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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rickks



Thanks Nags but unfortunately only a minority thinks this way, i know the saying goes "TO EACH THEIR OWN" but i just wish people would stop being indifferent to the scenario and for once not twist the facts to a way they please.....like Nihu mentioned in her reply to me on her POST most people here are suckers for Maan and wud never watch the show the moment he wasn't a part of it and hence "Maan is Mahaan" Naara continues....

I very well know and understand why Maan did coz i am the viewer here, i get to hear the self thoughts, i get to see his KASHMAKASH, but in-spite that his last words which was deliberately blasted at her face was totally uncalled for.

Like i said yesterday words are POWERFUL WEAPONS it can make or break you

well....its high time geet shows how big hearted she is....so far we hv seen the size of maan's heart...he accepted her pregnancy....he sent his own bro to jail for her....he enjoyed watching the baby during sonography widout a frown...
and last but not the least geet had once humiliated maan in front of his BOD and his staff and in front of the journalists...but maan forgave everything....
its time now geet learns to forgive too....words can hurt...if maan's words can hurt geet...then vice versa too....wen geet humiliated maan on the black friday...it had hurt maan too....
well...if this forum contains supporters of maan (i wont use the word sucker...as i hate slang lang)...then i dont see any lesser number of supporter of geet...if there r ppl who wont watch geet widout maan then i am sure there r ppl here who wont watch the show widout geet....
its one thing to express ur POV...but its another thing to say that others r wrong....
MAAN IS MAHAAN....maybe or maybe not....but one has the right to express her POV...if u think u r rite...thatz absolutely fine....but then ppl who dont share ur views r not wrong too....
i wont reply on this topic further...because the debate will never end...at the end of the day it is maneet who r the pillars of this show...neither maan nor geet alone can sustain the show....
there is no relationship where there is no pain...love hurts...i hv seen ppl crossing all limit in anger and telling things which they never mean to their partners....but i hv seen those same relationships stronger than many others....because it is love that counts...in anger ppl say many things which r unpardonable....but if there is true love....then everything can be forgiven...love teaches u to forgive....
in love if there is pain then there is forgiveness too....maan inflicted pain that doesnt mean he doesnt love her....so if geet forgives him then that doesnt mean she is epitome of generosity...
one day maan forgave her...i wont say he has done something great....forgiving is just the way of accepting the painful side of love....
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Amrita2010

Yes, Viji &Nags
I agree with you both....but what I find it difficult to believe is that why the audience think that Geet is also within us??? Why they always try to see from one angle?

No one is perfect, not even MSK....He needs to accept it....I think and hope that this time he will learn a lesson.

I have been telling that Geet asking 'you don't love me now' is not wrong...It isn't because I'm supporting Geet, but I cannot just act as blind....I watch as viewer, and also I comment as a viewer, not on behalf or favour of Maan or Geet.



Waah meri Jaan....Muaaaahhhh.....for the Last Underlined Part...Kash Ki sab aaisa hi sochte
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Mk.Gh

Res!

Helloo Shelloo Idiotsssssssssss // 🤗

I for once am going to criticize today .. only a bit as it's not a force of habit 😆 ... Yaar I am too soft sometimes... I can't even criticize without retorting and thinking if it's "too harsh!" LOL! But yea I'll try .. although I am not going to criticize actors/CVs/writers, etc .. just the plot .. So.. here we go!

Go ahead criticize all you want...as long as it's constructive!! 😆

Seduction Gaye Paani Mein: Ok .. I am not gonna lie .. I hate BD usage BUT I completely understand why they are being used. And that is the reason I juuuust forwarded the lip-touch because I knew it wasn't DD. Although LOL! Look at the turn of events! The man who used to intimidate like there's no tomorrow .. is the one barracaded against a wall.. and that too at the hands of his beloved woman! 😆 LOVED IT! I am highly appreciating that they show Geet as a strong girl.. we've seen her being closed up against a wall with a timid face umpteen times -- and all of them were HAAT I must add -- but I wanted to see how Maan Singh Khurana would react and behold! He retracts and becomes really really intimidated. Geet sure has an effect on her man .. and we got to see today to which extent! Kudos to you girlie! 👏

OMG I have to agree here, the lip touch scene seemed rather awkward, especial since we knew it wasn't DD. My sister kept saying it looks like his own hand! 😆 The bathroom scene was quite funny-Geet's role reversal! HIlarious!

