Adding adventure sport to a "honeymoon"... - Page 2

Originally posted by: msin

Hi Janaki

today I did not connect much with virat .. because I find it harebrained to go all the way to Ladakh to build bonds with pakhi and sayi

Same here. Inke khayalo kya kya bolna... As Scarlett pointed out, "bhoosa bhara hai". He genuinely thinks PP is just "sad" and she will understand? 😆 I must say he's at a higher delusional plane than PP even. At least her dislike for Sai is visible. Inko toh dikh bhi nahi raha hai kuch. But chalo, let him try...

firstly samrat is missing .. there can be any type of news there .. and u have gone so far stuck to the purpose .. emotions will be high .. what Rest n relaxation are they expecting there ..

Wahi toh! I think he's expecting that they will behave in a civil manner on the trip and eventually start liking each other and he will go find Samrat meanwhile to make it a double date romantic trip 😆

any ways Chavan sahab is giving his baiko work packing karo .. don’t get bothered about silly things.. sayi was logical but her navra seemed confident enough to handle his vahini

I am glad she told him I don’t want to be kabab me haddi .. I seriously doubt virat’s ability to handle this mess .. inspite if his bragging to his wife and then friend about it

Even I doubt his ability. And so does Alexa 🤣 So the direct suggestion is to jump from a cliff 😆😆

A newly married marathi couple praying to get darshan of siddhi vinayak is great start to Tuesday ..

kab jaana hoga .. baby hone se pehle ki Uske baad.. 😊😊

Ashwini se poochein kya? 🤣

For me the episode belonged to Devyani .. her tears, pain were real .. most probably for 8-9 years she has been separated from her husband and that’s her one cry .. they have brought her story quite nicely .. unlike Shivani , pp and virat love story

Since sayi has entered the house .. Devyani brings her husband in every conversation.. she can only think and talk about him .. but she won’t name him .. and that’s why maybe bappa heard her .. and brought pulkit to sayi without much ado

even his pain has been clearly visible .. I like sayi pulkit friendship .. it has started well .. and this is not sudden . If the college has been going on from October to February then there’s 3-4 months to build a good rapport with colleagues .. yes he’s her lecturer but it happens in college .. people are more relaxed ..

Yes, I like it how Devyani's pain has been allowed to get registered and grow and it is being built up. It makes me feel that Pulkit will be here to stay and Devi-Pulkit will eventually help Sai and Virat when they need some sense drilling exercises. I wish Devi gets better soon. She's such a sweetheart Yes, her love story would be at least 10 years old to be able to have a daughter, who's 8 now.. I am guessing it would have coincided with Virat's absence for higher studies/IPS training and he doesn't know what happened behind his back. Pulkit seems like a good actor too. Haven't seen him earlier but he seems like he would play the part of this actually mein suljha hua insaan nursing a heartbreak.

Today pulkit wanted to fish out the info from her .. because baiko is busy planning Ladakh ke kapde .. .. jackets in her mind ..

so it made sense .. that he got the info from her and will seek out Devyani .. because he understood Devi is calling out to him .. her doctor husband

Yes, she clearly missed the clues - doctor banne wale hain, P-for-Pulkit, missing wife perhaps and a brief stay in Sunderpura earlier. She hasn't yet counted him as a "suspect" I guess now Pulkit will obviously take Sai into confidence soon.

I hope they meet fast .. and good or bad .. story can move to a different level

The progress of Sai-Virat's story is so painfully slow. It seems stuck at a point. While the feelings are definitely growing the pace is definitely a problem.

Vahini is now black overtaken Kaku in the vamp department..she went to sayi to ask her how is she talking to virat very sweetly

I am still not sure about Kaku because her story is yet to come out but yes, PP is definitely going that way especially after it dawns to her that the imaginary husband has planned Ladakh honeymoon with real wife and her chance is cancelled. 😆

And yes yes .. ashwini is busy knitting baby mittens in her Khyali pulao ..
Ashwini is so sweet but as Sai said, "Funny ho aap" 🤣🤣 She should tell her Godu some of these things to give him a push he badly needs. Warna apne cabin he andar koi IPS peak cap pehenke vahini ko phone calls karne baitha rehta hai kya? 🤔

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

Awesome Analysis janki , really loved it 🤗

Well pakhi bhabhi ki poking nose kuch zyada nahi badh gayi she is dancing in her lalalaa land that , she will be soon in ladakh with her imaginary husband and spent good amount of time there 4days right bhabhi ki sapane are gonna be crashed by her devar soon 😆

