Adding adventure sport to a "honeymoon"...

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Good morning sisterhood! ๐ŸŒค๐Ÿต๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒบ

It's time to stop blaming Patralekha (Chavan ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ) for trying to be 'indecent'. The first rule before pushing the blame on to anyone in the situation that we've been shown is the level of discomfort, refusal and discouragement put in by the recipient of the acts. Virat, although he has sensed most of what vahini thinks, he's yet to acknowledge that he needs to draw the visible lines. He has been clearly uncomfortable with her actions on three occasions but he seems to be far from being able to spell it out to the delusional vahini.

The scene is now complete and so it's continuity was essentially to have vahini leave the room without Virat saying anything in return to the insensitive reaction to his refusal of sightseeing. The audacity with which she can spew venom to Sai's face and walk out is because of Virat's silence. It doesn't matter what Sai says or doesn't. The 'level up' is very visible in Vahini's toxicity as well as her advancing moves. This time she barged into the couple's bedroom, pushed Sai's 'wife' buttons by making direct hits at the 'husband', making indecent suggestions of sharing bags (thereby rooms), expressing excitement about the honeymoon, disowning her own missing husband and dismissing the emotion that Virat should feel as a brother for the same man, and finally, accusing the 'wife' of 'objecting' to her plans of honeymooning with the 'husband'.

Of course, she did all this because she is "upset that her husband is missing and she needs an outing" ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜ฌ wah, wah Chavan Saheb! Dekh kar andekha Karna kise kehte Hain? ๐Ÿ˜ 

Just like vahini, however, Virat too is just filled with the excitement of taking along Sai -- he didn't delve on the 'mere Kuch Nahi Lagte' so it must have been stored in memory for future reference. At any other usual moment, it would have blown up into a fight but this time it didn't. Because, the navra baiko had more information exchanged between them than Vahini's imagination ๐Ÿ™ƒ So, although she tried, the misunderstanding did not seep in -- Sai knew Virat wanted her to come along and Virat knew Sai wouldn't throw the kind of fit vahini was throwing even if he hadn't forced her to accompany -- it helps to communicate.

But of course Sai's questions were valid as always: "Why didn't you say I am going? Why did you ask me to wait in the room and subject me to the beizzati?"

Didn't he say he would not allow it to happen but he's more than willing to make Sai a sitting duck for Vadawali Vahini to vent out her 'cheated wife' frustrations more than often.

And of course, "Why should I pack your bags when you didn't tell her that we've decided that we are carrying one bag together?"

I believe it helped Sai let go of the anger in that moment because of the confidence with which Virat continued to remind her that 'their' decision was made and no one else's view matters because it's for him to handle.If this Vahini's walk-in and pushing buttons were to happen before the two of them had spoken about Sai's inclusion in the trip, it would have surely blown into a huge fight. That's how they should even live their lives and c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-e.

Virat thinks it shouldn't matter what Vahini thinks because they have already made a decision bu what's the level of danger in trying to force two unwilling women to be friends? Isn't it important to tell vahini that he's planning adventure sport in Ladakh with Sai and her in the same team?? Because she's packing sarees in her big red bag ๐Ÿ˜ฏ isme adventure kaise Hoga๐Ÿ˜… she's going prepared for something else -- those romantic saree photos in snow with imaginary husband, straight from YRF movies ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ "Ye haseen vaadiyan ye khula aasman"...

But coming back to the question of unwilling women, today I got a sense that Virat knows it's PP who's the problem and not Sai. But Chavan Saheb ke khayal Ka kya bolein? Does he really still think Vahini is upset because she didn't get to know her husband before he went missing?

To me, Virat's conversation with Sai was a small peek into his mind to hear Spashthly what we had been assuming for a few days now. Two things are clear from his talk with Sunny:

Virat knows his family is pushing Sai to the corner. But he thinks Didi is not part of the extoxic tea drinking gang in the house that goes after his wife, as he admitted for the first time today?

Add to it his statement about knowing that PP has a problem with Sai and 'jaise usne mujh se Sai ke baare me baat ki'... Something about it is not normal, he knows. He has registered PP's behaviour. He perhaps doesn't want to conclude anything about her feelings for him in the context yet. Does he want to give her another benefit of doubt by trying to get her to see what reality is? Or does he think she's really in a 'friendship' with him and really disappointed with life? Which friend allows the other to live in delusional land?

