break the contact too.

I guess we could assume that she knows things have changed between them but she's not going to let go of the 'vaada' until he explicitly states so... and both of them will remain tongue-tied for a while about it. But it should not mean that she is willing to let go of the marriage completely too... all said and done, he's really the only one she has as her own at the moment. And he has told her that genuinely too.

@bold: i wish she explains. If they are on the same side, may be we will be lucky to hear something in that context.

Sai also has given vaadha to Virat that she would never come in between Pakhi and Virat.
And I really think she will not dwell on her changing feelings much unless Virat spashtly says ‘I give a damn about the vaadha I gave Pakhi’.

IMO she is way too moralistic unlike Pakhi

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

@bold: That is really what it is. And I agree with this explanation of yours totally. For her, the relationship with Virat does not matter at this moment as much as it matters to Virat -- that's exactly what I have been trying to say. My questions are not from the pov of questioning her intention-- it is her character trait -- but she's just felt that passionate feeling he has for her when he told his family he will walk away -- and as we discussed the 'touch' in the parking lot. She knows they are a team too. So, I am thinking if her total lack of thought for Virat's reaction comes from her confidence in his support or from not being bothered? I don't tink she is "not bothered" but if she has to choose between Devyani-Pulkit union and her own marriage, she will let go of her own marriage.

That's why her statement to Devyani today gave a bit of an insight into her mind: Saccha pyaar thokar khaane se nahi toot ta... May be it was also her way of suggesting that the trust between Virat and her would eventually be that.

But although she's different from the other kitchen politics bahus, one can't deny that they are still making her do a few things that pander to the stereotypes of the 'bahu material' but that is only for the mass appeal I guess. I agree that the show is watch worthy only for her.

i agree with you. she might not have thought of virat and her relationship while taking this step, but i think at the back of her mind she is confident of virat’s support knowing how much devi matters to virat and also his nature of supporting right. her question to virat in the previous episode regarding devi confirms this to me.

yes it would be ideal to have included virat in her plan but this is itv and they have this habit of glorifying fl , she is always a super woman.

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Hi janaki ji, nice questions...

'Ji' mat add kijiye please 😆

Nothing to add more which you didn't mention earlier... Yes , I am really feeling bad for virat, he might not saying her clearly that he is ready for real marriage but he did it by his actions, standing against family is not easy thing even if they are bad but he did even then sai is not trusting him to tell the Devi issue upfront, I don't get why. If I am in virat's place although I am proud of her my insecure about my place in my my partner life will increase a little, don't you think so. Anyway let's see what's going to happen...

Between the two of them, it is Virat who really has made up his mind that he wants to keep the marriage forever. Sai does not intend to break the marriage but the 'deal' and chali jaana is weighing heavily on her so although she can see the change and he's said thrice now, "jaane nahi doonga", "parivaar hoon", "i am your family", "mujhse pyaar karti ho", "pyaar toh hota hi hai beech mein", she will not relent so soon because he is not answering her question about his feeling for Vahini and the reason why he gave her the vaada... Now, this is where she will continue to be Sai Joshi until he tells her that she's the 'patni'... because she wants an answer, and rightfully so, to the question about what he meant when he said he's "committed" to someone else. She is not wrong. But yes, despite all that, they have a bond that they share with no one else and by that virtue, not taking him in the loop before launching an attack on the family along with Pulkit is not the best way to do it

While coming to pakhi didi, I hate her, actually she really loves sai yaar, once she opened her eyes she only searched for sai ,she even didn't bothered for virat if he returned or not😂😂😂

This really cracked me up 🤣 Today she was behaving like the typical class monitor who has been told to mind the class 🤣

Although I hate her I think she genuinely fasting for bhavani as she asked her to do ( similar way sai mentioned she applied Alta for aai but she actually did for virat) because in her delusional world, bhavani actually loves her... So for her sake she might did the fast.... Don't hate me for this😜😜 but I want to give her this benefit of doubt.

I don't think she's fasting for Bhavani. If at all she's fasting it is because she's angry with Virat and doesn't feel like eating 🤣 And that comment about "Badi Mami ke liye" felt more like her "imaginary roothi huyi biwi" taunt to Virat -- "Go to hell, I am not fasting for you" ... Samrat toh obviously is not in the picture at all 😆

Although I love to see virat's baas baba next week, I don't have high hopes so I think we will be getting plz baba only...