Waiseh even though Virat looked with what sai said woh kuch zyada ponder nahi kiya iss baat may be future fight keliyeh preserve kiya hai last time it was u always remind me u didn't love me and don't wanna get married to me iss bhaar yeah dialogue additional hoga 😆 , waiseh dilutional bhabhi was again in the mode of aag mein ghee dalna but isss time it didn't worked well aag bujhgayi , but virat didn't like the reference of sai calling herself as kabab mein haddi janab got triggered and asked her to watch out what she said hayeee he is so into her man 😆 aur suitcase packing he like abhi tak pack nahi kiya , why will pakhi pack my bag when will pack our stuff on one bag 😆, he is adamant to take his baiko to trip by hook or crook , waiseh ek aur cheez I felt he literally wanna kick his bhabhi out asap from his room ,

Ok so that office scene of him yeah sunny bhi nah yaar tum galat ship mein hai tumhari dost dusri ship mein hai aur khud ship karrrahi hai ,abhi bhi pakhi ko ayseh devta samajti hai yeah koyi nahi I want sai bai to set his brain straight , well aaj kal when virat speak about sai there is a different charm a glow in his eyes , thank god finally he admit uski shareef ghar waleh kitni achi seh sai ki saath behave karti hai

>>That is what makes his behaviour of screaming at Sai and shutting Ashwini up even more questionable because he knows that they can't be wrong. They are provoked always. And his need to avoid conflict ends up causing more damage on days when he's not glowing in love 😳

waiseh about trip I just think he doesn't want anymore mess in his life pakhi sai clash ki wajah seh so he is trying to just do patch up thing but it's terrible gonna be big blow , waiseh iam glad he started to realise his so called mature susheel friend is not at all mature like he think ,and that PP phone call was not needed but theek hai I liked it how he hanged upon her and pp figured it out sai was the reason why he hanged on her , well I loved the way when virats voice changed when he was talking with sai and that smile on his face while talking to her , waiseh looks like ACP sahab is planning to move ahead in their relationship from deal wala to real wala marriage he even readily replied her lekin wekin kuch nahi agar neh chaha toh ekdin hum zaroor siddivinayak darshan karege , well iam loving their convos waiseh looks like Virat neh apni aayi ki tip seriously leh liya how to make sai do things he want her to do😆

I really loved sai and devi tai scene , sai is really Adorable aur tai also really love , pulkit sir bahoot smart nikala how easily he solved the mystery he found out sai and devi are related now let's see how sai will get to know about the same

Well iam so happy today that kind of played villain wali bgm for pakhi bhabhi when she was over hearing sai and virats convo luckily bhabhi didn't figured it out sai is accompanying them , isss aurat ko dekho she was trying to instigate sai , but maza anneh wala hai when she will know her imaginary husband is bringing his real wali wifey along with him on this trip 😆

Agree about the music 😆😆 And yes, she didn't hear the "Window seat meri" dialogue nahi toh vahini call back karke dimaag kharab kar deti 🤣

Originally posted by: india-tv

Lovely writing, as always!!!

loved the Siddhivinayak talk..loved the way Virat is happy while talking with Sai...even on the phone...Loved the way he ignored Pakhi's talks in his room while asking Sai to do their packing....

But surely did not understand his (phone) calling Pakhi and Sai calling him...Is there any significance...abhi ke hissab se Pakhi is after Virat and Virat ka jhukav Sai ki taraf hai...Lets c.....

Actually the whole of his office scene was weird...Sunny booking karwa raha hai...I mean is Sunny brought in for a purpose..Yoga love wala illusion bhi usi ki badaulat hua tha Virat ko..To is Sunny the one jo Sai ke liye feelings realize karwayega???

But Sunny, in the case of Sai, seems to behave exactly like PP - like a cheated wife. He doesn't have respect for Sai. At least nothing like that has been shown except his one dialogue during the gruh pravesh but Sunny being shown as Virat's go-to man hasn't been shown to repent or regret his words to Sai during the DIG incident or after PP left the house. The problem with the show is that they do not have consistency in the presentation of possible positive characters. Like Shivani Bua's presence during the Alta scene would have changed the outcome. So why was she missing? It is not explained. Their negative characters are always in full attendance but the positive ones go missing from time to time, causing the imbalance.

Did not like Virat's ..Sai bhi humare saath jaayegi...where humare included him and Pakhi...Did not like the order in which the names were called..Virat, Pakhi, Sai....

Yes, same here. But I am choosing to ignore that. He didn't really do it by design so it's okay. May be it was to surprise Sunny boy 😆 But he could have added his name in between 😛 Waise Sunny's reaction was annoying enough.

I felt quite bad for Samrat today....Uska bhai and uski wife...both planning for the trip to get some clues to solve the missing Samrat case....Pakhi se to umeed thi hi nahi...which she very clearly spashta se bata chuki ki she is not at all interested in finding him...She is excied to be there with Virat on a holiday....

