Ladies, how would you react?

There are different views when it comes to Sai's behavior. Some think that she needs to mind her words and others think she must give back as good as it comes. My question to you guys is

When the whole family from Kaku, Sasur, Chota chachu, choti kaku, husband's ex-current(bhabhi, best friend whatever the hell she is) all together just bark at you day in day out what would you do?

How would you react if your in-laws called you jungly mulgi, chote ghar ki, badtameez, muhfat constantly, how would you react? Put yourself in the same position and imagine if all of your in-laws gang up on you doing this day in and day out, what would you do?

Virat apologizes for domestic verbal, emotional and physical violence on Sai privately, but insults Kamal-sir publicly! He says his family members have good heart, but questions Kamal-sir's up bringing. What would you do if your husband said all these about your dad especially after asking you to take the torture from his psycho family?

What would you do when your husband is either blind, dumb or a liar in a sense that Virat thinks his family is good at heart and with time they will like Sai if they are given chance, however, they still don't like his mother. Forget others, even his dad doesn't like his mother and till date Ashwini is treated like punching-bag. So my question to you is what would you do if your husband was either delusional or just a plain liar and asked you to work towards pleasing your torturer in hope of things getting better despite an example like Ashiwini is right there?

Why is Sai staying in that horror-house? And when she wants to go, why does Virat want her to stay? Chakrams have nothing else to do, but create fight all day long! I am sorry to say, but hearing Indian Army paying pension to Ninad at tax payers money to fight with his wife and daughter in law is too much. Then there is ACP who is asking his wife to turn blind eye to domestic aggression by gang of hooligans at home in name of respecting elders.

Biggest question! Does any of you want your daughter be treated like Sai at her in-laws? Would you advise her to take the crap or would you expect her to take a stand for herself like Sai does?

My answer to the last question is I would never want my daughter to be treated like Sai and God forbid if it happens, I want her to stand tall and give it back as good as it comes. Respect is a two way street, give and take. In name of manners I would never ask my daughters to take crap from ill-willed psychos. And I am more than OKAY to hear I didn't raise my kids with manners to treat the elders right. In my mind what I would be hearing is I didn't raise my kids to be doormats to hungry dogs!

How would a woman react to all this depends on what kind of a woman she is. Not everyone is bold and fearless like sai. I cant say what I will do in these situations but I know , I wont ever let my daughter marry into such a family.

Reality aside , I love watching sai giving it bk to her in laws with full force and in a language they know best. They are not behaving rudely bec sai is like this ,its the other way round. N those who actually give in,people like ashwini , we have seen her condition too. Respect is a two way street. So if virat scolds sai for her behavior he must give an earful to his family too .

I think if the option to leave was there, I'd leave. Go to hostel and focus on studies.

But if forced and "emotionally manipulated" to stay, i'd be silent for a couple of days and record all their abuses -with a hidden phone (!) and then i'd speed dial DIG , put him on speaker in front of the family and complain about the behavior and let him know that I'd like to file an FIR against the family and send him some audiovisual clips as proof of their abusive behavior.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I think if the option to leave was there, I'd leave. Go to hostel and focus on studies.

But if forced and "emotionally manipulated" to stay, i'd be silent for a couple of days and record all their abuses -with a hidden phone (!) and then i'd speed dial DIG , put him on speaker in front of the family and complain about the behavior and let him know that I'd like to file an FIR against the family and send him some audiovisual clips as proof of their abusive behavior.

Love it!! I can imagine the Kaku, according to Virat who kept family together, going "mast-mast" in jail🤣🤣

Originally posted by: methebest

There are different views when it comes to Sai's behavior. Some think that she needs to mind her words and others think she must give back as good as it comes. My question to you guys is

When the whole family from Kaku, Sasur, Chota chachu, choti kaku, husband's ex-current(bhabhi, best friend whatever the hell she is) all together just bark at you day in day out what would you do?

How would you react if your in-laws called you jungly mulgi, chote ghar ki, badtameez, muhfat constantly, how would you react? Put yourself in the same position and imagine if all of your in-laws gang up on you doing this day in and day out, what would you do?

Virat apologizes for domestic verbal, emotional and physical violence on Sai privately, but insults Kamal-sir publicly! He says his family members have good heart, but questions Kamal-sir's up bringing. What would you do if your husband said all these about your dad especially after asking you to take the torture from his psycho family?

What would you do when your husband is either blind, dumb or a liar in a sense that Virat thinks his family is good at heart and with time they will like Sai if they are given chance, however, they still don't like his mother. Forget others, even his dad doesn't like his mother and till date Ashwini is treated like punching-bag. So my question to you is what would you do if your husband was either delusional or just a plain liar and asked you to work towards pleasing your torturer in hope of things getting better despite an example like Ashiwini if right there?

Why is Sai staying in that horror-house? And when she wants to go, why does Virat want her to stay? Chakrams have nothing else to do, but create fight all day long! I am sorry to say, but hearing Indian Army paying pension to Ninad at tax payers money to fight with his wife and daughter in law is too much. Then there is ACP who is asking his wife to turn blind eye to domestic aggression by gang of hooligans at home in name of respecting elders.

Biggest question! Does any of you want your daughter be treated like Sai at her in-laws? Would you advise her to take the crap or would you expect her to take a stand for herself like Sai does?

