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Originally posted by: Sakmen

No, not at all. Her decision to marry samrat would have changed only in one situation, i.e., virat marrying her in the same mandap. Otherwise, come what may she would have married Samrat.. now she has covered it under the "bhankas vaada" and if the vaada wasn't there she'd marry for the revengeful nature as you said. Pakhi is definitely self centered and egoistic and I'd like to add, over sensitive. The reason that I feel is that being the only daughter of an apparently rich "shahnav kul" family she has got every wish of hers good or bad fulfilled without any effort or problem, so even if the smallest of things don't go her way she takes it on her ego.. that is what she did by immediately accepting to get married to samrat when she thought virat had left her.

I also feel that she herself has a very low self esteem, that's why maybe she feels everything to be an offence (beizzati) against her. I know she calls everything that sai says to be beizzati coz she just wants to demean her in front of virat. But her lack of self esteem is a bigger reason for that. I don't know if she was like this before but maybe she is loosing her self worth in front of her own self coz she can see someone else taking a more important place in virat's life.

I just fail to understand why her parents don't make any efforts to put some sense into the girl.. just because she doesn't want to listen to anything unpleasant and against her whims and fancies and they don't want to upset her?! Then I'd say that more than her, her parents are responsible for her delusional state, for making her so over sensitive and doing only what she pleases.

@bold - I agree that Pakhi has very low self-esteem. And understandably, it is coming from her indulgent parents. I've heard that poor self-esteem is a result of not only over-critical parents but also over-indulgent parents who don't correct their child when required. Pakhi seems to have had that kind of upbringing.

Originally posted by: Roch

Yes she can tell (and this the problem with the shows - varna story aage kaise badega).
But for her to tell, Navra Baiko need to be on the same page. Looking at them feels like Baika has given cold treatment to Navra and that’s the reaction we are getting. Yes no doubt he would be upset about her not telling, iska ek simple solution hain he can also go along. But ego ka hum phir Kya karenge achchar dalenge

Do u think sai will allow virat come along with her .

If Sai wanted to virat accompany her then she would had easily told him atleast.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Do u think sai will allow virat come along with her .

If Sai wanted to virat accompany her then she would had easily told him atleast.

Do you think he will let Sai proceed further,if he knows the reason! I don’t think he will approve of her idea. She won’t be allowed to go and find out.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sai always wanted Virat to tackle Devi issue. Whenever she asked Devi the name of her husband,she would add..Virat Sir will search and get him to you. She even did brief discussion with him,the night before this Ladak drama. Virat stuck with his own notion that it was Devi’s veham and closed the topic.

Do you think he will let Sai proceed further,if he knows the reason! I don’t think he will approve of her idea. She won’t be allowed to go and find out.

This 3 time sai carrying this behaviour where she going out without telling d exact reason.

1) to DIG sir

2) pakhi's house

Both time later virat came clarified family where & 4 what sai went for .

3) pulkit house

I guess we should not forgot danda kand where sai was not telling anyone including virat where she went later her behaviour with Virat was really awesome

She never even tries to talk to virat . Will sai even listen what virat want to say , virat ko to pata bhi nhi pulkit ke baare mein.

Amay case only she very clearly said she very said we will work on my plan bass , uske baad Shivani interfer & then virat loose his cool.

So yes sai don't care what virat think , usne soch liya vo kaafi hain uske liye . Sai's monologue says she don't want to name pulkit not even 2 virat. She will not allow virat to come along .

When Vittal kidnap pari & sai was adamant to save her that time they jointly work to save pari as virat dint let sai escape. So yes he will not let sai put herself in danger.

Any person will demand answer where d person going on Sunday that 2 a professor house , even ur parents will ask not let u leave without answering them.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

@blue 👍🏼. I guess you are right - the level of obsession that she has shown definitely makes it seem like she would have married Samrat anyway irrespective of vaada. What still intrigues me is why Virat gave such a promise (remaining unattached all his life)- or rather why he thought such a promise would be appealing to anyone in the first place.

