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Originally posted by: hamavand
Originally posted by luv-harshadHow much have the ruined geet's character,,,just how much..this girl who used to love maan more than her life is now shown so selfish who only wants maan to follow her every wish..n she herself doesn understand him..WHAT have they done to their love?? She leaves the home without confronting him, she is married n now will live in unknown family's home? How much more torture?? Will fans ever be heard of?? This track is ridiculous..dev shud have left KM..n geet who i know never wud leave like dat without confronting her feelings..n now no guilt is shown from her side??? WHY? Why have they ruined her character n now maan's too for being a typical lover boy? Oh god..how many times will we scream?? When will they listen??___________________________________________________________________________________
I agree that the turn of events has upset u a lot but I do not agree with ALL that u have written (referring to the underlined sections)first of all Geet cannot be called selfish...she has left KM because she feels that she has upset MSK this time by her forgiving actin a way that is beyond her expectations....also she did not want to increase the tension between all at KM ....so she would have decided to go away...knowing MSK will never forgive DSK...secondly MSK's choice of words were definitely wrong...he did not pause to think even for a minute WHY Geet did what she did do.....how could he forget that she has gone thru so much trauma losing the baby she risked so much to protect?.....just because he is man does not give him the prerogative to something anything that comes to his head without pausing to think what he is saying.......If u notice the FBs...when both are thinking of the good fun times they have had, it ends with both of them thinking back to those same words about blood...... MSK realised that in a fit of anger he has messed up everything...and Geet is of course too dazed to think straight right now.....one thing we must remeber that at this time she needed to be handled with love, care and understanding......instead of being taunted about her action.....The above is just my way of looking at the whole thing....Sorry if I have offended u by disagreeing with some of ur observations......
i think u hv wrongly interpreted geet, it has not been shown at all that she left becoz she thought she has upset maan,she left becoz of what maan said to her, but she should hv stayed and talked to him.and till now,geet has not even felt bad for her actions. and about geet's trauma, well we should not forget that maan was also in trauma, and geet shared her pains with maan,dadi-everyone but maan couldn't share it with anyone. i agree a mother is a mother but for that we definitely can't ignore a father's pain. maan's pain was no less than geet but he tried to forget his pain to help geet come out of the trauma.the poor guy always shed tears when he was alone, and the worst part is that he is doing that even now, and he had every right to be angry after seeing geet allow dev to touch her-but such is his goodness and so immense is his love for geet that he repented instantly but as per the ongoing track,it does seem that geet's love for maan is certainly not at the same level,if it was, she just could not walk out of his life in a moment,and she has actually decided to walk out for ever-becoz as far as i see,she has no intentions of ever coming back-sorry,but that is not love?she could forget her self respect before dev, but suddenly she remembers it for maan,and its greater than her love for maan?no,it does not work out that way in real life.wives do not leave their husbands in this way.but,yes,worse arguements can happen.i hv to say that maan's love for geet is far more than geet's love for maan-it always was, and it still is.
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