Neither Geet nor Maan is at fault

I know that everyone is irritated with maan's behaviour... but look at the situation from his point of view as well... He is damn confused & frustrated ... he is being dragged into a relationship about which he doesn't remember anything... till now a man who never did anything against his will is forced into a relationship... Dadi maa & every other person in the house is telling him that Geet is his wife... infact clients also told this & praised her.. And he is not able to recall anything about his past this is having more impact on his mental condition.. he is more angry, confused & frustrated ...

I want to recall two sayings in hindi

1. 1. Jab insaan gusse mein hota hai toh hosh kho baithta hai

Maan has always been in the habit of saying harsh words in anger. He simply could not control his anger'

2. 2. Doobte toh tinke ka sahara'

Here all the family members are on Geet's side.. & Maan has started feeling lonely in the crowd.. so it's likely that he falls in the trap of NT especially when he is not aware of her evil deeds.

I know his words are harsh but is it his fault only... I mean everytime he insulted geet it was due to NT's tantrum except during their stay in hotel... & he is trusting NT becoz he doesn't really remember about her evil doings & her evil influence over dev...

Earlier he trusted Sasha because she was their family munshi's daughter... so he was in the habit of trusting his family loyalists... he was not so concerned about tasha... on the other hand he doesn't remember NT's evil influence on Dev... & I think he doesn't even know that under her influence dev started gambling & was under huge debt... so right now NT enjoys his trust as khurana bahu...maan trusts his family members more than outsiders... right now geet is still an outsider for him...

The choice of words was very crucial... whenever maan says such things to geet they come back to him again... & he feels guilty about every word... didn't he said really bad words in the outhouse before dargah sequence...

Guys wait for some time... she will be back in her original avatar... & 2-3 days have passed for us not for them in serial time it's just 1-2 hours have passed... & you are forgetting that people take sometime to recover from incidents of insults like this... Infact the mood of a person is spoilt for whole day whenever such a thing happens with a person. That's why we saw her withdrawing from the public gaze for a while when maan insulted her in front of everyone... but her pain was somewhat eased by maan's jestures...right now she only wants that her husband breaks her fast... she will be back in her joyful mode soon & when dadi will clear the air that she was really sick maan will again feel guilty & then she will give him the correct dose of her attitude...

From the precap I think only family members were present when he was saying those things to Geet...

I think geet will fall ill or may faint & maan will break her fast but NT will say something... so their not so worked plan will get exposed... Maan will be angry at this... but dadi will reveal the whole truth later.

Anita suggested to me that CVs should do a scene...where they actually show Geet telling Maan that I do understand what u r going through...I know that its hard for you to accept a relationship that you can't even remember...And even I want such a scene... it will help maan to open up...

Infact I'm having doubts that if Geet gives him an attitude right now will it not create more problems??... Right now he is really confused & doesn't even have a strong attraction for Geet... love toh door ki baat hai.. I think first the misunderstanding should clear... & dadi ma will play a major role in clearing the air... after which maan will again feel guilty... but even then it can create problems... things should normalise first only then ignore strategy will work...

Today maan has made himself clear about his feelings about the relationship ... so geet will automatically do something to ease him of this frustation as she can't see him in pain... but right now she only wants that maan breaks her fast...

Guys wait for 1-2 epi... I'm sure Geet will handle this situation in a mature way... in serial time it's just 1-2 hours... & so much has happened with geet...I think precap wala thing will happen after he breaks her fast... & then his words will give her strength to fight back...

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Originally posted by: misty85

I know that everyone is irritated with maan's behaviour... but look at the situation from his point of view as well... He is damn confused & frustrated ... he is being dragged into a relationship about which he doesn't remember anything... till now a man who never did anything against his will is forced into a relationship... Dadi maa & every other person in the house is telling him that Geet is his wife... infact clients also told this & praised her.. And he is not able to recall anything about his past this is having more impact on his mental condition.. he is more angry, confused & frustrated ...