My answer to the last question is I would never want my daughter to be treated like Sai and God forbid if it happens, I want her to stand tall and give back as good as it comes. Respect is a two way street, give and take. In name of manners I would never ask my daughters to take crap from ill-willed psychos. And I am more than OKAY to hear I didn't raise my kids with manners to treat the elders right. In my mind what I would be hearing is I didn't raise my kids to be doormats to hungry dogs!

I guess we should wait before coming to conclusion. That virat questions kamal sir upbringing.

I know chavana r nonsense drama creator but I also know sai knows to take a different meaning of things. I saw how wonderfully she reacted when she saw virat said my danda gets answer out of culprit in police station.sai jump on quick conclusion virat want to hit her.

I guess Virat brought kamal sir reference for his behaviour how he used to deal with people & situation not on his upbringing .

I guess people tend to forgot virat only supported sai against kaku who raised questions on her upbringing.

I would had suggested my sister or daughter or any relatives to leave d house asap .

Main to kab se intezar kar rahi sai ka hostel jane ka . Vo jaati hi nhi , I don't want my so called studies get effected I will not listen to anyone. A human should know where his or her priority lies.

I have an eight year old daughter .I feel horrible if I end up marrying her into such a toxic family when she grows up. I don’t think Chavans would soften up if Sai keeps her calm. They just hate her and would continue their assault. So I understand Sai’s position. It is not easy to bear such hatred and taunts 24/ 7. ACP Virat Chauhan failed to do justice at home front .

I won't say anything yet about what Virat said because these segments can be misleading.

Coming to Sai, a lot of people mentioned about her tone and her language she uses, and rightly so. But, I mean I get her also. When I am very angry, my tone and language (not abusive btw😆) goes all over the place. Had I been in Sai's place, im pretty sure I would explode like her as well. When angry I also use lines like Sai used, "who are you to...." or "stay quiet". But these are for my family and closed friends, of course.

Had it been my in laws I would be mindful to a certain extent. Had my in laws been like Chavans i would definitely flip and leave no matter how much I loved the guy.

The problem is Sai has no one to fall back on - the remains of her family gift -wrapped her away as soon as they could plus there is attachment to Virat as well. When Shivani asked her the other day if she would be able to live without Virat, she didnt answer.

She would manage alright, she would survive, without him in a hostel. But despite all his flaws, he tries to find ways to keep her happy, to keep her warm. We all know how Precious KJ was for her, and KJ sacrificed his life for Virat, by default Virat is precious to her as well.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I guess we should wait before coming to conclusion. That virat questions kamal sir upbringing.

I know chavana r nonsense drama creator but I also know sai knows to take a different meaning of things. I saw how wonderfully she reacted when she saw virat said my danda gets answer out of culprit in police station.

I guess Virat brought kamal sir reference for his behaviour how he used to deal with people & situation not on his upbringing .

I guess people tend to forgot virat only supported sai against kaku who raised questions on her upbringing.

I would had suggested my sister or daughter or any relatives to leave d house asap .

But Dipika, in that case whatever Sai says like making thalipeeth or any good thing when do they take her positively?

I got bashed for comparing Virat and Jagtap's family, but in the very next episode Virat tells sai casually that she "dealt with Jagtap and her dad then why run away from his family"? CVs showed Virat unemotionally comparing a girl's dad's murderer and his dad with his family!

Virat supported Sai in front kaku, but he can't stop the torture from repeating. How is Virat reacting now when Sai doesn't stop? Isn't he shouting? Sai deals with barking from all sides all day long, so her reaction is natural. If a "Shant" Virat can turn in to this when provoked then anyways "muhfat" Sai will react this way too!

To me Virat asking Sai to give his family a chance and try to win their hearts sounds like turn in to "GOPI BAHU".

I totally agree iwth you saying you would ask your daughter to leave. May no girl have to go through such things.

These are all characters and CVs write them, however, this is 2021. Shows that have great TRPs show their ML wanting the FL to turn in to Gopi Bahu is too much. CVs need to show Sai learning and growing at college. Show her having hard time managing her duties at home and class work. Show Virat and Sai evolving in their relationship gradually. Show Patralekha actually wanting to have a life and do something special with her life than be jealous all day. There are endless possibilities, but extreme negativity is what they produce!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I have an eight year old daughter .I feel horrible if I end up marrying her into such a toxic family when she grows up. I don’t think Chavans would soften up if Sai keeps her calm. They just hate her and would continue their assault. So I understand Sai’s position. It is not easy to bear such hatred and taunts 24/ 7. ACP Virat Chauhan failed to do justice at home front .

I totally agree with you as a mother of daughters.

If I was in that situation, I would def give it back to them. My talking style is not like sai though, I’ve always been a woman of few words that are powerful and does the job. I won’t ever and never have taken bs from anyone, which is what attracted me to Sai.

If I was in Sai’s position, I def would leave. Self respect comes above anything else. Also, I think I won’t talk as much to the family. I will do my own thing and make my husband fight those battles lol apni goli kisi aur se chalvati.. he would have to make sure those insults towards me stops if he wants me around. If me and my family gives him respect, so should his. Respect is huge and number 1 for me so based on who I am, I would not compromise on that at all. If it gets too much and there’s no solution, I think I would just choose to go live in a hostel and do my work. Love is one thing but if there’s no respect, there can’t be love. There has to be understanding (which I realize takes time), but izzat honi chaiye .. me for him, him for me, and us for both of our families..