Peche dekhiya...ACP Virat Chavan - Page 5

Originally posted by: happy007

that "aap toh chup rahiye" was absolutely inappropriate

that's not the way to talk to your sasurji at all, I wouldn't blame Virat if he gets angry bcoz of it, Ninad is his father after all. Would Sai like it if Virat talked to Kamal Sir like that? Virat was his senior & yet he talked so respectfully with Kamal Sir

btw not even the parents tolerate such behaviour, in-laws to dur ki baat hai

Sai is acting exactly like Chavans. They bully her & she bullies them back. But that's not actually appropriate bcoz talking to elders like that isn't tolerated anywhere.

Sai's problem is that she thinks she's always right & everyone should follow in line if she's saying or doing something. If they don't, she gets angry & starts lashing out.

For example, Sai trying to expose Amay will obviously create more problems bcoz Sai decided it's the right thing to do & if Virat doesn't agree with her POV then he'll be obviously wrong (according to her).

She doesn't want to understand someone else's pov at all. Not even Virat's, who is actually supporting her all the time, even going against his family.

@bold, true - thinking back thats how she dealt with her dad too..but she had that bond with her dad. If she had it with Ninad too, then it might be ok, not best, especially infront of outsiders...hard to comment..

Originally posted by: sukri

Total I love such episodes where Sai is not under fire, but sab ka band akele woh khud bajati hai.

All her dialogues were so on point, maza aa gaya !

She's a pro at band bajana 😂 but akele she can bajao itna ki band phat hi jaaye 😈

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

@bold, true - thinking back thats how she dealt with her dad too..but she had that bond with her dad. If she had it with Ninad too, then it might be ok, not best, especially infront of outsiders...hard to comment..

I felt that too. I tend to talk with my father in raised tone as well when Im angry but there is the bonding, so its all gone and forgotten.

But Ninad is the FIL but then he is so vile as well, I'm a bit conflicted at that scene. Maybe she could have chosen better words.

I did love the glare to Omi though, bin kuch kahe bahut kuch keh diya.😆

Rant mood on.

I am at conflict here. Yes the way Sai said it sounds completely incorrect. However recall what Sai had said a while back "baba. bache bado se he shikhte hai". Ninand, TMK, Sonali, Omi, PP ALL have time and time again insulted Sai, her upbringing, her father (only reason Virat is still alive and breathing). Does Sai not deserves respect? Just because she is young anyone can just walk all over her???? Why is no one asked to apologize to her for misjudging her.

The Chavans owe Sai infinite number of apologies and no Virat saying sorry on behalf of his family does not count. If that is the case he can also apologies to his family on her behalf.

They should be doing sastang pranam to her NOT insulting her.

Chavan were the once insulting Shivanibua and Sai when Sarita (rearrange the letters it becomes SaiRat..) , Amay's sister were present with the Nari morcha. Sai said all this after the women left.

Every person regardless of age deserves equal respect. Ninad - i don't have anything to say about him. Just cannot wrap my mind around how he even served in the armed forces. 😳 the man who cannot respect Lakshmi(s) of the home, how can he demand respect? Respect is and should be EARNED by action and not age/position. What the Chavan are doing is dadagiri.

Rant over

Originally posted by: Tali_99

Rant mood on.

I am at conflict here. Yes the way Sai said it sounds completely incorrect. However recall what Sai had said a while back "baba. bache bado se he shikhte hai". Ninand, TMK, Sonali, Omi, PP ALL have time and time again insulted Sai, her upbringing, her father (only reason Virat is still alive and breathing). Does Sai not deserves respect? Just because she is young anyone can just walk all over her???? Why is no one asked to apologize to her for misjudging her.

The Chavans owe Sai infinite number of apologies and no Virat saying sorry on behalf of his family does not count. If that is the case he can also apologies to his family on her behalf.

They should be doing sastang pranam to her NOT insulting her.

Chavan were the once insulting Shivanibua and Sai when Sarita (rearrange the letters it becomes SaiRat..) , Amay's sister were present with the Nari morcha. Sai said all this after the women left.

