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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
wow...did not think of it that way thanks for the post. It will help me understand certain aspects maybe more
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Posted: 14 years ago
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wow awesome thinking yaar...someone has the light bulb clicking...👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13
Wow what a post and what an analysis. Seeing the episode from this POV makes me want to watch it again. Actually when I first watched it I was not much impressed but ur post has made me see it from a totally different perspective. Hope all viewers see it in this light and not criticise it as being boring and /or dragging...thanx for enlightening us on the social issues considered in the episode... .U are bang on target where this family's attitudes and perspectives are considered...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gshow2011

Thanks, I have always wanted CVs to get some message across through this most admired couple.

So far issues addressed in Geet:

  • NRI fake Marriage - Very very true
  • People taking advantage of rich guys.
  • Marriage at young age
  • Women looking down on other women - Seems we are cause of our own problems. Women create problems for other women more than men.
  • dadi ma handles the after marriage food making rasam beautifully,
  • Dadima treating bahu as Beti yet keeping her respect
  • Women being taken for granted in work force : That Rahul case
  • Change of cloths doesn't mean change of outlook and is not sign of modernization, change of thought is imp




good points the most important one being women and our relationship with other women.
Also at the beginning of the story line there were 2 brothers, why do not the CVs turn the current "dev" into the other brother and we will all forgive them their bad story line for the past 2 months...
The current "dev" is a good looking dude, so we can watch guilt free. It took me a while to even think of watching the show again, since the CVs destroyed Geet and Maan characters with their intent to make it a lighter serial.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you... though CVs are treating this in a comic manner these issues are present...Y'day I was shocked to see that how bejji's attitude changed & she sent Nandini for a date...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Good Post!! 👏
There are also several issues to be considered here.
    As you can see from the various posts/discussions...the cvs are not getting these points across very successfully.😭 I got a few of them when I was watching the show..😳 ..but only got the others after you highlighted them in this post.😊
    The issue about the NRI fake marriage and the Pammi given different treatment were the only two glaring issues that most viewers were aware of.
    Is this because viewers are not used to seeing such hidden agendas in their shows..🤓...or is it that the message is so subtle that the cvs fail to get it across...is another question. 😔
    I do feel that the it is the second option here...at least in the current track...the issues they want to highlight...are totally ignored due to the OTT scenes we, the viewers are being subjected to.
    All we see is slap-stick comedy and a wife behaving very childishly and creating fights with her husband smacking him at every opportunity. 😡🥱
    Yes...there is a small message in here...that couples in India do not show overt affection towards each other in public...especially when they are living in an extended family. But surely this can be treated in another way in the show other than what I call spousal abuse.
    It is getting very irritating to watch. 😡 I hate to keep harping on the same issue...😉..but to date...they have not really followed up and completed the NRI fake marriage issue. 😡 Why highlight the issue if you are not going to show the final implications and closing of the loop by showing the consequences of such actions. 🤪

Also another point...quite a large number of viewers are overseas viewers and youngsters living in large cities in India. Unfortunately, some of the issues highlighted in the show...will not be very obvious to us....as we do not see it...or encounter in our daily lives. 😃 So some of the issues highlighted would obviously pass us by.😕...and our attitude is WYSIWYG (what you see...is what you get.) 🥱🥱

Edited by palmbeach1238 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#17
This is a wonderful post. We need to be more aware of these issues.
Later, I'm sure Maan will try and fix all of these problems.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This episode has brought out several issues that Indian society is facing :
Adults taking decision for 25 -30 year old - in lot of families I would say over 50% parents take decision for their 25-30 year old . I was managing in Gurgaon , 50% of applicants girls or boys when offered job would say I will ask my parents and confirm. made me wonder parents have to work or they. Here Beeji will make all decision, daraji made in case of Geet
. Right or wrong doesn't mater they don't give their own kids benefit of doubt. Of course it is not entirely there fault to behave the way they do, it's circumstances.

Acceptance of non-arranged marriage
- Geet still has fear of how her family will react to Luv affairs. She still remembers what happened in her village. It showed in her expression. She still thinks Maan is wrong for encouraging Lucky because in this small town individual doesn't make rules or decisions, Adults have only right to make decision. Lucky will not be able to stand for himself like Maan does.


Old outlook - In third part Geet is right how will you change peoples outlook that is not easy. We can change cloths cars , but changing outlook mentality is difficult. That is governed by the society you live in, it is influenced by people around you. We take decisions to suit other people because we always fear what they will think.

False Pride - To pay of Maan's loan they can go to another family member to borrow , wash dirty linen in public but they can't negotiate with him even if he doesn't mean any harm , false pride. Instead of working hard they are finding ways to borrow again. All for false ego.


Not accepting challenge and asking help -
Teji and Beeji are going for easy route for arranging money. This is last thing Maan considers as virtue. Maan noticed and pointed out in Geet when he first met her. She changed because of the encouragement he gave her. He did the same with his own brother, sis not support him , wanted him to stand on his feet and stand for himself but his brother took him wrong. Mann hates people seeking easy means to problem, he hated his brother for that. Now

Double standard, Beeji treats her bahu as MAID and sends her own daughter for date, this is another social issue in our society two standards one for own daughter another for your daughter-in-law. Maan's dadi treated Geet as her daughter. If son-in-law treats daughter with disrespect all hell breaks loose but her own son can treat his wife the way he wants or she wants. and dominATE

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is also one of the taboos of society, Maamaji has no means to earn but waste money on liquor. Very commonly found issue.