It doesn't seem like Virat thinks it is Sai who has a problem with PP. He knows very well that she only reacts when she's instigated. He knows that Sai would not create a scene even if Sai is actually hurt that he had to actually go without her to accompany PP. It doesn't seem like he means Sai patching up with Vahini as much as he means to make PP understand the facts and accept them to make peace in her mind. I don't think he feels PP is actually 'mature and samajhdaar' Nahin toh he wouldn't have needed to cover up the fact that Sai is coming along -- one of the biggest reasons to avoid confrontation in the bedroom. And his directly acknowledging that PP will call off the trip unless tickets are booked and she won't be able to refuse even if Sai is coming along.

So it's clear that when she does refuse the trip despite the fact that tickets are booked, Virat may finally begin to lower her further from the Maturity Ka ooncha jhoola...

Was Sunny surprised that Virat was taking Sai along only for this reason or did he feel Sai would be a third wheel in the outing? I don't trust this sunny ๐Ÿ˜  he's an idiot. He seemed pretty okay with Mr Chavan and Vahini Mrs Chavan going but Sai Joshi ke naam se he made a 'why the haddi' face? ๐Ÿ˜ก Why does Virat need assistants to book flight tickets? And Woh bhi Sunny Jaise. And what kind of advice was that about barood next to the aag? He seems to completely discount the fact that the aag is actually coming towards the barood due to a leak that Virat needs to fix. Sorry to say but this guy sounded more like a spectator than a friend who's completely unaware about Virat's new feeling... It didn't come across as if Virat has shared even with Sunny what he feels about Sai. How long will it remained bottled up?

The phone call to PP was unnecessary. Totally unnecessary ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘Ÿ๐Ÿฅพ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿฅฟ

He could have shared the information with her even after he was back from work in a very formal way. But the phone call was an 'encouragement' with even "Trip khoob enjoy Karo". What happened to the lack of sensitivity even that she displayed for Samrat?? Enjoy Kahan se aa Gaya? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿค” And what's with giving her teasers about the fact that she's going to be judged for "samajhdaar and matured reaction... Mujhe galat mat samajhna" ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Kuch jyada hi ummeed hai Chavan Saheb ko 1.47 hours yoga love se... The way she strutted across the room after this conversation looks like she's going to already dream about the honeymoon tonight and even have an imaginary bun in the oven by morning ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š


So what does vahini do with that encouragement she's just got? She walks straight into Sai's space while she was on a phone call with the husband to remind her if she's forgotten that she's speaking to her husband rather politely... Ab Didi aapko Bola tha humne CCTV lagwa Lo inke room mein poori picture dekhne ke liye but aap bhi waise hi scenes fast forward mode me dekhti ho Jaise Aapke scene dekhte Hain log ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. So Sai chose to remain silent about her joining the trip warna Gabbar mad ho jaata (as if we would care ๐Ÿ˜…). But Didi's hot air balloon has reached the height of explosion now, being flown without any caution -- "chaar din Virat Nahi Hoga toh acche se padhai Kar Lena"... Add that to the one from yesterday, "tumhe kya Lagta hai, main kis type ki planning Karne wali hoon Virat ke Saath"... My skin is feeling the goosebumps. ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿ˜จ

Fine, that there was this deliberate depiction of the two phonecalls at the same time and Virat was shown as hanging up on PP to talk to Sai -- that Sai is his priority has been established long ago but his action of reaching out to PP where it's not needed is completely taking away from the entire blame to be pushed on PP for keeping hopes. Virat can't see she's delusional and not just disappointed. But for her, his actions are like a bonus stock of the Dum. Chalo, hopefully, tomorrow the suspense on whether the trip is happening or not will end because they didn't show a Precap by design, it means that they want us to wait for tomorrow ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ab I hope it's not a fuski bomb.



In this drag of an episode, there was definitely one loveable moment:

"Kisi din hum dono ek Saath siddhivinayak ke darshan karenge" ๐Ÿ˜Š how quick was that response. I wish his responses could be that quick in need ๐Ÿ˜

He's planning future with her... Transfer hoga toh of course saath lekar jaaunga, Mumbai jayenge... And thank God Bappa, Sai didn't ask, "Mere doctor ban ke yahan jaane se pehle jayenge?"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

This minuscule interaction was so deep and symbolic.. there is no doubt where the heart is, that the fact has been accepted, the past has been erased from the memory and replaced by the hope for tomorrow. There s no requirement for any other validation for anything..not everyone needs to know what's brewing between us... But then, when will we taste that which is brewing?

