Adding adventure sport to a "honeymoon"... - Page 3

Why do virat wants to make the two ladies befriend each other? What would he gain by doing that?... They both hates each other which is clear, then virat should simply try to avoid confrontations between them instead of forcing them to be 'friends'... Ips officer ki planning bhi kamaal hai... Aise plans banake jaate hai kya case solve karne?... Virat's I-know-it-all attitude is annoying.😬

Trip pe jaake virat will play djembe and both girls will dance thats what he must be dreaming.... While vahini is dreaming of cozying with him in a honeymoon suite🤮... Sai is the only sensible one who can see what was coming.... And she's being called 'immature' for that. 🤔

Vahini after all the tantrums and taunting sessions still remains the 'mature and samajhdar' for virat.... Aisi maturity aur samajhdari na kabhi dekhi na suni. 😬

Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

@Janki: Excellent. Let me try to figure out the answer for these questions "Why Virat is behaving differently with PP and Sai? Why he was not angry when Sai said he is no one to her?"

1. Virat very well knows that as soon as Mrs.MIA lost the connection with Virat, she said yes to marry Samrat. Now Mr.MIA is not here and even if Virat is not behaving as she likes, Mrs.MIA will soon be Mrs.XYZ. He wants her to stay and wait for Mr.MIA in CN till he comes.

I agree and get that. He wants his "Jeeva's wife" stays in the house in her husband's absence and feels responsible about ensuring it to the extent of restraining his own wife even if Vahini is wrong. It actually shows that he doesn't trust her. How would he? Knowing that she decided to marry another man in a few days after one phonecall that didn't go as per her liking? Also, because if she is not given the "ijjat" she demands and has put forth the blackmail of leaving the house, eventually whenever Samrat returns she will use it as an excuse to guilt trip Samrat : You abandoned me, and your family ill treated me and forced me to leave the house. I won't come back.

2. When Sai said Virat is no one to her, Virat was hurt and registered in his mind as you mentioned. But he was relieved to hear from matured vahini that Sai's expression says different. Now it is clear he wants to better understand Sai with the help of vahini and thats why planning to take them together.

Yes, i agree. He knew she was saying it impulsively and it can be stored away for a moment when they are actually fighting with each othr 😆abhi toh attention de bhi rahi hai and bags pack karne wali hai 😆

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

They are definitely not two warring women and I mentioned the Alexa conversation for fun but the fact is that I actually googled "can an ex and wife be friends", trust me there are no answers even on Google. So chavan saheb ke paas plan hona toh namumkin hai

Sai being brainwashed repeatedly by either Ashwini or Pulkit. Why is this whole (husband-is-so-good-but-wife-doesn't -recognise) trope being used again and again? Is it foreshadowing?

I personally find it very putting off. She's all of 18. What's this hurry of pushing her to "nazdeekiyaan" with Virat as Sai mentioned today. Like @msin said, Ashwini is knitting baby woollens in her dreams. Even Pulkit's remark of being a woman to a man was so sexually coloured -- it didn't come across as crass because he said it in veiled words. First the 'husband' has to figure out his own emotions and then the world can push the girl. And why does Ashwini not go and speak to her Godu about the way he treats Sai. She can only see "how much my son cares for you", but there is a HUGE level of "how much my son takes you for granted" too. PS: I Do like Ashwini as a character overall but she's biased towards the son despite being genuinely loving to Sai.

@red OMG. You cracked me up 🤣. To think you actually googled it 🤣. Such dedication 😆.

@ blue My concern is that the way this nonsense is being repeated again and again, makes me wonder if this is going to be set up as the central reason for their MU during separation track - conveniently brushing aside MUCH of Virat's culpability in the cracks in their relationship. Just like in the alta episode - the onus will always be on Sai. After asking Sai to leave, he will realize his feelings, cry like a baby....but will not undergo any significant change.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

😠 Is he really dumb or pretends to be one..Everytime Pakhi is making advances, so visible, putting his wife down. I really wish he ups his tone, body language and his expecation be more vocal. I feel like one is talking from Earth and other from Pluto...Pakhi is talking about Virat which is very very visible, she has smiled and thrilled and did say Samrat means nothing and then Virat like a old tape recorder, I miss Samrat, I can feel what you feel for Samrat missing..Dude, come on, slap yourself and put not a IPS hat, a common man hat. I really wished Virat took a stern stand for Sai like he did when they did other important events. This taking Sai for granted isnt going down well with me. He seems to be becoming delusional, friend's asar...Tell me about your friend, I can tell about you..a famous saying.