Bathroom Mein Kauuun Hai?: LMAO! Busted! I laughed so hard at both Geet and Maan's expressions at being booked by Daadi and Annie. Ji Daadima! LMAO! Poor Maan .. bit his tongue out of surprise! Buaaahahahah. I cackled! 😆

I love how Daadi and Annie gain pleasure from teasing the poor couple!

Tasveer Se Hi Sahi: Ok .. if he cannot bare to bring out the truth in front of Geet face-to-face .. at least he does it in front of her picture. Pretty picture by the way 😳 .. (and the fact that he keeps it in his drawer as a secret is just awwwwww .. like he can't display it on his table because what... is he too shy? 😆 but I liked that he keeps it in his drawer so he can pull it up whenever he wants to have a private chat with his lovely when she's not around) All his worries were being shown aptly as his thoughts kept going back and forth about the recent turn of events in his married life. He is dreading every minute of it .. but all he can do is think .. and when it comes time to do something he chokes on his words. Tell me one thing (all the people who criticize him of not openly talking to Geet): How in the world are you supposed to calmly tell your wife that you're staying away from her because you've been told by the lovely doc that you're gonna have to abort your child? How? I can't think of a more heart-wrenching situation. A man like Maan may love Geet to death .. even so that he would die for her .. he could fight the world for her .. but when it comes to him putting his wife's life on the line .. he curls back into a shell and shuts himself out. He can't think of a worse situation .. he'd rather die '

Maan talking to the picture frame was both a sweet and sad scene! I was hoping that Geet some how would land up in his office and hear his whole monologue. But of course not- how else would the story move on?!! I never really thought about if he were to actually tell Geet the whole truth, how would he go about doing so? You're absolutely right, it would be a "heart wrenching situation". Thanks for your perspective on that..

But overall his emotions, his problems in facing Geet was well portrayed.. and it's evident that it's the only thing circling and battering his mind like a whisk beating eggs for an airy souffle! LMAO .. I try too hard! 😆

Dhoke Baaz Ki Ye Majaal: I'm actually gonna be a hamdard and say I feel sorry for Annie... a girl whose 18 (I'd still like to believe she's 19 .. she keeps calling Geet GEET .. and not Bhabi 😡-- Tameez sikhao koi .. Maan?) But yea.. being deceived like that is just plain heart - breaking ..

What I like more is their way of handling this situation.. thank you for not making her wail like a 2 month old baby in front of Arjun .. goes to show how strong she really is in these situations.. and I'm sure she's not going to take this lying down.. she will retort and perhaps in a harsh way? Please? I want to see her bashing Arjun left, right, and center. Haan!

Ok I was never fond of AA track, but now I'm actually interested to see what Annie does. I would really like to see Annie taking control and teaching Arjun a lesson! And after she kicks his *Ss by beating him at his own Game, send both Brother & Sister to rot in jail....(wow that seems a bit harsh..hmm oh well😆) By the way I think Nikunj is improving.

Btw.. Arjun is a complete jerk! I swear he needs a thrashing. 😡

Idea.. Idea: LMAO Maan sitting and constructing a plan as to how to avoid Geet was hawlarious. In the sense that this man thinks too much about everything. He even resorts to making a plan for avoiding his wifey. Vaa re! But I actually LOLED at his fake-read-the-business-magazine-till-your-wife-falls-asleep trick. Boy, he sure has got it hard!

The Line That Divides Us: I feel really sorry for both of them right now cuz seriously their patience level is decreasing'they sooooooo want to be with each other but they can't. For Geet' this kudi .. I laughed at each failed attempt of trying to irritate Maan so that he would do something for a change! It's so funny seeing her desperate for her husband's touch yet at the same time saddening as she has no clue what he's going through. For Maan .. munda has already been trying hard to CONTROL his urge.. yet here is his lovely wife trying to take every chance to push his buttons. Foot touch ' hayeee. LOL I laughed so hard at Geet's expressions when she tried to touch his feet and ear .. I just find her attempts cute. . whether it was yesterday's absolutely ADORABLE ADORABLE solo dance' ( I really wanted to comment on that because I didn't post last night) but I kept replaying that dance because it was TOO ADORABLE! .. I love this new and bold and sweet change in Geet. DD's flawless acting is commendable for making that dance look tres cutee.. she's so bubbly I wanna pinch her cheeks! LOL! 😳

Yes I think we all adored her "adorable solo dance" 😆 But today we saw a new side of Geet. This time she was doing the initiating, which failed but it was so cute and funny! Bechara Maan...it's so hard to resist her!

