what self respect... pssssshhh

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Posted: 14 years ago
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See I don't understand this, a lot of people are arguing that Geet left the house in response to Maan's outburst becuase she holds her self-respect and integrity in high regards....

But where the hell did this self-respect go when she allowed Dev (the Man who stripped her of her self respect in front of the world and left her to die at the airport) to apply colour on her !!!!!
I honestly don't know what to say... i'm confused !!!!!
Sure Maan was wrong to question her integrity and self-respect in the way that he did, but considering the infamous holi scene between Dev and Geet, I can't really say I blame the guy!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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See, Even my grandma couldn't get why Geet was leaving at all.
I told her the whole story and then she said, that Maan was not only correct but less in saying that to geet.
If some other person wouls have been in his place, he must have surely blamed Geet for infidelity. That's it.
Maan said whatever was not wrong. Geet lacks self-respect and this is the proven truth now.😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mg777

See, Even my grandma couldn't get why Geet was leaving at all.

I told her the whole story and then she said, that Maan was not only correct but less in saying that to geet.
If some other person wouls have been in his place, he must have surely blamed Geet for infidelity. That's it.
Maan said whatever was not wrong. Geet lacks self-respect and this is the proven truth now.😡

Hmmm not sure about infidelity 🤔
In my humble opinion, Geet is a chaarcter that holds her self-respect and integrity in high regards...
I just don't understand why she had a relapse during the infamous Geet-Dev holi scene !!!! If you completely ignore the unholy holi scene then her leaving the house makes sense in response to Maan's outburst ....
but it's hard to ignore such a scene, which is why i'm confused 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bravo Girl!

Though i don't see Maan wrong be it in tone or choice of words he used but that does not mean i'm not sad for Geet i'm .....


Well as a woman i lost my respect for Geet seeing her not alone forgive but forget what Dev did to her...moving on & letting go of past is one thing but forgetting every bit of it as it seemed by her action of smiling & allowing Dev to touch her & she herself did the tilak & acknowledged his wishes its totally disgusting ...

which man of self respect & integrity can tolerate the man who had treated his wife once as nothing but flesh & rag today being allowed to touch her & she instead of cringing is accepting him on a friendly note .....

Any other man in his shoes could have questioned not alone on her self respect but fidelity ... but its not just any man but Maan so he dint do that but question her how can she ever forget such an act as Dev's


Sure she is hurt & i'm sad but to me Maan was right in questioning her self respect & honor

her walking out to me is not her show of self respect but her lack of understanding that what he said & did again was not to boast his ego, his pride but his suppressed cry at all the pain that she had suffered coz of Dev



Edited by nanditasingh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lip-a-Licious

Hmmm not sure about infidelity 🤔
In my humble opinion, Geet is a chaarcter that holds her self-respect and integrity in high regards...
I just don't understand why she had a relapse during the infamous Geet-Dev holi scene !!!! If you completely ignore the unholy holi scene then her leaving the house makes sense in response to Maan's outburst ....
but it's hard to ignore such a scene, which is why i'm confused 😕




Simple Hai Dimaag Kharab Ho Gaya Hai Writer Ka Jissne Geet Ke character ka satyanash kar diya 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agreed with you with the self respect view completely ............it was so aweful to watch Dev playing Holi with geet...............She lost the self respect point there itself !BTW why she always put all this in front of Maan?When she can forgive n forget what Dev did then why to react so much to leave him where he did nt say that extreme also.CVs this is ur take now.

But I dont think Maan questioned her integrity at all?All he asked how could she forgave Dev who did so wrong with her?Even if he's his bro still he couldnt forgive the sin but how could she forget?And he asked only bcoz he thought that may be Dev is trying to make geet obliged to him coz he donated blood to him............thats what even shown in his self dialogues.He neva questioned her integrity !
He neva wanted Geet to be obliged to a person who had done so wrong with her !Thats his love for his lady..............eternal.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nanditasingh


Bravo Girl!

Though i don't see Maan wrong be it in tone or choice of words he used but that does not mean i'm not sad for Geet i'm .....


Well as a woman i lost my respect for Geet seeing her not alone forgive but forget what Dev did to her...moving on & letting go of past is one thing but forgetting every bit of it as it seemed by her action of smiling & allowing Dev to touch her & she herself did the tilak & acknowledged his wishes its totally disgusting ...

which man of self respect & integrity can tolerate the man who had treated his wife once as nothing but flesh & rag today being allowed to touch her & she instead of cringing is accepting him on a friendly note .....

Any other man in his shoes could have questioned not alone on her self respect but fidelity ... but its not just any man but Maan so he dint do that but question her how can she ever forget such an act as Dev's


Sure she is hurt & i'm sad but to me Maan was right in questioning her self respect & honor

her walking out to me is not her show of self respect but her lack of understanding that what he said & did again was not to boast his ego, his pride but his suppressed cry at all the pain that she had suffered coz of Dev



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mg777

See, Even my grandma couldn't get why Geet was leaving at all.

I told her the whole story and then she said, that Maan was not only correct but less in saying that to geet.
If some other person wouls have been in his place, he must have surely blamed Geet for infidelity. That's it.
Maan said whatever was not wrong. Geet lacks self-respect and this is the proven truth now.😡

@Mg777, please dont use word like infidelity so casually..Its a very abusive accuse.. very serious one.. Its not good idea.. you dont agree with what some one did, thats fine, you can raise your points, but try to avoid to be so harsh beyond certain level..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnuN

@Mg777, please dont use word like infidelity so casually..Its a very abusive accuse.. very serious one.. Its not good idea.. you dont agree with what some one did, thats fine, you can raise your points, but try to avoid to be so harsh beyond certain level..

Thanks a lot for teh advice.😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mg777

Thanks a lot for teh advice.😳

You are so sweet.. .Did you get my PM too?

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