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The problem lies in the expectations of some people--

Originally posted by: Lip-a-Licious

Hmmm not sure about infidelity 🤔

In my humble opinion, Geet is a chaarcter that holds her self-respect and integrity in high regards...

I just don't understand why she had a relapse during the infamous Geet-Dev holi scene !!!! If you completely ignore the unholy holi scene then her leaving the house makes sense in response to Maan's outburst ....

but it's hard to ignore such a scene, which is why i'm confused 😕

geet-dev scene in holi is the only one thing proving her wrong today. If such scene was edited, the story would have been different. Yes I agree till that scene geet was the women with high morals and self respect........But that one scene toatlly damaged her character and nade viewers confused about why is she leaving the house? If she leaves for her self respect.........then the question will be what about that scene.............................oh god..........it became too complicated now

Originally posted by: ninand

The problem lies in the expectations of some people--

Dev- rapist, was and always will be.

Maan- saint, was, always will be.

Geet- victim wrt Dev, indebted damsel wrt Maan , was, always will be.

If you guys have been following the series why cant you see wht I have seen?

Geet cannot always think of Dev elementally as a rapist. The character of Dev has developed a lot since then--

--- He realized his crime , actually surrendered, wanting to atone for it.

--- Left them alone when Maan didnt pursue the case..

--- saved Maans life..

Now , for Daadi she was forced to accept him back in the house, but she ignored him completely.

Still the fact remains hes in the house living with them. She has just overcome her grief of loosing her child, and suddenly realized she needs to get their life on track... why admist all this pain must she also carry on being bitter?

As for Maan.. is she supposed to worship him , or love him as a woman loves a man? WHy should she always have to compare what Dev did and then remember what Maan did and then decide.. thats absolutely ridiculous and very cold on part of people to expect so!

Just cuz Dev did what he did in the past doesnt mean, she should forgive Maan for everything he ever does or say cuz it would neva be as heinous as what Dev did!

Dev shouldnt / doesnt figure in their lives right? Maan also believes that right? so then why shouldnt she be hurt by what Maan says, irrespective of Devs crime? wheres the justice in that?

Its shocking to see that people still put Maan on a pedestal and expect Geet to kill herself proving all the time that she is deserving of his generosity!

WHat Maan said was an outcome of repressed anger and confusion... but it was hurtful nonetheless... very very very demeaning. and Geet is right to be struck badly by it. Dev doesnt matter to her, Maan does.

So we can understand where Maan is coming from, please try and understand her too. and dont always weigh everything Maan does against Dev's crime. Its very unjust to Geet.

Originally posted by: Lip-a-Licious

By the way I found the whole safed khoon, white blood remark a bit odd...

can someone please shed a bit of light on that...

what does the white blood comment mean?????

As you can tell i'm a highly confused viewer today 😆

he meant dat his khoon is khoon and
geet's khoon is paani
coz instead of bringing tsunami
she forgave devil wid so much asaani...............😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


on a serious note he meant dat dere is self respect overflowing in his blood and he cant forgive/forget if sum1 turns his life upside down after creating a havoc but geet might have forgotten all dat devilish crimes ..............he was being sarcastic i guess.....................
dats why he later on asked na dat wat great work dev has done so dat she forgave him so easily.............

Originally posted by: ninand

The problem lies in the expectations of some people--

Dev- rapist, was and always will be.

Maan- saint, was, always will be.

Geet- victim wrt Dev, indebted damsel wrt Maan , was, always will be.

If you guys have been following the series why cant you see wht I have seen?

Geet cannot always think of Dev elementally as a rapist. The character of Dev has developed a lot since then--

--- He realized his crime , actually surrendered, wanting to atone for it.

--- Left them alone when Maan didnt pursue the case..

--- saved Maans life..

Now , for Daadi she was forced to accept him back in the house, but she ignored him completely.

Still the fact remains hes in the house living with them. She has just overcome her grief of loosing her child, and suddenly realized she needs to get their life on track... why admist all this pain must she also carry on being bitter?

As for Maan.. is she supposed to worship him , or love him as a woman loves a man? WHy should she always have to compare what Dev did and then remember what Maan did and then decide.. thats absolutely ridiculous and very cold on part of people to expect so!

Just cuz Dev did what he did in the past doesnt mean, she should forgive Maan for everything he ever does or say cuz it would neva be as heinous as what Dev did!

Dev shouldnt / doesnt figure in their lives right? Maan also believes that right? so then why shouldnt she be hurt by what Maan says, irrespective of Devs crime? wheres the justice in that?

Its shocking to see that people still put Maan on a pedestal and expect Geet to kill herself proving all the time that she is deserving of his generosity!

WHat Maan said was an outcome of repressed anger and confusion... but it was hurtful nonetheless... very very very demeaning. and Geet is right to be struck badly by it. Dev doesnt matter to her, Maan does.

So we can understand where Maan is coming from, please try and understand her too. and dont always weigh everything Maan does against Dev's crime. Its very unjust to Geet.

i agree with each and every point. Plz throw some light on geet-dev scene also. I will be relieved from the sadness mixed confusion. Selfrespect - where is it when she allowed dev to touch her? plz give ur POV on that because iam unable to think after watching that scene

Any women who have self respect will never let touch herself by the person who cheat (rape) her, make her pregnant and left her.... good that she forgive him to start a fresh.. that does not mean she let that cheat to apply color/touch her and in reply she was smiling ....so its obvious that her husband will be hurt to the core.

What she did (I mean the cv;s made her to do) ...she was in her sense.... but what Maan did, he was over taken by anger.

I must say the idea of hurting self-respect showed is very selective, when dev romances her (I mean puts colors on her) it does not hurt her self respect, but when her husband ask her about why she forgive dev and let him touch her.... then it hurts her self-respect... what a pathetic idea 🤣

So I feel that the cv's are trying to convince us to digest their crap idea....but I'm sorry I do not like their logic and idea for this separation and MU at all.


Its my personal view. Not to hurt any one.

Originally posted by: pooja83

he meant dat his khoon is khoon and
geet's khoon is paani
coz instead of bringing tsunami
she forgave devil wid so much asaani...............😆


on a serious note he meant dat dere is self respect overflowing in his blood and he cant forgive/forget if sum1 turns his life upside down after creating a havoc but geet might have forgotten all dat devilish crimes ..............he was being sarcastic i guess.....................
dats why he later on asked na dat wat great work dev has done so dat she forgave him so easily.............

Its simple....you dont have self respect ..........safed khoon means no self respect.................But I think she has no self respect..........what she did was................no self respect........thing

Originally posted by: jwalamukhi

i agree with each and every point. Plz throw some light on geet-dev scene also. I will be relieved from the sadness mixed confusion. Selfrespect - where is it when she allowed dev to touch her? plz give ur POV on that because iam unable to think after watching that scene

@ria-sengupta.. @ jwala-mukhi...