It will be "Please baba" but a stern one.

But seriously yaar , after today's episode I want to do award ceremony for chavan family... And my first award... "Bathameezo ki shahansha award" goes to exarmy officer ninad chawan🤢

Mast haan mast! 😆

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

My guess is also that he will be upset and feel let down for sure but the issue at hand is bigger and he might not really take Ninad to task. Raising hand at the daughter in law is such a filthy act.

Letter?

Yeah in other versions virats character will support sai there will decide to reunite devi and pulkit get them married until an anonymous letter pops up claiming pulkit is married so and so which was actually done by pakhi when kaku asked her for help

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

it's beautiful how you have put that across! Yes, she looks like she's really "maturity ki raah par" as Virat said. But still impulsive 😆 She does look like a young woman now, even her mannerisms have become more 'wifely' for obvious reasons and some typical navra-baiko words they use in their banter -- Virat's 'theek hai theek hai' and Sai's "offo!"🤣 and "sunte hi nahi hain aap"🤣🤣

I noticed that she uses Virat's cupboard to keep some of her dresses and commonly used samaan like towels etc -- it's such a typical arrangement of couple's wardrobes 🤣i don't know if its added on purpose or as usual their bloopers in forgetting whose cupboard is on which side.

@bold: pehle hi there are many people in angst that no explicit romance is being shown, ab ye idea de diya toh sab aur dukhi ho jayenge 😆😆

What I find really funny in this navra baiko

They both show more inclination towards the other ka profession

sayi has never treated any bimar ... but has all the time for sleuthing and giving out DHossss ... don’t know the English word as a protector of law .. she also likes wearing the police cap and using danda

whereas virat has all the time to play dr nurse giving medicines , taking temperature.. doing dava patti and also giving gyan on fainting spells ..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌄🌻🌻🌼🌼

Today's episode was a gap filler and for setting base for the next week. So have just some unanswered Qs today:

1. Why did none of the chakrams recognise Pulkit? The expressions were so difficult to decipher... Bhavani and her stooges didn't recognise him? Ninad being an army officer needed so much time to register who had entered -- especially if he has lived there? Ashwini, Sonali and Shivani seemed to know Pulkit by face. Ashwini seemed happy that he has come... Does she know the truth? If yes, it would be the most disappointing disclosure of the character. She can't be someone who can keep a secret of a baby being snatched from a mother and the rest of the gory things. How much do the others know?

>>> After 10 years people do look different and not that these guys carried his photo around so might have been difficult to recognise with all the specs and all.

2. Vedi Vahini's admission in front of everyone - "Maine Badi Mami ke liye vrat rakha hai" in response to Sonali's high praise of Vahini being on "upvaas" since the night before for "Samrat ki salamati".

Who is Samrat??? 😒😟

Not a single person in that Shivratri ki pathshaala by Bhavani had a word to say -- some surprised faces and Queen Bhavani on cloud 1.47 because chaheeti bahu considers her bigger than her 'suhaag'. Even Samrat ki always MIA maa had nothing to say about her susheel bahu's susheelta?

It's quite in the open that Badi Vahini has nothing to do even with the photo of her husband in the bedroom. And the Makad Sena seems to have accepted the fact that her motivation to stay in the house is definitely not Samrat.

Does no one want to know why is she staying on? Is the farce so strong that everyone really thinks that she's so madly in love with the family of a man (legal Husband) she doesn't want to have anything to do with?

Does she herself think that the family loves her? Can a woman who treats her own daughter with scanty respect have any love for any other person? What kind of mutually fake parvaah is this where, as an individual, Patralekha wants to bring this loneliness upon her -- she belongs to no body in that house, least of all, Virat. Is this her version of "junoon aisa ki khud ko jalaa liya?" 🤪🤪

She's actually living there without even an iota of self respect or self worth and her parents can visit time to time to have high-tea and leave? 🤯🥴

Also, how morally numb is this character Patralekha -- blindly following instructions of the Mephistopheles Bhavani without even giving a thought to the action she's been asked to perform. She's like this class monitor who's just thrilled to be given the role of a substitute teacher 🙄😅 "Maine Devyani ko kamre mein bandh Kiya hai, dhyaan rakhna".. monitor goes: Ji badi maami.