But Virat...he is sincere...but then y his Sai and Pakhi ka milap ka plan on this l crucial trip???Does not make sense..it is an official trip....ghar per use dono ko manage karna mushkil hai...what does he have in mind.....He wants to go there for Samrat...with the patch-up intention between Sai and Pakhi is definitely not saamajhdaari...or shant dimag se socha hua ...or 10 baar socha hua plan...

Virat does things with good intention but without even expecting the unexpected at times. I really wonder what makes him believe that PP is really only "disappointed". It means he has pretty much not considered how much contempt she has for Sai and the fact that she's not over him yet. I wish there was something to suggest that he has understood the mess he has created by being inarticulate and so he wants to rectify that before finding Samrat, which is understandable but just to get PP to make friends with Sai is silly 🤪

kal ke episode mein bhi ek funny baat thi...initial part mein where Virat was talking to Sai to manayofy her to accompany him...usne kaha ki mein koi holiday per nahi jaa raha Pakhi ke saath ...uska matlab tha ki agar woh holiday per jaa raha hota Pakhi ke saath to Sai ko nahi le kar jaata?????

Virat Chavan ki jalebiyaan toh wo hi decipher kar sakte hain 😆 may be not even he. Because he replaces words in the jalebis and then says "main kya bhoola?"

@Janki: Excellent. Let me try to figure out the answer for these questions "Why Virat is behaving differently with PP and Sai? Why he was not angry when Sai said he is no one to her?"

1. Virat very well knows that as soon as Mrs.MIA lost the connection with Virat, she said yes to marry Samrat. Now Mr.MIA is not here and even if Virat is not behaving as she likes, Mrs.MIA will soon be Mrs.XYZ. He wants her to stay and wait for Mr.MIA in CN till he comes.

2. When Sai said Virat is no one to her, Virat was hurt and registered in his mind as you mentioned. But he was relieved to hear from matured vahini that Sai's expression says different. Now it is clear he wants to better understand Sai with the help of vahini and thats why planning to take them together.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning sisterhood! 🌤🏵🌻🌺

It's time to stop blaming Patralekha (Chavan 😳😮😱🤯🤫) for trying to be 'indecent'. The first rule before pushing the blame on to anyone in the situation that we've been shown is the level of discomfort, refusal and discouragement put in by the recipient of the acts. Virat, although he has sensed most of what vahini thinks, he's yet to acknowledge that he needs to draw the visible lines. He has been clearly uncomfortable with her actions on three occasions but he seems to be far from being able to spell it out to the delusional vahini.

The scene is now complete and so it's continuity was essentially to have vahini leave the room without Virat saying anything in return to the insensitive reaction to his refusal of sightseeing. The audacity with which she can spew venom to Sai's face and walk out is because of Virat's silence. It doesn't matter what Sai says or doesn't. The 'level up' is very visible in Vahini's toxicity as well as her advancing moves. This time she barged into the couple's bedroom, pushed Sai's 'wife' buttons by making direct hits at the 'husband', making indecent suggestions of sharing bags (thereby rooms), expressing excitement about the honeymoon, disowning her own missing husband and dismissing the emotion that Virat should feel as a brother for the same man, and finally, accusing the 'wife' of 'objecting' to her plans of honeymooning with the 'husband'.

Of course, she did all this because she is "upset that her husband is missing and she needs an outing" 🙄😒😬 wah, wah Chavan Saheb! Dekh kar andekha Karna kise kehte Hain? 😠 Is he really dumb or pretends to be one..Everytime Pakhi is making advances, so visible, putting his wife down. I really wish he ups his tone, body language and his expecation be more vocal. I feel like one is talking from Earth and other from Pluto...Pakhi is talking about Virat which is very very visible, she has smiled and thrilled and did say Samrat means nothing and then Virat like a old tape recorder, I miss Samrat, I can feel what you feel for Samrat missing..Dude, come on, slap yourself and put not a IPS hat, a common man hat. I really wished Virat took a stern stand for Sai like he did when they did other important events. This taking Sai for granted isnt going down well with me. He seems to be becoming delusional, friend's asar...Tell me about your friend, I can tell about you..a famous saying.

Just like vahini, however, Virat too is just filled with the excitement of taking along Sai -- he didn't delve on the 'mere Kuch Nahi Lagte' so it must have been stored in memory for future reference. At any other usual moment, it would have blown up into a fight but this time it didn't. Because, the navra baiko had more information exchanged between them than Vahini's imagination 🙃 So, although she tried, the misunderstanding did not seep in -- Sai knew Virat wanted her to come along and Virat knew Sai wouldn't throw the kind of fit vahini was throwing even if he hadn't forced her to accompany -- it helps to communicate.

But of course Sai's questions were valid as always: "Why didn't you say I am going? Why did you ask me to wait in the room and subject me to the beizzati?"

Didn't he say he would not allow it to happen but he's more than willing to make Sai a sitting duck for Vadawali Vahini to vent out her 'cheated wife' frustrations more than often.