I think he part-pretends and it's partly because he doesn't know the "exact intentions". He thinks she's upset because she never got to experience the joys that Samrat could have given her... I don't think it's completely registered that she's married to him in her head. But her whole hysterical "you gave her the rose!" did put him off and he said, "I didn't like it". And then the Samrat conversation-- but what does he do? He calls her up and tells her to khoob enjoy on the trip and not to misunderstand what he is planning to do there for "their" happiness 🤪🤪 Vahini is already in La-La land and even walks up to his "wife" to tell her how "I'm going to have your husband" for three -four days 🤣🤣

Super apt..I wonder what he is packing with Sai..he never gave hints to Sai on what to take to please him..the rainbow dress or the christmas tree or the yellow suit with pompoms or any dress or saree with pompoms..Sai is right, bcos someone likes chocolates or ballons, just give them that? I mean Virat, you have to speak up for your wife.

He likes her in all those blue pompoms she has on all her dresses. You notice, all the pompoms are blue like they purchased those in bulk in one colour and stitched them onto all her necklines - yellow, green, pink --everything! 😵😵 Her red sheer dress that she's wearing is very pretty though. I hope it's made use of before the whole volley of screaming matches begins with the Devyani track coming up 😆😆 I also liked the dupatta although it could have been done away with. He has to speak up and also speak to his wife.

In the reception scene, it felt like Sunny sensed that Virat is falling for Sai and will raj karegi this fort..or tihar jail aka CN. But nah, he seemed to be MIA along with Samrat and partial memory loss.

Sunny is Didi ki Dum ki Dukaan ka loyal customer. 😡

VIrat/CN wasis keep saying hope you enjoy...what the hell, I mean, how can one enjoy if you are going in search of a loved one? if not her, atleast her bff brother. for whom he means a lot tht he could give up the 1.47 hours of yoga love. I cant even eat if my kid is 5 mins late from school bus or if I dont get a phone call daily at the same time from my parents. Here we are talking about a person gone for days and this is one chance to fly and check...I would have gone without reservation train or paidal or cycle to Ladakh in whatever clothes...nothing fancy..gosh..CVS, yes and whats the order of the names? Pakhi first, Virat and Sai ..May be he could have paused before saying Joshi..May be say Sai Virat Chavan?? but no mercy to the poor audience..

I agree. No one is really worried about Samrat. Even Ashwini is almost on the verge of asking for "good news" after Ladakh trip 🤣 no wonder Sai said, "Aap funny ho".

The order of the names - I didnt waste my BP on it. I think they wanted to show it as him being very "certain and firm" and Sunny getting a surprise. 🤔🤔

😐 Yes, I loved it, he could have said, I will definetely fulfill it..being the vaada boy, but may be, arre am already filled with so many, dont know where to fit this in my brain..

I think he's beginning to accept he cannot live up to vaadas so it's better to leave it to Bappa ne chaha toh 🤣 Waise bhi gaana suna hai na, "Milne ki tum koshish karna, vaada kabhi na karna, vaada toh toot jaata hai" 😆😆

Alexa: I apologize I could not get you answers. You need to ask me smart questions, Pardon my language. You sound to be too dumb!!

Alexa couldn't find any google result for how to make ex become friends with wife 😆

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Love your take and somewhere I cant imagine Virat as the man who needs to draw a super thick line between Pakhi and Sai. Pakhi is getting bolder these days. I would suggest Sai to walk away without speaking.

Sai should have actually left the room without saying a word or explaining why she was leaving. And she should always do that now on, whenever the serpent slides in. Let the delusional yoga lovers do the nagin dance

awesome post as always 👏

virat is sooooooooooooo confident about his best friend's maturity😆

abhi aage se i hope he will think twice before talking about maturity 😆sai should just hand him a mirror or pakhi's pic whenever virat talks about maturity and samajdaari 😛

Pp and Sai should definitely team up and bajao this guy and his Bhavani n co family 😆 and settle down with ash😆

Anyways, I won't be surprised if we do get VirHi romantic saree seq in snow as part of Pakhi didis dreams😆

Sai should have actually left the room without saying a word or explaining why she was leaving. And she should always do that now on, whenever the serpent slides in. Let the delusional yoga lovers do the nagin dance

Okay I didn't want to throw out my frustation here bcoz I have stopped watching the show for now . Their maturity is maddening me . But this line @red cracked me up that I couldn't resist😂😂😂😂😂

These two yoga lovers really need to run away to a yoga retreat again so that both of them understand other one's intentions clearly !!!!!! Atleast Ladakh shud have happened 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

What's with this zaleel aurat roaming around glowy glowy about her impending honeymoon with her husbands brother 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Originally posted by: yyyy

I know I am in the minority when I say I liked yesterday’s episode and enjoyed the hints thrown at us about the upcoming tracks. I believe “action speaks louder than words “ and Virat’s action showed what Sai means to him. Two things stood out to me in yesterday's episode.