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Pulkit's Sherlock Holmes skills are sharper than Miss Marple ๐Ÿ˜… he's found his Devyani faster than Miss Marple could find Tai ke Pati. So chalo, now Miss Marple won't need to look around. She will soon be handed over the information she's being looking for... But even after seeing P-for-Pulkit teary eyed, little detective did not connect the clues -- doctor hain, baby hai, inke bhi dil mein gham hai, ye bhi ghum hai kisi ke pyaar mein... ๐Ÿ˜… Asudya... Sabr Ka phal meetha hota Hai... ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿคซ

Bechari Devyani will perhaps go hysterical when she meets her Pati finally. ๐Ÿฅบ

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Meanwhile:

ACP: Alexa, how do I get my ex to befriend my wife

Alexa: Finding results for "Can You Be Friends With Your Ex Once Youโ€™re Married?" Being friends with an ex is always a tricky business...

ACP: Alexa, no. Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends?

Alexa: Finding results for "Is it normal to be friends with your ex-wife?" According to the experts, friendship with an ex-wife is...

ACP: Alexaaa, No! Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends with each other?

Alexa: Finding results for What does it mean when you and your ex are still friends... Sometimes people stay friends with their ex for purely pragmatic purposes...

ACP: Alexaaah!! No. No. No. Alexa, tell me how can I get my ex to be friends with my wife.

Alexa: Sorry, I didn't understand that one.

ACP: Alexa, How can I get my ex to be friends with my wife? Do you understand?

Alexa: Here are results for "Four ways to dive off from a cliff" ... Use the pencil-diving technique to execute an easy jump...Your body should be rigid...

ACP: Alexaaaaaah! Kaun ho tum? Tum kaun ho?

Alexa: Main Amazon dvaara vikasit krtrim sahaayak...

ACP: Alexa, Please stop! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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How long a rope can be given to someone? Can one snap the rope without damaging the "image" of the relationship where it is given? Does snapping the rope mean an end to ties? Why do people fear pulling back the rope?

Thoughts to ponder on along with a hot cuppa of โ˜•โ˜•โ˜• or ๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต and munchies like some oven- fresh cookies ๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช

It's almost do-pahar and aage aap ka din agar thoda heavy hone wala hai mere jaisa toh Kuch jaadu ki jhappi kaam aayegi ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— and hamesha Yaad rakhna, Aap hamare Kuch toh Lagte Hain ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Awesome Analysis janki , really loved it ๐Ÿค—

Well pakhi bhabhi ki poking nose kuch zyada nahi badh gayi she is dancing in her lalalaa land that , she will be soon in ladakh with her imaginary husband and spent good amount of time there 4days right bhabhi ki sapane are gonna be crashed by her devar soon ๐Ÿ˜†

Waiseh even though Virat looked with what sai said woh kuch zyada ponder nahi kiya iss baat may be future fight keliyeh preserve kiya hai last time it was u always remind me u didn't love me and don't wanna get married to me iss bhaar yeah dialogue additional hoga ๐Ÿ˜† , waiseh dilutional bhabhi was again in the mode of aag mein ghee dalna but isss time it didn't worked well aag bujhgayi , but virat didn't like the reference of sai calling herself as kabab mein haddi janab got triggered and asked her to watch out what she said hayeee he is so into her man ๐Ÿ˜† aur suitcase packing he like abhi tak pack nahi kiya , why will pakhi pack my bag when will pack our stuff on one bag ๐Ÿ˜†, he is adamant to take his baiko to trip by hook or crook , waiseh ek aur cheez I felt he literally wanna kick his bhabhi out asap from his room ,

Ok so that office scene of him yeah sunny bhi nah yaar tum galat ship mein hai tumhari dost dusri ship mein hai aur khud ship karrrahi hai ,abhi bhi pakhi ko ayseh devta samajti hai yeah koyi nahi I want sai bai to set his brain straight , well aaj kal when virat speak about sai there is a different charm a glow in his eyes , thank god finally he admit uski shareef ghar waleh kitni achi seh sai ki saath behave karti hai ,waiseh about trip I just think he doesn't want anymore mess in his life pakhi sai clash ki wajah seh so he is trying to just do patch up thing but it's terrible gonna be big blow , waiseh iam glad he started to realise his so called mature susheel friend is not at all mature like he think ,and that PP phone call was not needed but theek hai I liked it how he hanged upon her and pp figured it out sai was the reason why he hanged on her , well I loved the way when virats voice changed when he was talking with sai and that smile on his face while talking to her , waiseh looks like ACP sahab is planning to move ahead in their relationship from deal wala to real wala marriage he even readily replied her lekin wekin kuch nahi agar neh chaha toh ekdin hum zaroor siddivinayak darshan karege , well iam loving their convos waiseh looks like Virat neh apni aayi ki tip seriously leh liya how to make sai do things he want her to do๐Ÿ˜†

