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In all this, Virats...if Sai and I had to go on honeymoon, I would have gone way before, I dont need your permission..that was too good.

When Sai asked the right question..What type of trip are you going with my husband, I really wished Pakhi answered that. It was Virat who didnt want truth to come out..throw jilebis..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Nitu!! He did everything right. I agree that he was questioning PP but his choice of reference word "Maana ki wo nasamajh hai..." was a problem. In that moment, unknowingly, he reinforced the belief that everyone carries about Sai. I understood that he was using it as an irony to show PP the mirror but well, the whole gang that is forever ready to mob lynch that poor soul doesn't use its discerning mind to understand. They will latch on to the fact that he thinks she is nasamajh and immature. Which is what happened when Ninad supported PP's "Main hi mature kyun banu"... No one got his point and it was almost as if they mutually agreed that Sai's immaturity caused all the riot about Ladakh. They are all going to hold it against Sai forever. And yes, as you asked yesterday as well, it would have happened anyway but then as Virat said, had he told them that he was planning to take her along, earlier, and not at the last minute, they would have blamed him as well and not just Sai for "patti padhana"... The trip was going to be cancelled and I am surprised at how much he overestimated the maturity of his "best friend"... In the end, the one person who was actually crushed was Sai.

@bold If Kaku and gang believed so then Kaku would not have advised Pakhi to wait for the right time when Sai will no longer in Virat’s good books . I don’t think the adjective he used to describe her will change the way they see Sai Virat’s relationship. Even if they believe so will anything change . They know Virat’s opinion about Sai . If they believed Virat considers her as immature they would be rejoicing instead of waiting for the right time to strike

He wasn't trying to list her shortcomings but actually show them that their notion about her is misplaced but the words did exactly the opposite in that moment. I am not even criticising him for this remark -- it can be passed but he definitely does not want to acknowledge why there is bad blood between them. In the initial episodes, Sai wasn't reacting to insult PP but because he was pushing PP on to her without showing sensitivity -- even at that time, she kept telling him how it is not needed and the point she was trying to make is the same: PP will not like it. She said it even during their marriage ritual, "You have hurt Pakhi by marrying me. Even if I leave you eventually, her hurt will be irreversible." Throughout the rituals in the house, she could see Pakhi's flowing tears and crestfallen face but Virat was still pushing PP to dress up the bride -- he was being insensitive just like he is insensitive to Sai's feelings in this matter at times. His need to have the two women embrace each other without acknowledging that he is actually the bone of contention between them is a problem. I don't know if it is his lack of understanding all this while or his sheer lack of empathy of what two women feel because he has never really seen the pain of a woman or anyone in his house to understand why they are in pain. His response to possible pain has been "oh, what can i sacrifice to console them" instead of finding the cause and uprooting it from the root. He's doing the same thing here by expecting them to like each other and talk about their differences on a trip to Ladakh without even understanding the delusion of Vahini and the anguish of his wife, who he's begun to accept and expects the same acceptance from her too. So, to bring them on one platform and tell them that they are each other's dushmans is a problem.

I have a question, do you think Kaku gang blames Sai when she does something wrong or they look for a reason to blame her . Even if he had announced early on , they would have taunted her for manipulating Virat or something else . The only way they would shut up is when Sai does things the way they want .

I am sure when Sai asks him these very questions about his own culpability in this emotional mess that PP and she are going through, he is going to lose his mind. I really hope he wakes up and does the expected at least now.

I hope he understands and accepts what Pakhi feels for him . He should realize Pakhi is looking for an EMA

Loved reading your update after catching the last two episodes.

I find the whole situation Virats doing. He is encouraging Pakhi knowingly or unknowingly.

Pakhi is a mess and a waste of screen space 😷

Virat even referring to Pakhi as mature sounds like the most silliest thing😵. He clearly sees what she does but hardly takes her to task for it. I don't mean just the once during Mohit time doesn't make up for the innumerous times he's taken Sai to task😡

Sai r/ship with him before marriage and after marriage are different .

