Discussion of the Week - Saraswati

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi fellow members,

Sorry for not posting a regular discussion of the week, due to work commitments, I haven't been able to dedicate much time to the forum. However, these will be weekly from now on, hopefully all members will participate and make these discussions lively.

I pondered for a long time over what to discuss, so much has happened over the past month in Betiyaan, but I think Saraswati's situation is most interesting at this moment.

She has quietly suffered heinous abuse at her husband's hand, been forced to return to the monster, and now he has attempted to burn her alive, which would have been fatal if not for Kshitij.

To add insult to her injury, Saraswati has not seen justice done - instead of Bhavisya being jailed, Kshitij has been incarcerated for a crime he did not commit! Saraswati has been left with horrendous scars, and a promise from Bhavisya that her life will be miserable henceforth.

So my questions are:

- What do you see in the future for Saraswati? Bhavisya has vowed never to divorce her, or accept her as his wife. What can she possibly do? Being a married daughter living in her parent's house is a fate worse than death, as depicted in the serial. Can she gather some strength to fight against her circumstances?

- Bhavisya: will justice be served? For committing two henious deeds, surely he has some retribution coming? Can he possibly continue to live peacefully having ruined the lives of two innocent women? Is this typical of the mindset this serial attempts to portray - a man can commit any crime, but its the woman who suffers the consequences. With his demented state of mind, will Bhavisya not eventually crack? Initially I thought his murdering his ex-gf was a crime of passion, but it now seems that it was pre-mediated.

- Saraswati's family: Menka surely will have something up her sleeve to get rid of Saraswati. What could this possibly be? Did Menka push Saraswati down the stairs? Will Menka perhaps push Saraswati towards the edge mentally? Will Menka be instrumental in Saraswati breaking down, and perhaps attempting to commit suicide?

- Is this not typical of the climate and acceptability of abuse against women that is currently prevalent in the world? As much as we trivialise stories in serials, it is a harsh reality that this type of abuse is a daily occurrence in the lives of women the world over EVEN TODAY. How does a woman in Saraswati's position rebuild her life?

My personal take on the situation:

The perpetration of abuse is not random, if Saraswati was/is able to stand up against Bhavisya, she might not be in this predicament. This is due to her upbringing, and her parents should shoulder the blame.

Savitri has redeemed herself marginally in my eyes, by forcing Surya and co to take action against Bhavisya, however it was too little too late. Saraswati will now however be affected by the terrible mistake in judgement her father made.

It was also good to see Surya supporting Saraswati, but also too little too late. Instead of bowing to pressure from his mother, and placing society values above his daughter's life, he should have listened to his inner voice and kept Saraswati at home.

I am very happy that the creators of this show have brought this contentious issue to the attention of millions of viewers. I am still holding out for a happy ending to this, the sight of Bhavisya behind bars where he belongs, and Kshitij taking his place rightfully beside Saraswati!

Lets have your responses then!

Priya

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Posted: 18 years ago
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- What do you see in the future for Saraswati? Bhavisya has vowed never to divorce her, or accept her as his wife. What can she possibly do? Being a married daughter living in her parent's house is a fate worse than death, as depicted in the serial. Can she gather some strength to fight against her circumstances?
i think saraswati,s future depends on her cuz if she goes back to bhavishya then it,s sure that saarswati will
not happy. bhavishya is insane and u can never beleive a
insane person he can kill saraswati like he did with preeti.it doesn,t matter if he promises saraswati promises can be broke too so i think sarsawati should stay at parents house cuz life is precious.


- Bhavisya: will justice be served? For committing two henious deeds, surely he has some retribution coming? Can he possibly continue to live peacefully having ruined the lives of two innocent women? Is this typical of the mindset this serial attempts to portray - a man can commit any crime, but its the woman who suffers the consequences. With his demented state of mind, will Bhavisya not eventually crack? Initially I thought his murdering his ex-gf was a crime of passion, but it now seems that it was pre-mediated.
i think bhavishya should be jailed by comminting two big crimes cuz he is mentally sick and he needs doctor.bhavishya tried to kill saraswati and killed preeti so it,s really dangerous to live with a person who can do anything that u can never imagine. he should be in jail or in hospital for treatment and after he is alright then he should be in jail cuz he did a murder and tried to kill a person it,s a crime.