I really loved sai and devi tai scene , sai is really Adorable aur tai also really love , pulkit sir bahoot smart nikala how easily he solved the mystery he found out sai and devi are related now let's see how sai will get to know about the same


Well iam so happy today that kind of played villain wali bgm for pakhi bhabhi when she was over hearing sai and virats convo luckily bhabhi didn't figured it out sai is accompanying them , isss aurat ko dekho she was trying to instigate sai , but maza anneh wala hai when she will know her imaginary husband is bringing his real wali wifey along with him on this trip ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Lovely writing, as always!!!


loved the Siddhivinayak talk..loved the way Virat is happy while talking with Sai...even on the phone...Loved the way he ignored Pakhi's talks in his room while asking Sai to do their packing....

But surely did not understand his (phone) calling Pakhi and Sai calling him...Is there any significance...abhi ke hissab se Pakhi is after Virat and Virat ka jhukav Sai ki taraf hai...Lets c.....

Actually the whole of his office scene was weird...Sunny booking karwa raha hai...I mean is Sunny brought in for a purpose..Yoga love wala illusion bhi usi ki badaulat hua tha Virat ko..To is Sunny the one jo Sai ke liye feelings realize karwayega???

Did not like Virat's ..Sai bhi humare saath jaayegi...where humare included him and Pakhi...Did not like the order in which the names were called..Virat, Pakhi, Sai....

I felt quite bad for Samrat today....Uska bhai and uski wife...both planning for the trip to get some clues to solve the missing Samrat case....Pakhi se to umeed thi hi nahi...which she very clearly spashta se bata chuki ki she is not at all interested in finding him...She is excied to be there with Virat on a holiday....

But Virat...he is sincere...but then y his Sai and Pakhi ka milap ka plan on this l crucial trip???Does not make sense..it is an official trip....ghar per use dono ko manage karna mushkil hai...what does he have in mind.....He wants to go there for Samrat...with the patch-up intention between Sai and Pakhi is definitely not saamajhdaari...or shant dimag se socha hua ...or 10 baar socha hua plan...


kal ke episode mein bhi ek funny baat thi...initial part mein where Virat was talking to Sai to manayofy her to accompany him...usne kaha ki mein koi holiday per nahi jaa raha Pakhi ke saath ...uska matlab tha ki agar woh holiday per jaa raha hota Pakhi ke saath to Sai ko nahi le kar jaata?????

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Hi Janaki

today I did not connect much with virat .. because I find it harebrained to go all the way to Ladakh to build bonds with pakhi and sayi


firstly samrat is missing .. there can be any type of news there .. and u have gone so far stuck to the purpose .. emotions will be high .. what Rest n relaxation are they expecting there ..


any ways Chavan sahab is giving his baiko work packing karo .. donโ€™t get bothered about silly things.. sayi was logical but her navra seemed confident enough to handle his vahini

I am glad she told him I donโ€™t want to be kabab me haddi .. I seriously doubt viratโ€™s ability to handle this mess .. inspite if his bragging to his wife and then friend about it

A newly married marathi couple praying to get darshan of siddhi vinayak is great start to Tuesday ..

kab jaana hoga .. baby hone se pehle ki Uske baad.. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š


For me the episode belonged to Devyani .. her tears, pain were real .. most probably for 8-9 years she has been separated from her husband and thatโ€™s her one cry .. they have brought her story quite nicely .. unlike Shivani , pp and virat love story



Since sayi has entered the house .. Devyani brings her husband in every conversation.. she can only think and talk about him .. but she wonโ€™t name him .. and thatโ€™s why maybe bappa heard her .. and brought pulkit to sayi without much ado


even his pain has been clearly visible .. I like sayi pulkit friendship .. it has started well .. and this is not sudden . If the college has been going on from October to February then thereโ€™s 3-4 months to build a good rapport with colleagues .. yes heโ€™s her lecturer but it happens in college .. people are more relaxed ..


