Double Standard Geet - Page 2

Yes Geet is pregnant and for any mother or mother-to-be her baby is upmost. But I still can't believe she asked Maan to give her a promise that he would save the baby if he had to choose.

I had perfectly understood Geet's point of view. But at the time I had desperately wanted to ask her a question - what would her decision be if she was in Maan's place? God forbid but if a time came where it was either say her baby or her husband who would she save. To be faced with a situation like this would be like dying a thousand death every second. Whether a mother or a father, a husband or a wife to have to choose who lives - someone who you love and has a physical presence in your world or someone you love but doesnt yet have a physical presence in your world. Would you chose death for a person who is alive and will have to experience the sensation of dying or someone who is alive but yet unable to experience the sensation of living. Yes the baby in a mother's womb after a few initial weeks of concievement is alive because it has a form, a heart that beats. But is it the same as a beating heart of your wife or husband. A mother always has a stronger bond with the baby when it is in her womb. But how can a mother forget that the baby also has a father. No wonder Maan felt so guilty afterwards. But to tell you the truth... if I had to chose between my child and my hubby... would I be able to take a decision. I think like Maan I would have blurted out my partner's name cos yes children are precious and I would die a thousand death afterwards but to me my hubby is the most important and precious being in this world. I would actually wish God would take me instead any one of them

And that is why when it came to Maan's life Geet did whatever was needed to save him. Yes there are some drastic differences in the 2 situations. For once Geet had it comparatively easy. Because even though she had to beg in front of the person who betrayed her in the worst possible way did she have to choose between the 2 most precious loves of her life. Did she have to choose life for one and death for another. No. In the end she still has her lover, her husband next to her, to love her, support her, comfort her.

Mind you in no way am I saying Maan was right in the manner he behaved today. For a husband to say that to his wife, I cant even imagine the hurt that Geet must have felt. Yes, Maan was wrong in saying those hurtful words to Geet, but another drastic difference between the 2 situations is that Maan said those words in anger. Which means he was not in his senses but Geet had said those words in full knowledge of what it would do to Maan to have to choose the Baby instead of her life. And again I would like to stress I perfectly understand Geet's point of view with regards to her Baby.

Originally posted by: delhigirl

No you are mistaking what I am saying. She was absoultely right in saving maan. She has to, any wife will do the same. What maan said to her was very harsh. but if geet had left it at the two statements that how could he say that to her and what wrong she did. i also agree with her statement that he did not think about what she went through in his anger. however, i completely disagree with her saying that he is no longer the same man and that he has changed. That she and the baby are not a priorty for him Thise were wrong statements.

She was wrong in hiding the truth from him in the first place whatever the situation. I also do not agree with her behaving as if dev can be forgiven for what dev did with her, just because he donated blood. I actually applaud maan for hating that man. However, I also wish that maan did not say that one line to her "about letting him die'.

Totally agree... what ever the reason hiding the truth especially from your husband or wife is the worst possible mistake someone can commit. After all most relationships are based on trust. Like Maan had said in yest episode. The truth however hurtful when told straightaway will hurt the person you love or they might get angry but atleast the trust will remain. When you start hiding facts even if its for their wellbeing misunderstandings arise leading to further complications just as we have seen in Maan-Geet's case.

I also dont understand why Geet is feeling so indebted to Dev suddenly. Its not like Dev saved Maan because she begged him to. Dev loves Maan and we all know that. In fact even Geet knows that. Dev gave some blood to save a brother he loves. So why the sudden indebtedness and forgiving all attitude. I can still understand the debt bit but forgiveness for someone you claim has destroyed your life in the worst possible way... why? I can still understand if it was NT cos frankly however deranged she is she did not ask Dev to sleep with Geet. That was Dev and only Dev's sin. So in my eyes Dev is a much bigger culprit.