Onto the actual story .. pardon my bak bak .. I tend to go off topic quite a lot! 😛

Maan tries to respond to each touch by making an excuse to want to read the magazine and his annoyed wife tells him to read her magazine too! "LO' YE BHI PADO!" .. Lallantop response Geet! 👏 And so Maan goes on his sofa expedition only to give both him and ME a heart attack' honestly I thought they were just going to show him going to sleep on the sofa but when he got caught I experienced a mini heart attack of my own! LOL! 😆

Accusations Accusations: The one thing I've always hated about their showdowns is their meaningless accusations towards each other. They are always done in vain! And they are always done because of a misunderstanding! The worst accusation that could have been made in this fight was the one that came from Geet: "That means that you don't love me anymore" .. oh dear ' even I felt the pain of those words' imagine Maan! I know why Geet said it too though. *Here come my contradicitons // what? It's a seriously complicated situation!* Ok, Geet watches the TV serial .. sees the situation that seems to be happening to her life at the moment and instantly her insecurities pop up. She is -- after all ' 18 .. and the fact that she had been insecure for her first sham of a marriage.. she still has that little part of her brain that is used to heartbreak. So.. its acceptable that she would be scared of losing her man. I'm sure when she accused Maan, she didn't mean it but it just came out as a result of insecurity towards her relationship with him. She will somehow always fear losing him or the fact that he may not love her anymore.

Poor Geet, TV show has gotten to her head too, just like us! 😆 She's being brainwashed Maan, I'm telling you!! Don't listen to her!! 😆 But that's true, her "you don't love me" was hard on Maan...

Of course on the other hand Maan has been worrying for Geet out of his love for her and only because he sada jaahan se loves her.. and once he hears an accusation like that'. he blows. He doesn't know why she felt he didn't love her anymore' and for him it turned out to be an accusation. It hit his heart and thus the blowup and the "Mein aisa hi hoon" ' he looked real angry.. I got scared. Good Job GC! And then it came time for some dialogues that Maan shouldn't have said. Recall: The last fight.. Maan said "I did all those things for you .. but did I ask for anything in return?" .. that one dialogue had hurt Geet as she felt as she'd had one too many ehsaan being done on her' although Maan had not meant it in that manner.. she had thought differently of it' and in the same manner he said thee lines I feared he would say "I married you, gave you the aish-o-araam of the Khurana Khandan and it's daulat" .. Imagine the poor girl having to hear that .. she's obviously going to take that to heart.. even if she doesn't make a big deal of it later on'

I just hope that next week we get to see a beautiful make-up scene.. and one that is logical and acceptable and sweet.. I just want our Maaneet to enjoy their married life.. but this stupid DOC is making all that impossible at the moment.. 😡

Maan leaving after that was not acceptable for me.. he should've opened up to her .. especially after saying things like "I like seeing you hurt" .. Geet must know that he didn't mean any of that and that it came out of frustration and anger for her "You don't love me anymore" line.. their situation is so delicate yet complicated that they both seriously need to be locked up in a room again to talk it out!

Seems to me like they always will be needed to be locked up in a room after their fights!!😆

Precap: Full on symbolism in this precap. What I loved: Them showing the bride and groom in the globe not breaking even though everything around them shattered to pieces. Symbol: Anything and everything can shatter and be destroyed around Maaneet.. but their love is too strong to be broken so easily.. this is foreshadowing a sweet and blissful camaraderie between Maan and Geet in the future! So be happy yaaron! 😃

Alrighty, hopefully you liked my bak bak..

Comment karo na 😃

Love,

Z

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Hey Z! THis is Emi/Seher... Enjoy reading your take! My comments in Green. Oh by the way did you mention something about the BG score taken from Vivah in your earlier posts? I remember reading, can't recall from whom or where...Anyway just wanted to say that I really enjoyed that BG music, it was so soft, calm and traditional! I loved that selection for the wedding back drop! Thanks for the info!
Oh- hope your Mom gets well soon! 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Amrita2010

Viji 🤗

Not that long...I'm on IV's 😆 since yesterday, I'm having a hard time...and no choice that I need to take this one...I am carrying two, so the trouble too is doubled, I guess....I will be here on and off...

Just visited the main forum after a long time, and omg, it cracked me....I mean Maan is right, Geet is wrong...so many posts gave me headaches...