Today pulkit wanted to fish out the info from her .. because baiko is busy planning Ladakh ke kapde .. .. jackets in her mind ..


so it made sense .. that he got the info from her and will seek out Devyani .. because he understood Devi is calling out to him .. her doctor husband


I hope they meet fast .. and good or bad .. story can move to a different level

Vahini is now black overtaken Kaku in the vamp department..she went to sayi to ask her how is she talking to virat very sweetly


And yes yes .. ashwini is busy knitting baby mittens in her Khyali pulao ..







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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hi Janki....

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I don't get offended by Pakhi as most do. Simply because she is too much of a caricature, merely a plot tool. Her characterisation is one dimensional - her motivations lack depth. She is not interesting enough to either like or hate. What I'm interested in is how Virat handles the whole situation, and he is falling terribly short. Who in his right mind would take his wife and ex together in a trip, just to make them befriend each other? Even the dumbest man on earth will know that it is a big no no and I'm not willing to believe that Virat is THAT dumb. He is behaving as if he is just taking two warring family members. CVs are losing their mind.


Although he tells Sunny that Pakhi is stressed because her husband is missing, what he actually thinks is that just as Sai has helped him move on, having Samrat in Pakhi's life will help her move on too. BTW, is Virat really close to Sunny?


Another thing - did Pakhi score a self-goal? When Sai blurted that "Virat sir mere liye kuch nahi lagte". Virat seemed taken back (and hurt). Then Pakhi retorted that Sai's above line was a facade, because it was evident how affected she was about Virakhi trip. Did Pakhi unwittingly help Virat make sense of Sai's outburst?


Sai being brainwashed repeatedly by either Ashwini or Pulkit. Why is this whole (husband-is-so-good-but-wife-doesn't -recognise) trope being used again and again? Is it foreshadowing?

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Alexa style.. taking a cue from you๐Ÿ˜†


Me: Why am I getting bored watching this?

Alexa: Increase in single toned scenes and acting. Too much maturity.


Me: Why does Virat feel this is a masterstroke from him? And irritatingly, looks pleased with himself.

Alexa: Remember, bhoosa bhara hua hai? There you get your answer


Me: Name the one thing Virat is relying on for the success of his plan


Alexa: Pakhi mature hai. ๐Ÿคฃ


Thank you Janki for giving life to today's episode with your excellent analysis.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Awesome post by you, Janki! ๐Ÿค—โค๏ธ

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Originally posted by: scarlett22

Alexa style.. taking a cue from you๐Ÿ˜†


Me: Why am I getting bored watching this?

Alexa: Increase in single toned scenes and acting. Too much maturity.


Me: Why does Virat feel this is a masterstroke from him? And irritatingly, looks pleased with himself.

Alexa: Remember, bhoosa bhara hua hai? There you get your answer


Me: Name the one thing Virat is relying on for the success of his plan


Alexa: Pakhi mature hai. ๐Ÿคฃ


Thank you Janki for giving life to today's episode with your excellent analysis.


Awesome! ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Me: Is Virat's 'Pakhi mature hai' sahara tenable for the success of the plan?

Alexa: Mann behlane ko khayal accha hai but those who don't know ice skating should not try to slide the mountains in Ladakh. Definitely not in a saree ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Lovely post dear๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ


Today again Virat showed why he always looks for escapism, cause he only that way to survive in CM and maintain " ghar ki shaanti"


The last question by Sai " aap mere kuch nahi lagte" he heard it, but didn't delve into it. Probably because Samrat is more important.


What about Pakhi? He is aware the she is under delusion. The words has been registered and he has to draw a line. Where is the best place?


Somewhere miles away, where we three show who is who in pati patni and woh. Without the extras reaction from family. Hence, he has kept it secret like a suspense thriller .


Tommrow suspense will get clear.Till then let bhabhi ji go on imaginary honeymoon . While navra baiko do their future planning over phone.

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Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Good morning sisterhood! ๐ŸŒค๐Ÿต๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒบ

It's time to stop blaming Patralekha (Chavan ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคซ) for trying to be 'indecent'. The first rule before pushing the blame on to anyone in the situation that we've been shown is the level of discomfort, refusal and discouragement put in by the recipient of the acts. Virat, although he has sensed most of what vahini thinks, he's yet to acknowledge that he needs to draw the visible lines. He has been clearly uncomfortable with her actions on three occasions but he seems to be far from being able to spell it out to the delusional vahini.