And of course, "Why should I pack your bags when you didn't tell her that we've decided that we are carrying one bag together?"

I believe it helped Sai let go of the anger in that moment because of the confidence with which Virat continued to remind her that 'their' decision was made and no one else's view matters because it's for him to handle.If this Vahini's walk-in and pushing buttons were to happen before the two of them had spoken about Sai's inclusion in the trip, it would have surely blown into a huge fight. That's how they should even live their lives and c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-e.

Virat thinks it shouldn't matter what Vahini thinks because they have already made a decision bu what's the level of danger in trying to force two unwilling women to be friends? Isn't it important to tell vahini that he's planning adventure sport in Ladakh with Sai and her in the same team?? Because she's packing sarees in her big red bag 😯 isme adventure kaise Hoga😅 she's going prepared for something else -- those romantic saree photos in snow with imaginary husband, straight from YRF movies 😂😂 "Ye haseen vaadiyan ye khula aasman"...Super apt..I wonder what he is packing with Sai..he never gave hints to Sai on what to take to please him..the rainbow dress or the christmas tree or the yellow suit with pompoms or any dress or saree with pompoms..Sai is right, bcos someone likes chocolates or ballons, just give them that? I mean Virat, you have to speak up for your wife.

But coming back to the question of unwilling women, today I got a sense that Virat knows it's PP who's the problem and not Sai. But Chavan Saheb ke khayal Ka kya bolein? Does he really still think Vahini is upset because she didn't get to know her husband before he went missing?

To me, Virat's conversation with Sai was a small peek into his mind to hear Spashthly what we had been assuming for a few days now. Two things are clear from his talk with Sunny:

Virat knows his family is pushing Sai to the corner. But he thinks Didi is not part of the extoxic tea drinking gang in the house that goes after his wife, as he admitted for the first time today?

Add to it his statement about knowing that PP has a problem with Sai and 'jaise usne mujh se Sai ke baare me baat ki'... Something about it is not normal, he knows. He has registered PP's behaviour. He perhaps doesn't want to conclude anything about her feelings for him in the context yet. Does he want to give her another benefit of doubt by trying to get her to see what reality is? Or does he think she's really in a 'friendship' with him and really disappointed with life? Which friend allows the other to live in delusional land?

It doesn't seem like Virat thinks it is Sai who has a problem with PP. He knows very well that she only reacts when she's instigated. He knows that Sai would not create a scene even if Sai is actually hurt that he had to actually go without her to accompany PP. It doesn't seem like he means Sai patching up with Vahini as much as he means to make PP understand the facts and accept them to make peace in her mind. I don't think he feels PP is actually 'mature and samajhdaar' Nahin toh he wouldn't have needed to cover up the fact that Sai is coming along -- one of the biggest reasons to avoid confrontation in the bedroom. And his directly acknowledging that PP will call off the trip unless tickets are booked and she won't be able to refuse even if Sai is coming along.

So it's clear that when she does refuse the trip despite the fact that tickets are booked, Virat may finally begin to lower her further from the Maturity Ka ooncha jhoola...

Was Sunny surprised that Virat was taking Sai along only for this reason or did he feel Sai would be a third wheel in the outing? I don't trust this sunny 😠 he's an idiot. He seemed pretty okay with Mr Chavan and Vahini Mrs Chavan going but Sai Joshi ke naam se he made a 'why the haddi' face? 😡 Why does Virat need assistants to book flight tickets? And Woh bhi Sunny Jaise. And what kind of advice was that about barood next to the aag? He seems to completely discount the fact that the aag is actually coming towards the barood due to a leak that Virat needs to fix. Sorry to say but this guy sounded more like a spectator than a friend who's completely unaware about Virat's new feeling... It didn't come across as if Virat has shared even with Sunny what he feels about Sai. How long will it remained bottled up? In the reception scene, it felt like Sunny sensed that Virat is falling for Sai and will raj karegi this fort..or tihar jail aka CN. But nah, he seemed to be MIA along with Samrat and partial memory loss.

