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Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

Muniza di- yes i agree with u......geet knows how to push the right buttons on Maan....and i feel she confronting him was absolutely correct...she has every right to ask him.....but she knows his anger....and when he told her that it is heard for him too.......she should have understood.......she asked him again which again is right..... but she should have stopped when she knew that his mood was going bad....she should have stopped as well...

so here i feel both were at fault.....as well...

very well said di

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

where is maan wrong....this is my analysis....

it is futile blaming anyone of them...both r victims of circumstances which cud be avoided with proper communication....

imagine how hard it was for maan just few mins before he was about to wed his beloved geet to hear that he cant get intimate with her....there goes his dream of a fairytale beginning of his marriage to geet...

but for him everything comes down to geet's happiness and her safety...for that he is always prepared to face any sort of pain inflicted on him by fate....

on SR...he momentarily succumbs to his desire to be one with geet...but just at the height of passion he recalls the doc's words and restrains himself from going further...he is hurt, he is anguished but what was foremost in his mind was to protect geet...

from then on he began to keep away from her...he avoided all closeness with her, he avoided being lovey-dovery with her...for the simple fact that if he lets down his guard even for a little while...he may not be able to stop himself from sleeping with her...and that is the last thing he wants to do at the moment wen geet's health is at peril....

he was wrong because by doing this he is putting geet under undue stress...his motive is to protect her from stress but in the process he is hurting her more....

and on top of that wen geet confronts him with questions regarding his strange behaviour he uses his age old technique of shielding himself from further queries by hurting her more by his harsh and brutal words...

again he is wrong...because he feels he is saving her from a greater pain...wat is greater pain and wat is lesser pain....he thinks he can define this for her but here again he is wrong....

no doubt he is hurting himself on the way...but maan always aims for the goal no matter wat path he has to take....but he must realise that every path cannot take him to his goal....it is up to him to choose the right path....

Originally posted by: muniza75

I am agree with you, whatever he did it was for Geet welfare, for her protection, but in this process he stressed her mentally....She was already in dilemma by his behaviour, and now moreover he accused her by saying that he gave her respect, made her DIL of Khurana Pariwar, and gave all luxuries....How one girl would feel? was she married with him for his money? Is she NT? I know he didnt meant to, but he had no idea what he had said? Sad very sad...I am not angry with him, cause i understand his pain as well, but he took wrong way to explain her....

Muniza

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

at last geet confronted him...was waiting for this...well BDs again...but nywyz since this scene was all about expressions and not touches...so its ok....and wat expression...GC and DD at their best specially GC was outstanding...

every word that maan spoke were daggers in his own heart and the pain oozed out of his eyes....now its upto geet whether she will believe his words or will believe the pain in his eyes....

love is strange...it gives u all sorts of pain and tears....but still we run after love like nothing is more important in life....

maan first tries to explain to her y he is behaving like this and how much he is getting hurt himself..

and this confuses geet further and she asks him y then he is behaving like this....and she concludes that he doesnt love her anymore (damn tv programs)

nothing cud be further from the truth and that is wat maan tried to say with his eyes...

he cud no more bear the pain....

and he burst out like never before....MSK formula applied again...wenever he wants to distance himself from geet....he hurts her so that geet herself moves away from him....

he told her that he loves to see her in pain and he loves to see her tears....the very things he has always tried to keep away from her with his life....i wish geet will later be able to read between the lines...

geet : i am craving to be with u all the time and u r always finding excuses to avoid me....

is it because maan u dont love me anymore....wat hv i done to lose my place in ur heart...

and maan pours out his frustration and so long suppressed pain in words....and wenever he wants to hurt her he always says those things which r miles away from truth....

i remember in outhouse on the second day maan in his zeal to throw geet out of his house blamed her for coming after his money...

and this time too he used the same tactics...he always uses words which hurts the most...and he says that he has given her a life of comfort and luxury and so she shud be satisfied wid dat....

the pain in maan's eyes was apparent...he was bleeding from inside but he did not hv the guts to say the truth....he thinks the pain that she is feeling now is nothing compared to wat she will feel once she knows about the inevitable abortion...

its strange na...how we intend to calculate pain of others....maan thinks geet will overcome this pain but will be shattered on hearing the news of abortion...

but wat if the pain he is inflicting now will lead to abortion....very often we in zest to protect our loved ones from the clutches of pain....often end up doing more harm than gud....

but this time maan spoke a lot of words which if pondered later on....geet shud be knowing that maan is hurting her to save her from another pain....

maan first says that he feels happy to see her tears....and then he grabs her and says "happy now? this is wat u wanted to hear, rite?"

which leads to the meaning that maan said those harsh words because geet wants to hear them....

herein geet shud realise that maan never meant those words because he knows geet never wants to hear such things...

and then maan says that he has given her respectful life, luxurious life...but after that maan contradicts himself by saying that he is not going to give any answers to geet's questions...

this last sentence has made it clear that so far the painful things he said r not the responses that geet were looking for....

barry has again done a wonderful job...he gave dialogues to maan which has played a dual role of hurting geet and also keeping loopholes for geet to grab to know that maan has not meant a single word....

previously wen geet realised that it was not maan who released dev and NT from jail...she told him that he is trying to prove himself bad to protect her from getting hurt...

i am hoping that there will be no MU...because this is not the first time maan has hurt her so brutally....and everytime geet cud eventually see that maan was actually protecting her from a bigger pain...

today is the test of how much geet has known maan in all the time that she has spent with him....

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

i wrote the same things muni....i meant every word i said...i wrote this post to highlight where maan is wrong...

as for the exact words he used like he gave her izzatdar life, luxurious life, khurana name....i dont want to go into that because i refuse to judge things by face value...

maan did not mean those words and geet shud know that because this is not the first time that maan used this technique to hurt her....i agree....i repeat i agree that he is wrong...saying such hurtful things even if he doesnt mean them is wrong...

but geet has to accept maan like this....if he is gud, generous, honest, devoted lover....on the other side he is a flawed man who wen angry or upset says disastrous things...

since this negative side of maan was not hidden from geet...it was exposed long back on 2nd day in outhouse...so geet knows wat kind of person she is marrying...

i agree that doesnt mean she wont feel hurt...but to judge maan by words which he did not mean is wrong too..

personally i see the actual motive of a person's deeds....even i hv been hurt by my close ones and i hv hurt many too....but eventually wen i find out that they were actually trying to hide some other painful fact from me...i had no choice but to forgive them....

frankly i am a more forgiving person....for me my own pain is less important than a relationship...and so i view things that way....

Originally posted by: LavZ

Helo phamily.....🤗

so hws da super saturdy treatin u all?!😛

she will realize it soon maan