Originally posted by: adorablerujul
@kawai Geet...Geet did say to Maan that she will not stop Maan from making to love to her as it his right as a husband that's she gave in and did not complain... As you correctly pointed out that her upbringing is also like that...that's why she let Maan have sex with her...
But women needs more emotional bonding first than the physical bonding...to have her physically was Maan's right and he never failed to make her aware of his this need than he could have told her other things which he wanted...he could have expressed his emotional needs to her too rather than just physical...
I have a feeling that in the last everything will be Geet's headas she is the woman and she is the one to be blamed for everything...
It was her fault that she got married to Maan
It was her fault that she was to burn alive
It was her fault that her own husband did not wanted marry her
It was her fault that she was widow so she cannot have spicy food or wear colourful cloths...
It was her fault that she gave in for husband...
In lots of family men never understand what their wife wants or likes and dislike so same thing happened here just a role reversal than why this...we never said anything to those men, we never blame them on the contrary we said it is wife's destiny and what is wrong if the same destinity is for husband?
For me Maan just not made one mistake he did few...
He himself told truth to Geet about his marriage...he said that he wants to give happiness to Sam but his marriage India stopping him... He did not say anything to Sam regarding his marriage...if Vedic than Sam would have stopped perusing him... He believed others's about his wife...he never contacted Daadi if he did the he could have find out about Geet and his life would be different but in his anger he never contacted Daadi...he used his right as her husband but never earned it...he always said to Geet that he can never be a person whom she wanted marry...if he did not force himself on her the day when Geet wanted talk about his relation about Sam and cleared the misunderstanding than thd life would have been different...
For Geet's this indifference I would say that not only her upbringing but also Maan's behaviour is responsible...as you said that Maan was longing for her love than she was also longing for his love to not just physical one but the emotional one...
In entire FF I never seen Geet expressing her wishes...she did what others wanted whether it was food, cloths, sex or even behaviour...I never seen Geet living her life as Geet... Either she was his widow, his wife or mother I never seen her as Geet...even as his wife she could not bring herself to wear wedding chain which was her right...she was not asked what she wanted...I did not like it at all that Geet was blamed for everything...for me you cannot clap with one hand so Maan is also responsible somewhere...
i agree with ur emotional bonding thing..that girls always accept.. but i mention that it was maan's fault too. taali ek haath se nahi bajti. it was his fault that he left her like that but who knew sati pratha is being still followed and above all it would end up on her?
geet lived a very harsh life.. but it was her own decision to live with the widow tag right. she chose to meditate.. she chose to eat 'satwik' food... she chose to dress like tht...no1 forced her.
as they say, to err is human...galti sabse hoti hain... they reap what they sow and they rpent too. i dont say very highly of maan too. it was inconsiderate of him to have left her like that but what i want to say is... he hasn't he repented already?
u say abt patriarchal society i hve no problem with role reversal but u need to have a share fare. whtever goes this side... same should come the other side as well. why this special treatment?
just think.. geet at least didn't have maan beside her all through
but maan has her for 17 yrs... imagine what is painful.. not at all being with ur love or being with her 24/7 and not able to touch her, express her... and abt sex... if that was absent..then probably u would never have seen a happy geet as u see now.
she would never had devansh then which has become a reason f her living now. in a way it was gud.. dont you agree??? she was aloof from all feelings.. but motherhood? a single lady cant get pregnant all by herself. she is so happy to have devansh...phir jo galat cheez (u think their having sex was wrong) khushi de...tho wo galat kaise ho sakta hain?
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Edited by kawaii_geet - 12 years ago
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