The phone call to PP was unnecessary. Totally unnecessary 👠👠👠👡👡👡🥿🥿🥿🥿👢👢👢👟🥾👡👠👢👡🥿

He could have shared the information with her even after he was back from work in a very formal way. But the phone call was an 'encouragement' with even "Trip khoob enjoy Karo". What happened to the lack of sensitivity even that she displayed for Samrat?? Enjoy Kahan se aa Gaya? 🙄😒🤔 And what's with giving her teasers about the fact that she's going to be judged for "samajhdaar and matured reaction... Mujhe galat mat samajhna" 😂😂😂 Kuch jyada hi ummeed hai Chavan Saheb ko 1.47 hours yoga love se... The way she strutted across the room after this conversation looks like she's going to already dream about the honeymoon tonight and even have an imaginary bun in the oven by morning 😂😂😂🙊🙊 VIrat/CN wasis keep saying hope you enjoy...what the hell, I mean, how can one enjoy if you are going in search of a loved one? if not her, atleast her bff brother. for whom he means a lot tht he could give up the 1.47 hours of yoga love. I cant even eat if my kid is 5 mins late from school bus or if I dont get a phone call daily at the same time from my parents. Here we are talking about a person gone for days and this is one chance to fly and check...I would have gone without reservation train or paidal or cycle to Ladakh in whatever clothes...nothing fancy..gosh..CVS, yes and whats the order of the names? Pakhi first, Virat and Sai ..May be he could have paused before saying Joshi..May be say Sai Virat Chavan?? but no mercy to the poor audience..

So what does vahini do with that encouragement she's just got? She walks straight into Sai's space while she was on a phone call with the husband to remind her if she's forgotten that she's speaking to her husband rather politely... Ab Didi aapko Bola tha humne CCTV lagwa Lo inke room mein poori picture dekhne ke liye but aap bhi waise hi scenes fast forward mode me dekhti ho Jaise Aapke scene dekhte Hain log 😂😂😂😂. So Sai chose to remain silent about her joining the trip warna Gabbar mad ho jaata (as if we would care 😅). But Didi's hot air balloon has reached the height of explosion now, being flown without any caution -- "chaar din Virat Nahi Hoga toh acche se padhai Kar Lena"... Add that to the one from yesterday, "tumhe kya Lagta hai, main kis type ki planning Karne wali hoon Virat ke Saath"... My skin is feeling the goosebumps. 🤮😨

Fine, that there was this deliberate depiction of the two phonecalls at the same time and Virat was shown as hanging up on PP to talk to Sai -- that Sai is his priority has been established long ago but his action of reaching out to PP where it's not needed is completely taking away from the entire blame to be pushed on PP for keeping hopes. Virat can't see she's delusional and not just disappointed. But for her, his actions are like a bonus stock of the Dum. Chalo, hopefully, tomorrow the suspense on whether the trip is happening or not will end because they didn't show a Precap by design, it means that they want us to wait for tomorrow 😂😂 ab I hope it's not a fuski bomb.

In this drag of an episode, there was definitely one loveable moment:

"Kisi din hum dono ek Saath siddhivinayak ke darshan karenge" 😊 how quick was that response. I wish his responses could be that quick in need 😐 Yes, I loved it, he could have said, I will definetely fulfill it..being the vaada boy, but may be, arre am already filled with so many, dont know where to fit this in my brain..

He's planning future with her... Transfer hoga toh of course saath lekar jaaunga, Mumbai jayenge... And thank God Bappa, Sai didn't ask, "Mere doctor ban ke yahan jaane se pehle jayenge?"😂😂

This minuscule interaction was so deep and symbolic.. there is no doubt where the heart is, that the fact has been accepted, the past has been erased from the memory and replaced by the hope for tomorrow. There s no requirement for any other validation for anything..not everyone needs to know what's brewing between us... But then, when will we taste that which is brewing?

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Pulkit's Sherlock Holmes skills are sharper than Miss Marple 😅 he's found his Devyani faster than Miss Marple could find Tai ke Pati. So chalo, now Miss Marple won't need to look around. She will soon be handed over the information she's being looking for... But even after seeing P-for-Pulkit teary eyed, little detective did not connect the clues -- doctor hain, baby hai, inke bhi dil mein gham hai, ye bhi ghum hai kisi ke pyaar mein... 😅 Asudya... Sabr Ka phal meetha hota Hai... 🤫🤫

Bechari Devyani will perhaps go hysterical when she meets her Pati finally. 🥺 Yes, waiting..

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Meanwhile:

ACP: Alexa, how do I get my ex to befriend my wife

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ACP: Alexa, no. Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends?

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ACP: Alexaaa, No! Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends with each other?

Alexa: Finding results for What does it mean when you and your ex are still friends... Sometimes people stay friends with their ex for purely pragmatic purposes...

ACP: Alexaaah!! No. No. No. Alexa, tell me how can I get my ex to be friends with my wife.

Alexa: Sorry, I didn't understand that one.

ACP: Alexa, How can I get my ex to be friends with my wife? Do you understand?

Alexa: Here are results for "Four ways to dive off from a cliff" ... Use the pencil-diving technique to execute an easy jump...Your body should be rigid...

ACP: Alexaaaaaah! Kaun ho tum? Tum kaun ho?

Alexa: Main Amazon dvaara vikasit krtrim sahaayak...

ACP: Alexa, Please stop! 😐😐

Alexa: I apologize I could not get you answers. You need to ask me smart questions, Pardon my language. You sound to be too dumb!!

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How long a rope can be given to someone? Can one snap the rope without damaging the "image" of the relationship where it is given? Does snapping the rope mean an end to ties? Why do people fear pulling back the rope?