No one else cringed either.

>>> Vedi Vahini has her own world which lives in. I didnt understand the dialogue and how come no one flinched after hearing it. Vedi vahini has nothing to do with Samrat and i guess no one in the house cares either. Waise I have a question of my own, does the MA pass bahu have a brain of her own ya ki tyala pan ghanj lagla aahe

3. Ashwini comes back to ask Sai to accept Virat as "Dil se Pati" and not "deal se Pati" by doing Shivji Ka Jaap at night for a khushal marriage... But Sai is obviously not yet in that state of mind. She is willing to put her relationship with Virat at stake for getting Devyani and Pulkit together. Her, "mujhe sirf ek hi jodi ki chinta hai.. DeviTai aur Pulkit sir ki" is a way to show her selfless nature that we've known all along and of course the liberty that the female protagonist has to be the martyr all the time but isn't this feeling problematic? I ask again today -- is it fair on your partner, who's attempting to build something with you, to be the last on your priority list while taking up an adventure that can potentially damage the relationship? She has not been shown thinking about Virat's reaction even for a moment knowing that he can be unpredictable and livid about someone challenging his family. Is it Sai's lack of consideration for how this step can affect her relationship with Virat and cause misunderstandings or is it because she is so confident that Virat will side with her and the truth?

On the side- Vedi vahini eavesdropped on saas-bahu conversation reminding her about the imaginary husband's real wali marriage. Will she accept the advice of doing Om Namo shivaay Jaap for reducing her "tension"?

>>> Vedi vahini is on a different level of delusion, i did not understand that scene and the correlation. Vaise vahini would want to do a different jap i guess.

4. Isn't Karishma a more genuine bahu than Patralekha? She might be a matchstick hersrelf and a chugalkhor but she has perfect observation skills. Her need to seek pleasure in someone else's troubles comes from her deep sense or dissatisfaction and emptiness as an individual. But she was the only one who noticed Bhavani was anxious and asked if she could help - it was genuine although it has an interest attached to be able to get brownie points. Her instincts are never wrong. Of course, she was turned away as usual but wouldn't she have been different if she had been accepted with at least half the respect that the "sabse zimmedar" Bahu has?

5. Devyani doesn't have complete memory of her past, it seems. She needed quite a bit of prodding from Sai to recall the marriage day. Even in her state of mental illness, it meant so much for Devyani to hear that she was the only one in Pulkit's "Dil and Zindagi"🥺🥺 (I hope Sai doesn't draw parallels with the other dil and Zindagi dialogue 😅)... Devyani's constant reminder to Sai that Pulkit and she will be harmed should be a reason enough for alarm but...

This is not a random separation of a couple by a disapproving family. This is actually the tearing apart of a marriage, a baby involved and also definitely a crime. Why is this union being rushed in such a thoughtless manner without considering the legal and medical ramifications?

The scene was beautiful -- right from the moment Sai unlocked the door to the time that the class monitor decided to check, the scene definitely induced tension of what was to come...

The feels one woman gets when opening the wardrobe to a sister/close friend was so real 😅 it made me miss my cousin's wardrobe 😂🤣😂

Waise Sai has these chakchakit clothes overflowing from her cupboard to Virat's. Sometimes she pulls out dresses from the other side 😜 so typically wife 😂😂😂

6. How long would it take for UPSC topper to count 1008 Bel leaves? 😅

>>> Jab take director nahi bolenge tab tak 😆

A: Only as much time as it needs an ex army officer to set aside his tameez and raise his hand on his ek lauti bahu. 😂😢

Actual Q: Will ek lauta beta go with 'Bass Baba' or 'Please Baba'? 😒🤔

>>> Waise i was thinking why would Virat side with Sai, just because he has feelings for her don't think so. There has to be something. Last time he sided with the family and yelled at Sai (Amey incident) cause he came after Ninad saying it and Sai reacting. Here its actually different, by Ninad's action they have pushed Virat to Sai's side. They forgot tact and have infused force (that's because he was not around and the damage was done). This would give him enough reason to believe force was applied on both the parties Devi tai and Pulkit.