>> Lets take a neutral stand, he understands her frustration may be. He knows she is stressed and understands the mental pressure she has gone through. He just hasnt deduced that it is not stress but now an obsession. Her logics are out of the window. The day he realises. ๐Ÿ˜•

The scene is now complete and so it's continuity was essentially to have vahini leave the room without Virat saying anything in return to the insensitive reaction to his refusal of sightseeing. The audacity with which she can spew venom to Sai's face and walk out is because of Virat's silence. It doesn't matter what Sai says or doesn't. The 'level up' is very visible in Vahini's toxicity as well as her advancing moves. This time she barged into the couple's bedroom, pushed Sai's 'wife' buttons by making direct hits at the 'husband', making indecent suggestions of sharing bags (thereby rooms), expressing excitement about the honeymoon, disowning her own missing husband and dismissing the emotion that Virat should feel as a brother for the same man, and finally, accusing the 'wife' of 'objecting' to her plans of honeymooning with the 'husband'.

Of course, she did all this because she is "upset that her husband is missing and she needs an outing" ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜ฌ wah, wah Chavan Saheb! Dekh kar andekha Karna kise kehte Hain? ๐Ÿ˜ 

Just like vahini, however, Virat too is just filled with the excitement of taking along Sai -- he didn't delve on the 'mere Kuch Nahi Lagte' so it must have been stored in memory for future reference. At any other usual moment, it would have blown up into a fight but this time it didn't. Because, the navra baiko had more information exchanged between them than Vahini's imagination ๐Ÿ™ƒ So, although she tried, the misunderstanding did not seep in -- Sai knew Virat wanted her to come along and Virat knew Sai wouldn't throw the kind of fit vahini was throwing even if he hadn't forced her to accompany -- it helps to communicate.


>>> Sai said that in a heat of the and just like Sai picks up Vahini's taunts and hints here i think Vahini picked it up too and voiced it out. That she is not liking that we are traveling together and is all on your face. Virat has seen it and he knows it as well. And thats the reason may be it did not go in the angry route.

But of course Sai's questions were valid as always: "Why didn't you say I am going? Why did you ask me to wait in the room and subject me to the beizzati?"

Didn't he say he would not allow it to happen but he's more than willing to make Sai a sitting duck for Vadawali Vahini to vent out her 'cheated wife' frustrations more than often.

And of course, "Why should I pack your bags when you didn't tell her that we've decided that we are carrying one bag together?"

I believe it helped Sai let go of the anger in that moment because of the confidence with which Virat continued to remind her that 'their' decision was made and no one else's view matters because it's for him to handle.If this Vahini's walk-in and pushing buttons were to happen before the two of them had spoken about Sai's inclusion in the trip, it would have surely blown into a huge fight. That's how they should even live their lives and c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-e.

>>> This scene was executed very well, no lengthy discussion just one point we decided and thats what we do. I will handle the rest (kaise karega i dont think even he has that clue).

Virat thinks it shouldn't matter what Vahini thinks because they have already made a decision bu what's the level of danger in trying to force two unwilling women to be friends? Isn't it important to tell vahini that he's planning adventure sport in Ladakh with Sai and her in the same team?? Because she's packing sarees in her big red bag ๐Ÿ˜ฏ isme adventure kaise Hoga๐Ÿ˜… she's going prepared for something else -- those romantic saree photos in snow with imaginary husband, straight from YRF movies ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ "Ye haseen vaadiyan ye khula aasman"...

But coming back to the question of unwilling women, today I got a sense that Virat knows it's PP who's the problem and not Sai. But Chavan Saheb ke khayal Ka kya bolein? Does he really still think Vahini is upset because she didn't get to know her husband before he went missing?

To me, Virat's conversation with Sai was a small peek into his mind to hear Spashthly what we had been assuming for a few days now. Two things are clear from his talk with Sunny:

Virat knows his family is pushing Sai to the corner. But he thinks Didi is not part of the extoxic tea drinking gang in the house that goes after his wife, as he admitted for the first time today?

>>> I dont think he thought that, he simply placed what both of them are going through. Vahini has a pained marriage and is mentally stressed. Lets not talk about Sai, she is stressed out many things and first and foremost is her husband who is ignoring all the alarming signs. I liked when she "Unhe bura lagega" she knows and she also knows what is coming but she just went with the flow.

Add to it his statement about knowing that PP has a problem with Sai and 'jaise usne mujh se Sai ke baare me baat ki'... Something about it is not normal, he knows. He has registered PP's behaviour. He perhaps doesn't want to conclude anything about her feelings for him in the context yet. Does he want to give her another benefit of doubt by trying to get her to see what reality is? Or does he think she's really in a 'friendship' with him and really disappointed with life? Which friend allows the other to live in delusional land?