Over all very good episode.
Hey i do agree with u good job, i had think this but didnt got chance to write it
keep it up
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: palmbeach1238

Good Post!! 👏

There are also several issues to be considered here.
    As you can see from the various posts/discussions...the cvs are not getting these points across very successfully.😭 I got a few of them when I was watching the show..😳 ..but only got the others after you highlighted them in this post.😊
    The issue about the NRI fake marriage and the Pammi given different treatment were the only two glaring issues that most viewers were aware of.
    Is this because viewers are not used to seeing such hidden agendas in their shows..🤓...or is it that the message is so subtle that the cvs fail to get it across...is another question. 😔
    I do feel that the it is the second option here...at least in the current track...the issues they want to highlight...are totally ignored due to the OTT scenes we, the viewers are being subjected to.
    All we see is slap-stick comedy and a wife behaving very childishly and creating fights with her husband smacking him at every opportunity. 😡🥱
    Yes...there is a small message in here...that couples in India do not show overt affection towards each other in public...especially when they are living in an extended family. But surely this can be treated in another way in the show other than what I call spousal abuse.
    It is getting very irritating to watch. 😡 I hate to keep harping on the same issue...😉..but to date...they have not really followed up and completed the NRI fake marriage issue. 😡 Why highlight the issue if you are not going to show the final implications and closing of the loop by showing the consequences of such actions. 🤪

Also another point...quite a large number of viewers are overseas viewers and youngsters living in large cities in India. Unfortunately, some of the issues highlighted in the show...will not be very obvious to us....as we do not see it...or encounter in our daily lives. 😃 So some of the issues highlighted would obviously pass us by.😕...and our attitude is WYSIWYG (what you see...is what you get.) 🥱🥱


I don't agree with the people who are saying that Geet is behaving in a childish manner... Her anger is very much justified if you look it in a different context and scenario... She was angry with maan because he asked Lucky (from Geet's point of view he provked him )to say ILU to preeto... Though she herself choose Maan & entered in love marriage but she is still not sure whether Bejji would support love marriage or not... besides Dadi maa & rest of Maan's family has a very open attitude about love marriages and dating... but considering that Amritsar is a small town & people have a very traditional & sometimes orthodox kind of attitude, Geet's dilemma & confusion is justified... Plus her brother Tejjy is hot headed & considers this type of love making as a sham... To him love just doesn't exist... too mechanical... I don't know whether I'm becoming too harsh upon his character but this is what is coming out from his dialogues... Tejjy is very commanding type of a person who doesn't want to listen to people even if they are elders (like in previous episodes he didn't listen to beeji ) though he respects beeji, he sometimes goes against her wishes (he mortgaged the house against her will)... So Geet's point is also correct that it's very difficult to change people's views & this can't happen in a day... In that way Maan's POV is also correct that if their life style changes then everything is going to change... Just like education, interation with people and exposure to various things bring changes in the personality of a person...
Edited by misty85 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: misty85


I don't agree with the people who are saying that Geet is behaving in a childish manner... Her anger is very much justified if you look it in a different context and scenario... She was angry with maan because he asked Lucky (from Geet's point of view he provked him )to say ILU to preeto...My question here is...why does she not tell him this...instead of showing attitude. They have been shown in the older episodes...that they are capable of having an adult discussion/conversation. Why do the cvs need to reduce her to a girl who seems incapable of talking and treating her husband with the respect he deserves. Ouch Though she herself choose Maan & entered in love marriage but she is still not sure whether Bejji would support love marriage or not... besides Dadi maa & rest of Maan's family has a very open attitude about love marriages and dating... but considering that Amritsar is a small town & people have a very traditional & sometimes orthodox kind of attitude, Geet's dilemma & confusion is justified... Plus her brother Tejjy is hot headed & considers this type of love making as a sham... To him love just doesn't exist... too mechanical... I don't know whether I'm becoming too harsh upon his character but this is what is coming out from his dialogues... Tejjy is very commanding type of a person who doesn't want to listen to people even if they are elders (like in previous episodes he didn't listen to beeji ) though he respects beeji, he sometimes goes against her wishes (he mortgaged the house against her will)... So Geet's point is also correct that it's very difficult to change people's views & this can't happen in a day... In that way Maan's POV is also correct that if their life style changes then everything is going to change... Just like education, interation with people and exposure to various things bring changes in the personality of a person...I don't know why...but I feel one of the reasons that the Amritsar track was introduced was because they wanted to show an equal but opposite effect in the show. Earlier in the show...we had various cameos being introduced in the show to act as cupid for Maaneet. Now the opposite is happening...where Maaneet are now working as cupids for the other couples who have various issues in the show...equal but opposite effect.

Another reason for Amritsar track...equal but opposite events which occured in the Hoshiarpur track to be brought in Amritsar track. Ouch
The other reason for the Amritsar track is very basic...they needed the office sets for their new serial on Star Plus. 😆😆

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