7. Will the cast be dressed in the same costume until March 11 -- actual day of Mahashivratri in real world? So as @sukri said, forget any more hugs happening 😅 I really hope they get a change from this safedi ki chamkaar with chamchamit additions 🥱

>>> Aage ke 3 episode mein toh dikhenge. Agar ek sunday 8 episode chal sakta hain toh ye toh Mahashivratri hain behen

8. Lastly, was it only me or did anyone else feel that when Sai was watching the family meditating to the Mahamrutyunjay Jaap, she was looking for seats for Virat and her? 😅😅 Where were they going to sit? All the seats seemed occupied. It really only occurred to me towards the end of the scene that she was looking for Devyani because Devyani being missing from puja is not new 😐

There was one more Q but I won't ask: how is IPS officer having a day off on a festival instead of being on double duty to oversee bandobast? Kaash asli life itni aasan hoti 🙄

>>> Welcome to the world of no logic....ITV it is. And that's very tragic.

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Sai has given the thought for the day:

"Saccha pyaar thokar khaa Kar bhikharta Nahi hai... Toot ta Nahi hai... Aur mazboot hota hai..."

Is that how Virat and her relationship will eventually be, when it's out of the 'deal mode' and based in complete trust and understanding?

There must be love in holding and there is love in letting go. What matters is the intention, the grace and the reason for not putting up a fight where there could have been one... when two people truly love one another and are then forced to walk different paths in life, it does not matter where they go, they take a part of each other along... It is love: only so long as the reason to hold on to that part of each other is to not extinguish the other.

A comment on "Din and Raat" from The Notebook: "Dusk is just an illusion because the sun is either above the horizon or below it. And that means that day and night are linked in a way that few things are there cannot be one without the other yet they cannot exist at the same time. How would it feel I remember wondering to be always together yet forever apart?"

Do you also think day and night don't meet? I think they do -- twice a day, when they cross and rub each other at 'twilight' 💫✨

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We had such a feisty idea exchange yesterday so manapurvak aabhar 🙏🙏🙏

To find answers to the above, continue with Dr Sai Joshi's prescription of 'how to drive away tension' and us par, add a dose of today's ☕☕☕☕ or 🍵🍵🍵🍵

Saath me 🤗🤗🤗🤗 and lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️ dedicated to Sai and DeviTai's hug

Aapka weekend awesome rahe🌷🌷🌷

Mere sawaalon ka jawab do... Do naa...😅

Aale,

❤️J!

We wait for the next round of taunts and what not from tomorrow, however missed to comment on yesterdays episode. It was a filler, with few insights and as usual your analysis rather questions are bang on.

Some comments in blue and lets see what the week brings along. Waiting for your analysis tomorrow

Ninad's action might be a reason for Virat to swing that side or may be not. Lets see.

Sai for me is absolutely wrong right now ..keeping into consideration what happened early this morning..

Sai was totally wrong day before as well.. Had Virat not done the hand grabbing thing and denial of food, it was Sao who was entirely wrong. And she is yet to apologize. Her behavior with Virat was not justified at all. Day before it was but not that day. She was upset with the family and with Virat because of the Ladakh issue and I do give her a benefit of doubt, that it was all a pent up reaction. still when things were calm Virat owed and apology.

Also what she has done now is also upsetting.. without talking to Virat or even giving him a hint she has pulled in Pulkit. If we look at Pulkit's story from Sai's angle, she has just heard one side. There could be many possibilities where Kaku might have been right in not letting Pulkit be with Devi and Devi exactly doesnt remember he is vile. I am not saying this is true, but from Sai's perspective this could be one angle. She is too impulsive and thats where I find her a bit immature, rigid and also I am always right and know it all. The way she dismissed Aai's concern on her marriage is something I did not like, after Virat's stance in front of his whole family earlier that day. At this moment Virat is making more efforts in the marriage and looks more attached to Sai. For Sai it's still a deal and if doesn't work till its "expiry date", its not her problem.