- Saraswati's family: Menka surely will have something up her sleeve to get rid of Saraswati. What could this possibly be? Did Menka push Saraswati down the stairs? Will Menka perhaps push Saraswati towards the edge mentally? Will Menka be instrumental in Saraswati breaking down, and perhaps attempting to commit suicide?
i think meneka will make saraswati sucide or do some tricks to kill her cuz meneka can,t bear saraswati to live in her house and wants to get rid fo saraswati.


- Is this not typical of the climate and acceptability of abuse against women that is currently prevalent in the world? As much as we trivialise stories in serials, it is a harsh reality that this type of abuse is a daily occurrence in the lives of women the world over EVEN TODAY. How does a woman in Saraswati's position rebuild her life?
a women in saraswati,s place should leave her parents house and husband,s house as well. she should do a job
and make herself a strong and confidence woman who can work and live on her own.i know it, hard but she should do that to show her parents and in laws that she is not born to do house chores that she can do something on her own too.sarsawati is educated she can get a job.

great discussion priyas šŸ‘
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Posted: 18 years ago
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- What do you see in the future for Saraswati? Bhavisya has vowed never to divorce her, or accept her as his wife. What can she possibly do? Being a married daughter living in her parent's house is a fate worse than death, as depicted in the serial. Can she gather some strength to fight against her circumstances?

I think nw Saraswati is not at a stable frame of mind right nw because she jus tried to end her life! She's under the impression tht she is a burden on her parents n all her family members!And in such a situation, a person would definitely resort to ending their life. But her sisters n mother and right now for the first time..her FATHER...are with her. they will support her right now. help her gain back her self esteem. plus nw with all the scars left behind on her face n body, its obvious tht any person would lose their self confidence n start to hate themselves. But Savitri will help her daughter and give her strength!

- Bhavisya: will justice be served? For committing two henious deeds, surely he has some retribution coming? Can he possibly continue to live peacefully having ruined the lives of two innocent women? Is this typical of the mindset this serial attempts to portray - a man can commit any crime, but its the woman who suffers the consequences. With his demented state of mind, will Bhavisya not eventually crack? Initially I thought his murdering his ex-gf was a crime of passion, but it now seems that it was pre-mediated.

Definitely, Priya! Right now he's hapy tht he has Yuvraj who will not let his secret be out because he blackmailed Yuraj. So Bhavishya is under the impression tht he is safe and the only job he has to do now is end Saraswati's life. He has done 2 big crimes, definitely he will be punished very severely for those crimes! if not sooner then later because now Satyakam is also on the case and tryin to find out the truth. So soon enough Bhavishya will be seen behind the bars, no matter how much his parents will tr to save him!

- Saraswati's family: Menka surely will have something up her sleeve to get rid of Saraswati. What could this possibly be? Did Menka push Saraswati down the stairs? Will Menka perhaps push Saraswati towards the edge mentally? Will Menka be instrumental in Saraswati breaking down, and perhaps attempting to commit suicide?

Oh definitely! Menka will not rest in peace. She wnats all four duagters out of the house ASAP. Menka had nothing to do with pushing Saraswati down the stairs. She wont do such a thing.Menka might of course, as we all know, add more salt to Saraswati's severely injured wounds! But there is still time bfore Menka takes any step becaue now she is to buy preparing for her son's wedding! And this will be so much fun aft Yuvraj marries Kajri!šŸ˜†

- Is this not typical of the climate and acceptability of abuse against women that is currently prevalent in the world? As much as we trivialise stories in serials, it is a harsh reality that this type of abuse is a daily occurrence in the lives of women the world over EVEN TODAY. How does a woman in Saraswati's position rebuild her life?

