Suprabhat Bhagininno! ππΌπ»
Do you think Chavan saheb needs a personal straight talking assistant to help navigate through his emotions? I think he needs an Alexa.
ACP: Alexa, why did Sai reject my offer to drop her off to college today?
Alexa: Google results for 'Interprering wife's silence...' A wife's silence means you are no longer that person who occupies her thoughts, you are no longer worth her anger, and you are no longer worth the fight aur Sai waise bhi Tumhari sunti Kahan hai...
ACP: Alexaa, Basss!
Alexa: Would you like "Tips to keep your creepy ex away" instead?
ACP: Alexa! π₯Ίπ£ππ
Alexa: Sorry I didn't quite get that one, could you please be spashth?
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Chavan Saheb thought he would get a chance to feed some more jalebis to roothi huyi Baiko in the confines of the moving Scorpio without any serpentine invasions but Baiko has had enough of his gol gol goal-less pravachans and firmly rejected the offer for some more π π From 'fight mode', Jhagda champion has now entered 'flight mode' -- jis upbhogta se aap reconnection karna chahte hain, wo abhi aapki vibes sweekar nahi kar rahi hai, krupya thodi der baad try karein, the user you are trying to reconnect with is currently not accepting your vibes, please try again laterπ₯Ί Chavan saheb, tab tak, please ask Alexa to Google "Roothi huyi Biwi ko acche se kaise manate Hain", before that also Google, "How to deal with jealousy in a deal marriage"... You're going to need more of those lessons in combination in the coming days π€£π
And oh, that "Thank you main chali jaungi" was really painful ππ no wonder even Sarplekha ko itna Bura laga that her 'true love' was back on display.. And then Roothi huyi Baiko ne temperature check Karne se bhi reject Kar diya ππ₯Ί
His firm grip around her wrist and his emotion when he said, "tumhara haath Maine chhodhne ke liye Nahi pakda hai Sai" was strong enough for her to feel it.
At least thereafter he said one or two sentences in spashth language because Baiko always talks spashth and she asked the spashth question : what a weird see saw are you on? When I spoke to Amey for a reason , you went mad and today you stood by me again?
Chalo, it gives me immense satisfaction that even in the midst of this appalling circus of Chakram niwasis, Sai has her intelligence intact and she actually knew that Amey triggered him off... Warna why did he really ruin that dinner they were both looking forward to...
So today was the golden hour of Spashth replies from Chavan saheb : "Mujhe Amey se Tumhara baat Karna Pasand Nahi aaya toh Nahi aaya.. Tum kaise Kisi anjaan aadmi se aise pyaar se baat Kar Sakti ho (aur Nahi toh kya! π It's only I who can go round in jalebis but not you)..."
So jalebis here : "baat mujhe fark padne ya na padne ki Nahi hai, Sahi aur galat ki hai" π³π³ππ (I was reminded of school lessons Chavan saheb... Language classes mein finding context to sentences and joining sentences ki exercises Yaad aa gayi π)
And more: Tumhara khyal rakhna meri zimmedari hai (Loπ₯±π£ back to square one)... Parivaar ki zimmedari mujh par hai aur tum us parivaar Ka hissa ho (this parivaar=zimmedari band ka dhol bajao, Chavan saheb)
Sai's "Aap Kisi ladki se flirt Karna Chahe toh Kar Sakte Hain, mujhe Bura Nahi lagega (jhoot bole kauwa kaate Saiπ, Jaise Chavan saheb Ko kaat Raha hai π ) mujhe acche se Yaad hai hamari Shaadi ek deal hai." (Essentially, trying to say: Don't pull me towards you more. I wonβt know what to do if I really fall for you one day, and by then you might not want to be around me any more.π₯Ί)
Since the screen froze on Chavan saheb's bee-stung-me-again wala face, I think there will be a continuation tomorrow because aisa Maine original series me Dekha hai ππ but yahan par the original additions of Dir-Vahini ki chemistry is baffling me so I am not keeping hopes high. The scene may have ended there because Sai toh samajhti hai hi Nahi toh havan Karne wale Kyun haath jalayenge ππ
Lekin Chavan saheb, agar aapko aage ka scene Diya hai you please ππ don't serve jalebis any more. Bol do na Zara, Dil me Jo hai chuppa Sai Kisi se kahegi Nahi..
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Coming to jealousy of the morbid variety:
Kuch logon ko jealousy wale gusse me gussa kam aur pseudo-maturity jyaada aane lagti hai π Pussyfoot Sarplekha is leading that gang. She's never heard of the joke 'Lightening travels faster than sound, do people appear bright and beautiful until you hear them talk and you say, 'Oh what a fool'!" π€£π Does she really think that mouthing those same words "Tumhari aur Hamare Parivaar ki beizzati" is making her 'true love' forget her confession about "mera uss Ghar me Kisi se koi rishta Nahi hai" wala blackmail.
Virat's disenchantment with her is officially now complete... It's a consolation. I guess with these added original scenes, we are being shown how patnivrata the male lead is. He is not confused about his feelings bus Sai hi samajhti Nahi hai π
So obviously, Virat ignoring MA pass Maturegarh ki professor and wishing only BA Pass Kaku and then walking away like he didn't see Sarplekha was the "Kodak moment of the day".