Every person regardless of age deserves equal respect. Ninad - i don't have anything to say about him. Just cannot wrap my mind around how he even served in the armed forces. 😳 the man who cannot respect Lakshmi(s) of the home, how can he demand respect? Respect is and should be EARNED by action and not age/position. What the Chavan are doing is dadagiri.

Rant over

Apni galti maane se aur uske liye apologize karne se aap chhote nhi ho jaate , only u have to believe even u can be wrong at couple of time.

Chavan family & sai both carry big egoes who don't understand this simple thing & will not bend infront of each other despite being wrong at couple of times . As both sai & chavan family r strict believer " hum kabhi galat nhi ho sakte " humesha sahi hone ka copyright humare pass hain.

Yes I agree with u chavan family don't have a right to question on Sai's upbringing & hold a lot of apologies to her .

Even sai hold lot of apologize to virat for all her nonsense behaviour in GC with virat , which don't have logic in it but just had emotional ground . Sorry to say police department & armed forces don't work on emotions

If kamal sir really wanted to take retirement & virat forcing him not to do then virat was definitely wrong but after virat approving d VRS Kamal sir dint want to retire till he put Vittal & jagtap in jail tells a different story that he himself was not ready for this early retirement , in no way sai had a right to question an IPS officer & interfer in official matters of police department. Sai never apologized for her nonsense behaviour coz she has a big ego , it was kamal sir who apologies virat on behalf of sai as he knew sai was wrong in insulting virat .

Only virat had courage to accept his mistake & apologize for it .

Virat scolded kamal sir as his senior but later did apologize kamal sir as his guru in his quarter . Virat had apologized sai also for his rude behaviour after learning sai went to DIG for him.

Aapne galti ko except karne ke liye bahut courage chaiye hoti , jo Virat ko chhod ke kisse ke pass nhi hain.

Originally posted by: happy007

that "aap toh chup rahiye" was absolutely inappropriate

that's not the way to talk to your sasurji at all, I wouldn't blame Virat if he gets angry bcoz of it, Ninad is his father after all. Would Sai like it if Virat talked to Kamal Sir like that? Virat was his senior & yet he talked so respectfully with Kamal Sir

btw not even the parents tolerate such behaviour, in-laws to dur ki baat hai

Sai is acting exactly like Chavans. They bully her & she bullies them back. But that's not actually appropriate bcoz talking to elders like that isn't tolerated anywhere.

Sai's problem is that she thinks she's always right & everyone should follow in line if she's saying or doing something. If they don't, she gets angry & starts lashing out.

For example, Sai trying to expose Amay will obviously create more problems bcoz Sai decided it's the right thing to do & if Virat doesn't agree with her POV then he'll be obviously wrong (according to her).

She doesn't want to understand someone else's pov at all. Not even Virat's, who is actually supporting her all the time, even going against his family.

I would disagree with this thought as I personally believe in "jaisi karni waisi bhari" the family cannot expect her to always listen to their taunts and keep her mouth shut.

Virat never spoke to Kamal sir like that because Kamal sir never spoke to him like that either. But here the whole gang of elders minus Ashwini is always behind Sai and the way they talk to her is outright cheap, disgusting and disrespectful, so if Sai speaks in the same manner with them they have to take it because as they say "don't do or say something which you yourself can't tolerate being done or said to you".

And you cannot justify this as "you cannot talk to elders like that", it doesn't matter what the persons age / position is, because respect is EARNED not DEMANDED which the whole TMK, Ninad, Pakhi and the extras are doing they are demanding respect which is wrong. They have NEVER and I mean it NEVER done ANYTHING to earn that respect and Sai has always said that "Jo mujhse jis zuban me baat karenga ussi zuban me jawab payega" and that is exactly how it should be yea.

If today someone talks to me in that language I would give it back to them in the same language as well irrespective of their age and that's what my parents have taught me as well. And with time one learns to deal with these kind of people a little more diplomatically (for Sai I think there is time before she learns a bit of diplomacy and its uses) but again there will some times when one would get angry and lose their mind at these people if they continue with the same manner of taunting and all.

