Originally posted by: Sahil0225
Same question to Geet... why did she marry a guy who cant even control what he says about his own wife to others... whoz anger and ego is bigger than anything or anyone else...
Infact even after saying all he did and realising what he had said it took a sinner to bring him to his senses and realise his mistakes of saying those sentences about his own wife who he himself claim to honour more than anyone else... Bravo.
Its not easy to forgive someone who you love more than life itself especially when that someone once kept assuring her that for him she is the most honourable person and that nothing else matters... looks like somewhere subconsciously lot of things did matter to Maan and therefore those words came out so instantaneously...
And by the way how can you say Geet's tears are fake... does that mean Maan's faith in Geet and his claim that he honours Geet for what she is is fake as well... after all he didnt hesitate even a fraction of second before calling her bagairat and someone with safed khoon...
Ohh and another question... what does a wife do when her own hubby talks bad about her to other people... I wonder??
Well like always we have our own POVs and like always they differ...
BTW there is one thing I do agree on its high time CVs show that Geet is melting... and stop showing her this stubborn.. but I will wait and watch with regards to Maan being insulted and all and see wht exactly happens tom...
I agree...I know what Maan did was wrong...and I respected Geet for taking a stand at that time....I do believe that at that time she should have confronted Maan and then left....like she did when she thought Maan got Dev out of jail....that is the Geet we are looking for...that was the reaction I was looking for from Geet....leaving was fine...but not quietly....
Now one thing...Dev did not make Maan realize his mistake...he knew why Geet left. He knew that Geet left because of what he said...what he did not know, that Dev made him realize was why Geet forgave Dev...Dev did not make Maan realize what he said was wrong...Maan knew that...Dev made him realize that he misunderstood Geet's forgiving Dev...
I agreed with Geet up until now...as a woman and a wife...I don't even let my husband's brother say anything bad about my husband in front of me...forget my family....I may yell and scream and fight with my husband...but no one else is allowed to say anything to my husband in front of him...especially not insult him...and that is what is making me mad at Geet right now....what does a guy have to do to get forgiveness? And forget whether Geet forgives maan or not....how can she let anyone insult Maan the way Beeji, Teji, Lucky and even that idiot Lachhi....if he is a driver...voh kaun si ghar ki maalkin hai?
That is what I am disagreeing with....I agree she was upset and coming out of depression from MC, but now it is getting to be too much I think....
Geet has made mistakes in the past, which Maan forgives easily...in fact whenever Geet makes a mistake, somehow Maan always turns it around and makes it that she did what she did because of him....when she left him and insulted him in front of the staff and press, and she appologized, what did he do...he said he was sorry because he feels he isn't right for her....when she didn't tell him that she asked Dev to save Maan's life....she was supposed to apologize...but what happened...he ended up apologizing for what he said...why? Obviously if we get hurt by the words and actions of who we love...so think of Maan, he was hurt that Geet asked Dev for help so he said she should have let him die....no one was there....it was just them...but he became the bad guy....
I am not taking sides...like I said...I agreed with Geet...but I think its getting a little out of hand....she should at least speak up for her husband....
Maan did not say just anything bad.. my dear, he trashed his own wife's character to the worst possible extent by calling her someone without honour and questioning her integrity. Ek baar ek aurat, ek patni dusron ke muh se apni badnami seh bhi le but when your own husband, who at one point claimed that for him there was nothing more pavitra than her, questions the same integrity that he once said she had, it would break any wife and hurt her the worst possible way imaginable.
As for Geet not saying anything to her family members... well what about the fact that she is worried that if they come to know its Maan they might hurt him badly... She already knows frm her past experiences with her family that they often act before thinking and are ready to kill people at the drop of a hat... That is why Geet keeps asking Maan to leave cos she can not see the way he is being treated... it is hurting her to her Maan going through so much trouble. But also remember that the wounds tht Maan's words created are still sore and her mind is in self-preservation mode thus not allowing her to forgive Maan as her sub-concious will be thinking that what if this happens again... wht if I get hurt again? Its a natural reaction by a normal human being.
As for Dev and Maan bit I agree.. Maan had already realised that wht he said was wrong but he only came to know the full extent of his actions after Dev's conversation with him... My apologies for not being able to express that part very well in my previous post....
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