@red This part of the plot has really bugged me. So even though a part of him knows Pakhi's intentions, he is in denial about it? Can people really be in denial about something this huge?

@bold I am totally unable to understand why Virat gave such a promise to pakhi when she was going to marry his brother?? I mean the vaada still makes sense if she was not supposed to be in his house...but giving such a promise to his would-be SIL????? I find it totally misleading...So what was the plan?? He will be in the same house as Samrat and Pakhi...their rooms seem to be close by too 😂 😂 and then gaze/peep into their room?? or walk into each other's room at their wish and will, as they do now?? Would not Samrat have known?? It's like telling your SIL, I will be waiting for you all my life....How cheap can that be????

Pakhi had an understanding father and a good friend by her side...I don't know, I think Pakhi may not have married Samrat, agar Virat ne yeh vaada na diya hota...She had talked to Virat, she was convinced that Virat bhi usse shaadi mein interested tha...Abhi agar after marrying Samrat, on her suhhagraat she can call Virat..... in front of the whole family besharam ki tarah she can create a scene to go alone with Virat...she could have thought ki agar woh Samrat se shaadi na kare then her chances of getting married to Virat are higher...She is a very manipulative person...abhi with Sai and Samrat in the scene, she is making so many besharam advances towards Virat...agar samrat se shaadi na hui hoti, it could have been easier for her to woo Virat....uska ek hi motive tha and hai...Virat....

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

This 3 time sai carrying this behaviour where she going out without telling d exact reason.

1) to DIG sir

2) pakhi's house

Both time later virat came clarified family where & 4 what sai went for .

3) pulkit house

She never even tries to talk to virat . Will sai even listen what virat want to say , virat ko to pata bhi nhi pulkit ke baare mein.

Amay case only she very clearly said she very said we will work on my plan bass , uske baad Shivani interfer & then virat loose his cool.

So yes sai don't care what virat think , usne soch liya vo kaafi hain uske liye . Sai's monologue says she don't want to name pulkit not even 2 virat. She will not allow virat to come along .

When Vittal kidnap pari & sai was adamant to save her that time they jointly work to save pari as virat dint let sai escape. So yes he will not let sai put herself in danger.

Any person will demand answer where d person going on Sunday that 2 a professor house , even ur parents will ask not let u leave without answering them.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning lovelies! 🌄🌻🌻🌺🌺

Bappa kasam, if this word maturity is said again for the next one year, I will physically tear the page containing the word from every dictionary I can lay my hands on, exactly how my Dukhiyaari Didi tore the print out of the e-ticket which didn't have Sai's name and threw the pieces at Sai's face. I will also tear the pages into pieces and throw it at the screen when Chakram niwasis beam from it. Of course, I will also completely ignore the existence of e-dictionaries that can't be torn. 😖🙊😳😐

❤️J

Lovely post, Janki!!! aapki posts se andaaza lagaya jaa sakta hai ki kitni dedicated hongi aap apne kaam se....

I truly and thoroughly love Sai's character❤️ ❤️ and usually find faults with the jalebi pendulum pati of hers😂 😂....but surprisingly aaj I was okay with him...he used some silly and un-needed words..callin sai namasaj....but in real life bhi aisa ho jaata hai...we use some words when they are not needed...so itna lee-way de sakti hun mein Virat ko aaj....he was trying to say that when people consider her namasajh, even the Sai has more sense than Pakhi...and he directly mentioned that he feared that pakhi will object to Sai coming along and so he did not disclose it earlier...He trueted Sai will not ...which proved to be correct......

The part that I was a bit upset was where she shut up Ashwani and Sai when they were asking the right questions...but again till then he still had hopes to complete the trip and he was making every effort to make that trip..he genuinely wanted to go there for Samrat....

Sai to hai he sweetheart..even when she was hurt, she went to console Pakhi...this was not unnoticed by Virat...In the room, Virat felt Sai's pain...He tried his best to live up to his word by defending Sai har waqt today...He knows that Sai does not have problems with Pakhi bhi Pakhi does...

