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sdlife19

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Posted: 12 years ago

#821

loved devansh here

he said wat maan had to say

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Posted: 12 years ago

#822

Originally posted by: sdlife19
loved devansh here

he said wat maan had to say

yes dear

he did great unknowingly👏👏

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Posted: 12 years ago

#823

Originally posted by: NishaNeil13
@bold I completely DISAGREE with you. He did demand his right as her husband to have sex with her... He forced himself on her... Tab sharam or guilt kasha Gaya tha? Bhad mien? He can have sex with her whenever he want regardless what geet want then why not paratha? Why he wants eat paratha only when geet give him? If he respects her wishes so much then where this respect for wishes goes when it comes to sex? He never failed to hug her, kiss her or have sex with her than why cannot he say other things too, why he cannot express his feelings...

Jab sab kuch maan ne pain marjee se Kia hai to paratha bhibkha le...kyo geet de to hi khana hai...kyo?

Maybe I can offer a slight defense here.

Sex is a part of married life. It is a right that he thinks he has and a duty she feels she cannot deny. In reality, thousands of people get married and for them there is no love in the relation but they still have sex. It is part of life and an expected thing.

The other things like paratha and knowing about his likes and dislikes are about caring. The type of care you give to people you love. I have a diary where besides the phone numbers I write down peoples favorite dishes etc. That is a way to show someone I care about them.

The way Muskan has portrayed his character, or my reading of it, is a self made man. He does his own grocery shopping, cooks his own food, makes lunchboxes for himself and her. He has had no one near to care for him. He is not used to asking even. He just copes.

Geet has to actually realize that he needs care too. That can only happen when she becomes aware that she actually loves him and how vital he is to her life.

I don't know if I made any sense, hope I did.😃

Edited by dqno1 - 12 years ago

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priya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#824

lagta hai itne comments padkar muski ki dimaag garam hogayi hogi thoda tanda karthe 😉😆hai

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Shruthe

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Posted: 12 years ago

#825

That was a wonderful update muskan!!!

Sometimes, there are certain things that kids teach u!!!

Devansh did tell so perfect about sati and pati.. the true meaning of the words that got lost due to the practice...

He assumed one thing that did so much to her life for 5 years... he did not do it intentionally, but yet it was his misconception that led to her life threat and such a life... but when they got together things went weird... but the guy really repented from heart and did all in his ability to cover up for the 5 years.. he cant do anything about the 5 years as that was done and gone.. but he did make it up in these 18 years...

But somewhere geet was so lost that she failed to see things he were just doing for her... may be she was so immersed in her motherhood.. mothers do love their children and do everything for them, but not at the cost of being ignorant towards ur husband... she also did not do it intentionally, but she too assumed so many things... i remember him telling her about his liking at some time when they started living together.. but that seem not to have registered in her mind... and she kept assuming about him for 18 years which is quite a long time...

And maan... what do i say about him.. woh abhi bhi trying to divert topic whenever dev tries to point out, just because he doesnt want her to feel bad or hurt... if he was responsible for those 5 years of her hurt, he was the one who has given her all of it back that too with so much love and care when it was not reciprocated...

Geet is not intentional, but she is just being too much ignorant... especially the diabetic part... i felt really sad for him...

but since she seem to know certain things due to dev, am looking forward as to how their relation improvises...

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Madhuri

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Posted: 12 years ago

#826

part 55 - dev is more matured at his this age...loved the bond bet dev & geet ...they can share any talk...but deansh understands maan better than geet...geet is also concerned about maan but dev knows better him than her...hopeshe could understand where she is lacking in her married life

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Rujul13

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Posted: 12 years ago

#827

Originally posted by: kawaii_geet
@adorablerujul
and abt sam thing... she always forced herself on maan.
he was always knowingly n unknowingly tied down by the vows and he kept himself firm
as far as khushi ki baat..y cant he make her happy as a frnd? they were very close frnds right..its her who didnt understand
he loved geet...then y to hide anything from her as well.
she was confused abt maan-sam relation and so were we..
but at the end...she did get to realize the truth right!!!
it hurts to see ur hubby with sum1 else but then when ur hubby is clean then whats the berukhi?