Thoughts to ponder on along with a hot cuppa of ☕☕☕ or 🍵🍵🍵 and munchies like some oven- fresh cookies 🍪🍪🍪

It's almost do-pahar and aage aap ka din agar thoda heavy hone wala hai mere jaisa toh Kuch jaadu ki jhappi kaam aayegi 🤗🤗🤗 and hamesha Yaad rakhna, Aap hamare Kuch toh Lagte Hain 🥰🥰

Love

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Love your take and somewhere I cant imagine Virat as the man who needs to draw a super thick line between Pakhi and Sai. Pakhi is getting bolder these days. I would suggest Sai to walk away without speaking.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Hi Janki....

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I don't get offended by Pakhi as most do. Simply because she is too much of a caricature, merely a plot tool. Her characterisation is one dimensional - her motivations lack depth. She is not interesting enough to either like or hate.

I agree with you. Her character is not sketched at all. They just want to blindly copy the other versions, where she essentially does nothing unique or come across as someone who one could sympathise with at all. which is why, her entire existence for a viewer only depends on what Virat does to approach/give her importance.

What I'm interested in is how Virat handles the whole situation, and he is falling terribly short. Who in his right mind would take his wife and ex together in a trip, just to make them befriend each other? Even the dumbest man on earth will know that it is a big no no and I'm not willing to believe that Virat is THAT dumb. He is behaving as if he is just taking two warring family members. CVs are losing their mind.

I don't think he even knew what he would do with them... He just wanted Sai to accompany him first. I think the whole grand brainwave of "making them friends" came to him after the catfight and suitcase scene -- that is totally my presumption. His original intention was only to take Sai along for company. But after he saw them fighting, he decided he would use this opportunity to clear the air mainly for PP. I still don't know how because he seems to be more delusional - one level up, where he doesn't understand what PP wants (the love-affair) or at least pretends not to understand and he has absolutely zero sensitivity for what Sai would feel knowing the "pyaarosti". They are definitely not two warring women and I mentioned the Alexa conversation for fun but the fact is that I actually googled "can an ex and wife be friends", trust me there are no answers even on Google. So chavan saheb ke paas plan hona toh namumkin hai 🤣🤣

Although he tells Sunny that Pakhi is stressed because her husband is missing, what he actually thinks is that just as Sai has helped him move on, having Samrat in Pakhi's life will help her move on too. BTW, is Virat really close to Sunny?

I don't know if he means it that way but yes, I do often think if PP's life would have been different if Samrat would have been around. I mean, he did leave in a huff because he was hurt. But, may be, if he had been around and given her the attention she can now see her imaginary husband giving his real wife, she would have perhaps moved on... I think a lot of her angst comes from her loneliness and she has brought it upon herself by making that vile phone call to the devar on her wedding night, not even caring who all could have heard her. And she is the one who tells Sai, tumhari awaz neeche aa rahi hai 🤪🤪Sadly, both the men only wanted her for her beauty and did not love her enough

Another thing - did Pakhi score a self-goal? When Sai blurted that "Virat sir mere liye kuch nahi lagte". Virat seemed taken back (and hurt). Then Pakhi retorted that Sai's above line was a facade, because it was evident how affected she was about Virakhi trip. Did Pakhi unwittingly help Virat make sense of Sai's outburst?

You know, I think he has registered that sentence. It will come up in another fight. It is very natural that it would but he did not react today because also Sai made an eye contact with him after she said it and while PP was bakofying the truth unwittingly (yes, Sai is affected of course), Sai's expressions were a giveaway. Plus, Virat and Sai have been in "mushy mode" for a few days so they were in a better state of mind to let it go. Even Sai's "Why did you make me wait here for my beizzati. I will never listen to you again..." was a very mild way of expressing her displeasure. It was not a conversation-ending sentence. It was a sentence to have a confrontation to get answers/reaction and finish it. And his confidence in "we have decided already so let her say whatever she has to" was not a bad assurance for Sai at that point.

Sai being brainwashed repeatedly by either Ashwini or Pulkit. Why is this whole (husband-is-so-good-but-wife-doesn't -recognise) trope being used again and again? Is it foreshadowing?

I personally find it very putting off. She's all of 18. What's this hurry of pushing her to "nazdeekiyaan" with Virat as Sai mentioned today. Like @msin said, Ashwini is knitting baby woollens in her dreams. Even Pulkit's remark of being a woman to a man was so sexually coloured -- it didn't come across as crass because he said it in veiled words. First the 'husband' has to figure out his own emotions and then the world can push the girl. And why does Ashwini not go and speak to her Godu about the way he treats Sai. She can only see "how much my son cares for you", but there is a HUGE level of "how much my son takes you for granted" too. PS: I Do like Ashwini as a character overall but she's biased towards the son despite being genuinely loving to Sai.