Wel we all know tht not every woman has the self control to tolerate all this zulm inflicted by their husband and their in laws. Not every woman is a Saraswati. Most women nowadays have the strength and power to speak up for their rights. The women of the 21st century are able to just walk out of thier husband's life and start a new. This serial is being depicted in like the olden times but nw its the new age and such things also do not happen unless its the woman's fate. Family support n friends play a big role in helping the woman rebuild her life!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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- What do you see in the future for Saraswati? Bhavisya has vowed never to divorce her, or accept her as his wife. What can she possibly do? Being a married daughter living in her parent's house is a fate worse than death, as depicted in the serial. Can she gather some strength to fight against her circumstances?

😊 rite now saras must be feeling that her life is at a dead end!!!!!she must be traumatised with burns and bruises all over her body and the title of mrs bhavishya..but just when we think that life has come to an end God shows a new more beautiful beginning ..if at all we try to look at it...her mom has finally opened her eyes to reality..although as u said a lil late..but i think now she will help her gather her strength , help her to fite injustice and make something out of her life...it is difficult but not impossible and in her case the ONLY way out...

- Bhavisya: will justice be served? For committing two henious deeds, surely he has some retribution coming? Can he possibly continue to live peacefully having ruined the lives of two innocent women? Is this typical of the mindset this serial attempts to portray - a man can commit any crime, but its the woman who suffers the consequences. With his demented state of mind, will Bhavisya not eventually crack? Initially I thought his murdering his ex-gf was a crime of passion, but it now seems that it was pre-mediated.

😊 i believe in the saying that there is nothing like a perfect murder...and here this bhav is doing crime after crime and still moving around in the society like no body cares.....the mindset that the man commits crime and the woman suffers is true for women who allow these men to do whatever they can ...saras went thru it coz she thought that bhav is her God , her fate and her everything..now that she has opened her eyes she will be able to do something about it..and the fact that they were a lil late in realising it has made them pay a very heavy price for it(so its bhavs doing and her way of dealing with it that has led to these consequences).....bhav will surely get what he desreves.he will go to jail and he will never get any mental peace..he will have an end which will teach all bhavs a lesson ..

- Saraswati's family: Menka surely will have something up her sleeve to get rid of Saraswati. What could this possibly be? Did Menka push Saraswati down the stairs? Will Menka perhaps push Saraswati towards the edge mentally? Will Menka be instrumental in Saraswati breaking down, and perhaps attempting to commit suicide?

😊 we can expect nothing but this fm menaka...she has been doing everything u mentioned in the above question...shudnt matter wht she does...only that after yrs and yrs of suffering caused by menaka ,the girls shud finally ,atleast now ,learn how to deal with her nonsense...if a woman in their house is enuf to cause misery to them and they cant do anything about it..then they in no way can fite anything else in the world outside..yes she will try to do all this..and its saraswatis and savitris job not to give in to it...let her go to hell..the hell which is waiting for her anyways...

- Is this not typical of the climate and acceptability of abuse against women that is currently prevalent in the world? As much as we trivialise stories in serials, it is a harsh reality that this type of abuse is a daily occurrence in the lives of women the world over EVEN TODAY. How does a woman in Saraswati's position rebuild her life?

😊 yes it is prevalent in the world..but if we see closely the women who are suffering are the ones who simply accept all this sufferring as their fate...it is a harsh reality no doubt and it is no trivial matter..
but i agree with lina that all women have the ability and the rite to speak up for themsleves...it depends on who has the courage to use that rite and put a stop to all this injustice happenning to herself...saraswati suffered all cruelty in order to save her marriage ,to avoid divorce and now she has landed up in a situation where her husband wont give her a divorce and she can do whtever she likes with her (non)existant marriage...now wht she can do to improve the present siutuation is that she shud belive in herself and her worth ..her parents and sisters will help her do it.. she shud do something worthwhile other than just facing menakas politics and threats fm her marraige,something which gives her a sense of purpose and satisfaction...like strting her own business or getting a job....so that she not just rebuilds her life but also has full control over it.
Edited by missmhow - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: PriyaS

So my questions are:

- What do you see in the future for Saraswati? Bhavisya has vowed never to divorce her, or accept her as his wife. What can she possibly do? Being a married daughter living in her parent's house is a fate worse than death, as depicted in the serial. Can she gather some strength to fight against her circumstances?