It doesn't seem like Virat thinks it is Sai who has a problem with PP. He knows very well that she only reacts when she's instigated. He knows that Sai would not create a scene even if Sai is actually hurt that he had to actually go without her to accompany PP. It doesn't seem like he means Sai patching up with Vahini as much as he means to make PP understand the facts and accept them to make peace in her mind. I don't think he feels PP is actually 'mature and samajhdaar' Nahin toh he wouldn't have needed to cover up the fact that Sai is coming along -- one of the biggest reasons to avoid confrontation in the bedroom. And his directly acknowledging that PP will call off the trip unless tickets are booked and she won't be able to refuse even if Sai is coming along.

>>> Virat knows what the problem he is just not voicing it out and wants to clear the air. But what is he going to clear. Baiko ko bolega there is nothing between me and vahini even after Pyar Dosti slip up ya Best friend ko bolega i forgot what i promised to you and moved on. Karna kya isko. HE is going to entangle the web even more and make things worse for Sai

So it's clear that when she does refuse the trip despite the fact that tickets are booked, Virat may finally begin to lower her further from the Maturity Ka ooncha jhoola...

Was Sunny surprised that Virat was taking Sai along only for this reason or did he feel Sai would be a third wheel in the outing? I don't trust this sunny ๐Ÿ˜  he's an idiot. He seemed pretty okay with Mr Chavan and Vahini Mrs Chavan going but Sai Joshi ke naam se he made a 'why the haddi' face? ๐Ÿ˜ก Why does Virat need assistants to book flight tickets? And Woh bhi Sunny Jaise. And what kind of advice was that about barood next to the aag? He seems to completely discount the fact that the aag is actually coming towards the barood due to a leak that Virat needs to fix. Sorry to say but this guy sounded more like a spectator than a friend who's completely unaware about Virat's new feeling... It didn't come across as if Virat has shared even with Sunny what he feels about Sai. How long will it remained bottled up?

>>> Lets not talk about sunny please, dont think he knows Virat that well.

The phone call to PP was unnecessary. Totally unnecessary ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿฅฟ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘Ÿ๐Ÿฅพ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿฅฟ

He could have shared the information with her even after he was back from work in a very formal way. But the phone call was an 'encouragement' with even "Trip khoob enjoy Karo". What happened to the lack of sensitivity even that she displayed for Samrat?? Enjoy Kahan se aa Gaya? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿค” And what's with giving her teasers about the fact that she's going to be judged for "samajhdaar and matured reaction... Mujhe galat mat samajhna" ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Kuch jyada hi ummeed hai Chavan Saheb ko 1.47 hours yoga love se... The way she strutted across the room after this conversation looks like she's going to already dream about the honeymoon tonight and even have an imaginary bun in the oven by morning ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š


>>> Achcha hua call kiya, ghar aake bedroom ya balcony mein nahi gaya to explain. I think the call was a better deal instead of going and explaining things personally.


So what does vahini do with that encouragement she's just got? She walks straight into Sai's space while she was on a phone call with the husband to remind her if she's forgotten that she's speaking to her husband rather politely... Ab Didi aapko Bola tha humne CCTV lagwa Lo inke room mein poori picture dekhne ke liye but aap bhi waise hi scenes fast forward mode me dekhti ho Jaise Aapke scene dekhte Hain log ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. So Sai chose to remain silent about her joining the trip warna Gabbar mad ho jaata (as if we would care ๐Ÿ˜…). But Didi's hot air balloon has reached the height of explosion now, being flown without any caution -- "chaar din Virat Nahi Hoga toh acche se padhai Kar Lena"... Add that to the one from yesterday, "tumhe kya Lagta hai, main kis type ki planning Karne wali hoon Virat ke Saath"... My skin is feeling the goosebumps. ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿ˜จ


>>> She exactly knew what she was saying. I am not saying her intentions are nasty but that statement was simple i get me time with my "Imaginary Husband" Sai has read her intentions well, dont know how big of a dhamaka it would be

Fine, that there was this deliberate depiction of the two phonecalls at the same time and Virat was shown as hanging up on PP to talk to Sai -- that Sai is his priority has been established long ago but his action of reaching out to PP where it's not needed is completely taking away from the entire blame to be pushed on PP for keeping hopes. Virat can't see she's delusional and not just disappointed. But for her, his actions are like a bonus stock of the Dum. Chalo, hopefully, tomorrow the suspense on whether the trip is happening or not will end because they didn't show a Precap by design, it means that they want us to wait for tomorrow ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ab I hope it's not a fuski bomb.