Chakram niwas ka time katola is playing on you - episode aaj ka hi tha (unless you are in a time zone of tomorrow, already 😆)

1. The phone conversation: I love parallels, it was so evident from the scene that Virat is not at all comfortable talking to his vaada love Pakhi. He was so stiff, to the point, and eager to hang up while he was so relaxed and normal when it comes to Sai. If anyone who doesn't know about their history Is asked to select the girl Virat is in love with, they will pick Sai.

I like your take! Sach me. Yes, the difference was visible and that was the point to show how Sai is all over his mind and life now. But I think with his teasers to PP without letting her know Sai is coming (and i get it why), he just built up a whole big castle for her in the air, fuelled her delusions which he is blissfully unaware of and despite getting vibes that made him uncomfortable, he's almost encouraging her to keep getting bolder. Of course, Sai is undoubtedly the one he's genuinely falling in love with and he needs to work on his inner thoughts to get it right. It will automatically add all that seems missing from his end. Nothing else.

another parallel was the Mumbai trip. When they were discussing the Nag river trip, Sai was hesitant to make plans with Virat but here they were so normal while discussing the trip. This is what I call progress.

True. Even Sai did not hesitate and Virat's expression was "Oh, I have another goal now, left behind by Kamal Sir" 😆 It was such a quick, sweet, spontaneous response. I thought Sai should have said, "soooh sweeet" like she told Amey when he was feeling the chillies in his eyes 🤣

Lastly, Virat Pakhi the conversation doesn’t bother me because in every conversation I notice one thing. He is uncomfortable and only talks about Sai or Samrat. I didn't find anything wrong in calling her vs talking to her after reaching home. Either way Pakhi will try to find some way to believe Virat loves her.

Wahi toh problem hai na. He is uncomfortable. His loyalty for Sai has been established... in fact, it's not because of Sai but because of his value system. He will never be comfortable with his Vahini being in close proximity to him -- physically or the abnormal emotionally -- and moreso, now, because he is married. But then, his jalebis are misinterpreted by Vahini (even by Sai) and he conveniently changes the "Exact" words that they have misinterpreted to fit in what is convenient to say from time to time.

2. Another scene was Virat making plans to bring Pakhi and Sai closer. He hasn't learned from his previous mistakes, he tried hard to bring Pakhi Sai closer in the initial episodes by making Pakhi Sai’s mentor but it backfired so badly. Before his master plan, at least they were considerate of each other feelings but after his attempt, that was lost. I remember Sai was more concerned about Pakhi’s feelings after her marriage but when Virat forced Pakhi on her she got irritated with both the friends. I appreciate his noble thoughts but sometimes it's better not to force people. I think this will make him realize they can never be friends as long as they are in love with the same man.

Man-made Disaster that is. I agree with you. If he had not pushed PP to become Sai's mentor, the girls would have probably got along at least for a week. At least Sai would have, am not sure about PP. Even now, it is Sai who is actually feeling that PP will not like it , it will hurt her because he has given her the impression that her assumption that only the two imaginary husband-wife are going together is true. And he still disregards Sai's concern about the issue

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Great analysis Janki, havn't seen the episodes as mentioned BUT why does he want Sai and Pakhi to befriend each other? Maybe bc he wants peace in the household but forcing them down each other's throat isn't going to help when the entire problem and root of their "dushmani" is him. He has a lot of clearing up the air to do but he refuses to see what is. Obs his tactics are not working but this machoor guy will blame them for fighting ... maybe he can see his efforts arent working and employ another strategy or think before blaming them for fighting or disliking each other.

Or is he embarrassed abt his vaada so much that he cant face the truth that he did promise someone something but now wants to back out bc he likes his present and future much more than that moment? His ego may just be the problem...the entire root of the problem is infact Virat ..his inability to clear the air and convey, communicate to both the women what his expectation are. Communication is key in any relationship. High time instead of people always advising women on what an "amazing" husband she has, people start tlking about the woman and wife as well.

Also, can't believe he called Sai immature again (from the BTS). Sigh.