Sai was totally right today that if Ninad COULD NOT open his mouth to defend his sister he might as well shut the hell up now. At least whatever she said was not in front of the outsiders like Ninad, Omi and Bhavani who were insulting Sai and Shivani in front of the other females (who had the audacity to defend the guy saying he's bhola bhala jisko Shivani ne phasaya hai).

So I think she was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT in every aspect today be it her tone or her choice of words (which according to me were perfect) to Ninad.

my only concern was sai was not fighting but she was screaming..too much strain to her throat👎🏼 i felt she was talking like she had some difficulty in breathing.

Originally posted by: Tali_99

Rant mood on.

I am at conflict here. Yes the way Sai said it sounds completely incorrect. However recall what Sai had said a while back "baba. bache bado se he shikhte hai". Ninand, TMK, Sonali, Omi, PP ALL have time and time again insulted Sai, her upbringing, her father (only reason Virat is still alive and breathing). Does Sai not deserves respect? Just because she is young anyone can just walk all over her???? Why is no one asked to apologize to her for misjudging her.

The Chavans owe Sai infinite number of apologies and no Virat saying sorry on behalf of his family does not count. If that is the case he can also apologies to his family on her behalf.

They should be doing sastang pranam to her NOT insulting her.

Chavan were the once insulting Shivanibua and Sai when Sarita (rearrange the letters it becomes SaiRat..) , Amay's sister were present with the Nari morcha. Sai said all this after the women left.

Every person regardless of age deserves equal respect. Ninad - i don't have anything to say about him. Just cannot wrap my mind around how he even served in the armed forces. 😳 the man who cannot respect Lakshmi(s) of the home, how can he demand respect? Respect is and should be EARNED by action and not age/position. What the Chavan are doing is dadagiri.

Rant over

@bold green Exactly they can't expect Sai to not pick on their behaviour with her and give it back to them in exactly the same way.

@bold purple Couldn't agree to this more IDK why people always demand respect on the basis of age and position it's something you EARN not ask for. This was a basic lesson that my father taught me when I was very young.

Originally posted by: prs_725

I can't understand bengali but he just seemed upset, no jealousy what so ever. The tamil version lead was more expressive than bengali. I found the bengali version of virat very robotic lol he always kept on telling her to shut up which made me so upset everytime. There weren't that many scenes between leads, it was mainly Sai's character fighting w everyone and Rono was always quiet lol they always looked mad at each other lol

I can't understand Tamil either but I had more fun watching that version i could see the emotions and connections than the bengali one ..

i am a tamilian..when i watched it i was rofl..male lead was struggling to be romantic..and the family dramas were too loud like a fish market..

I think compared to the other versions,male lead in hindi version is calm and composed.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Apni galti maane se aur uske liye apologize karne se aap chhote nhi ho jaate , only u have to believe even u can be wrong at couple of time.

Chavan family & sai both carry big egoes who don't understand this simple thing & will not bend infront of each other despite being wrong at couple of times . As both sai & chavan family r strict believer " hum kabhi galat nhi ho sakte " humesha sahi hone ka copyright humare pass hain.

Yes I agree with u chavan family don't have a right to question on Sai's upbringing & hold a lot of apologies to her .

Even sai hold lot of apologize to virat for all her nonsense behaviour in GC with virat , which don't have logic in it but just had emotional ground . Sorry to say police department & armed forces don't work on emotions

If kamal sir really wanted to take retirement & virat forcing him not to do then virat was definitely wrong but after virat approving d VRS Kamal sir dint want to retire till he put Vittal & jagtap in jail tells a different story that he himself was not ready for this early retirement , in no way sai had a right to question an IPS officer & interfer in official matters of police department. Sai never apologized for her nonsense behaviour coz she has a big ego , it was kamal sir who apologies virat on behalf of sai as he knew sai was wrong in insulting virat .

Only virat had courage to accept his mistake & apologize for it .

Virat scolded kamal sir as his senior but later did apologize kamal sir as his guru in his quarter . Virat had apologized sai also for his rude behaviour after learning sai went to DIG for him.

Aapne galti ko except karne ke liye bahut courage chaiye hoti , jo Virat ko chhod ke kisse ke pass nhi hain.

I love neil bhatt and in love with virat.he is calm and composed..