It is not going to be very easy for her to stay on in her Maayka, especially with Menka's crude remarks, and now with a new addition coming up, 'Pavithra/Kajri' saraswati will need a lot of support from her mother and sisters and most importantly from Suryakant.

- Bhavisya: will justice be served? For committing two henious deeds, surely he has some retribution coming? Can he possibly continue to live peacefully having ruined the lives of two innocent women? Is this typical of the mindset this serial attempts to portray - a man can commit any crime, but its the woman who suffers the consequences. With his demented state of mind, will Bhavisya not eventually crack? Initially I thought his murdering his ex-gf was a crime of passion, but it now seems that it was pre-mediated.

Now that Satyakam knows the truth about Bhav, I think Bhav will get what he deserves, but when Satyakam confronts his parents about Bhav, one thing that worries me is that Dhara and her hubby.. would they go to any lengths to shut Satya up?

- Saraswati's family: Menka surely will have something up her sleeve to get rid of Saraswati. What could this possibly be? Did Menka push Saraswati down the stairs? Will Menka perhaps push Saraswati towards the edge mentally? Will Menka be instrumental in Saraswati breaking down, and perhaps attempting to commit suicide?

Menka is not too happy having Saras back home. She will try some scheme with Rasik Bhai, and drive Saras out, but its going to be difficult in the current situation

- Is this not typical of the climate and acceptability of abuse against women that is currently prevalent in the world? As much as we trivialise stories in serials, it is a harsh reality that this type of abuse is a daily occurrence in the lives of women the world over EVEN TODAY. How does a woman in Saraswati's position rebuild her life?

Saras is not shown as a very strong person, like Laxmi. First of all, she should get up and stop feeling sorry for herself and fight back. There is so much info she could provide regarding the fire. She hasn't said much after the accident. Men like Bhav can traumatize a woman only she she lets them. The first step for women like Saras to rebuild her life would be to get fair justice for what happened to her, and only after that she can move forward without looking back

My personal take on the situation:

The perpetration of abuse is not random, if Saraswati was/is able to stand up against Bhavisya, she might not be in this predicament. This is due to her upbringing, and her parents should shoulder the blame.

Savitri has redeemed herself marginally in my eyes, by forcing Surya and co to take action against Bhavisya, however it was too little too late. Saraswati will now however be affected by the terrible mistake in judgement her father made.

It was also good to see Surya supporting Saraswati, but also too little too late. Instead of bowing to pressure from his mother, and placing society values above his daughter's life, he should have listened to his inner voice and kept Saraswati at home.

I am very happy that the creators of this show have brought this contentious issue to the attention of millions of viewers. I am still holding out for a happy ending to this, the sight of Bhavisya behind bars where he belongs, and Kshitij taking his place rightfully beside Saraswati!

My thoughts exactly... 😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think someone should murd bavsh!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: missy14

i think someone should murd bavsh!


yes!!!i feel the same...but wudnt it be better if someone tortured him for the rest of his life??? 😈
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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh yea! it would be the proper punishment for him!!!
i cnat wait till Bhav is proved to be the criminal and then because of him being psycho...they put him in the mentla hospital kind of jail and give him shock treatments day n night! 😔
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~LiNa~

oh yea! it would be the proper punishment for him!!!
i cnat wait till Bhav is proved to be the criminal and then because of him being psycho...they put him in the mentla hospital kind of jail and give him shock treatments day n night! 😔


yes..thts wht he deservs..shock treatment and third degree torture...i think instead of sending him to an asylum his home shud be converted to an asylum where dhara and her hubby can also take the same treatment !!!!!!

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