Sai is amazing

I totally love Sai's character..The best thing about her is that she doesn't take any crap from anyone be it Kaku or pakhi..

I was so bored of ITV's doormat leading ladies and Sai is like a breath of fresh air..Totally bindass and firey..And ayesha is doing a great job potraying Sai..She is an amazing actress..

Originally posted by: angelic_charm

I totally love Sai's character..The best thing about her is that she doesn't take any crap from anyone be it Kaku or pakhi..

I was so bored of ITV's doormat leading ladies and Sai is like a breath of fresh air..Totally bindass and firey..And ayesha is doing a great job potraying Sai..She is an amazing actress..

What is there to love about her character? Her character ia horrible. I really dont understand this girl who doesnt respect anyone, not even the ones who actually loves her in that house, can also be liked? She is mannerless to a worst level and u love her bcoz she is not doormat Do people have to become so mannerless in order to prove that they are not doormat? She is a pain to watch. There is a limit of arrogance but she has crossed all limits.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

What is there to love about her character? Her character ia horrible. I really dont understand this girl who doesnt respect anyone, not even the ones who actually loves her in that house, can also be liked? She is mannerless to a worst level and u love her bcoz she is not doormat Do people have to become so mannerless in order to prove that they are not doormat? She is a pain to watch. There is a limit of arrogance but she has crossed all limits.

that is your opinion and i understand it

but why is it that when a woman is outspoken she becomes mannerless? She does respect aai, shivani bua, mohit, devi tai, usha mausi, virat. she even respects the others to the extent of caring for them.

The way she shows respect is probably different. ji sir ji sir karne se sirf respect nahi hoti.

even aai mentioned, if you make her understand something with love she will do it with all her heart.

Respect is for those who deserve it, not for those who demand it..

Yes, she is flawed but aren't we all?

Originally posted by: angelic_charm

I totally love Sai's character..The best thing about her is that she doesn't take any crap from anyone be it Kaku or pakhi..

I was so bored of ITV's doormat leading ladies and Sai is like a breath of fresh air..Totally bindass and firey..And ayesha is doing a great job potraying Sai..She is an amazing actress..

yeah.

i usually dont watch SP shows but i gave it a try as this show has a similar storyline as one show that i liked before. and also cuz of neil bhatt as i admire his acting skills a lot.

but what making me stick to show even after all this roz roz ka tamasha in the show is sai's character.

i was sick and tired of watching shows in which they show FL as mahaan, who forgives anyone very easily and never say a word back to elders and be like 'bade hai, kuch soch samaj kar hi bole honge' and sab kuch chup chap sehna for no reason and forgetting her self respect on the name of 'love' sacrificing everything as if she is born to 'suffer' only.

sai's character in this show is a gem. she expressions her feelings very openly that we all wish to do but not able to do cuz of society norms and stereotypes and wish to see ITV FLs doing instead of being an abla naari and sab kuch chup chap sehna. (dil ki baat)

but sometimes they overdo it also as it is an ITV show. they can show this more beautifully.

Originally posted by: Svt611

that is your opinion and i understand it

but why is it that when a woman is outspoken she becomes mannerless? She does respect aai, shivani bua, mohit, devi tai, usha mausi, virat. she even respects the others to the extent of caring for them.

The way she shows respect is probably different. ji sir ji sir karne se sirf respect nahi hoti.

even aai mentioned, if you make her understand something with love she will do it with all her heart.

Respect is for those who deserve it, not for those who demand it..

Yes, she is flawed but aren't we all?

Being outspoken is different and being mannerless different. She doesnt mallow even when Virat tries infinite times to make her happy. After marriage there are many comprises that both husband and wife has to do. But, I have always seen Virat doing for her and she only makes the poor guy cries. How can she be so full of herself? Okay u dont want to take crap from someone? Dont take. But do you have to give crap to someone all the time? Forget about family. But what about Virat? The guys usually dont give such a treatment to their wives but he is going out of the way and fighting with the entire family for her. Still she is the same mannerless brat. Poor Virat, she is definately going to repent one day, only if cvs wants us to show that lol. But in a real life scenario it is bound to happen.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

What is there to love about her character? Her character ia horrible. I really dont understand this girl who doesnt respect anyone, not even the ones who actually loves her in that house, can also be liked? She is mannerless to a worst level and u love her bcoz she is not doormat Do people have to become so mannerless in order to prove that they are not doormat? She is a pain to watch. There is a limit of arrogance but she has crossed all limits.

@bold

1) she speaks whats in her heart, she doesnt 'act' in front of people.

2) kadwa bolti hai but sach bolti hai (not everyone can digest the truth)

3) she is a practical thinking girl who has control over her feeling (she never got carried away by the sweet attitude that virat shows, even though she started developing feelings for him, cuz she knows its a deal marriage so she knows her limits there)

4) she stands for what is right no matter who the person she is standing against.

5) she can do anything for her loved ones, shivani, mohit and now devyani.

6) she do have ego and everything those are normal human qualities but she do keep them aside when needed. she kept her ego aside and said sorry to pakhi by going to her home just because virat was upset. and again she kept her ego aside and spoke normally to pakhi even though she created a big scene about sai joining her in the trip.