I want Sai to fire those same bullets at her Virat sir about time someone stamped on the 'elephant in the room' going by the bts.

She should confront him as she sees.

Beast Friend has so much power in that house that she can speak to Virats mother like that and he silences his mom - rather than the immature, spoilt brat??!! That says a lot about Virat.

He's behaviour with his mum and Sai is different to rest of family - just like he told his Beast friend, that her behaviour towards Sai is different to how she treats everyone else.

I haven't watched in a while - but I hope they maintain a strong Sai with dignity.

That suitcase trip scene - p is a venomous, sore looser. Even if the other's didn't get the hidden message they're not that obtuse to not understand that P had lost a lot of grace🤪

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

In all this, Virats...if Sai and I had to go on honeymoon, I would have gone way before, I dont need your permission..that was too good.

When Sai asked the right question..What type of trip are you going with my husband, I really wished Pakhi answered that. It was Virat who didnt want truth to come out..throw jilebis..

She hit jackpot with that question - after that despite her tears and absolving Virat of his brother's responsibility 😵. ..she knew she'd fallen badly.

VIrat nither has the guts to speak the truth nor hear the truth, When sai points out the truth He just makes the face like he doesnot understand what she is talking or divert the topic. And the truth still will be left unanswered by him.

Great analysis!

Whole scene felt incomplete to me! Unsure why?

Virat Kind of victimising himself by saying why don’t you two cut me first and his insinuation that Sai and Pp both have problem with each other came out of nowhere.

Sai never had problem with Pp and it should be quite clear to Virat!

Flow wasn’t great!

And actress playing PP’s acting made it all funny and unreal! Actress should get a reality check and focus on acting rather than justifying her role!

Many negative characters are loved and adored by fans as actors are doing amazing job and they believe in what they are doing.

But unfortunately this actress is neither doing great acting nor doing justice to her role by white washing her role!

Your role doesn’t define you as a person! She should really start reflecting..

Originally posted by: Sunshinebhumii

Great analysis!

Whole scene felt incomplete to me! Unsure why?

Virat Kind of victimising himself by saying why don’t you two cut me first and his insinuation that Sai and Pp both have problem with each other came out of nowhere.

Sai never had problem with Pp and it should be quite clear to Virat!

Flow wasn’t great!

And actress playing PP’s acting made it all funny and unreal! Actress should get a reality check and focus on acting rather than justifying her role!

Many negative characters are loved and adored by fans as actors are doing amazing job and they believe in what they are doing.

But unfortunately this actress is neither doing great acting nor doing justice to her role by white washing her role!

Your role doesn’t define you as a person! She should really start reflecting..

Yes flow was not great .. sayi has never fought for virat .. so virat insinuating that both should cut him in pieces ..is totally wrong

The point is pakhi wants virat .. even though others in the family know about it .. they will not acknowledge it and try to portray it as all right .. even virat himself is not willing to acknowledge it

Sayi is not claiming virat .. she feels he is not hers .. he belongs to pakhi .. and is being pushed by her mother in law to claim him ..,and is also being pulled by virat himself .. He wants her to claim him but goes hot n cold .. and the family feels she is possessive about him .. 🤯

Originally posted by: Sunshinebhumii

Great analysis!

Whole scene felt incomplete to me! Unsure why?

Virat Kind of victimising himself by saying why don’t you two cut me first and his insinuation that Sai and Pp both have problem with each other came out of nowhere.

Sai never had problem with Pp and it should be quite clear to Virat!

Flow wasn’t great!

And actress playing PP’s acting made it all funny and unreal! Actress should get a reality check and focus on acting rather than justifying her role!

Many negative characters are loved and adored by fans as actors are doing amazing job and they believe in what they are doing.

But unfortunately this actress is neither doing great acting nor doing justice to her role by white washing her role!

Your role doesn’t define you as a person! She should really start reflecting..

Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