~sati~ maaneet SS THREAD 8 - Page 84

Originally posted by: dqno1

Maybe I can offer a slight defense here.

Sex is a part of married life. It is a right that he thinks he has and a duty she feels she cannot deny. In reality, thousands of people get married and for them there is no love in the relation but they still have sex. It is part of life and an expected thing.

The other things like paratha and knowing about his likes and dislikes are about caring. The type of care you give to people you love. I have a diary where besides the phone numbers I write down peoples favorite dishes etc. That is a way to show someone I care about them.

The way Muskan has portrayed his character, or my reading of it, is a self made man. He does his own grocery shopping, cooks his own food, makes lunchboxes for himself and her. He has had no one near to care for him. He is not used to asking even. He just copes.

Geet has to actually realize that he needs care too. That can only happen when she becomes aware that she actually loves him and how vital he is to her life.

I don't know if I made any sense, hope I did.😃

Originally posted by: Shruthe

you made all sense here... its true that in some marriages when ppl do not even love each other, they just give in to the physical desire...

and yes... muskan's characterization has been so clear... Maan lost his parents when he was way too young.. and he has been so much self made.. he never intended to get help from any other person which was clear during azaan - sam wedding... he brought up dev on his own. .cared for him and loved him like hell.. he even confessed to geet that he started making dal chaval all time coz dev loved to eat that... he had showered all the care and love to dev, then geet and his son.. and defo he needs to be cared and loved too... and when he has been like this, u cant expect him to tell it out and ask for it... it has to be understood !!

and moreover when u love someone, they dont have to tell you... u just realize it and understand that...

Originally posted by: smi20

The need for more is always going to stay with ur every update. I love Dev, the way he understands the relationship his parents share is great. Hope Maan and Geet find their happiness soon... 18 years is a long time.
Please update soon..I am a greedy person:)

Originally posted by: NishaNeil13

ok I accept that he like that he never asked he is self made man o what about get and her upbringing...I would say the same thing about get that she is like that...her parvarish is like that to leave everything to husband...so why blame geet and not her upbringing?

Originally posted by: Shruthe

you made all sense here... its true that in some marriages when ppl do not even love each other, they just give in to the physical desire...

and yes... muskan's characterization has been so clear... Maan lost his parents when he was way too young.. and he has been so much self made.. he never intended to get help from any other person which was clear during azaan - sam wedding... he brought up dev on his own. .cared for him and loved him like hell.. he even confessed to geet that he started making dal chaval all time coz dev loved to eat that... he had showered all the care and love to dev, then geet and his son.. and defo he needs to be cared and loved too... and when he has been like this, u cant expect him to tell it out and ask for it... it has to be understood !!

and moreover when u love someone, they dont have to tell you... u just realize it and understand that...

Originally posted by: -lakshmi-

devansh is a sweet heart... i dont want to even think on the lines , that what if he didnt told all that, then what would have happened... may be like 17 yrs the remaining yrs will also be spent... maan craving for her love and care ... and geet assuming that all things are going on perfectly...

Its easy to die with a person, but equally impossible to live with the same. 👏

i dont think even devansh would have told geet about his likes and dislikes... it comes naturally for a woman to observe and understand the likings of ones family... when geet did it for her son, then y not for maan???

which wife will not check her husbands med reports when it came into her notice????

in the initial stages of their living together, may be maan have forced many things on geet... but if he hadnt did that, then geet would have continued living a life devoid of colours, spice... and may be devansh too would not be there... with his so called force , geet have only gained happiness in her life... and i think that was the only objective of maan ...

even now when maan said "i love u" ... she had to say that she knew as sam had told??? not that she knows becoz she have felt his love in these years???

Originally posted by: Shruthe

Well Devansh is her upbringing and he seems to have been taught by Geet that u dont have to ask abt likes and dislikes when u love ppl, u just understand coz u care for them...

And this is not a blame game on geet or maan ... Not intentionally, but she has just been lost in her own world and ignorant !!!