@muski di
dii do sumthing fast...itna to meine kisi aur ff mein bhi nahin likha
am sure i will win debate competition in my colg ..masst practice ho rahi h yahan
btw i wanted to know ur pov.. di what r u thinking???

@kawai Geet - I never had problem with their physical relations as it is necessary in every marriage life...I did not like the way it happened...I did not expect Maan to force himself on her after he left her and he never wanted to marry her in first place also if he was feeling guilty...

Geet never wanted to live harsh life she was forced by society to live harsh life by taunting her and finding faults in her life style...it was her choice by forced and not willingly...

Re Sam, yes Sam forced herself on him but he never said anything to her about his marriage in India if he did then Sam would have understood...but he chose to keep quite so I will not blame Sam entirely...

He never tried cleared his relation with Sam to Geet instead he forced himself on her. Wasn't it his responsibility to clear everything between them but Sam cleared about her relationship to Maan... What he did ... Forced himself on her and handed sam's wedding card to Geet that's it...

I am sorry but if Maan can express his physical needs to her than he should have expressed his emotional needs too...if you just keep physical relation with your wife and do not share your a ugh ing with her than what she should understand?

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kiran_rati

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Posted: 12 years ago

#828

i really want to see an emotional bond btw maaneet

i loved this part alot

specially devansh did right thing

hope u give next updates where geet is emotionally attached to maan

waiting for next part

new thread and update please

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Shruthe

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Posted: 12 years ago

#829

Originally posted by: dqno1
Maybe I can offer a slight defense here.

Sex is a part of married life. It is a right that he thinks he has and a duty she feels she cannot deny. In reality, thousands of people get married and for them there is no love in the relation but they still have sex. It is part of life and an expected thing.

The other things like paratha and knowing about his likes and dislikes are about caring. The type of care you give to people you love. I have a diary where besides the phone numbers I write down peoples favorite dishes etc. That is a way to show someone I care about them.

The way Muskan has portrayed his character, or my reading of it, is a self made man. He does his own grocery shopping, cooks his own food, makes lunchboxes for himself and her. He has had no one near to care for him. He is not used to asking even. He just copes.

Geet has to actually realize that he needs care too. That can only happen when she becomes aware that she actually loves him and how vital he is to her life.

I don't know if I made any sense, hope I did.😃

you made all sense here... its true that in some marriages when ppl do not even love each other, they just give in to the physical desire...

and yes... muskan's characterization has been so clear... Maan lost his parents when he was way too young.. and he has been so much self made.. he never intended to get help from any other person which was clear during azaan - sam wedding... he brought up dev on his own. .cared for him and loved him like hell.. he even confessed to geet that he started making dal chaval all time coz dev loved to eat that... he had showered all the care and love to dev, then geet and his son.. and defo he needs to be cared and loved too... and when he has been like this, u cant expect him to tell it out and ask for it... it has to be understood !!

and moreover when u love someone, they dont have to tell you... u just realize it and understand that...

Edited by Shruthe - 12 years ago

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-lakshmi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#830

devansh is a sweet heart... i dont want to even think on the lines , that what if he didnt told all that, then what would have happened... may be like 17 yrs the remaining yrs will also be spent... maan craving for her love and care ... and geet assuming that all things are going on perfectly...

Its easy to die with a person, but equally impossible to live with the same. 👏

i dont think even devansh would have told geet about his likes and dislikes... it comes naturally for a woman to observe and understand the likings of ones family... when geet did it for her son, then y not for maan???

which wife will not check her husbands med reports when it came into her notice????

in the initial stages of their living together, may be maan have forced many things on geet... but if he hadnt did that, then geet would have continued living a life devoid of colours, spice... and may be devansh too would not be there... with his so called force , geet have only gained happiness in her life... and i think that was the only objective of maan ...

even now when maan said "i love u" ... she had to say that she knew as sam had told??? not that she knows becoz she have felt his love in these years???