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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bDgT

Viji: I absolutely love your PG 33 analysis of Geet's reactions - yes, it feels like rejection and that may be MSK is regretting his decision of marrying her to a person caught in this web aka GEET and there is nothing wrong in her questions

As to MSK, he is confused and helpless in handling it, which is absolutely realistic as men do tend to avoid the issue and try to escape facing issues that are all important in personal relationships - they drag it till the bitter end or till they are pushed into decision making. So MSK is acting true to type and our MSK more so, as anger is his answer to his helplessness.

Brilliant written kyuki this is whats the scenario and there are acting just the way anyone would in such a situation

BUT THE ISSUE I HAVE are as follows as I said in message to one of our friends:

Showing MSK as not taking matters into his hands by reading a book about pregnancy, or consulting a super specialist or with all his wealth flying her to UK for a special check up but acting so helpless is beyond me

Yes they are making him looks silly and that def not serve the purpose rather it gets things worse...But maybe today we will witness what the actual reason is...or maybe another turn of events





Thanks Bri....🤗


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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rickks

@ aditi...I haven't read your entire post but what i have replied is based on pretext of both the EVENTS which by no means is the same...So basically i was Just stating facts

there is one similarity...this time geet doesnt know y maan is doing this....that time maan did not know that geet did not hear the entire convo...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Nargis--



Totally agreed Bri....lekin muje lagta ke filhal, Maan ki akal ghaas char ne gayi hai!!! I mean really...there are so many proactive thing he can be doping right now instead of being dogged down by this whole physical proximity thing. I mean...really what is the issue here? Up until now, he has been able to be close to her and still refrain from the deed...so what has changed so much in day...just now that he is a legally wedded husband? I don't get it...are his hormones so much more raging now that he is married, then during the RTM sequence, when he had iron clad control???



Nags What if there is more to this than what the eyes can meet??But whatsoever that one reason may be it better be BEST....something logically explaining Maan's actions and spare him the wrath of his doings😊
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

there is one similarity...this time geet doesnt know y maan is doing this....that time maan did not know that geet did not hear the entire convo...



Maan did not know that Geet did not hear the entire convo, but her one question Did He bail Dev out??? gave he the idea where she was getting this from .....So he had a jist of the happening....He was not entirely Oblivious......Here she knows NOTHING at all... she is totally OBLIVIOUS and hence no similarity.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

trust and understanding r very important in every relationship...i admit geet doesnt know the reason behind maan's outburst...but if she trusts him...then she shud know that there must be a genuine reason behind this...



I hope that when you say trust and understanding are very important in every relationship, you are saying it for both MAN AND GEET coz a relationship needs minimum of TWO people to make one.....

If he had stopped by telling "That he Gets Happiness to see her Cry" etc etc and leave i am sure Geet would have been shocked but it would give make her thing what made him utter those words...

But when he said those last words, i wonder in such a situation will anybody have the power to sit and think that there must be a grave reason behind it...one loses that capacity totally...and here she already comes from the sham of marriage....his words can give dimension altogether
to another reasoning.

If Geet has to trust Maan, Maan should make her realize that he is worthy of her trust.....And by this I AM NOT SAYING Maan has never done this....He has done this, NO DOUBTS.... but TRUST is like a GLASS CASTLE....one stone hurdled at it right on target and it could come done shattering/Crumbling......So his lasts words would they have not acted as catalyst to ignite a crack in her TRUST.....
???


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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: lovetheserial

Dear gals from the idiot club,
Conflict Management and Straight-Jacket Confrontation - Take a cue from Geet

👏👏👏👏👏 I like the sound of that 😆
I feel elated hoping the end result would be Maan hugging Geet when she cries. Gosh ! But the reality check - Seeing Geet sad makes me cry😭. Maan is such a nincompoop that he can't sit this darling down and tell her what worries him. Confidentiality is the name of the game in marriage. Including trust and love. When she has this slight thought of Maan not loving her flash through her brain, she confronts Maan with it. I need to remind Maan that 'being a man of few words' is as attractive as the 'angry man' image, but nothing at the cost of his wife's tears. Really, Maan's lessons in life is self-taught but here he has to learn from his wife about 'conflict management' and 'confrontational attitude'👍🏼 for the sake of peace and love within the family.
Love you Maan❤️ but take a cue from your wife. She's big time. Don't loose her. Her attitude is an asset to Kingdoms and Business Empires that make a mark in this world. Management studies if you please !! Maan.
Cheers.