>>> Were the phone calls, only for Vahini to hear half conversation and taunt Sai. Looks like, otherwise there was no need for these 2 phone calls. She wants their argument but she is one pushing them closer by doing all this.


In this drag of an episode, there was definitely one loveable moment:

"Kisi din hum dono ek Saath siddhivinayak ke darshan karenge" ๐Ÿ˜Š how quick was that response. I wish his responses could be that quick in need ๐Ÿ˜

He's planning future with her... Transfer hoga toh of course saath lekar jaaunga, Mumbai jayenge... And thank God Bappa, Sai didn't ask, "Mere doctor ban ke yahan jaane se pehle jayenge?"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

>>> I agree with this one, Bappa se vinti hai, iss ACP ka dimag Ghum gaya hain, koi dhundh laado


This minuscule interaction was so deep and symbolic.. there is no doubt where the heart is, that the fact has been accepted, the past has been erased from the memory and replaced by the hope for tomorrow. There s no requirement for any other validation for anything..not everyone needs to know what's brewing between us... But then, when will we taste that which is brewing?

****

Pulkit's Sherlock Holmes skills are sharper than Miss Marple ๐Ÿ˜… he's found his Devyani faster than Miss Marple could find Tai ke Pati. So chalo, now Miss Marple won't need to look around. She will soon be handed over the information she's being looking for... But even after seeing P-for-Pulkit teary eyed, little detective did not connect the clues -- doctor hain, baby hai, inke bhi dil mein gham hai, ye bhi ghum hai kisi ke pyaar mein... ๐Ÿ˜… Asudya... Sabr Ka phal meetha hota Hai... ๐Ÿคซ๐Ÿคซ

Bechari Devyani will perhaps go hysterical when she meets her Pati finally. ๐Ÿฅบ

****

Meanwhile:

ACP: Alexa, how do I get my ex to befriend my wife

Alexa: Finding results for "Can You Be Friends With Your Ex Once Youโ€™re Married?" Being friends with an ex is always a tricky business...

ACP: Alexa, no. Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends?

Alexa: Finding results for "Is it normal to be friends with your ex-wife?" According to the experts, friendship with an ex-wife is...

ACP: Alexaaa, No! Alexa, Can my ex and my wife be friends with each other?

Alexa: Finding results for What does it mean when you and your ex are still friends... Sometimes people stay friends with their ex for purely pragmatic purposes...

ACP: Alexaaah!! No. No. No. Alexa, tell me how can I get my ex to be friends with my wife.

Alexa: Sorry, I didn't understand that one.

ACP: Alexa, How can I get my ex to be friends with my wife? Do you understand?

Alexa: Here are results for "Four ways to dive off from a cliff" ... Use the pencil-diving technique to execute an easy jump...Your body should be rigid...

ACP: Alexaaaaaah! Kaun ho tum? Tum kaun ho?

Alexa: Main Amazon dvaara vikasit krtrim sahaayak...

ACP: Alexa, Please stop! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

***

How long a rope can be given to someone? Can one snap the rope without damaging the "image" of the relationship where it is given? Does snapping the rope mean an end to ties? Why do people fear pulling back the rope?

Thoughts to ponder on along with a hot cuppa of โ˜•โ˜•โ˜• or ๐Ÿต๐Ÿต๐Ÿต and munchies like some oven- fresh cookies ๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช

It's almost do-pahar and aage aap ka din agar thoda heavy hone wala hai mere jaisa toh Kuch jaadu ki jhappi kaam aayegi ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค— and hamesha Yaad rakhna, Aap hamare Kuch toh Lagte Hain ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

Love

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Loved your analysis, complete different take than what was presented in the episode, in a good way.

Since i saw the episode first, had some views of my own

My comments in blue ๐Ÿ˜Š


This is going to be a big mess and the feeling is its going to be blow up pretty bad. In this the only person who is going to get badly hurt is Sai. She knew from the beginning and she kept on telling both Aai and Godu. Logic ko toh baju mein rakh chuke hain ye log.

Though she is 18 but seems logical and says what is black as black and white as white, she does not bring up grey. Something which Virat needs to learn

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