7) people say she is immature but she is more mature than virat and pakhi, (she was the only one to understand that more than giving insaaf to shivani her innocence needed to be proven so that her confidence wont get shattered and zindagi bhar woh sar jhukake na jeeye, not even virat or chavans thought about it) sometimes she does bachpana and doesn't know much about how mean the world is, u can call it maasoomyat.

she behaves with people the same way they behave with her.

she respects people who she thinks deserve it.

do u think kaku and gang and people like pakhi and all deserve any respect?

even she has character flaws, like any other character does. i dont say no here.

it is just that some cant connects to her character easily as they got used to seeing abla naari type bechaari bahus who are soo mahaan never says a word back to elders and think of pati is parmeshwar, so some find it difficult accept ITV bahu like sai.

it is totally on you whether to like her or not. we do respect different povs of people. most of us do like her cuz of the reasons i mentioned above.

Totally agree. Sai is a wonderful charecter that blew me off my feet. I love her like I never did any FL before. She is awesome and Ayesha breathes life into the role.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

Being outspoken is different and being mannerless different. She doesnt mallow even when Virat tries infinite times to make her happy. After marriage there are many comprises that both husband and wife has to do. But, I have always seen Virat doing for her and she only makes the poor guy cries. How can she be so full of herself? Okay u dont want to take crap from someone? Dont take. But do you have to give crap to someone all the time? Forget about family. But what about Virat? The guys usually dont give such a treatment to their wives but he is going out of the way and fighting with the entire family for her. Still she is the same mannerless brat. Poor Virat, she is definately going to repent one day, only if cvs wants us to show that lol. But in a real life scenario it is bound to happen.

Please bear with me but at times Virat actually provokes her by his silence while Pakki taunts him. The one person Virat should clearly defend her from is Pakki which gives the latter wings to do as she pleases with Sai. But i will say thats because she is yet to be diplomatic and clearly Virat is not the one who can teach her diplomacy. And Sai character is the only character in the show that is realistic, there are girls like her who have good nature but don't know to talk properly because they are raised as the only child and parents tend to spoil them rotten but with time they mellow down if they get a constructive family but a criticizing family like Chavans deserve her bad mouth or she may die inside as it is she is dying slowly

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

@bold

1) she speaks whats in her heart, she 'act' in front of people.

2) kadwa bolti hai but sach bolti hai (not everyone can digest the truth)

3) she is a practical thinking girl who has control over her feeling (she never got carried away by the sweet attitude that virat shows, even though she started developing feelings for him, cuz she knows its a deal marriage so she knows her limits there)

4) she stands for what is right no matter who the person she is standing against.

5) she can do anything for her loved ones, shivani, mohit and now devyani.

6) she do have ego and everything those are normal human qualities but she do keep them aside when needed. she kept her ego aside and said sorry to pakhi by going to her home just because virat was upset. and again she kept her ego aside and spoke normally to pakhi even though she created a big scene about sai joining her in the trip.

7) people say she is immature but she is more mature than virat and pakhi, (she was the only one to understand that more than giving insaaf to shivani her innocence needed to be proven so that her confidence wont get shattered and zindagi bhar woh sar jhukake na jeeye, not even virat or chavans thought about it) sometimes she does bachpana and doesn't know much about how mean the world is, u can call it maasoomyat.

she behaves with people the same way they behave with her.

she respects people who she thinks deserve it.

do u think kaku and gang and people like pakhi and all deserve any respect?

even she has character flaws, like any other character does. i dont say no here.

it is just that some cant connects to her character easily as they got used to seeing abla naari type bechaari bahus who are soo mahaan never says a word back to elders and think of pati is parmeshwar, so some find it difficult accept ITV bahu like sai.

it is totally on you whether to like her or not. we do respect different povs of people. most of us do like her cuz of the reasons i mentioned above.

Sorry couldnt agree with u. Everyone has a heart. Its not that only Sai is like that who speaks her heart out. But everyone has to behave sensibly in life. A person who never feels that she can also be wrong and can go to any limit to prove others wrong cannot achieve anything is life. Slowly she will loose everything than what is the point of her honestly. Its not good to be so blunt. I am not saying this bcoz she is a woman and so she needs to mallow down. She is just a human like all others. Here everyone asks do the family deserve respect. I mean like i dont think she iw respectable to Virat's mother also at times. I have seen her backanswering her too even though she doesnt mind. But that doesnt hide her brat nature and doesnt prove that she is not wrong. Now a days girls want to be independent and strong and so they support characters like Sai failing to understand the difference between strong and arrogant. Let me ask you. Do u behave like her and fight with mostly everyone around u? Or do u plab to become like her in future? Now when u ask this question to urself, u will realize that she is just good to see on TV but not in real life.

Originally posted by: janaki17789

Please bear with me but at times Virat actually provokes her by his silence while Pakki taunts him. The one person Virat should clearly defend her from is Pakki which gives the latter wings to do as she pleases with Sai. But i will say thats because she is yet to be diplomatic and clearly Virat is not the one who can teach her diplomacy. And Sai character is the only character in the show that is realistic, there are girls like her who have good nature but don't know to talk properly because they are raised as the only child and parents tend to spoil them rotten but with time they mellow down if they get a constructive family but a criticizing family like Chavans deserve her bad mouth or she may die inside as it is she is dying slowly

I feel Virat is dying slowly. He must be feeling to bang hia head on the wall. He is always putting his hand on this hand. Why the people her cant see his bad condition due to Sai? What will happen if she at times agree with Virat instead of putting her point as the top priority? There is no use of her good heart if she cannot win anyone's heart. She will be always alone in her life with her good heart as she doesnt have any sense of relationship. I dont think any guy other than Virat also can tolerate her. All these justifications doesnt prove her right