I want to recall two sayings in hindi

1. 1. Jab insaan gusse mein hota hai toh hosh kho baithta hai

Maan has always been in the habit of saying harsh words in anger. He simply could not control his anger'

2. 2. Doobte toh tinke ka sahara'

Here all the family members are on Geet's side.. & Maan has started feeling lonely in the crowd.. so it's likely that he falls in the trap of NT especially when he is not aware of her evil deeds.

I know his words are harsh but is it his fault only... I mean everytime he insulted geet it was due to NT's tantrum except during their stay in hotel... & he is trusting NT becoz he doesn't really remember about her evil doings & her evil influence over dev...

Earlier he trusted Sasha because she was their family munshi's daughter... so he was in the habit of trusting his family loyalists... he was not so concerned about tasha... on the other hand he doesn't remember NT's evil influence on Dev... & I think he doesn't even know that under her influence dev started gambling & was under huge debt... so right now NT enjoys his trust as khurana bahu...maan trusts his family members more than outsiders... right now geet is still an outsider for him...

The choice of words was very crucial... whenever maan says such things to geet they come back to him again... & he feels guilty about every word... didn't he said really bad words in the outhouse before dargah sequence...

Guys wait for some time... she will be back in her original avatar... & 2-3 days have passed for us not for them in serial time it's just 1-2 hours have passed... & you are forgetting that people take sometime to recover from incidents of insults like this... Infact the mood of a person is spoilt for whole day whenever such a thing happens with a person. That's why we saw her withdrawing from the public gaze for a while when maan insulted her in front of everyone... but her pain was somewhat eased by maan's jestures...right now she only wants that her husband breaks her fast... she will be back in her joyful mode soon & when dadi will clear the air that she was really sick maan will again feel guilty & then she will give him the correct dose of her attitude...

From the precap I think only family members were present when he was saying those things to Geet...

I think geet will fall ill or may faint & maan will break her fast but NT will say something... so their not so worked plan will get exposed... Maan will be angry at this... but dadi will reveal the whole truth later.

Anita suggested to me that CVs should do a scene...where they actually show Geet telling Maan that I do understand what u r going through...I know that its hard for you to accept a relationship that you can't even remember...And even I want such a scene... it will help maan to open up...

Infact I'm having doubts that if Geet gives him an attitude right now will it not create more problems??... Right now he is really confused & doesn't even have a strong attraction for Geet... love toh door ki baat hai.. I think first the misunderstanding should clear... & dadi ma will play a major role in clearing the air... after which maan will again feel guilty... but even then it can create problems... things should normalise first only then ignore strategy will work...

Today maan has made himself clear about his feelings about the relationship ... so geet will automatically do something to ease him of this frustation as she can't see him in pain... but right now she only wants that maan breaks her fast...

Guys wait for 1-2 epi... I'm sure Geet will handle this situation in a mature way... in serial time it's just 1-2 hours... & so much has happened with geet...I think precap wala thing will happen after he breaks her fast... & then his words will give her strength to fight back...

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Originally posted by: ghsp_1

Very well said.
Also, one needs to look at that he is also only about 26-27 yrs old. And he is bearing the responsibilities of his whole family with such varied personalities/characters for quite some time e.g. his dadi ma though she is sweet but also who always tries to get her ways with emotional black-mailing, brother who used to be a terrible burden in every way possible, sis-in-law who has always been a scheming type, wife for whom he had tremendous responsibility of keeping her physically safe from all the villains who have been after her life (which i am sure will take a toll on however strong a person is) , and along with that to take care of running his big business empire. Always it has been him only everyone looks up to for resolving any problems, issues, conflicts. Will such tremendous pressure at an age of 25-27 not break a person sometime. Sometimes actually i wonder how does he keep his sanity. I see people breaking down with much much less burden than what has been shown in the series with his character.
In current scenario, no one from the family is really trying to even talking to him from his perspective, trying to understand his mental state, his conflicts of emotions. Everyone is talking to him from Geet's perspective and stating only the FACTS to him without really looking deeper into his mental state of all the conflicts he is going thru bcoz of his memory loss.
Well... just few points i felt.

mamta - will read tomorrow ... now need 2 go 2 bed ...