So just posted on Nandita's post and came here, but seems like all are in their own world...poor me, all alone here😆 glad ki I'm using my phone right now😆

Viji, please make a post....this is not prove/judge who is right or wrong....or just to see how many of us think that Maan could never be wrong



Wow you are having TWINS thats so cool...I mean not literally 😆i know how it must be.....
I too am sick and tired of MAAN IS MAHAN talks everywhere on the forums but to each their own....

I wonder why People have a certain way of thinking and they want to bend facts and truths to adjust with theirs...to their convenience....what more how much ever you make them see or try to it they will not Understand...so tell me isn't it futile to even try to make a Post and turn the Forum into a battle field.....???😉

Btw Amu check on Page 26 Kads has posted Opti's Take on the facts shown yesterday...I am sure you will Like it
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Posted: 14 years ago
@ aditi...i have not read all that you wrote, and i dont think one has no right to say others POV is right ya wrong.....

But yes the facts shown in the show cannot be bend to the convenience to suit each....Whatever GEET did last time was under the pretext of the half heard Convo, followed by Dev's entry....The truth and facts were UNKNOWN to her....

But here MAAN has not said the last words of Khurana Parivaar and Aish-o aaram in actual ANGER...He has faked ANGER and he has calculatingly said those words...check out the Video, he takes a few secs to prepare himself and uses those words to thwart GEET....so here he is doing it PURPOSELY
and when in Anger one loses all his sense so where does the flinching pain on his face come from....That very well shows ki he was fully aware of the words he were using and throwing at her face.....

The PATTERN/FASHION in both this time and last time maybe same....But the pretext is different....
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Posted: 14 years ago
Viji...

I have read that post. If people still fight, then what more to do or say.

Already there are fights, and no, I don't want your post to be a place where they could get some space. Those who never want to see the things from their hearts there is nothing any one can do.

I started watching this serial from the beginning, there was no Maan, but I loved what I saw. I enjoyed watching all the episodes, and what ever I missed I have caught up...Maan brought a new flavour, and I love him very much...but it doesn't mean that I don't love my serial...I love my serial and Maan too.

I think that we could talk about many facts...we knew and saw Maan purposely switched his mood and faced Geet, but Geet won't know it...She will believe what her eyes saw and what her ears heard. Why did Maan want to hurt Geet with his words? Why didn't he use a different wordings? Why did he told the things Geet feared about before? Why did he said YES to her question that she has asked him long time before, after hearing half of his communication with Daadi? Maan should know that those were the things that she wanted to know before, so why did he pulled it up now?


P.S. I shall log off now...will hopefully come around in the evening...bye, Viji🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rickks

@ aditi...i have not read all that you wrote, and i dont think one has no right to say others POV is right ya wrong.....

But yes the facts shown in the show cannot be bend to the convenience to suit each....Whatever GEET did last time was under the pretext of the half heard Convo, followed by Dev's entry....The truth and facts were UNKNOWN to her....

But here MAAN has not said the last words of Khurana Parivaar and Aish-o aaram in actual ANGER...He has faked ANGER and he has calculatingly said those words...check out the Video, he takes a few secs to prepare himself and uses those words to thwart GEET....so here he is doing it PURPOSELY
and when in Anger one loses all his sense so where does the flinching pain on his face come from....That very well shows ki he was fully aware of the words he were using and throwing at her face.....

The PATTERN/FASHION in both this time and last time maybe same....But the pretext is different....

if u hvnt read my entire post...then it is not surprising by the way u hv replied...i hv not blamed anyone....i just said that if u love someone then forgiveness follows and that doesnt make u mahaan...
last time geet heard partial convo of maan-dadi and she concluded that maan bailed dev....wen she was ouside the room she knew that the convo was going on before she arrived...so she shud hv asked maan wat he was talking about before coming to any conclusion...
and wen maan left for office after Adi's call came...he told geet to wait for him because he felt something was wrong...but no...on seeing dev she gave his own verdict that maan is the culprit and she went to his office to humiliate him....
and then later on said that she did not know there were ppl inside the conference room...but wat about those staff standing behind her...but maan forgave everything...
this time i admit maan said those words purposely....i always post after watching vids properly because i always dwnload them first...i hv noticed maan pausing before saying those things...
i wont say the cliche that maan is in pain too...
and i also wont say maan was rite....and i also admit we as viewers know y maan is doing this but geet doesnt...
trust and understanding r very important in every relationship...i admit geet doesnt know the reason behind maan's outburst...but if she trusts him...then she shud know that there must be a genuine reason behind this...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: muniza75


Very well written Viji, i am agree he shouldn't had to reacted like that, but mens are like that, they never like womens force them for anything....If Maan understands Geet he should has to know that it's in her personality to question the person till she satisfied....Same goes to Geet if she understands Maan she should has to know that he doesn''t like anyone questions him morethan his patience....He was already fighting with his own self, and she was kept questioning him...

