what self respect... pssssshhh - Page 3

Originally posted by: pooja83

why double standards of forgiveness..................??????
rapist can b forgiven but a genuine query of maan leads her to leave him.......😕

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Sad isn't it !

Not double standards alone ..its always been about only her...
first she dint want to forgive him & assuming Maan has forgiven she accused , insulted & walked out on him publically
Now she has forgiven & Maan's opinion does not count too..if it did then she could have talked to him than do it on her own..

Then she plays holi with him, her first holi after wedding & yet again Maan is expected to just 'understand' .....

Originally posted by: kuls11

I understood...............I understood her plight....being women.....if their was any plight with one garirt statement...........But I dint understand........... why not forgive and forget ..theory with one statement. that hurt ur pseudo selfrespect......(which comes and goes in seconds) .of ur hurband..........who stayed there with u all ur lowss..............gave u respect........in front of whole world...................even when u insulted him in media.............Fought for you..saved your life.......
.....
Why special forgive forget ........concession to Rapist Dev............who raped ur soul...........ur life...........ur body..........left you on airport for dying............raped selfrespect.......
..when you can play holi with guy who ripped ur self respect........

....you cannot forgive man who stood by you whenever u needed him.....from you unlimited attempts to save ur life.......(but can forgive who left u on airport to die at hand of your conservative parents )

not the one Saved ur self respect from ripping from saair fiasco....to last Brij one on marriage.......(but can forgve who left you with bruised self respect)

not the one who Not slept you with for ur own sake and ur baby sake after legal marriage.........( but can forgive who slept with you for one night pleasure on pretext of fake marriage)

not the one Who showed you right path of fight and win when he was not even with you...........( but can fiorgive who dont even know what is right....for him raping a girl and than repenting and interfering in her life is right)


WHY ......special concession to man in bracket.......why no consideration to....one who stood by you..............

Originally posted by: kuls11

I understood...............I understood her plight....being women.....if their was any plight with one garirt statement...........But I dint understand........... why not forgive and forget ..theory with one statement. that hurt ur pseudo selfrespect......(which comes and goes in seconds) .of ur hurband..........who stayed there with u all ur lowss..............gave u respect........in front of whole world...................even when u insulted him in media.............Fought for you..saved your life.......
.....
Why special forgive forget ........concession to Rapist Dev............who raped ur soul...........ur life...........ur body..........left you on airport for dying............raped selfrespect.......
..when you can play holi with guy who ripped ur self respect........

....you cannot forgive man who stood by you whenever u needed him.....from you unlimited attempts to save ur life.......(but can forgive who left u on airport to die at hand of your conservative parents )

not the one Saved ur self respect from ripping from saair fiasco....to last Brij one on marriage.......(but can forgve who left you with bruised self respect)

not the one who Not slept you with for ur own sake and ur baby sake after legal marriage.........( but can forgive who slept with you for one night pleasure on pretext of fake marriage)

not the one Who showed you right path of fight and win when he was not even with you...........( but can fiorgive who dont even know what is right....for him raping a girl and than repenting and interfering in her life is right)


WHY ......special concession to man in bracket.......why no consideration to....one who stood by you..............

Originally posted by: pooja83

bang on kul................
u said it all...................i m not not blind maan/geet supporter...................but i dare to call spade a spade...................

earlier i used to overlook her mistakes as geet is 18 and immature ..................but dis time it diesnt fit anywhere.................she uses all her maturity to forgive dev .............i can bet no immature person who has gone through such a hell will forgive such a person............dis forgiveness requires a lot of maturity and inner strength...................................so why only maan is subjected to face consequences of her immature/childish nature?

couldnt she use her maturity and try to clear d air...............she could have yelled at maan or given him a piece of her mind but why to leave him proving dat he is culprit though dere is no fault of him...........

who husband wid self respect can see his wife suddenly forgiving her exand her rapist and playing holi wid him?..................i bet no1 can

Originally posted by: pooja83

bang on kul................
u said it all...................i m not not blind maan/geet supporter...................but i dare to call spade a spade...................

earlier i used to overlook her mistakes as geet is 18 and immature ..................but dis time it diesnt fit anywhere.................she uses all her maturity to forgive dev .............i can bet no immature person who has gone through such a hell will forgive such a person............dis forgiveness requires a lot of maturity and inner strength...................................so why only maan is subjected to face consequences of her immature/childish nature?

couldnt she use her maturity and try to clear d air...............she could have yelled at maan or given him a piece of her mind but why to leave him proving dat he is culprit though dere is no fault of him...........

who husband wid self respect can see his wife suddenly forgiving her exand her rapist and playing holi wid him?..................i bet no1 can

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

thank u, my point exactly.