AL....you truly are the queen of WORDS....You have said all that one has to say about yesterday's episode in this short simple TAKE......

As written to Nags Yesterday, " Even though Geet Internalized everything, when she was Upset, she did not jump to conclusions....she made it a point to confront Maan about what was the reason he was behaving strangely???"

And she has maintained this always, and this always helps😊
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

well....its high time geet shows how big hearted she is....so far we hv seen the size of maan's heart...he accepted her pregnancy....he sent his own bro to jail for her....he enjoyed watching the baby during sonography widout a frown...
and last but not the least geet had once humiliated maan in front of his BOD and his staff and in front of the journalists...but maan forgave everything....
its time now geet learns to forgive too....words can hurt...if maan's words can hurt geet...then vice versa too....wen geet humiliated maan on the black friday...it had hurt maan too....
well...if this forum contains supporters of maan (i wont use the word sucker...as i hate slang lang)...then i dont see any lesser number of supporter of geet...if there r ppl who wont watch geet widout maan then i am sure there r ppl here who wont watch the show widout geet....
its one thing to express ur POV...but its another thing to say that others r wrong....
MAAN IS MAHAAN....maybe or maybe not....but one has the right to express her POV...if u think u r rite...thatz absolutely fine....but then ppl who dont share ur views r not wrong too....
i wont reply on this topic further...because the debate will never end...at the end of the day it is maneet who r the pillars of this show...neither maan nor geet alone can sustain the show....
there is no relationship where there is no pain...love hurts...i hv seen ppl crossing all limit in anger and telling things which they never mean to their partners....but i hv seen those same relationships stronger than many others....because it is love that counts...in anger ppl say many things which r unpardonable....but if there is true love....then everything can be forgiven...love teaches u to forgive....
in love if there is pain then there is forgiveness too....maan inflicted pain that doesnt mean he doesnt love her....so if geet forgives him then that doesnt mean she is epitome of generosity...
one day maan forgave her...i wont say he has done something great....forgiving is just the way of accepting the painful side of love....



you are right Aditi its one thing to state your point its other thing....to state that your point is wrong...everyone has their brain to think....and their own decision to see things .....its not that all think like you..They are not suppose to think like you.......I agree to it completely.......
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Posted: 14 years ago
I was Just watching the episode once again....and here is something i think...

Geet says "You wanna stay away from me fine, i will not come close

Maan Mouths " Nahi Geet"

Geet Continues "You can go wherever your please and sleep wherever you please", "How many dreams you had shown me, how many hopes you had given me...I felt after marriage i could always be with you, stay close to you" etc etc

Maan Says" I am sorry Geet, i know you are hurt, but trust me i am also not liking what i am doing"

Geet " She understand the plight, she sees it on his face and continues Further "If you know i am hurt. if this entire thing is hurting you, why are you doing this?? What the helplessness you are facing, Please tell me Maan"

Maan Keeps Mum and is confused, his ANGUISH is PALPABLE


I wonder why most of the time we fail to realize Ki GEET is a SMART Woman.....Would she not have noticed that what Maan is trying to hide is something and he can't open it to her.....

So she tries by asking him "Dont you love me anymore???" and did nothing wrong by asking him, first of all its his indifference from the day of SR that has made her ask this question and 2nd for a MAN who she believes Loves her More than anything, she thought he would RETORT by saying "NO" and then go on to say the reason

Maan being Maan, who is shrewd knows where she is heading to, he starts to think...His calculative side gets a better hold of him and he retorts in ANGER a mask he knows is not easily readable....

Both Geet and Maan's shows exemplary Behavior....Till now they have reached the brim of the Glass...So far so Good

But Maan takes it a step Further and drops the ICE, causing the contents to Spill, was it really Necessary???? Or is there something I all fail to SEE???

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rickks



Waah meri Jaan....Muaaaahhhh.....for the Last Underlined Part...Kash Ki sab aaisa hi sochte



Amu.. agree with you!! Watch as a viewer & comment as a viewer!!👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rickks



Nags What if there is more to this than what the eyes can meet??But whatsoever that one reason may be it better be BEST....something logically explaining Maan's actions and spare him the wrath of his doings😊



Nags: RTM sequence... somwhere back of their minds they knew... it would'nt be right to lose control... bt post marriage... if they hold back... it raises too many questions & doubts... & Maan in his Maan never realizes what is he doing... he keeps thinking its for her benefit. bt instead hurt her thru other means

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