Virat ki galti thi ki usne Pakhi ko BAHUT zyada mis judge kiya...but again accha hua ki Pakhi ka mukhauta utar gaya...Just hope he Virat doesn't go into his pendulum mode again...

I am shocked ki aisa kaun sa ooncha khandaan hai jahan bade EMA ka khullam khula support kar rahe hain??? is liye woh 'dil ke acche' hain???😂

agar aaj ke baad bhi Virat ko Pakhi ke iraade samajh nahi aaye to use chullu bhar pani mein doob marna chahiye...IPS ki to baat chodo, yeh to low IQ wale ke liye bhi open and shut case hai!!!!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

As I said,Virat did not respond positively when Sai tried to move the topic further. So Sai could not reveal anything to him not because she doesn’t care. She is helpless.

Aap jo keh rahe vo main samajh rahi hu , but aap khud hi dekh lijiye kaku ka confidence sai pe hai virat pe nhi ki sai ki action will turn virat against her coz she know d weak point of sairat relationship.

A family always notice d small details of couple that how a wife treat her husband or how a husband treat his wife in public.

I should clear it , I m not saying sai is doing deliberately but these things will only work against her.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Aap jo keh rahe vo main samajh rahi hu , but aap khud hi dekh lijiye kaku ka confidence sai pe hai virat pe nhi ki sai ki action will turn virat against her coz she know d weak point of sairat relationship.

A family always notice d small details of couple that how a wife treat her husband or how a husband treat his wife in public.

I should clear it , I m not saying sai is doing deliberately but these things will only work against her.

Wise (did not use Mxxxxx) people can figure out real equation of a husband-wife in that....

... way of treating each other in public...

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Two days in a row Virat was

Phata poster nikla hero

Iss se tareef bardaasht nahi hoti kya

Nasamajh hai akkhad hai

First of all he wants peace in his life so biwi aur bhabhi ki mandavli karana chahta hai

Doesn't he know what the main problem is and who the trouble maker is

Virat ghar mein aayna hai?

PP ki class li maza aaya par aai ko haath jodna bas aata and when Sai asked the right question aap mere Pati ke saath kaisi trip.par jaana chahti thi Usko bhi chup kara diya

Har koi stabdh that yesterday and today with Vahini ka vedpan but holi ka nariyal bani kaun Sai

She was so hurt but she held herself together

Calm and composed

She told Vahini jaaiye as she knows how important San is for Virat

Vahini ki Nautanki koi award do

Mana Virat had offered to go with you par tumne Haan kyun ki

Baba ke saath

Ninaad mama ke saath

Akeli bhi

Ja sakti thi na

Vahini we know aapko Virat ki.kitni aur kaise zaroorat hai.

Third class phamily.

Samrat Virat Mohit kya sach mein iss ghar ke bete hain

Sam gone on his dadihaal

Virat on his aai

Mohit? This boy is also so good credit to Ashwini's upbringing.

Precap What the Virat you want to prove what

Mard hoon Pati hoon

Gundon ka ghamand

Sai ki zid

I hope first we get some.baiko ko manana

Pari ki seva wali chai toh hai hi

Wednesday ko ya dhamaka hoga Shayad.

Janki new naamkaran of Vahini

Ved lagleli vahini

@bold: Mag kaay karayche?! She's in total ati chittbhram mode. Ved nahi tar kaay! I gujarati, you have the G-word for her 😆😆

Next week Wednesday kya, full week hi dhamaka hoga I think... Virat needs reality check to see who is the actual fishbone stuck in the throat of both the women... he needs to clarify things to Sai at least if not Vedi Vahini because i don't think the vedi has the nerve to understand anything now. She already knows the truth and doesn't even need to hear it. But she's making desperate attempts to get him as much as she can -- i don't mean the physical aspect of "getting him". She wants to enslave him to herself mentally and emotionally and she doesn't know how to rein him in.