Originally posted by: njain16385

Lovely post dear👍🏼

Today again Virat showed why he always looks for escapism, cause he only that way to survive in CM and maintain " ghar ki shaanti"

I understand (not approve) his need for escapism. That's how he has grown up and that's the only survival skill he knows in emotional confrontations. I had mentioned in a post a few weeks back about men caught in battles between family and wife and the burden they feel when they have to play refree from either of the two sides. It's not easy being caught in that kind of crossfire and men who are in the middle of it let a lot of things slide and expect their wives to not nitpick unless it's a major issue. That is exactly what he wants from Sai. Here, we cannot sympathise with him because she is not yet his wife for love -- she has no reason to be taking it all lying down. If she were a wife who married for love, then it would still be understandable but she has gained nothing in terms of emotional peace because she doesn't have the respect in the household and she can't even desire her husband.

The last question by Sai " aap mere kuch nahi lagte" he heard it, but didn't delve into it. Probably because Samrat is more important.

I think he didn't because he's satiated at the moment in the context of the affection and attention she has been giving him since their last series of fights until the Alta night. The "rose-eyed" state of mind toned down his reaction to this statement, also because Sai met his eyes and her face was a giveaway that she said it in a moment of anger to retort to PP. It wasn't a fight between them at this moment. But he will say it when he's not in the lovey-dovey state of mind, when they are actually having a go at one another.

What about Pakhi? He is aware the she is under delusion. The words has been registered and he has to draw a line. Where is the best place?

The best place is where he is standing at the moment, near that blessed wardrobe of his bedroom. I don't think he's registered her delusions, but he knows she's not taking things in the normal, realistic way. He is still giving her a long rope because of Samrat and also because he feels she's right when she says she doesn't know Samrat at all. Also, he genuinely feels that they have a common understanding about this "friendship". He is yet to understand that they are on two different delusional planes about their current relationship as "close friends devar-bhabhi". She doesn't think of it the way he does. She wants the "I still love you" feeling from him.

Somewhere miles away, where we three show who is who in pati patni and woh. Without the extras reaction from family. Hence, he has kept it secret like a suspense thriller .

He should have been really high on something to believe that PP would agree to travel with Sai when all she can do is to spit venom and contempt at her face and at him regarding his "choice" of marriage. I think it is really unfortunate that he has never taken offence to the tone in which PP speaks about his marriage. That is a licence he keeps renewing for PP to barge in and speak whatever she thinks about Sai. Hopefully, when she proves him wrong about the tickets book ho gayi to aana padega, his eyes will open.

Tommrow suspense will get clear.Till then let bhabhi ji go on imaginary honeymoon . While navra baiko do their future planning over phone.

Bhabhiji will imagine the entire 4 days with devar in her night dreams 🤣

I know I am in the minority when I say I liked yesterday’s episode and enjoyed the hints thrown at us about the upcoming tracks. I believe “action speaks louder than words “ and Virat’s action showed what Sai means to him. Two things stood out to me in yesterday's episode.

1. The phone conversation: I love parallels, it was so evident from the scene that Virat is not at all comfortable talking to his vaada love Pakhi. He was so stiff, to the point, and eager to hang up while he was so relaxed and normal when it comes to Sai. If anyone who doesn't know about their history Is asked to select the girl Virat is in love with, they will pick Sai.

another parallel was the Mumbai trip. When they were discussing the Nag river trip, Sai was hesitant to make plans with Virat but here they were so normal while discussing the trip. This is what I call progress.

Lastly, Virat Pakhi the conversation doesn’t bother me because in every conversation I notice one thing. He is uncomfortable and only talks about Sai or Samrat. I didn't find anything wrong in calling her vs talking to her after reaching home. Either way Pakhi will try to find some way to believe Virat loves her.

2. Another scene was Virat making plans to bring Pakhi and Sai closer. He hasn't learned from his previous mistakes, he tried hard to bring Pakhi Sai closer in the initial episodes by making Pakhi Sai’s mentor but it backfired so badly. Before his master plan, at least they were considerate of each other feelings but after his attempt, that was lost. I remember Sai was more concerned about Pakhi’s feelings after her marriage but when Virat forced Pakhi on her she got irritated with both the friends. I appreciate his noble thoughts but sometimes it's better not to force people. I think this will make him realize they can never be friends as long as they are in love with the same man.

Originally posted by: Roch

>> Lets take a neutral stand, he understands her frustration may be. He knows she is stressed and understands the mental pressure she has gone through. He just hasnt deduced that it is not stress but now an obsession. Her logics are out of the window. The day he realises.

He clearly doesn't know about the obsession. He's seeing her from his presumption that she's on the same wavelength as him.

