Originally posted by: mel420
beast didn't r*** his beauty and the thing with the stories is that there is nothing wrong in writing it but don't make a sinner a hero. Show what the girl goes to how she picks her life up again, how she get stronger. You said you have talked to the sinners, I have talked to the victims and trust me if they would read or know about this ff's their heart would torn apart. I read such a story, complained to the writer pointing out where she was going wrong she choose to ignore then I dumped the story. But I feel these stories shouldn't be written cause they give a wrong message and it had proofed thanks to such stories (yes your not the first one written this), and certain videoclips which give the same message guys think it's normal to r****. And if you want to write show the girls get justice and why do you have to make Maan the sinner. Dev/ vikram haina
Hey Mel, first read the sentence properly and then make a comment.
I said i have talked to a victim and not to a sinner, rehab centres aur mental asylum mein victims jate hai , sinners nahi. those sinners who realize their mistakes and can't handle their guilt sometimes become acute ocd patients and end up in an asylum. but here i am talking about a real life victim and u know what the shocking part is, ki uski khudki family ne usko disown kar diya hai. she works their as a volunteer. yes another very strong girl who lost her voice because her rapist had slit her throat and thrown her in a swimming pool. she was rescued and now she trying to move on in life.
mein ne aajtak jitne case studies padhe hain aur real life victims ko dekha hai, agar un sabki gory details describe karne lagi na to yahake bachhe bechare darr jayenge aur baaki o ko heart attack aa jayaga..real life or human mind ka dark side kaisa hota hai mein janti hoon. so i guess these stories are just so simple, bachho ka khel hai.
don't come to this forum when u can't handle it. dur se society ke liye concern dikhana aur gyan dena bohut aasan hai but when u step out there and see around, u will find the real picture.
i didn't quite get the video clip part but i have to clarify this as u don't seem to have understood anything. i said there is a theory involved in it where it is said that many women find it fascinating and like it when they get physical pain(read world's original lines aganist which i have stated this fact).
yes i have said one line where i was a little bit rather partially wrong ki jo bhi in fanfictions mein dekhaya ja raha hai woh sab kuch real nahi hai, i am wrong in this part a bit, real life main bhi aise geet jaise haazaro aurat e hai jo willingly apne husband aur boyfriends ko maaf kar dete hai and they start a new life, sometimes because of kids, sometimes for their family and most of the times because they love that person. aisa bohut educated smart independent girls aur housewives aati hai councilling sessions main jinhe unke boyfriends aur husbands physically abuse karte hai, marte hai , but most of them at the end forgive their husbands and boyfriends saying that they can't live the rest of their life without them. they can't forget the beautiful moments they have shared all those years and they also say this that even they want to know ways by which they can cure and get their old love back. their man won't come for these sessions but they know that their man too needs help.
what do u have to say about them? i know some of u will say they are weak and shameless, isn't it? but they are very much real.
jaha in one side there are women and girls like them, waha there are also women who do not believe in second chance, give a divorce or break up and move on. both are females, aren't they? don't bash the writers because they are giving u a different pov which doesn't match with urs. and sending hate mails, character or family per kichad uchalkar u are making urself low.
so here i am not bashing any reader or writer,i am just stating the facts and trying to show the real picture. so plz guyz stop this war, its not going to help anyone.
its just spreading negativity and try to analyse the difference between real and reel.
ps: deep down down inside we love happily ever afters, don't we, even if it is fictional?😉 SORRY MEL, I KNOW I WAS A BIT RUDE HERE, DIDN'T MEAN TO BE
Edited by maanugeetu - 13 years ago
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