I am not saying she was wrong, she had all right to question him, but when he wasn't in mood she should had to stop, but she hadn't and he ended up hurting her badly....

I think in this fight both are equally on fault......So felt bad for both...

Muniza



I know Men can be real stupid but .....for the words he said last which was calculative is something that was a blow to even me as an Audience, i know why he did this, i know whats the battle raging inside him and when he said all those words like "It gives me pleasure to see you Cry" etc i could very well feel ki whats he is trying to do....He was not going to allow her to read him, and hence out her into STRESS

I dont think their UNDERSTANDING each other is very DEEP, they do know each other but its limited.....Marriage is gonna be a Platform which will teach them more......

I agree its in Geet's personality to ask him about his love for her, but can we blame her, and the insecurities and baggage she comes with????

Geet question him to a point where all hell break loose i agree, but his last LINES jo woh soch samaj ke,Ghusse ki Naqab Pehenkar bolta hai, was that the only way he could keep her away??? Whatever he said at the end were CALCULATED......Kyuki agar woh GHUSSE mein tha, then its not easy for him to control his emotions and bring in the PAIN, which he genuinely felt or hurting her PURPOSELY .....

Till the point he sshe question him, till the point where he retorts back it was Fine, the last word which was PURPOSELY bought in by MAAN is what even as an audience who has seen both cant DIGEST, IT LEFT ME STUMPED
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Posted: 14 years ago
@ aditi...I haven't read your entire post but what i have replied is based on pretext of both the EVENTS which by no means is the same...So basically i was Just stating facts
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

where is maan wrong....this is my analysis....
it is futile blaming anyone of them...both r victims of circumstances which cud be avoided with proper communication....
imagine how hard it was for maan just few mins before he was about to wed his beloved geet to hear that he cant get intimate with her....there goes his dream of a fairytale beginning of his marriage to geet...
but for him everything comes down to geet's happiness and her safety...for that he is always prepared to face any sort of pain inflicted on him by fate....
on SR...he momentarily succumbs to his desire to be one with geet...but just at the height of passion he recalls the doc's words and restrains himself from going further...he is hurt, he is anguished but what was foremost in his mind was to protect geet...
from then on he began to keep away from her...he avoided all closeness with her, he avoided being lovey-dovery with her...for the simple fact that if he lets down his guard even for a little while...he may not be able to stop himself from sleeping with her...and that is the last thing he wants to do at the moment wen geet's health is at peril....
he was wrong because by doing this he is putting geet under undue stress...his motive is to protect her from stress but in the process he is hurting her more....
and on top of that wen geet confronts him with questions regarding his strange behaviour he uses his age old technique of shielding himself from further queries by hurting her more by his harsh and brutal words...
again he is wrong...because he feels he is saving her from a greater pain...wat is greater pain and wat is lesser pain....he thinks he can define this for her but here again he is wrong....
no doubt he is hurting himself on the way...but maan always aims for the goal no matter wat path he has to take....but he must realise that every path cannot take him to his goal....it is up to him to choose the right path....



Aditi i agree his Motive is to protect her, to not Stress her....And so the way he retorted to her by no means i would say was wrong....The Mask of Anger is his only way out by which he can stop her from invading his heart and read his eyes.......

We as audience know what dilemma he is going through, GEET does not, yet i wont say what Maan did is wrong (Even if it is because he is mentally and emotionally stressing her) because the guy can't think of anything else by which he can keep her away and avoid telling her about whats the matter......He knows that her world would come crumbling the moment she gets to know what the actual scenario is....

Till this point i dont blame Geet or I dont Blame Maan for what all is said and Done.....

But the last words, which he takes a few Sec to think and then blasts on her face did not come out of ANGER, the anger was just a facade used......If it was really in ANGER then by no means would he be able to feel the flinching pain he felt on seeing her cry....He said those words to generate the emotion of Retort, but he crushed her completely when he said those last lines and those words were by no means something you tell your wife, to a woman who is pregnant.

I am sure you know in how many ways those statements can be
twisted for a person like GEET who comes with excess baggage....If not read Nags Post Page-1 And Opti's Post page-26....they have explained it beautifully....


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