>>> Sai said that in a heat of the and just like Sai picks up Vahini's taunts and hints here i think Vahini picked it up too and voiced it out. That she is not liking that we are traveling together and is all on your face. Virat has seen it and he knows it as well. And thats the reason may be it did not go in the angry route.

Yes, that and also as i mentioned twice above, they are not in a fight mode between them but in a mode of mushy moments. So it was easy because it wasn't said in anger for him but for PP's provocation, which he knew because he himself was displeased with the "apni biwi ko samjhao"... but bolega, when they are fighting. It is a trigger word for him. 😆

>>> This scene was executed very well, no lengthy discussion just one point we decided and thats what we do. I will handle the rest (kaise karega i dont think even he has that clue).

He has no clue. Even Alexa had no clue when I tried googling tips to befriend ex with current wife. 🤣And this Maharani toh is not even an ex. She's just someone who he met and gale hi pad gayi vahini🤣

>>> I dont think he thought that, he simply placed what both of them are going through. Vahini has a pained marriage and is mentally stressed. Lets not talk about Sai, she is stressed out many things and first and foremost is her husband who is ignoring all the alarming signs. I liked when she "Unhe bura lagega" she knows and she also knows what is coming but she just went with the flow.

>>> Virat knows what the problem he is just not voicing it out and wants to clear the air. But what is he going to clear. Baiko ko bolega there is nothing between me and vahini even after Pyar Dosti slip up ya Best friend ko bolega i forgot what i promised to you and moved on. Karna kya isko. HE is going to entangle the web even more and make things worse for Sai

I really have a problem with his lack of sensitivity for Sai. It's strange that we have never seen him thinking about it even though he clearly knows that she goes through a lot, as he told Sunny that she has to keep facing some situation or the other because the family has not accepted her. But to think that Sai is frustrated with PP because of this is such a dum-phoonk thought. 😵 He doesn't even spare a thought for his own embargos in their relationship -- conveniently forgotten and he wants her to conveniently forget it too, just like he wants PP to conveniently accept his new definition of the vaada - "dost aur parivaar". It doesn't matter in this case because she herself had twisted intentions about marrying Samrat, but at least for his relationship with Sai, he has to admit it and clarify it.

>>> Lets not talk about sunny please, dont think he knows Virat that well.

He's as annoying as PP and Omkar at the moment. 😆

>>> Achcha hua call kiya, ghar aake bedroom ya balcony mein nahi gaya to explain. I think the call was a better deal instead of going and explaining things personally.

Fine, i get your point but is she not going to come running to him when he returns, assuming that his "Mujhe galat mat samajhna, maturely react karna, hamare liye accha karne wala hoon" are all hints to what she wants -- hamari zindagi ka special moment in Ladakh 😆 Call kiya toh kiya, but bola kya??! Tyaachya aabacha dhol wajavla fakta... khoob enjoy karna. What about the whole lack of sensitivity she showed for Samrat -- the same guy, who he thinks she's pained to not have around her? This guy baffles me like a bulb that's lying dead for days and suddenly lights up because Einstien ki aatma aa gayi ho 🤪

>>> She exactly knew what she was saying. I am not saying her intentions are nasty but that statement was simple i get me time with my "Imaginary Husband" Sai has read her intentions well, dont know how big of a dhamaka it would be

Yes, agree. She said exactly what she was saying without any mincing of words. Because of that sentence from him I wrote above -- main kuch karne wala hoon, mujhe galat mat samajhna. Madame-Maturity is obviously playing "Wo haseen dard de do" song in her head. Such an akkalshunya manus he is!

>>> Were the phone calls, only for Vahini to hear half conversation and taunt Sai. Looks like, otherwise there was no need for these 2 phone calls. She wants their argument but she is one pushing them closer by doing all this.

She's not seen them interacting when they are not fighting na 😆 I don't blame her for her delusion on that front

>>> I agree with this one, Bappa se vinti hai, iss ACP ka dimag Ghum gaya hain, koi dhundh laado

Loved your analysis, complete different take than what was presented in the episode, in a good way.

Since i saw the episode first, had some views of my own

These couple of mornings will be busy so you might as well enjoy the episode in its virgin form, without your thoughts getting adulterated by mine 😆

My comments in blue 😊

This is going to be a big mess and the feeling is its going to be blow up pretty bad. In this the only person who is going to get badly hurt is Sai. She knew from the beginning and she kept on telling both Aai and Godu. Logic ko toh baju mein rakh chuke hain ye log.

Though she is 18 but seems logical and says what is black as black and white as white, she does not bring up grey. Something which Virat needs to learn

I can't say this enough but she's a victim of sexual assault, all of 19 and despite being a genuinely loving mother to her, Ashwini just wants to activate her wife-in-love hormones for her son. It's a bit too much... The son needs to use some colin to clear his eyes and brains before Ashwini imagines their romance in the Ladakh snow.