Question of the day for a million bucks: Sai ne college mein kya khaya Hoga? BA Pass and MA Pass unche Khandaan ki Shahannav Kuli Maratha bahuye of two generations trying to find the answers from the cosmic rays, standing near the entrance of the Chakram niwas. I can't believe that Kaku was pacing up and down near the door only to raise one eyebrow at her chaheeta beta and then smugly walk way πππ Kaku, apni Kuch toh izzat Karo! ππ
Does the feeling for 'first love' go away? (Haan Haan 1hr 47 minutes wala hi Kyun na ho: Keshni, thanks for the correction Mitra!) They say some feeling stays in the heart forever -- either of pining or, if it is a toxic relationship, then it would change and weaken as the bond breaks gradually... Virat is certainly on the the second path.
And Bhavani, you're slipping, woman. The chaheeta beta has already seen through your lies as he always does but takes a step back to avoid escalation -- thank Ashwini for that conditioning. But not today. He was firm and to-the-point. "Ek ladki ko khaana khaane se rok diya... Kya galat Kiya tha usne?"
And the vile act was being defended by none other than Mallika-e-Maturity with her newly acquired Naagin zeherπ
Special mention to Ninad's silence in his soot-boot-mein-aaya-kanhaiya wala look ππ finally sasurji is also listening to sunbai, "Aap itni der se chup thay toh thodi der aur chup rahiye". A jalebi-type head shake was evident but not worth the vishleshan π
I recall the scene where he had to decide a name for Sai as part of the Karmsamapti and he just walked over to the plate of rice and ended the argument without uttering a single word. This man knows how not to expend his energy although sometimes one may feel he should have also picked a battle he chose to ignore. I love Sai and as the audience, I do cheer for her when she gives it back the way she does but if you ask me to pick one approach personally, I would pick the one with minimum, effective words -- Virat's. When we hit a bump, the first instinct is to scream our point across -- everyone has done it at some point, even Shaant dimaag wala Virat π but screaming actually takes away the calmness you need to assess situations and view things clearly because you are reacting to the opponent's move and feeding the anger. It is a fact Sai fails to see the trap the Makad Sena lays out for her and walks into it imprudently. She needs to learn to lay the trap now. Otherwise, it's just going to be an endless game of verbal soccer with an exhausted police wala refusing to play referee. Honest to goodness, Virat wants Sai to find her way by planting her own landmines in the Chakram niwas -- he enjoys her acts and some moments of tact. Let the Makad Sena step on the mines and cause self explosion without Sai having to fire any artillery.
But as of now, Sai, of course has gone into this withdrawal mode after the incessant bull fight with the man who proposed to have dinner over the video call two evenings ago π₯Ίπ When spouses fight and scream at each other and then turn silent, there are usually two reasons: shut down from some fear or breakdown in connection. Sai has felt the breskdoen -- she knows exactly what she wants to say, unlike Virat, but, she will say nothing because a part of her believes that what she thinks or feels is unimportant to Virat, so why should she bother fanning those thoughts... And the belief has been reinforced by the serpentine intervention where Virat raised no objection. Both are anguished, injured and exasperated and blame one another for the βbreakdown in their connection". But actually there is no breakdown in the connection. It was a lot of gol gol communication which was ineffective for the goal. The navra Baiko are in serious need of reactivity management because they have unlocked the vulnerability bomb between each other. They seriously need some acknowledgment to break their pattern of communication to build a conducive sharing environment otherwise the dinner plate will only remain witness to screaming matches until it goes crashing to the floor.
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Dr Pulkit Deshpande! May be it is because we already know the pain he's been subjected to and so it has already helped in perception formation but the man just radiated vibes of peace. It almost felt as if Sai has found a guiding hand for those moments when she'd have to fight emotions that she won't be able to share with Virat.
Dr Deshpande is charismatic and warm. I feel so assured about Sai for once. I am sure this man will not only be the guide to Sai but also to Virat when he needs a perspective inserted into his conditioned brain. I can totally see Dr Deshpande bonding with Virat. Does he even know about this man who was part of his sister's life?
Since this name is indication enough of fitting into Bhavani's "na khoon hamare jaisa na parivaar" rant, I now want to know what else went wrong with Devyani for her to reduce her only daughter and a beautiful woman into an incapacitated child. I hope Bhavani didn't do something evil with the baby Devyani spoke about...
"Zindagi logon ko kareeb laati Hai... Phir unhe door Kar deti hai..." Looks like he has handled his heartbreak in a very constructive way instead of turning bitter. Devyani would have been such a lucky woman!π
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If,for any reason, any one has had a bad start to the day please watch the scene where Karishma goes to Sarplekha's room and Sarplekha telling karishma, "kisi ke kamre me aise aate Hain kya?"πππ
The sentence is self explanatory. Haso haso, zor zor se Haso π€£π€£ and yes, they just made a pact to teach Sai "tameez" and some other grand virtue to become the fit bahu in the Chakram niwas π€₯π€₯π€₯ππ π
Let the ladies enjoy their movement. Doobte Ko tinke Ka Sahara... Sai naam Toofan toh abhi aana baaki hai π aur mirchi wali gusty hawa bhi π
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If you find a diamond sparkling among the waves of an ocean in the middle of a storm, would you riding the choppy waves just because you know your heart is now set on making that diamond yours?
"Wise men say, only fools rush in... But I can't help falling in love with you..." π
If you know someone who can strum that song on a guitar πΈ for you, please don't hesitate to make a request today. Heart warm ho Jayega. And if you don't have anyone to do it, toh grab your coffee β or tea π΅ if you please and turn up the volume on your device.. "Shall I stay? Would it be a sin..."
Don't worry, I am leaving before the tomatoes come flying here π kyunki main pohe me na tomatoes nahi daalti hoon π
Bear hugs to those who need them the most π€ and pyaar toh aapke liye hai haiπ
Subah subah meri bakwaas ko 'sehen' Karne ke liye, Dil se aabhar ππ
Love you all π₯°
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