Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 4. - Page 21

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Well he's Silly Ninad son and obviously he can't be different we were expecting too much.

I hope he doesn't scold her for petty reasons. If that happens.... I would be pissed af 🤔

Originally posted by: RadhaChauhan

There was so much going on about the precap, that I had to watch it before the episode. 😒

Okay. So, from what I could gather, the precap alone gives a very valuable lesson that all girls should learn and imbibe in their lives.

The lesson is that if your in-laws taunt you, make disparaging or derogatory remarks about you, you, as a "mature" DIL need to quietly accept the same, and never give it back to them. Because, the saying that people deserve respect according to their behaviour and not because of their age is an immature and stupid one. Don't even remotely follow that. Just listen quietly and try to please the elders. Okay? Coz if you, being an independent, vivacious, fearless woman as your parents raised you to be, counter your in-laws like that, your supremely mature husband will give you a warning first: that he'll talk back to you in the same tone. And, still, if you don't budge, he'll shout at you at the top of his voice, so much so, that it'll make you flinch and shudder. Therefore, in order to avoid such situations, keep your mouth shut and keep on taking all the sh*t being thrown at you. You are a doormat girl, not a daughter-in-law. Get it!

Cheers! 🤪

👏Radha you have said it perfectly. I am tired of hear "respect elders, respect elders" as I had said in an earlier post, respect is and should EARNED by actions NOT by age/status. The moment Sai can to the house all TMK, Ninad, Omi, Sonali, Pakhi, even Sunny have done is disgrace her, called her names, called her basharam, ehshan faramos, jungle mulgi, nalayak, too name a few. What did Virat do to defend her? He spoke to his family in calm manner not to say it...but did not come across as being serious. Why does Pakhi keep crossing the line over and over and all she gets is a little pet on her wrists. Dear Virat, shout at them just like you are shouting at Sai. Give them the same ultimatum you are giving Sai.

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Why is DIL expected to keep on listening to the insults thrown at her, her upbringing, her coming for a family not worthy of their son. Why because they are the in-laws the D-I-L (here mostly Sai) has to take all of it in, gulp it down and not say a word. The husband (Virat) to diffuse the situation just sakes his head and shows his disappointment by closing his eyes and tells his wife to keep trying and one day just like the Chavan accepted his mom (ops it has been 28 yrs and Ashwini still is not a part of the family) will accept Sai.

Dear Sai you will have to wait to die in this life and be born in to Chavan family as a SON that to the son of chahiti bahu Pakhi with sion of the family Virat to be accepted.

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This precap is turning into such a hot topic. The way the scene has been edited does give that impression, lets hope Virat plays it fair and gives his peace of mind to his so called family.

Originally posted by: RadhaChauhan

There was so much going on about the precap, that I had to watch it before the episode. 😒

Okay. So, from what I could gather, the precap alone gives a very valuable lesson that all girls should learn and imbibe in their lives.

The lesson is that if your in-laws taunt you, make disparaging or derogatory remarks about you, you, as a "mature" DIL need to quietly accept the same, and never give it back to them. Because, the saying that people deserve respect according to their behaviour and not because of their age is an immature and stupid one. Don't even remotely follow that. Just listen quietly and try to please the elders. Okay? Coz if you, being an independent, vivacious, fearless woman as your parents raised you to be, counter your in-laws like that, your supremely mature husband will give you a warning first: that he'll talk back to you in the same tone. And, still, if you don't budge, he'll shout at you at the top of his voice, so much so, that it'll make you flinch and shudder. Therefore, in order to avoid such situations, keep your mouth shut and keep on taking all the sh*t being thrown at you. You are a doormat girl, not a daughter-in-law. Get it!

Cheers! 🤪

On point! Wth does he not utter a word when TMK goes on calling her "junglee mulgi" and what not and taunts her about her upbringing and that her father didn't teach her anything. If not for Sai he can atleast speak up for her father whom he considers as a "Guru". Such hypocrisy and double standards!!

Agar virat Ka cheekhna bhul bi jao thodi Der ke liye.....but ye kaise bhul jao agar tum sab se aise baat karogi to Mai BHI tum se aise hi baat karunga....what does he actually mean by that?

How can Virat even expect pakhi to stand up for shivani just like sai did?😂 itna bhi kya blind folded hona

I can't believe virat confronted PAKHI and said he expected her to do what Sai did

Ps :- Episode is such a drag 🤢

I wanted to see virat sai scene

Omg

Precap :- I want to k!ll virat omg he is scolding sai fir disrespecting other while himself disrespecting her

He is such a hypocrite

Omg men's are trash

I'm done with virat

Originally posted by: ritikasingh_85

I can't believe virat confronted PAKHI and said he expected her to do what Sai did

Ps :- Episode is such a drag 🤢

I wanted to see virat sai scene

Exactly, I'm so disappointed with that scene.. what was the need even to do that!!

I think it was just to give despokhi didi the attention she was desperately seeking since so many days🤢

Originally posted by: Tali_99

👏Radha you have said it perfectly. I am tired of hear "respect elders, respect elders" as I had said in an earlier post, respect is and should EARNED by actions NOT by age/status. The moment Sai can to the house all TMK, Ninad, Omi, Sonali, Pakhi, even Sunny have done is disgrace her, called her names, called her basharam, ehshan faramos, jungle mulgi, nalayak, too name a few. What did Virat do to defend her? He spoke to his family in calm manner not to say it

Now given the fact that he considers Sai also as his family, he should have adopted the same approach and made her understand calmly. Gussa hi karna tha, toh he could have there and then, taken her to their room and then said all that he did. I am strictly against insulting anyone, let alone your SO in public and that too in front of a devilish, spineless and idiotic clan.

...but did not come across as being serious. Why does Pakhi keep crossing the line over and over and all she gets is a little pet on her wrists. Dear Virat, shout at them just like you are shouting at Sai. Give them the same ultimatum you are giving Sai.

Pakhi toh mature love haina, Sai thehri immature zimmedari, so chalo let's make her a punching bag. 😡

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Why is DIL expected to keep on listening to the insults thrown at her, her upbringing, her coming for a family not worthy of their son. Why because they are the in-laws the D-I-L (here mostly Sai) has to take all of it in, gulp it down and not say a word. The husband (Virat) to diffuse the situation just sakes his head and shows his disappointment by closing his eyes and tells his wife to keep trying and one day just like the Chavan accepted his mom (ops it has been 28 yrs and Ashwini still is not a part of the family) will accept Sai.

Dear Sai you will have to wait to die in this life and be born in to Chavan family as a SON that to the son of chahiti bahu Pakhi with sion of the family Virat to be accepted.

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This precap is turning into such a hot topic. The way the scene has been edited does give that impression, lets hope Virat plays it fair and gives his peace of mind to his so called family.

Just a silly question I have.. I just saw on insta that the guy who plays mohit, his account got verified. But Ayesha (sai) who's got almost 3 times more followers than him her account is still not verified. What's the criteria?

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Just a silly question I have.. I just saw on insta that the guy who plays mohit, his account got verified. But Ayesha (sai) who's got almost 3 times more followers than him her account is still not verified. What's the criteria?

I believe the person or the team managing the account needs to send in some type of verification to Instagram, FB , Twitter in order to get the blue tick mark.